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PoliticsRe: Lyn Brown: Those Who Have Murdered Nigerians Will Not Trade Or Travel To The UK by gnss(m): 5:01pm On Nov 24, 2020
Coldie:
There's nothing special about the uk, the uk is over rated.

Gimme #10billion I would never step foot on the uk.

Nigeria has 36 states plus the fct almost all the states get sth, the only difference between uk and Nigeria is cold weather and to seeing white people nothing again
. The Affected Politicians and the Perpetrators does not feel the way you feel ,Quite Unfortunate . Secondly ur comparison of a Developed country to a Developing one is so Funny ...U don't care about lives that were lost .
CelebritiesRe: Toke Makinwa Blasts Reno Omokri; Says 'Divorced' Is Nothing To Shame Anyone For by gnss(m): 2:40pm On Nov 24, 2020
Moferere:
Lol, the stone hit am for head grin grin

Reno sef get bad mouth.
. Seriously but wait ooo ,Did Reno Mentioned Toke in his Statement ? Na waoo Toke no even Pretend at all ,No be small thing ooo the whole thing Reno Yarn about was all about Toke ,Eeeya .Sorry Sister Slay Queen Toke ...
InvestmentRe: Granite Reselling Business by gnss(m): 10:31am On Nov 24, 2020
Geoforever:
I have a contact person at Abeokuta who has a truck you can patronise.Chat me up pn 08087306328
. Okay ...Thanks sir
PoliticsRe: Gambari To Meet South-South Governors & Leaders In Port Harcourt by gnss(m): 10:30am On Nov 24, 2020
Nigeria will be Great again
TV/MoviesRe: Have You Ever Cried While Watching Films by gnss(m): 2:24am On Nov 24, 2020
A very old Indian Movie " YUVRAJ " That is about 24 years ago ....I Cried in the Cinema then while Watching it .
PoliticsRe: Lai Mohammed Writes CNN On Lekki Shooting by gnss(m): 2:18am On Nov 24, 2020
IamPlato:
They Are Really Taking This Serious Sha.


This Same CNN wey Americans hate, trump Even Banned Them From White House Press Conference because They Go Out And Twist Every Thing He Says


Na This Same CNN nigerians Won Worship.


CNN is Not Your Friend.



MODIFIED
As For The unripe Monkeys Quotin Me i Never Said The Nigerian Government Is Your Friend. Kindly Use Your Common Sense Abeg.


And Stop Disturbin the International Community With Your Problem, white Men Are Not Gods Over Us, dont Make Yourselves Slaves Like the Black Fore Fathers.

Stand Up And Fight To Own Your Country.

Stop This Rubbish Lekki rant and Plan To Win The Next Election but If You Cant then Shut The Fvck up wink


To avoid unnecessary arguement Click and read this book...

It has the solution to winning the next election

https://okadabooks.com/book/about/the_plight_the_plot_and_the_glory/38382
. Go and read the book yourself ...Face the reality and stop Chasing Shadows ....Reality is ,The Army lied they never went to Lekki Toll Gate ,Now they admitted with Armunition ... Face that .... Enemy of Truth ,Enemy of Nigeria .
CelebritiesRe: Davido Reacts After An Artist Drew A Beautiful Painting Of Him On A Dollar Bill by gnss(m): 8:06pm On Nov 23, 2020
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright .....what da fuckkkkkkkkkk
Fuckkk shit.....
Now this is what we call talent ....


