Cassandraloius:
Congratulations in advance.

Thank you so much.

FUTURE4202:
Brr to see virgin dis days nor easy oo, so if na me i die there. Even though i broke i nor go live am, e get why o, so i go advise u go for her. Must especially as u love her so.

Lol. You're funny but thanks

Check this new thread for update on this issue
https://www.nairaland.com/8010593/re-virgin-girl-deflowered-accepted

FUTURE4202:
Brr u get luck oo, abeg do giveaway, he get why.

Wit......?

James4358:
Before u get her pregnant... Make sure u strol to the market & check the current prizes of pampers & baby stufs.

Pregnant ke.! I dey crase?

Caramia2020:
Private for how long? It would have been better to end things now before you will come here n post about family members being against you marrying her due to you guys being related. Abi the virginity do catch u,?

We're not related by blood, only by marriage so that's why we're keeping everything private until such a time we'll deem it fit to open up. The journey is going to be a bit long but I'm positive

reXurrectionZA:
dont make such promise bro, you can tell her that "you will never joke or play with her heart". Even many relationships you see today have gone through MULTIPLE heartbreaks on both sides and came out better. Majority of heart breaks are never intentional a womans heart is a complicated device you can try your best but just like life "nothing is guaranteed even tommorow." just do your own commot body, she do her own commot body. Dont force anything, thats how to have a matured and respectful relationship. MUCH SAID ENJOY YOURSELF BRO

Great advice here. Thanks

jeromestarks:

Sharap! And stop talking like a chicken.

Good one

jeromestarks:
100% happy home awaits you.

How old is this virgin girl?

Thank you so much. You can guess

SIXFEETUNDER:
Just remember, when things get rough, there's always the option of offing yourself and starting over fresh.

Thunder fire you there, including ya papa wey refuse to use #20 condom stop this nonsense

reXurrectionZA:
Love is a cute thing. But bro are you working, are you stable and independent yet, i know this questions are abstract but im talking from experince. If the answer is no then i advice you to enjoy yourselfs but do not... Never make the promise of never leaving her, life is still long mystery you cant fully control. Sit her down as the man and explain to her the possibility of you guys breaking up in the future is not far fetched, she might even be the one to break up with you, dont believe youll be the only guy she would have sex with. Instead of making unessecary and emotional promises, simply enjoy your relationship. Never sacrifice your future for each other it can make you feel insecure and cheated, instead help build each others future, a Relationship with a person that wants you to move forward is heaven. Bro finding love is very important but i promise you that it is not the most important thing in a mans life(keep that in mind always). Remember shes a friend not your wife, and remember safe sex.

Thanks for the candid advice. I run my own business and to some extent I'm ok financially. I can't control everything but the things I can control are the ones I promised her.
I just want to make her happy to the best of my ability cos I've made her shed a lot of tears in the past.
Of cos life have it's twists and turns but I'm positive with an open mind and mind you we're not sacrificing any future. I just want to bring sweet memories to her life and then see what happens from there

terrence12:


I swear...
To carry him coconut head knack for ceramic floor just dey hungry me.

Empty brain spotted.

PureFace1:



Then you will suffer for long though, only time can heal your stupidity.

Back to sender

Boondocxs:
Truly it’s complicated personally I would date anybody I have “family blood ties” with

Still I wish you guys luck and don’t break her heart treat her well and she’ll treat you well❤️❤️

Thank you so much. I won't break her heart by God's grace. It's a promise I've made to her

dawnomike:
I wish you both all the best...

Thank you I appreciate

thesicilian:
I hope the virginity is not the only thing attracting you to her

Not at all. There were other major qualities that attracted her to me. Virginity was just an addon for me.

VeryWickedMan:
You mean the girl you raped.

