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Jobs/Vacancies / . by gospi: 7:46am On Nov 26, 2018
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Education / Qualities Every Good Private Tutor Should Possess by gospi: 2:58pm On Nov 24, 2018
Qualities Every Good Private Tutor Should Possess.

The private tuition industry is now a booming one. In recent recent times, there has been a sharp rise in the number of pupils/students who pay for the services of a private tutor. In fact, some affluent people now prefer having full time live-in private tuition to going to private or public schools.

Being effective at tutoring and motivating students is something that is a craft and not necessarily something that comes naturally. However, to be highly effective at the job, good private tutors must possess the following qualities:

1. Persistence

One quality that distinguishes a private tutor from teachers in public/private schools is the 'never give up' attitude he/she has towards his student. There's this story about a girl who had dyslexia (a learning disorder that affects one's ability to read, spell, write and speak). She always had an 'E' in English and Math and she wanted to get the grade up to a 'C'. She had discussed this with her teacher during her final year in high school, but he smiled and said "why not settle for a 'D' instead". Her parents then got her a private tutor who was patient with her slow learning pace and would always take time to explain things in different ways to her. Although she failed English and Math in GCE in her first and second attempt, but with persistence from her tutor, she made C's in English and Math in her third attempt.

2. Ability to put people at ease

This is an important quality because if people aren't comfortable around you, they aren't going to be able to learn much from you. Many times, private tutors think that they have to act like drill seargents, but their students can never get past that feeling of inequality or formality.
If you are able to put your student at ease, make them comfortable, get them on a friendly, yet professional terms, and keep them at ease enough to learn from you, then you are ahead of the game.

3. Maturity/Morality

Maturity is an important quality for obvious reasons. Parents would not trust their children with you if you are impolite, tell rude jokes, laugh inappropriately, cannot pay attention, talk about inappropriate things (e.g your sexual exploits). Never let the conversation deviate into intimate or far too personal topics. Never touch the student as far as possible. Never ever hug, kiss, rub, hold hands, or wink at your student, or basically act like someone they would never allow around their child. If you are immature, or engage in immoral acts, chances are you will be fired and have to give them their money back.
Note that maturity has nothing to do with your age but everything to do with how you carry yourself.


4. Good hygiene

Good hygiene is something that a lot of people overlook, but if your French tutor had a breath smelling like French onions, how long would you last in that French class? If you smell, look unkempt, or lack proper oral hygiene you won’t get many or any students. The thought here is that if you aren’t capable of taking care of your own basic needs how can you teach someone else anything with any kind of authority. Also, if you stink (literally!), no one is going to want to be in close contact with your for very long.


5. Passion and Skill


Passion in anything is important. If you want to be a great tutor, you need to have a passion for your subject. You need to have a love for what you teach, how you teach it, and those you teach. You want your students to feel that their success is important to you, and that what you’re teaching them is important.
Being passionate isn't just enough. You also need to be good at what you do. Despite what you thought about your junior high science teacher, teaching and tutoring requires skill. If you plan to make money tutoring people in math, you’d better have a knack for math. If you plan to tutor someone in piano, you should probably be able to read sheet music. Bottom line, you have to know what you plan to teach, and you have to know it well enough to be considered an ‘expert’ in that particular field.

6. Good Communication skills

Great tutors are excellent communicators. They are exceptional good at using the best combination of words to pass a message to their students without watering down the original concept. They also seek first to understand, then to be understood. They listen carefully to parents' and students' needs and communicate effectively and supportively.

7. Punctuality

It is important for private tutors to take the issue of punctuality seriously, as it can affect their relationship with their clients. It speaks volumes about your sincerity with the lessons. If you stay in a place like Lagos, the traffic jam can delay your lessons considerably. Give yourself a little extra time for traveling to your teaching destinations. Majority of clients are able to detect whether the tutor is sincere with his job. Hence, no one should take any students or any lessons for granted.

The list is not exhaustive... Feel free to add yours.

