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afribabe:
I thought it was going to be about periwinkle (animal)

philfearon:
1] Be friends with your spouse during the day and be lovers at night.

2] If you want to make love to your wife at night, start in the morning.

3] Things change — respect each other and be willing to change. Remain flexible and open to compromise.

4] Stay true — cheating never works — never surrender your integrity.

5] Listen more than you talk. Think more than you say.

6] Don’t keep score. You don’t win at marriage. Strive to stay even.

7] Intimacy and affection are not always sexual. A promise is as good as the act.

8] Women crave sex for intimacy and acceptance — Men crave sex for validation. If either isn’t getting what they need, they will seek it elsewhere.

9] Sometimes she just wants to be held. If she doesn’t she’ll let you know.

10] Let him know you are interested. Don’t think he should see you are interested and act accordingly. If you want it ask.

11] Pick up after yourself. Flip the laundry. Do the dishes. Cook a meal or two or three ect and change a diaper. Neither took a vow to be the maid — if you did — the 1800’s called and want their vow back.

12] Don’t pick a fight. Stop. Wait. Think. Then say what you mean and mean what you say after you stop being angry.

13] Don’t go in thinking he or she will change or you will change them. Change grows organically from within.

14] A divorce is like finding a woman you hate and buying her a house. If that joke isn’t funny — don’t buy a house.

15] Maintain your financial independence. Everyone who was ever married either died or were divorced — you’ll need your financial independence.

16] Sometimes she cries for no reason — sometimes he broods over non-sense. This too shall pass.

17] He or she might be your one, but eventually they will be the half or the quarter — strive to keep growing back together.

18] Watch her family and see how her father treats her mother — that’s her expectation. Watch his family — that’s his expectation. If you can’t imagine living in such an environment — you won’t — don’t hesitate to reset your expectations.

19] Roughly a third of people will suffer from a mental illness during their lifetime. Better than even chance one of you will become ill. Acceptance — Treatment, early and often.

20] Children change everything. She will unapologetically love her children more than she loves you. If you can’t handle that, wrap it in latex.

21] Most fights start over money and end in the bedroom — good or bad.

22] A three-some is never a good idea. It’s a desperate decision — a cancer with no cure. If you have an open relationship, good for you, but follow your rules. Mileage varies.

23] Space is more than what’s 20 miles straight up, or the inches between your ears. Maintain your space and allow him or her their’s.

24] Don’t threaten divorce — you either are or you aren’t. Threats breed fear — fear leads to distrust — It’s nearly impossible to earn someone’s trust, again.

25] If you are on the couch and your spouse is doing chores you are in the wrong place. Do things together.

26] If one of you is using drugs/alcohol and the other isn’t — there’s a problem. There is help available — use it.

27] You are married the person they are, but you’ll be in love with the person they were — reconcile those statements.

28] Once it’s over, it’s over. Move on quickly and quietly.

29] We can’t do anything about the ex parked outside your house — nor can we stop them from sleeping with someone new. Neither of you took a vow of celibacy. The contrary is true.

30] Don’t drunk text, call, write, or skype — Don’t drunk anything except sleep.

31] If you can’t control your emotions — leave — take a walk — pray. But whatever you do, don’t hit, slap, grab, pull, push, hug, knock, slam, choke, pinch, pin, head lock, arm bar, round kick, front kick or beat each other in anyway shape, form or fashion. If you must fight, use your words and remember anger equals ten feet. Never pick up a weapon in anger.

32] Spousal rape is real. No still means No — even if there’s a ring, a vow and several days/weeks/months/years of unrealized expectations.

May the Lord grant you the courage to change the things you must, the grace to accept the things you can’t, and the wisdom to know the difference.


QUORA

GoTV:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, i think it is bad for a woman to be fornicating and boldly announcing the shameful resultant pregnancy online. Where are our morals in this country? I think the federal government should clamp down on giving birth outside wedlock so as to restore sanity amongst our shameless youths

Writercruze:
Beautiful and successful marriages don’t happen overnight. Most times, they are products of handwork, patience, and love. It requires you to remind your partner how much you love them regularly. And the easiest way to do this is by sending beautiful love messages to them.

Nothing gladdens a man heart at work more than a beautiful love message from his wife. More often than none, these messages could be the right motivation they need to push through a difficult task. And little gestures like this, makes him see you value you more than you can imagine.

Sometimes, our busy schedules make it almost impossible to write creative and romantic love messages. I understand how it feels. But it’s not your fault; you have other things to do. Don’t worry, in this article; you will learn some beautiful love messages to motivate your husband at work.

No matter how stressful his day is at work, once he reads any of these messages, he must smile. You see, I’m allowing you to put a beautiful smile in your hubby’s face.