Davido should see real talent

Not the dog shit songs he dishes out to his fans after using too much voice enhancer in the studio because of his frogged voice
With time davido fans gonna realize he is one untalented moda fuckkker
. He is Talented .
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 3:47pm On Nov 23, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:
Please could you resend. I was trying to access it when I touched the "clear message" button.
. Okay sir ...sent another one again with my id Gnss do reply .
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 3:08pm On Nov 23, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:
Most humbly, i am! But I thought that was very obvious!
The eagerness to read Law could have been so so Interesting and undying if most Legal Practitioners takes the path of Justice you are taking ....I humbly request ,how may I contact you please ? ...I sent you a Pm to your email via Nairaland .I Anticipate.
PropertiesRe: . by gnss(op): 3:05pm On Nov 23, 2020
Jay999:
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Gnss... Please how do I get to contact you..
. Check your email
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 8:50am On Nov 23, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:
I Praise The Lord and I thank you too for recognising a balanced Judgment, which is what I always aim to know and present in every single case, both in and out of Court.

I Truly thank you!
. Are you a Lawyer ?
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 10:10pm On Nov 22, 2020
Sarita01:
I was so annoyed when i read that shit,I was so freaking annoying,it made me loose respect for the whites,I actually read the news here on nairaland. They were Bleep buddies for 10yrs without them being married,it was so messed up
U are damn right .
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 8:05pm On Nov 22, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:
Respectfully, your scenario does not fall within the meaning of an Agreement. And what you described is the typical African Man/Woman Relationship, in which case, the man bears all the burdens of the relationship and he consents to the burden while the woman's contribution is received on the face of it.

Where you see this issue play out is in Value Relationships as seen in foreign Jurisdiction because, living conditions are quite arduous there.

Therefore, things like rent, cars, fuel, food, companionship, sex, travels, hotels, restaurant bills etc are very very important to them and are valuable to them in any relationship.

Therefore, any one who seeks to be a part of their lives must take up some parts of these obligations.

And the where a partner assists in the other partners liability, that other partner now owes reimbursements to the Assisting partner and failure to reimburse brings liability.

All these is known and Agreed by the intending couple, in that jurisdiction.

This idea of relationship is unknown and uncommon in African Jurisdictions.
. Thanks so much . Your Explanation is very clear without any Ambiguity or Hypocrisy.
CelebritiesRe: Regina Daniels Rocks Her Husband, Ned Nwoko During Saturday Night Outing by gnss(m): 7:59pm On Nov 22, 2020
Lastmankc:
Why is my mind telling me that this lady is just pretending to be happy in this marriage.
. Because your mind is sick and full of Jealousy.
CelebritiesRe: Regina Daniels Rocks Her Husband, Ned Nwoko During Saturday Night Outing by gnss(m): 7:57pm On Nov 22, 2020
OKorowanta:
Life of a social ancestor..
. Ancestors are wonderful and more caring than the Young ones .
Christianity EtcRe: Is Qua Iboe Church The Oldest Church In South-East & South-South Nigeria? by gnss(m): 6:44pm On Nov 22, 2020
Eastlink:
Which useless oldest church. What then will you call the one in Bonny?
the one in Bonny is called useless Eastlink Boy
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 4:32pm On Nov 22, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:
This is The Law - Consensus ad idem and "Consent Makes The Law".

No matter how imbalance and unusual an agreement is, once it is shown that the parties Willfully agreed to it, it is enforceable.
...I want to differ on this sir ...What is Enforceable about Sex Mate Living together for Several Years , How do we define an Agreement under this Context ...No formal or Informal Marriage Contract ,No documents U mean if I should go to a Nite Club now and I see a Lady ,Invite her to my house to sleep with her ,We have an Agreement of an amount and I settle her and later she discovered I am with no woman ,then she started coming often and we continued the sexual Relationship ,I give an agreed amount anytime he comes ,Later he moved into my House ,Takes care of her needs ....This goes on for some Years ,No Child .Along the line we had a differences and she left my home ,after some few weeks ,She sued me to Court .On what Ground will that be ,What would be her Claim.,That I kept her at my home without her Consent ,that I owned her money or what .I don't understand.
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 4:20pm On Nov 22, 2020
MSGAMBLE9:
Baba save your strenght.. Some ppl are just ignorance to expend your ENERGY on!
. Knowledge has no End ,The Encyclopedia, Wikipedia and all the Written down Knowledge U see ,read today ,Faculty of Knowledge are Collections of other People Discovery ,Knowledge ,So what You know is what you know ,What you know is not the end and Limitation of Knowledge .What you know is not an Authority over what you don't know ,We learn everyday ,not Becoming Foolish but becoming wiser...You don't Label someome Ignorant just because he does not agree with someone's View .
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 9:09pm On Nov 21, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:
You know they have what we we in Nigeria would call a weird relationship type which is a relationship based on a Predetermined sets of Rights and Shared Liabilities.