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Appoints New Supreme Court Justice, Rejects One Bill by gospi: 10:48pm On Nov 21, 2018
Nigerians are the biggest cowards on earth.Our foolishness is overwhelming.
I'm surprised that nobody is seeing his plot and movements to win 2019 election by Putting all his families and friends in key positions against 2019 so that it can be a smooth ride for him to become our lifeless president for another four years .Let's continue watching while our future is walking towards doom.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Teaching Vacancy by gospi: 3:05pm On Nov 21, 2018
Olamsoh:
Your previous posts.
It might be poor to you but to someone else it might be a testimony.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Teaching Vacancy by gospi: 8:35am On Nov 20, 2018
Olamsoh:
The pay is Poor.
Where did you see the pay?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Teaching Vacancy by gospi: 8:34am On Nov 20, 2018
The pay is Poor.
Where did you see the pay?
Jobs/Vacancies / Teaching Vacancy by gospi: 12:34pm On Nov 19, 2018
Vacancy!!!
A home tutor is needed at Omole Phase 2 to teach two students(SSS 1 and Pry 5)
Subjects:Maths and English ,Physics and Chemistry.
3 days in a week for 2 hours .
Interested persons should please call 08160903487
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: H by gospi: 4:26pm On Oct 06, 2018
Korofoh:
where is Iriakari?

In isolo lagos

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Jobs/Vacancies / H by gospi: 3:49pm On Oct 06, 2018
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Identify A Scam Interview Invitation by gospi: 3:48pm On Oct 06, 2018
Vacancy!!!
A home tutor is needed at Godwin Omunuwa Street,Iriakari Estate Lagos. To teach a student in Pry 5.
Subjects:Maths and English .
4 days in a week for 2 hours .
Interested persons should call 08160903487
Pay is 27k.You must be experienced in teaching and home tutoring .
Education / Re: 2018/2019 Admission Process Thread Guide by gospi: 3:47pm On Oct 06, 2018
Vacancy!!!
A home tutor is needed at Godwin Omunuwa Street,Iriakari Estate Lagos. To teach a student in Pry 5.
Subjects:Maths and English .
4 days in a week for 2 hours .
Interested persons should call 08160903487
Pay is 27k.You must be experienced in teaching and home tutoring .
Religion / Re: Sharon Oyakhilome And Phillip Frimpong Kiss At White Wedding As Phillip Cries by gospi: 3:46pm On Oct 06, 2018
Vacancy!!!
A home tutor is needed at Godwin Omunuwa Street,Iriakari Estate Lagos. To teach a student in Pry 5.
Subjects:Maths and English .
4 days in a week for 2 hours .
Interested persons should call 08160903487
Pay is 27k.You must be experienced in teaching and home tutoring .
Politics / Re: Lagos APC Primaries: Tinubu, Adeola Win, Ashafa Loses by gospi: 3:44pm On Oct 06, 2018
Vacancy!!!
A home tutor is needed at Godwin Omunuwa Street,Iriakari Estate Lagos. To teach a student in Pry 5.
Subjects:Maths and English .
4 days in a week for 2 hours .
Interested persons should call 08160903487
Pay is 27k.You must be experienced in teaching and home tutoring .
Politics / Re: Bribing Of Delegates In Full Swing At PDP Convention. $1k And 5k Each by gospi: 3:44pm On Oct 06, 2018
Vacancy!!!
A home tutor is needed at Godwin Omunuwa Street,Iriakari Estate Lagos. To teach a student in Pry 5.
Subjects:Maths and English .
4 days in a week for 2 hours .
Interested persons should call 08160903487
Pay is 27k.You must be experienced in teaching and home tutoring .
Religion / Re: How Many Songs Did You Know From The Bible? Keep Them Coming by gospi: 2:05pm On Jul 02, 2017
Hello everyone ! I need a female child to stay with me .I will send her to school .I only have male children who are all grown up and are abroad .I am Christian .A woman.I will treat her like my own daughter and take care of her. Of course she will help me do one or two things around the house .But her education is guaranteed .If you know any family that might be willing or maybe is going through a lot financially and need this kind of favour .Please tell them to contact me.Preferably 15 and below
0807 075 2784. Thank you .
Politics / Re: APC To Setup Committee On Restructuring Nigeria by gospi: 2:04pm On Jul 02, 2017
Hello everyone ! I need a female child to stay with me .I will send her to school .I only have male children who are all grown up and are abroad .I am Christian .A woman.I will treat her like my own daughter and take care of her. Of course she will help me do one or two things around the house .But her education is guaranteed .If you know any family that might be willing or maybe is going through a lot financially and need this kind of favour .Please tell them to contact me.Preferably 15 and below
0807 075 2784. Thank you .
Jobs/Vacancies / House Help Needed. by gospi: 2:03pm On Jul 02, 2017
Hello everyone ! I need a female child to stay with me .I will send her to school .I only have male children who are all grown up and are abroad .I am Christian .A woman.I will treat her like my own daughter and take care of her. Of course she will help me do one or two things around the house .But her education is guaranteed .If you know any family that might be willing or maybe is going through a lot financially and need this kind of favour .Please tell them to contact me.Preferably 15 and below
0807 075 2784. Thank you .
Religion / Re: Is Abuse An Acceptable Reason For Divorce? by gospi: 8:37pm On Oct 11, 2016
OLAADEGBU:
Does an abused wife have to stay with her husband?

