Phones › Re: Why Do All Smartphones Look The Same? by Gotocourt: 12:30pm On Aug 25 |
All phones look like IPhone. It started from ipod design. |
Health › Re: Enugu Health Commissioner Clarifies Perceived Rise In Kidney Diseases by Gotocourt: 12:27pm On Aug 25 |
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Crime › Re: Islamic Teacher Arrested For Defiling Two Minors During Quranic Class by Gotocourt: 12:26pm On Aug 25 |
This one loud oooooo, thread about to get messy. |
Politics › Re: US Trains Nigerian Soldiers In Drone Technology In Bauchi by Gotocourt: 12:07pm On Aug 25 |
Bello Turji is getting more skills  . |
Romance › Re: If Your Woman Finds Out You Cheated On Her, Do This Immediately by Gotocourt: 12:05pm On Aug 25 |
Omorr that gender don't forgive ooooooo. Ratak/commando fit surplus for your food. |
Education › Re: My Son Scored 289 In JAMB. He Still Could Not Explain What He Read. by Gotocourt: 12:02pm On Aug 25 |
PremiumLeaks: I want to say something that may offend some parents, so let me start with my own shame.
My son scored 289 in JAMB. Everybody celebrated. Relatives called. My mother prayed on the phone for eleven minutes. For three weeks, I was the proudest man on my street.
Then I asked him to explain a chapter on photosynthesis he had just studied.
Not the definition. Just explain what happens inside a leaf, in your own words.
He couldn't.
He gave me the textbook definition, word for word. When I pushed him to explain it differently, he looked at me and said, “Daddy, is it not the same thing?”
No. It isn't.
That night I realised my son hadn't really been learning. He had been storing.
The Examination Is Not the Education
Our children are often trained to recognise answers, not understand ideas. They memorise patterns, match questions to past papers, and reproduce stored answers.
It works. My son got 289.
But change the question slightly and the confidence disappears.
Not because he isn't intelligent. He is. Nobody taught him what to do when he doesn't already know the answer.
That is the skill that survives school.
Where the Money Goes
School fees. Lesson teachers. Holiday classes. Textbooks. Past questions. JAMB apps. Extra tutorials. Transport. Data.
Now ask yourself: what have you actually bought?
Mostly, supervision.
What you haven't necessarily bought is a child who can pick up an unfamiliar book, understand it, and teach himself something nobody is around to teach him.
And that skill is free.
A child who can teach himself can keep learning anywhere. One who can't may remain helpless inside an expensive university.
The Phone Isn't the Problem
We blame TikTok because a child can scroll for four hours but can't read for twenty minutes.
But the phone may simply be exposing a weak attention muscle.
School often requires attendance. It doesn't necessarily teach sustained attention.
So taking away the phone may remove the symptom without building the muscle.
What I'm Doing Differently
My son is seventeen. I'm doing some of this ten years late, and I have to live with that.
I no longer ask only what he scored. I ask what he understood.
I make him explain things to his sister in his own words. When he says, “I don't know,” I don't immediately give him the answer. I ask, “How would you find out?”
It's slower. More annoying.
But something has changed.
If you have a younger child, you still have time.
Don't spend all of it buying more of what isn't working.
The greatest inheritance you can give your child isn't a certificate, school, or money.
It's a mind that can teach itself anything.
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From Phonics to Calculus: A Parent's Blueprint for Raising a Self-Taught Mind in a Distracted World is a 65-page guide for Nigerian parents who want to build reading, independent learning, and attention skills in their children.
It covers how to diagnose what your child can actually do—not just what their results say—plus practical ways to develop independent learning, rebuild attention, and do it even without money for tutors.
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Politics › Re: Man Sprays ₦200 Notes From Moving Car, Viral Video Sparks Outrage (photos/ by Gotocourt: 11:59am On Aug 25 |
Thanks to Tinubu massive hunger and poverty reforms  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Strait Of Hormuz Ship Traffic Drops To A Single Vessel on Monday by Gotocourt: 11:56am On Aug 25 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Strait Of Hormuz Ship Traffic Drops To A Single Vessel on Monday by Gotocourt: 11:55am On Aug 25 |
Dangote should buy Strait of Hormuz and forget about Arsenal  . |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Senator Fingered As Bandits Sponsor In Viral Video(Video) by Gotocourt: 11:48am On Aug 25 |
Buba Shehu of Bauchi  |
Celebrities › Re: Wahala: The Big Challenge Before Poco Lee by Gotocourt: 11:14am On Aug 25 |
Poco Lee is in for a deep mess. |
Politics › Re: Yari: APC Will Rule Nigeria Beyond 2031 by Gotocourt: 11:13am On Aug 25 |
Yari has collected his retirement pension from Tinubu. Tinubu will learnnn  |
Politics › Re: Yari: APC Will Rule Nigeria Beyond 2031 by Gotocourt: 11:08am On Aug 25 |
Jokers, refund Tinubu his billions  . |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Was Rigged Out In 2023 Presidential Election,ECOWAS (Video) by Gotocourt: 11:07am On Aug 25 |
Riggers bodies will be added as scores. |
Politics › Re: Samuel Shekwolo: ‘Leave If You Won’t Support APC’ – FCT Chairman To Residents by Gotocourt: 11:02am On Aug 25 |
