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Religion / Re: Why Smartphones Are No Substitute For Bibles by greatestmistake: 6:17pm On Jun 14, 2015
Many so called Christians are too myopic. Infact not Christians but religionists. Even the Bible said the letter/print killeth. I use my i-pad in church;
1. Instead of carrying the Bible, hymn book, Sunday school booklet, writing book and Biro, my single i-pad gives me all.
2. Instead turning pages front & back looking for Haggai, in less than 30scs I can locate any quotation in the bible with my i-pad.
3. Instead of stressing my eyes to have 3D look on those tiny prints, I can easily zoom the wordings in my i-pad. Etc

Technology have come for good, it will only be primitivity or. myopic to talk against it. Peace.
Politics / Re: Why Is There No Fuel Scarcity In The South East? by greatestmistake: 6:21pm On May 24, 2015
noblezone:
Reason is very simple.
We dont depend on government to survive.
We are more concernd about the availability of fuel than the cost of it.
Marketers being fuel to the East because they are assured of their money.

We drive inn, buy and drive out.

Did you see any "Silly Subsidy Protests" in the East?
No, we have more important things to do.

Subsidy removal would have been the best for Nigeria, but the cabal who benefit from it, deceived the gullible.
Am full nwafo Igbo, from ideato in Imo but honestly I don't buy any of these your sentimentally biased ideas. Listen, we southeast are the most gullible people in Nigeria, we are too myopic. Why are we the highest loosers in government? Most deprived and marginalised because we're always outsmarted. You called ''Subsidy Protests'' silly ? We didn't support the protest because we were unfortunately blinded that Gej is our brother, that's all. Most of us here are factless about subsidy. My friend it's only a schmo would've believed our clueless Jonathan to remove the subsidy then because only the money embezzled by these four women (Pej, Noi, Dam & Gej) would've subsidized our fuel since 2010. Subsidy is not our problem in Nigeria, CORRUPTION is.
Concerning the fuel scarcity, immediately after church today, I drove to one Forte Oil filling station to buy fuel for my generator and the guy told me 200/ltr, I simply vamoosed, so 200/ltr is that fuel availability or scarcity?

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Politics / Re: Why Is There No Fuel Scarcity In The South East? by greatestmistake: 6:05pm On May 24, 2015
brb
Family / Re: Neighbours Ignore Lady Who Fainted Because Of Her Alleged Wicked Ways (photos) by greatestmistake: 1:12pm On Apr 19, 2015
why wouldn't her faint? Anybody living in such haggard environment is faintable.
Autos / I Want Nigerian Neatly Used Toyota Camry(fish)/sienna/corolla by greatestmistake: 2:49pm On Feb 14, 2015
If you have any or the contact, please upload the pics and details here so we can negotiate. The Sienna and Corolla should be same year range with Camry fish so as to fit the buyer's budget. The engine should be sound and must have chilling A/C.
Crime / Re: Man Takes His Life In Uncompleted Building In Lagos by greatestmistake: 8:36pm On Feb 03, 2015
holatin:
you are very dumb,clueless,indiscreet,stewpid,pointless and shallow.

brainless animal in human skin
stew kwa, ohhhh
Romance / Re: Here Are 6 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back by greatestmistake: 11:24am On Jan 09, 2015
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Romance / Re: What Sort Of Devilish Wife Did I Marry? by greatestmistake: 9:38am On Jan 08, 2014
jaybeyblu:
Wow! God bless your mother! Calm down bro nothing is too difficult for God to do ! He can and would change your wife ok? Try and read this book: the power of a praying husband. *cheers*

chioma134: Wow!! Ur wife is the definition of wickedness. If she had issues with u,suƙely she didn't have to transfer the aggression to ur mum.Don't let this go unpunished,otherwise,it will repeat itself. Call a meeting btw u,ur mum and her and Express ur Hurt. If she has any iota of good in her, she will show remorse. If she does'nt, then only God can help u, Bro. Cheers.
@op, find out ur wife's grouse with ur parents and take it up from there. No woman wants her Child taken away from her,but she shouldn't have openly quarelled with u in ur parent's prevence. Forgive her, but 1st express ur sadness. I believe she would budge with time.

andyanders:

My brother, there is nothing devil cannot do. Devil wants to ruin your life by using that woman against you.
Your wife only needs deliverance as there something behind her action. Can you take her to your for deliverance if you really want to keep your home since you already got kids with her. Note she is not the one acting. It is the demon living inside her. The devil you know is better than the angels out there.

If you look at the circumstances surrounding your existence by having you as the only child goes to show that the devil actually is doing something to make sure that your parents never know peace. If I can advise you, go to SCOAN or Liberation Ministry at Ojudu and your case will be over and you will enjoy that woman.