Yes ooooo an abused wife has to stay with her husband except the abusive husband kills her then her spirit can now leave the man .

Nonsense and ingredients question!

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Romance / Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by gospi: 12:47am On Sep 30, 2016
Weedcrusher:
Submissive, submission, submitting......... grin

If any woman come to me and act all archaic, bringing water for me to wash my hands before eating, kneeling down and bowing for me as sign of respect, not having her own opinion but agreeing to everything I say, God knows that kinna woman won't last a day.

All I want in a woman is someone I can sit down and plan short, medium and long term goals with, Someone that we will have mutual respect for ourself, someone that will inspire and motivate me to always be the best I can be, a good and caring mother for my kids, a woman that will always engage me in intellectual discussion, someone I can communicate our issues and success with, a woman that I can be proud to call my wife in front of the whole world because she is her true self, a woman that loves me with all her heart for who I am and not what I am, a woman that has a calm demeanor and respectful attitude.....
You want a wife but poster wants a zombie !

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Romance / Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by gospi: 12:43am On Sep 30, 2016
Toks2008:
THE SUBMISSIVE WOMAN

Most ladies spend so much time and energy preparing for a wedding ceremony but very unprepared for just one condition responsible for a formidable union called SUBMISSION.

The modern day woman has allowed sophistication as a result of sound education and several other factors to make her see herself as equal to a man hence finds it difficult to be extremely submissive and this is one of the triggering factors for a break up. Being fully submissive to your man is one of the greatest secret to longevity of any romantic affair so Lets see what the Quran and Bible has to say concerning the act of submission from the woman.


Al-Tirmidhi 3272 - "When Allah's Messenger was asked which woman was best he replied, 'The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves'."

Ephesians 5:22-24 :Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

No woman has any business with marriage or any serious romantic affair with a man until she is ready to "submit,honor,respect,reverence her husband to the maximum level just as she will respect the lord.Show me a submissive woman and I will show you a peaceful and lasting union.Being submissive does not mean you should obey your man blindly or go against the commandments of GOD neither does it make you a zombie or a mindless person but it means being meek,humble and serene even when you disagree with your man as many times as possible.Believe it or not,no matter how many relationships you get involved in,you will always have issues if you don't learn how to submit yourself to your man.

And as the man,for whatever reason you choose to marry that lady, if you are not ready to love that woman with her imperfections and without exception with behavior worthy of respect and esteem, always seeking the best for her with an attitude of loving-kindness all the days of your life please don't propose marriage to her.

GOD commands the man to love the wife and the wife to submit to the husband. Refusal to do this is rebellion against GOD himself.By loving your wife you are honoring GOD and not doing your wife a favor and by submitting to your husband, you are demonstrating an act of obedience to GOD and not to your husband.

