Jman06:
This is how you lots stir up toxicity and violence tendencies in men but would still complain when men become that which you push them to.

FYI, it is not the husband's business to stop the ex from calling the wife. Rather it is the responsibility of the wife to cut ties with her ex. See the way you carefully shifted the responsibility from the wife to the poor husband.

I blamed both of them but blamed the man more for entertaining such rubbish, didn't you read his wife even gave him phone to greet her ex, like seriously? You are joking

Beremx:
a man is entitled to call his ex but a woman cannot answer calls from her ex. Break sim card for what?

Abi ooooo. Infact ,a woman is entitled to marry 3 or more husbands at same time.

bitingcool:
is an ex not a human being. they are friends. if he dey kpansh her, u think he will be visible to you. it's not a crime to talk to an ex.

is this person really a man, when u marry,u will understand better

Hmm. Shrek... .been a while

ahnie:
Is the husband too dumb to change the wife's simcard?
Just asking .

That's the first every sensible husband would do to avoid roaming ghosts from the past aka lord faquard's ghost

ahnie:

What off'd me was the part where the ex called to congratulate the husband .

It's the Boldness of the ex for me.

That is not boldness, it is see finish, he knew the said husband is an ediot and a fooool too

Fiscus105:



Abi ooooo. Infact ,a woman is entitled to marry 3 or more husbands at same time.

Fada lawd what is this

As a gentleman, I will ask my wife for us to visit the ex.

Sit him down and let him know how much I love and cherish my wife, I will point blank tell him to desist from whatever communication between both and wish him good in chosing next lady.

Henadih:
On this I differ because I still call my ex even thought she is married and I am also married. No string attached. were both class mate in the higher institution. we almost got married but I could not handle the relationship very well because she was my very first girl. But I really cherish our relationship then. She was an honest and loyal person. I have even visited her in her home when I paid a visit to my uncle who lives in same axis with them. I was of great help to her when she wanted some document in and office. So it depends on who the ex is and the guys.
Its all about trust and character of the persons.

Everyone is not the same. I even tell her to her face that she is the best wife I did not marry.
But it ends there. She is a very responsible lady that I will not even think not to talk of try anything. Of I'm not even interested in anything.
We have become just good friends.

There’s nothing wrong with a guy calling her ex if you’re the man but would you be comfortable to allow your wife to be called by her ex because you feel there’s nothing between them? Nobody is blaming you for calling your ex as the man but the other man(husband) who entertain such familiarity to even speak to the ex boyfriend on the phone is like a lost sheep waiting to be slaughtered..

Camberlo:
As a gentleman, I will ask my wife for us to visit the ex.

Sit him down and let him know how much I love and cherish my wife, I will point blank tell him to desist from whatever communication between both and wish him good in chosing next lady.

You do that with your wife/Nigerian women and kiss your respect good bye

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

You just narrated a story of two children in marriage meant for mature adult.

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

tell your friend to call his ex , and see how the wife will react.....or plan with a friend pretending to be your ex and tell your wife " my ex want to speak to you" just see how she will react.

Marvyx:
Weak men everywhere. Tueh..

I just called a girl I was admiring back then in Poly to check up on her, she's married though,and has a Son,I didn't made money to meet up

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

There has to be some kind of boundary after marriage abeg. Forget that we are ex not enemy talk....I do not even care for an ex to call my hubby/wife and try to talk to me to say congratulations. It's better I don't even know they still talk.

ahnie:

Not forgetting okafor's law?
Once Deb"Ed by ex,always deb'ed by ex.

Hmmmmm...this is fantastic. A woman could recognise Okafor law

Simp husband. A beta male.

This is what you when home training is not in place.. you see grown up adults behaving like babes ..

IconicR:
I blamed both of them but blamed the man more for entertaining such rubbish, didn't you read his wife even gave him phone to greet her ex, like seriously? You are joking

The man should mandate the wife to cut ties with her ex ASAP. However, it is not the man's responsibility to confront the ex.

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

Bro your wife is already to or might be cheating on you with that ex of hers, that code of my friend don cast since, we all know it is you.

Jman06:
The man should mandate the wife to cut ties with her ex ASAP. However, it is not the man's responsibility to confront the ex.

How would you feel if your woman gives you phone to greet her ex? I await your response

ahnie:

What off'd me was the part where the ex called to congratulate the husband .

It's the Boldness of the ex for me.

Some ex are that bold.one tried same wit my wife wen she told me i warned her thats its unnaceptable n changed her fone number.i Even called my wife elder sister n warned her never to ever try giving my wife number to ex bf .....ano dey take shit like that.Only a weak man will takr that nonsense,not we wet dey street wit enough credibility.

lol u will give me phone that ur ex want to congratulate me ?

When u are not Maaad.

Me kee... If you say so. No wahala. Enjoy the MOVIE

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

I seriously don't understand who's who and who's what gender, or what the heck this is even telling us.

My own question is
Is ex an enemy to each other?

ahnie:
Is the husband too dumb to change the wife's simcard?
Just asking .

That's the first every sensible husband would do to avoid roaming ghosts from the past aka lord faquard's ghost

If the two are secretly together, the lady will still call or reach him on social media or any other means. For any marriage, ex - is always a threat throughout lifetime.

The husband na confirmed mumu and he is weaker than dodo. He will raise kids that are not his.

This is wrong. It should be the other way round, especially if you're a good man and the condition that got you split from each other was understandable and inevitable.

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

The woman is the one at fault here. I once called my ex to ask her something, she told me straight up why am I calling her by that time of the day? Don't I know she's in her husband's house? Reason be was because I called her in the night. I said I'm sorry and we ended the call. The woman ought to go straight up with so called ex.

ahnie:
Is the husband too dumb to change the wife's simcard?
Just asking .

That's the first every sensible husband would do to avoid roaming ghosts from the past aka lord faquard's ghost

why would a man change his wife’s sim after marriage? Will he also follow her around everywhere she goes? Does that mean the wife doesn’t know right from wrong? Just asking.

IconicR:
How would you feel if your woman gives you phone to greet her ex? I await your response

Of course, I'll feel disrespected and I'll not even speak with that ex. However, I'll direct my anger to my wife and warn her sternly to cut all ties with the ex.

Henadih:
On this I differ because I still call my ex even thought she is married and I am also married. No string attached. were both class mate in the higher institution. we almost got married but I could not handle the relationship very well because she was my very first girl. But I really cherish our relationship then. She was an honest and loyal person. I have even visited her in her home when I paid a visit to my uncle who lives in same axis with them. I was of great help to her when she wanted some document in and office. So it depends on who the ex is and the guys.
Its all about trust and character of the persons.

Everyone is not the same. I even tell her to her face that [/b]she is the best wife I did not marry[b].
But it ends there. She is a very responsible lady that I will not even think not to talk of try anything. Of I'm not even interested in anything.
We have become just good friends.

At bolded. How will you describe your current wife then? Stop being a simp and face your life, wife and family. If that lady has sense, she should’ve have blocked your ass, but unfortunately you two are the same

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

advice her to block his num


Omo I won't allow any stupid ex to call my wife o