Svoboda: Obviously, Wike has introduced his brazen gangster politics to the fct and has put the area council bosses under tremendous pressure to deliver. But will such naked incinerating threats sway voters from making their informed choices? If Osun didn't buckle, then FCT wont. Maybe the lg chairman was barking at his dogs, because the fct residents I know are no slaves. Wike style of politics can't work where northerners reside  madness dey body  . |
Politics › Re: Sheik Jingir: I Don’t Hate Christians by Gotocourt: 10:43am On Aug 25 |
Azaaman don cashout #600M  |
Politics › Re: There’ll Be Fake Polling Units, Booths Stationed For Rigging – Primate Ayodele by Gotocourt: 10:42am On Aug 25 |
Rig and Kpai, Pro Amupitan knows the end . |
Crime › Re: Swimming Coach Molested My 10-Year-Old Sister At Amazing Grace Park Ipaja - Lady by Gotocourt: 10:24am On Aug 25 |
Nawa Oooooo, this mata tie gele  . |
Politics › Re: 5 Strong Reasons Why I Support Atiku’s Position On Fuel Subsidy By PastorKay by Gotocourt: 9:47am On Aug 25 |
Bayo Onanuga is yet to respond with his basket mouth. Tinubu should better subsidise Naira. Official exchange rate
Baseline: ~N460/$
Current position: ~N1,358/$ What's our benefit as Nigerians  |
Business › Re: Nigeria’s External Reserves Surge $7.09 Billion, Hits $52.66 Billion by Gotocourt: 7:56am On Aug 25 |
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Politics › Re: Tinubu Didn’t End Subsidy, He Shifted The Burden To Nigerians – Atiku by Gotocourt: 7:54am On Aug 25 |
“You cannot subsidise capital and criminalise relief for citizens. You cannot offer cushions upstairs and call suffering downstairs reform.” |
Agriculture › Re: My Fishes Are Dying Everyday by Gotocourt: 7:43am On Aug 25 |
Bigsin: I have a tank filled with about 3,000 catfish and I change their water EVERYDAY because it gets dirty easily. Changing their water affects my electricity bill a lot because the fishes don't like rushing or eating their foods when the water is dirty. Anyhoo, that's a story for another day. In regards to feeding, I feed them 3-4 times a day.
The problem I'm facing now is that I'm losing them slowly and it hurts. Everyday, I get up to 5 mortalities.
What could I be doing wrong? Overcrowded and cannibalism. |
Health › Re: Enugu Health Commissioner Clarifies Perceived Rise In Kidney Diseases by Gotocourt: 7:33am On Aug 25 |
Attributing the apparent increase largely to greater public awareness.
Drinking water culture, Northern border states are well known for that. |
Business › Re: Can A Guarantor Be Removed From A Loan? by Gotocourt: 7:25am On Aug 25 |
oluwaseyi0: What should we do about palmpay and other loan shark that will call reporting a defaulter I never stood guarantor for Those are loan bandits, the criminal software takes all contacts of defaulter. |
Business › Re: Can A Guarantor Be Removed From A Loan? by Gotocourt: 7:24am On Aug 25 |
NIGERIAJAGAJAGA: Who stand as guarantor to Nigeria when they borrowing all these loans pls. Federation Account, no time. |
Business › Re: Can A Guarantor Be Removed From A Loan? by Gotocourt: 7:23am On Aug 25 |
Your lender will be willing to remove your existing guarantor only when you have another one. |
Celebrities › Re: Chidimma Adetshina Chased & Attacked By South African Crowd After Court (Video) by Gotocourt: 7:19am On Aug 25 |
dominique: I've never seen anybody forcefully want to stay in a country where they're not wanted, where they're risk of serious bodily harm. It's like she's enjoying this hostile attention she's getting Ndi ablod , malaria and hunger is waiting for her  |
Business › Re: Dangote Refinery’s Free Fuel Delivery Expands To Kano, Imo, Ten More States by Gotocourt: 7:14am On Aug 25 |
GloriousGbola: It is not free delivery
It is a page from techs playbook
When you want to kill an established, traditional market, undercut them till they die. When you are a monopoly you can then turn on the enshitifficatiion.
This is dangote strangling and killing nupeng (tanker drivers union)
Once he is fully established, he will charge what he wants for bridging and everyone will have to take it
I do not have the figures today but in 2014 it cost 100k to pay a tanker to move product from apapa to trade fair. Today it would likely be 400k or more. That is intracity cost. You can now multiply that on a cross state scale. It is a significant cost and dangote will NOT carry it forever. Diesel was around 100-120 per litre. It's around 1500+ now  |
Politics › Re: “Tinubu, You Are Going Nowhere” – Islamic Cleric Declares by Gotocourt: 6:55am On Aug 25 |
saheed24: Campaign never even start proper, this one don they pocket 600m metre from just 1 man. at this point theres no need 4 presidential election The snake oil merchants don cash out, dan muala  . |
Politics › Re: “Tinubu, You Are Going Nowhere” – Islamic Cleric Declares by Gotocourt: 6:50am On Aug 25 |
AMINDA: Meanwhile, here is Masari, Tinubu's 2023 placeholder and Special Adviser on Polical Affairs donating 600 million naira to Sheikh Yahaya Jingir. Those who say Yahaya Jingir's rethorics are state-backed may not be far from the truth. In any case, the muslim-muslim ticket is ageing like soured milk in the core North.
Sheikh Yahaya Jingir don cashout  . |
Celebrities › Re: Chidimma Adetshina Chased & Attacked By South African Crowd After Court (Video) by Gotocourt: 6:37am On Aug 25 |
Their economy will take the hit in no distant time  . |
Educational Services › Re: Secure Your Place At Maduka University Enugu by Gotocourt: 6:30am On Aug 25 |
Evaress: Not bad. But UNN and ESUT still remains the best Madam, nothing like best so far it's accredited. Government school will stress you out in general courses. Hundreds packed like sardines  |