A lunatic spotted. Get a life mate

I shared a previous thread about my babe I deflowered and later broke up with cos of complicated family ties.
Well I just want to bring it to the notice of the house that I spoke with her yesterday since I couldn't successfully avoid her anymore cos I was still deeply in love with her but ended everything cos of the complications and for the fact that she also has been madly in love with me ever since I ended things with her but was hoping that we come back together.
Yesterday, I spoke with her and made her understand a few things about our situation and the hope that's staring at us in the face.
I formally asked her out again, although she was hesitant at first owing to the complexity of our family ties but she was ready to give us a chance and see where love leads us.
I have not said a thing to any of my family person cos we want to keep things private at least for now.
All I can say is I'm very positive about this one.
I promised to never stop loving her or leaving her again and she was very happy. Wish us well guys

What do you think our next step should be.?
Matured minds pls

This was the previous thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8002925/slept-virgin-now-happening-me

annayawchee:
You can marry her.
The rest na excuse...

I've seen where two brothers married from the same family

I honestly don't know how that's going to happen but anything is possible so i'm keeping an open mind. I've been trying to talk to her to see how things go, though the response has been positive

annayawchee:
You want advice but you ain't coming out clean.
Is she your cousin? Niece abi related by blood either from your paternal or maternal side

U just dey dey beat around the bush.

Both families are tied by marriage

Suicideboy:
Just kys please

Meaning pls

PureFace1:



Then you will suffer for long though, only time can heal your stupidity.

Back to sender

Demigod22:
To nack you original oraimo cord for neck the hungry me.

What is the whole fuse about pussy. You guys are aware that you are related by marriage before engaging in this charade of relationship, and after the fornication, everything changed.


Well, I thought I can't move on when I am in love until they point gun on my head to leave Khadeejah. I didn't just leave, I ran. Since then I have mastered my emotions, I can easily let go and move on from any relationship that threatens my sanity.

I'm gathering all necessary insight to do same

annayawchee:
You want advice but you ain't coming out clean.
Is she your cousin? Niece abi related by blood either from your paternal or maternal side

U just dey dey beat around the bush.

She's not my blood like I said. We're only related by marriage. Two families getting married

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She's not. I misjudged my former gf, thought she was cheating cos we were on a long distance relationship. I broke up with her but later discovered after 2years she wasn't cheating and unfortunately I couldn't get her back cos she blocked me on all social media platforms. That's a story for another day

Aleem26:
U no just get head for this you post on here…leave your area for her na Ozuo

Respect yourself. I said no insults

AllenSpencer:
Use her for money rituals!

Stupid post!

Stupid comment spotted

rexesq:

Na to shut door put am for this heat deh hungry me

What's the anger all about. Personally I love the girl a lot and she knows about it but the circumstances surrounding us is the problem. Pls get it
I really regret deflowering her. If I knew it was going to be like this I wouldn't have even tried it in the first place

terrence12:


I swear...
To carry him coconut head knack for ceramic floor just dey hungry me.

Are you ok?

PureFace1:



try to talk to more girls

try to go after 10 girls and ask them out, you will find yourself forgetting about her within a week and by a month you have already move on lol

What kind of advice is this one? Flirting is not my thing and part from that the economic situation of the country doesn't permit that

Wiseman2y:
Op no worry, bring that your prick u used to deflowered that girl make I see it first. Lol. Jokes apart, it is more serious than what you imagine o. Firstly, pussy is a temple, it is also a route to the invisible world of spirits. The moment you enter it via ur prick , I have entered into big covenant be that o and you are prone to all sorts of attacks from the spirits realm. The bible said whoever committed adultery or fornication with a woman destroys his own body. You need to repent and pray for forgiveness. The consequences of this act is bitter than wormwood.

You talked about forgiveness from God. Done that already but the passion is still strong to a point I just stop talking to her just to get her off but all to no avail.

immortalcrown:
This post is an absolute nuisance if you don't explain the family ties.

We're related by marriage. That's why I said it's complicated

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga to slap you dey hungry me

I dey haus. It is good advice that I need. Like I said no insults pls. Constructive criticism is allowed. Thank you