Thus if any party fails to keep their own side of the agreement, they could be sued for it.
. Could a man Agreed with a woman that she would be His Bed sex mate ,Live together ,No Kids ,No court Marriage ....The man feeds the Lady ,Pays for the rental ,Buys her clothes in a nutshell takes full responsibility of the lady while the lady inturn gives only the man her Private part for a long period of Years .Can that be a relationship based on a Predetermined sets of right and shared Liabilities ? Would a woman agreed to such alone without been interested in other things
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 6:29pm On Nov 21, 2020
Sarita01:
Lol,that guy is actually right,a few months back a Canadian woman sued her lover of 10yrs for refusing to settle her after their breakup. Mind you they never got married,they never had any children together although the man has children with a previous partner,the funny thing is she won the lawsuit and the guy paid her a very huge amount of money for being his fvck buddy and will continue to pay monthly upkeep. so in a system that works,she have a very strong case
. Which System works ,Which Unfair ,Injustice and Un- Balanced Justice is that .Does it means because it's happened in Canada makes it a Justice Authority and Compelling on others in other Countries. There are things you are not Telling us ,U mean a man and woman live together as Sex Mate only nothing else for 10 Years ?
RomanceRe: I'm Not Attracted To Prostitutes; Is It Just Me? by gnss(m): 9:50am On Nov 21, 2020
Uzomacharles:
Mtcheew
. A Typical response of a Prostitute Customer
CelebritiesRe: Davido Celebrates His 28th Birthday (Throwback Photos) by gnss(m): 9:13am On Nov 21, 2020
nijaomegacode:
Davido is a billionaire at 28. I only have 12k and I'm older. Lord, answer me o
. grin
CelebritiesRe: Davido Celebrates His 28th Birthday (Throwback Photos) by gnss(m): 9:13am On Nov 21, 2020
Sundrus:
Fine boy with frog voice...happy buy day grin
. Fine boy with Nice Voice ..I wonder where u find froggy sound in His Voice .Ride on Joor OBO
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 10:41pm On Nov 20, 2020
coolsegun2002:
They are not denying he married their son or had children...they are saying she doesn’t have any claim becos she left for a while...
. Sir ,You still didn't get this ,It's as simple as ABC ....No one has ever Mentioned she does not have a Claim if she has Children for the Deceased man even if she left for a While and came back on Hearing of the Death of the Man .She can lay Claim through her Children .Why do you keep mixing the whole thing together .What others are saying including me is that a Woman that left a man for several years with No Children does not have the right to come and lay Claim to the deceased man Property on hearing about the News of His Death .The Canadian Issue you are stating even though it Happened does not stand as an Authority or Speaks of Natural Justice and Fairness . You keep saying a Woman who left a man left for a While ,How long is a While ? How do you Justify the time frame a woman that left a man to be a While .Imagine a Woman that left and Abandoned a man for selfish reasons without any intention to get back to the man anymore ,Now she has no Children for the man only for her to rush back once she heard the man is Dead to lay Claims ,saying Oh! I still love the man ,Infact we had just a Little misunderstanding ,I only have to give him a little breathing space so we could sort out Differences ,I never Knew he would die so soonest ... Imagine such woman whom a member of the deceased man knew very well that she has been with another man for several years .Well Lawyers and Judges could have a field of there day in Court .All I know is That A woman with No Children ,That had Abandoned a man for many years is never entitle to Lay claims to a dead man Property just because there was a " Civil Union "
FamilyRe: Paul Okoye Blasts Davido For Calling Those Who Attended His Birthday Party Pussy by gnss(m): 10:16pm On Nov 20, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
Get a job
. That is His Job
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 4:15pm On Nov 20, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:
Thanks for the glowing report, it is Appreciated and it is my intention for people to know what I know, for Knowledge Indeed brings Life and destroys death.