I hope this makes sense.
I really feel for you ! Good luck with your marriage to the ZOMBIE woman u just described here.Don't respect your wife u hear?
Shout at her and expect her loving response ! Its this nonsense mentality that a lot of men have that has resulted in the high rate of divorce . Nonsense and ingredients ...I don't even know where to start from in schooling you ..Just gerrout !

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Celebrities / Re: Khoudia Diop Charcoal Black African Model Who Doesn't Believe In Bleaching by gospi: 8:41pm On Sep 20, 2016
She looks burnt...
Wats stunning abt this bikonu?
I think she grinds charcoal,mixes it with water and rubs on her skin before coming out.
Politics / Re: I Will Win Again If Presidential Election Holds Today – Buhari Boasts by gospi: 11:01pm On Jul 17, 2016
kropotkin2:
I stand with Buhari anyday, anytime

U will also fall with buariah anyday anytime...

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Religion / Re: Dead Body Of Eunice Mojisola Olawale Killed In Abuja While Preaching. by gospi: 8:52pm On Jul 11, 2016
Well I think the christians shud start retaliating. Even the Bible says there's time for everything ...a time to make peace and a time for war. After all Moses was so passionate about the Israelites ,so much that he killed one of the Egyptians when he witnessed a fight between an Egyptian and an Israelite. God gave David power to kill Goliath . . These people are our goliaths now... Let's stop keeping quiet cos they will sooo do more ...Silence isn't always golden ...these people perceive our silence as foolishness...
They need to be killed back...
Crime / Re: Man's Joystick Cut Off In Liberia (photos) by gospi: 12:29pm On Jul 10, 2016
Its very obvious that he did something wrong to warrant that hence the "its hard to talk" comment..
Celebrities / Re: Wizkid Denied Visa Into London , Misses Wireless Music Festival Today by gospi: 4:36pm On Jul 09, 2016
Good for him... They must have googled wizkid and seen ... I will tell my younger ones to beat u up....


Thumbs up Linda Ikeji
Romance / Re: Lady With Big Boobs At Computer Village Responds by gospi: 4:15pm On Jul 09, 2016
Wairo wairo wairoo... Was Linda ikeji the one that carried the gist ? So many blogs carried it.. Why not sue them all...is it because she's d richest or she's female.... Na tief dey worry all of ona....

As much as I am disgusted by wat happened on dat day ....why don't u sue them all...

I feel for her tho... Please people stop this nonsense ... She didn't create herself... The boobs are big and I doubt if so much would be covered even if she wears something that doesn't expose it ....

All I can say is most of u guys do to other ladies what u don't pray to be done to ur daughters ,sisters or mother. It will be ur sisters turn someday ... Keep ur conscience alive..
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage "Hero Of The Month" Award By Reel Africa by gospi: 3:55pm On Jul 09, 2016
redcliff:
Wat kind of hero? The one that can't mange her fame and family? This world need purging.. damn!
You what can u manage?


Heri

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Politics / Re: Eid-el-Fitr: FG Extends Public Holiday To Thursday July 7th by gospi: 6:04pm On Jul 05, 2016
cremedelacreme:
The sighting of the moon was Inconclusive
-INEC

The sighting of the moon has been adjourned till tomorrow
-Abuja High Court

The sighting of the moon was not altered, a committee will be set-up to be headed by Sen. David Mark (Chairman Senate committee on Observation)
-Senate

The moon has already been sighted tomorrow
-Lai Mohammed

The anomally in the crescentic illumna of the moon in the atmospheric galaxy is tantamount to more crinkum crankum & hoola-baloo
-Patrick Obahiagbon

The APC was the cause of the moon not sighted in Nigeria
-Fayose

We will create another moon for Nigerians
-APC

Due to none sighting of the Moon, the Board of the Ulamas has been dissolved.
-Presidency

We blew up the moon and we will blow up more moons
-Niger Delta Avengers

We are responsible for the absence of the moon in the sky
-Boko Haram

Those responsible for the missing moon will soon be apprehended and charged accordingly. We have evidence.
-EFCC

We dont want to sight the Moon
-Biafrans

We know where the moon is but we dont want to say.
-The US govt.
Happy holiday !!!
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