I believe that there is spiritual manipulation to make sure that your parents suffers. God will help you. Do not seek for divorce

soul_glo:

I think your situation is different and it seems there were underlying issues. That though does not excuse what she did. It is almost unforgivable but there always has to be room for forgiveness in marriage. Its what separates the men from the boys, women from the girls. Even if your mom attempted to murder her the fact that she is now disabled and was left hungry just breaks my heart. She is more fragile than the kids. I think you should not have told your mom what happened. You should have just told her there was a breakdown in communication and something was not properly passed across.
I don't really understand silent treatment. It cannot be effective. You need to communicate this to her in the strongest possible way "mama was left to starve because you chose not to help her". Honestly people do this for total strangers everyday. It is hard to imagine why she would do it to her children's grandma. Please don't let this go by choosing not to discuss it.

Well, thanks all for your advice. The issue of my wife is a long story. Our marriage is about 8yrs now, and from the first year it has been hell till now. Someone suggested calling a kind of family meeting and discuss issues with her that she will change, we have gone to her mother and sister in the village to settle issues in time past but they partially told her she was wrong, she pleaded and I forgave but her repentance doesn't last more than 2 months and she will turn back to her devilish self again. Even my pastor have been at my house on occasions talking to her, my own parents equally but no permanent change from her. They all end up advising me to keep being tolerant as a husband. Someone suggested I should pray, unfortunately praying for my wife is like praying for nkakwu(that smelling long-mouth rat) to stop smelling, like praying for a pig to stop going back to dirt.
I really think she is just relaxed and deliberate with her actions knowing that I wouldn't lay a finger on her and wouldn't think of divorce. But honestly using force on her and threatening her with divorce by temporarily sending her packing to her parents is the only think I know for now that will change her. Despite her bad characters she is very jealous and protective of me, any female call I answer, I must explain to her who she is else another trouble. But the problem is for me to muster the thought and courage to forcefully handle her and temporarily send her back to her parents because I can't stand the shame when everybody will then know there is a problem. Another alternative may be spiritual thing, maybe she needs T.B Joshua type of prayers, sometimes I think maybe she doesn't know what she is doing, those kind of evil spirits manifesting in synagogue deliverance may be responsible. Am just confused and wish am not married at all.
Romance / Re: What Sort Of Devilish Wife Did I Marry? by greatestmistake: 9:06pm On Jan 06, 2014
@ OP We are just in too similar shoes
I've written a similar experience to post on nairaland recently but was afraid that people that knows me in nairaland will deduce from the story that i am the one. I just opened a new nairaland I.D to be anonymous. Poster, your own is moi-moi case compared to what am passing through. MARRYING MY WIFE IS THE GREATEST MISTAKE I MADE IN MY LIFE. 2hrs will not be able to finish narrating the first paragraph if am to narrate the hell am passing through. For instance, as am typing this now, since Jan 2nd 2014 I've not been talking with my wife, only good morning and me dropping money for family upkeep. She can keep the face-off till Jesus returns. Whats the problem? I was to take my relation who stays with my bedridden mother to village on 2nd as my younger siblings have traveled to village. Then on 1st I told my wife to prepare with the kids by 7am next morning being 2nd that i will drive them to go and stay with my mother as i drive with the relation to village for a 9.am scheduled village meeting and to come back same day. My village is barely an 1hour journey. I woke up early around 6am and tapped her to wake and start preparing but she shouted at me. Later by 8:20 she is still putting on towel to go and bath, then I told her am leaving to go and pick the relation as time is already against us, that she should then transport herself to go and stay with my mum. Our residence is not up to 10mins drive to my parents place. I then left to village, while in village I tried calling her and my mother but due to network limitation i couldn't get them. To my greatest surprise around 4pm while in village my mother was able to reach us on phone and told me that she didn't see my wife again and have not taken her lunch as she hardly moves around with her clutches due to her health challenges. I tried calling my wife again and network was telling me switched off repeatedly. I cut short everything in village and speed off back to town and met my mother stranded alone, I almost shed tears seeing her. Then back to my house, I met my wife watching cable tv, I asked her why she didn't go to my mother again, she asked me while I left her instead of exercising little more patience waiting for her to bath and by the way how do i expect her to take public transport with 2 kids? (not up to 10mins transport). Since then I cut off communication with her in anger as I can't beat her, I can't send her packing due to my religious family upbringing. In fact my mother now is telling me to forget about what she did, that it was just the devil at work. She is a core christian.

Am tired of typing, this is just a tip of the iceberg of the devil am living with as wife. May God punish the day i first set my eyes on this lady cry cry

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