I am a South African woman and I will be vacationing in Nigeria in March.

The reason for this post is to try and prepare myself for my visit. I would really appreciate it if I could get answers for my questions.

1) The Nigerians staying in Douth Africa (psrticularly Cape Yown) could highlight tje differences between SA and Naija. (Please include which area in Nigeria you're uding for comparisons)

2) I could get the top ten "must see" places and other experiences. I'm not only looking to have a flashy experience; I want to experience Nigeria in it's entirety so please try to have a broad spectrum of places to visit.

3) What is the relationshio between (black) South Africans and Nigerians? (In light of the horrific xenophobic attacks that occured in Durban last year *and previously*.) Will I be at the risk of backlash?

4) What are the stereotypes about South African women?

5) How much should I have to enjoy a comfortable, fun and somewhat long stay in Nigeria?

6) Which is the best city to be based in for the duration of my stay? The most comfortable yet cost effective hotel in said area?

7) Am I safe as travelling alone as a womsn? (Rape and other gender based crimes are rampant in SA. Is it safer in Nigeria?)

Police harrassment. Will I exempt as a foreigner or should I brace myself?

9) Also. Who's teaching me how to dance? Because I swear I become transfixed when I see Nigerians dancing.

Lastly... I hope my post is received in thebsame spirit that I created it. I intend no malice or to incite negative exchanges