First, we are not taught that Law came before the man eg "man shall live on land and not in water as a fish"; he shall eat meat and herbs and not wood like cankerworms; The female man shall bear the child in her and not the male man. The female shall be attracted to the male and the male shall seek the company of the female (putting aside the debates of homosexuality)

All these are examples of laws which man came to meet and neither did he make them, for he could not have made them, since he did not make himself.

But, rather we are lied to, that man made The Law. This is Not True because the type of laws which he made, like Toyota and iPhone, is powerless over man and meant to defraud Simple Men who because, they Do Not Know The Authentic Law which God has given all men Already called Natural Law or Equity, which has Provided Everything this Lying Scheming Men tell them that they shall give them, as if it is not theirs Already.

All our Natural Rights that are Good are Provided in Natural Law and Protected by it while it Strongly Prohibits and Absolutely Condemns without Reservation, Any Bad or Wicked or Evil Work.

But, men do not know these things and the other men who knew these things are Hiding it from you by making their own versions of The Law and selling it to you all.

It is these False laws that you have in your mind and you do not know that these false laws where made to hide from you, your Full Natural Rights and Powers Given to you by Good God.

And seeing you do not know your Full Rights, your fellow man has Acquired the Power Over You, "To Appear to Dash You Your Rights" as if you never had them before.

Which is why their Fake laws Always Require Amendments, and Additions meanwhile, Natural Law Remains Unchanged and Just Waiting for you to Utilise it.

And the hilarious thing is that when their Fake law has run into problems or issues, then they Codedly and Sneakily Use Natural Law to Resolve It, by saying "The Law will not allow this, The Law that.." I always used to ask "Which Law Again?" until I discovered that it was Natural Law.

Which I have Found has Everything that is True and Good, in it, in a Full and Comprehensive Provision of What is Right and What is Wrong Beyond Any Debate or Contention, which is why today I am indeed an Advocate for it both in Court and out of it.

Take this first and later I would present my opinion on the other issues raised in your post.
Hmmm! Speechless
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by gnss(m): 5:05pm On Nov 19, 2020
coolsegun2002. ,truespeak.....Dtruthspeaker You have all really commented extensively .Well .To me ,I may not be a Lawyer but I still believe Men wrote the Law ,It was not Written by Spirit .Dtruthspeaker ,U have been an Amazing Natural Law Vanguard . I think some Laws needs to be Reviewed ,Humans are Kept Captives by some Laws made in the Olden days ,Imagine a Law made in 1970.The Circumstances , Technology ,Natural and environmental Phenomenon etc Obtainable today were not in those days .Culture plays a very significant role in the life of people in those days ,I know of a Yoruba Culture whereby a Bastard child can be known by subjecting the Mother to some Cultural activities ,Today You hardly see that ,DNA Has taken over .You don't tell a Lady now to Visit your Village and begins all that just to be sure you are the right father of that Child .In those days when a Man Marries two Wives and He dies ,Yoruba Culture says such Property should be shared according to the number of Wives .Imagine one wife has 6 Children and the other woman has 1 Child and such man has two Big Houses ,The IDI- IGI method says the 6 Children should all be given One House ,while the one child from the other woman should be given ,That is Old Culture ,In this Modern day ,You don't expect such to be in Place ,There can never be peace ,Natural Justice ,Equity in such circumstances ,The Ori - Ojori is Most Preferable.Some Old Great grand father's in the Olden time Wish,Idea ,Intension ,Decision ,Judgement Forms the Cultural and customary laws ,We are in the Modern Age ,Yet you see some Lawyers come forth to begin the Legal battle to Defend the IDI- IGI method Citing one should not Bring in Emotions and those Giberish .Well A Woman who decides to Leave a Man with No Children for many Years ,A Woman who was Never Legally Married to a Man ,Upon hearing such Man dies then Rush Down to Lay Claims because he once Lived with the Man before Shouldn't be given anything but Where Bribery ,Corruption ,Twisting of the Law ,Compromised Judges exist ,Such Woman can have her way to Lay to some Claims .I rest My Case . Dtruthspeaker :For Balance and Equality is seen as Wickedness to An Evil Man! This your quote should be on a Gold Plate
FamilyRe: Idi -igi Or Ori - Ojori Property Sharing Method.which One Applies Here . by gnss(m): 1:56pm On Nov 17, 2020
NoToPile:
The legality of the marriage does not matter in the Yoruba sharing formula( Idi-igi or oriojori). As long as ' e born for am' the child (the mum by extension) has a right to the inheritance .

