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guobe:
@gothamwidower so sorry.I wrote this based on what actually happened as it is not a made up story.Alot of guys are passing through stuffs that are mind blowing.

Me as am here I can't undergo anymore pressure, just mid twenties,I don go through Divorce,mehn where do they sell Reverend Father's Form?😏😏😏😏

Candidlady:
Okay Iam sorry

Please

Iam hungry can iget urgent 3k

Even a man with a Billion won't send you shi-shi.

Tunde835:
This is the reason I'm against any form of commitment to women. After their bullshit they'll still claim that it's not their fault. Marry, engage or date a female at your own peril.

You deserve a crate if beer
🍻

Tunde835:
I'm not celibate just that I don't advise committing to females just swim and go

Me ehn

Commitment= High BP= early death

Right now self I haven't even sex for almost 2 months now and am getting used to it

guobe:
After getting married ,some ladies are still sleeping with the sugar daddies that they were dating prior to marriage.
On the marriage day the sugar daddy will even show up and be spraying money on the newly married couple and the groom will be saying thank you sir,thank you sir.
It is quite disgusting that some ladies are into this misdemeanours and they should know that God is watching us.

I experienced it, the lady I had a Son with, didn't even stop breastfeeding my Son while going to meet him for sex, imagine her throwing herself to a married man,the woman self the man marry no dey talk,she reach there she know where key dey,open door breast feed my pikin to sleep,then open leg for Mr Austin.

Let me tell you all guys, don't ever think marriage is a blessing or achievement,na just bloody daylight scam,watin woman want offer person??

talented321:
People are really going alot and alot.
sha give up no join.

Am not after rabas now self, make I just get myself back,na I dey find difficult so

Candidlady:
Wtf

Candidlady,yes ooooo the witch finally brought me to my knees ooo

taylor89:

Can you be more specific on your own part in helping out?

Today is on the 19th of July 2023,wow shouldn't I be grateful to be alive,this is my second account I've created on nairaland, although my first phone got stolen in a Keke months back in Warri.

Ever came across the topic? HELP I'M IN A MANIPULATIVE RELATIONSHIP..!, that was me with the username graciousheart1,after that Saga,I lost everything, Properties, Joint account with my Son's name,and haven't set nor heard from my little innocent Son.

Here I am in my mid's 20ths and I have been through a divorce already,mehn drank HYPO twice still didn't die?😩😩😩😩,had to fall back to "The Manor"(Family house, it's a very very big house and my grandfather had many wives although it's only 3 left,my grandma included,top floor just for the whole family)

Now here's the problem,you see that zeal I mean energy I had back then,the hustling spirit,self esteem and confidence I've lost it,my own is just that I wake up get daily bread,if I no see I check mama pot and eat anything and sleep, sometimes I cry my eyes out,some times I go deep into the forest scream till my voice shreak.

Talking to a woman I always look down and don't have anything meaningful to speak to a woman even for just 5 minutes,am always stuttering,mehn no meaning friendship between female folks,I hardly dress,e.t.c


Please my fellow nairalanders how can I live a single and peaceful meaningful life? Without this thinking and many many flashbacks?

Marvyx:
Weak men everywhere. Tueh..

I just called a girl I was admiring back then in Poly to check up on her, she's married though,and has a Son,I didn't made money to meet up