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Hello,

It is good that you spoke out. You're in a spiritual stronghold and psychology will only do little good. Your mind has become a spiritual battleground, but unfortunately, you're not spiritually armed for the combat.

Acts 4:12 "For the word of God is quick and powerful..."

Let me show you a simple, but powerful way to overcome:
Arm your self with the sword of the spirit which is the Word of God and Anytime the sinful/devilish urge comes, unsheathe your sword. Begin to quote the Scriptures loudly and with faith.

Start with these verses:
1. Ish 59:19 "...when the enemy shall come in like a flood, the Spirit of the Lord shall lift up a standard against them."
2. Jeremiah 17:14 "Heal me, O LORD, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved: for thou art my praise."
3. Isaiah 49:25 "But thus saith the LORD, Even the captive of the mighty shall be taken away, and the prey of the terrible shall be delivered: for I will contend with him that contendeth with thee, and I will save thy children."
4. John 8:36 "If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed"
5. 1John 3:8 "...for this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil."

Please do not permit laziness in memorizing these scriptures and make sure you possess and exercise faith in the power of God's Word.

Ultimately, Jesus came to save all men from the power of sin and Satan. You need to go to Him in genuine repentance and ask Him to help you. I wish I could speak with you. God have mercy on you. Your case will surely turn into testimony and you will be a help to those who are in the same condition. God bless you.

You shouldn't have built the foundation of your career on deceit. You'll likely be given the employment without experience if you're good enough. You can still make your way right and have them guide you. Everybody starts somewhere.

Enrolling in the college of immorality?

But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away.
-Proverbs 6:32-33

Please do not look away! This is your business. What's going on is very abominable if you're right at all, and if nothing is done it will come back to haunt your family.

If you have an elderly brother, make your suspicion known to him. If not, your mother needs to know. But keep it away from your cousin's mother and from the extended family.

Maybe nothing has happened between them, but you have enough reasons already to be inconvenient.

Please approach this matter wisely and prayerfully. Help your brother before he ruins himself.