If there were two different properties in this OPs scnerio the idi - igi would be more appropriate, each branch of the family(from the same mum) would take one property and they would share within themselves . They can now decide to give the more valuable one to the 3 children and the single child takes the less valuable asset.

This sharing formular mostly happens in polygamous scenerious.
. From your first Paragraph.....I think No one is saying the Children from the women does not have right to the Inheritance ,They do whether there mother is a Legal wife or not .In my own View ,Let us not Twist the issue ,let's face the reality ,The Two Women are no more with this man for God's sake ,they are already a Property of another man .By extension the Children are the Ones to Inherit there father , not the Women ,I also understand that a Yoruba wife is considered a Property of a man in which she cannot Inherit her Husband bit the Children .it's also a different matter here ,The Women had Gone . assume one of the Women is with the late man till He dies ,But No .Those Women wouldn't ask for there own Personal share ,They would only demand the share for there Children .The Op clearly stated Only one Property " One Plot of Land with 4 Rooms " One Receipt ,One Survey .One Building .4 Children .If the Property is two then it's a different issue ,I understand you but on this matter it's just one Property .The Ori- Ojori is Applicable here ,No long Story ...4 Rooms ,4 Children ,Each Child takes one room .
FamilyRe: Idi -igi Or Ori - Ojori Property Sharing Method.which One Applies Here . by gnss(m):
Well , In Yoruba Tradition there are two methods of Sharing Property if the owner of the Property dies intestate meaning died without a Written Will .Property is either Shared with IDI- IGI or ORI- OJORi .The IDI- IGI method means the property is shared Equally according to.the numbers of Wives the deceased man had before he died . Simple

But in this Particular case ,this is quite different ,Point one ,The two women already moved out of the man's House for Several Years , the two Women were no more in the man's house for several years till He died ,There is nothing like IDI- IGI here please ,IDI-IGI stands for Wife ,One wife is one IDI- IGI ,Two Wives are TWO-IGI .Both IDI- IGI ( Tree Roots) had Pulled there Roots away from the man's House before He died ,The Property cannot be shared along number of Women,What the man simply left Behind are His Children who are His Blood Relations .4 Children ,4 Rooms ,The Property Rooms Should be shared ORI- OJORi Equally among the Children ,Per Head .To even Cut long story short ,In Yoruba Tradition ,Wives are Considered Property of a Man ,Meaning they don't Inherit there Husband once such wife has Children then they Inherit there father ,so what is even the essence of Bringing the matter of Women/wife into Property Sharing , Except the Children are too young ,Then The family of the Deceased man could hand over the said Property to the kids mother for safe Handlings/Caretaking ...

Secondly Law means Equity,Fairness and Justice . Thirdly Come to think of it, You give 3 Children to share 2 Rooms and one Child 2 Rooms ,Haba ,Such Children relationship might end in Tears .To avoid Unnecessary Litigations and Troubles .This is not complicated at all it's very very simple .ORI- OJORi is it .

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