Beautiful Love Messages To Make Your Husband Smile At Work

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#1. Hey Darling! I’m so proud of you. Thank you for working so hard for our family. You are my superhero.

#2. I’m sending you this beautiful love message to remind I have a hug and kiss waiting for you here…

#3. Hey darling! I want you to know that you are the best of your kind. Thank you for showing me endless love even when I don’t deserve it.

#4. Hey handsome! Just want you to know that you are my fantasy comes through. I’m thankful everyday for having you in my life.

#5. Thank you so much, my hubby, for loving me unconditionally. Irrespective of my flaws, you still love more…..

#6. Giving you my heart is one of the best decisions in my life. I’ll always treat you like a king. You know what? I’ll love you until stars stop shining.

#7. Hello my superman, this is just a reminder of how much I love you. Even if I don’t say it every day, want you to know that you mean the world to me.
Sincerely, I appreciate everything you have been doing for the children and me. We are proud of you…

#8. Darling, please promise always to remember me and forever be mine. The thought of living without you drives me crazy. I missed your smile, come home quick for a special treat.

#9. Hey handsome, Just want to appreciate you for being you. It gladdens my heart when you inspire me to do great things and love me selflessly. You always guide me to see the beauty behind imperfection. I just want you to know that even If I come to this world again, I will choose you over and over again. I love you — best hubby of the year.

Sweet Text To Inspire Your Husband At Work

#10. I was counting my blessings, and I discovered that being your wife was the best of them. Every moment I spend with you makes me feel like the luckiest woman on earth. I never knew I could meet someone as lovely and kind as you. Trust me; I’ll spend the rest of my life, showing you how much I value you.

#11. Sweetheart! Do you know the beauty of having a husband as intelligent, brave and strong like you? I can always depend on you when things are rough, and I’m scared. No challenge is never too strong for you to overcome; that’s the reason you will remain my everyday crush till eternity. I love you like no man’s business.

#13. My handsome Husband. I always have confidence in your ability. Don’t allow the fear of failure to limit your success. Embrace the opportunity in front of you and prove yourself to the world. Just remember that even if the whole world forsakes you, I’ll always be with you.

#14. I know your recent failure is affecting you severely. But always remember that failures sometimes fast track your success. All I need from you now is to restrategize and aim for success this time. Don’t forget that my love for you is evergreen.

#15. Hey Darling, want to remind you that you are that part of me I never get tired of. Honestly, you are my dream comes true.

#16. Words are never enough to tell you how important you are to me. But I want you to know that you were born to shine. As you carry out your routine tasks at work, do make me proud. Always remember that I love you.

Encouragement Love Messages For Your Hubby

#17. My Lovely Husband, Just like the sun shines upon the earth, so your love shines in my heart. I love you, darling.

#18. My Darling, I want to appreciate you for always making me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world whenever we together.

#19. Dearest hubby, your kindness and loyalty always make me believe that God specially created you for me alone. You are a blessing to my life in so many ways. There’s no way I could have achieved this milestone in life if not for your support. Thank you for your love, and I’ll always love you.

#20. Hey handsome husband. I know I’m not perfect; I sometimes find it challenging to connect with you or share in your enthusiasm. But I want you to know that you are the most important person in my life. Even If being a mom creates a distance between us, it doesn’t change your position in my life.

Hey ladies, these are the beautiful love messages you can send to your hubby at work. We try to make them as short as possible. But you can always edit them to suit your tone. Trust me, there’s no better way of bonding with your partner and renewing your marriage vibes than love messages.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/beautiful-love-messages-to-motivate-your-husband-at-work/

postbox:
For many Nigerians, high-quality higher education is a luxury. There are many private universities who are known not only for their top-notch teaching staff and achievements but also for the incredibly high tuition costs. Here are the top 10 most expensive universities in Nigeria.

10. Lead City University, Ibadan

Lead City University is located in the south-western part of Nigeria and is one of the best known local education institutions. The history of Lead City University dates back to 2005, and in less than 15 since it was launched, the University evolved a lot. Right now it charges ₦625,000 intuition. 

9. Babcock University, Ogun State

Babcock University is part of the Seventh-day Adventist educational system, which means the high education costs are not the only reason why it may not be your cup of tea. The University has been operating since 1999 and currently has the tuition fee of ₦780,000. 

8. Bowen University, Ogun State

Another representative of Ogun State, Bowen University is known as the First Baptist University in Africa. Bowen University was opened in 2002 and has thousands of former and current students. Bowen University is a very well-equipped institution and charges ₦950,000 intuition.

7. Covenant University, Ogun State

Ogun State appears to be one of the leaders of the prestigious education industry in Nigeria. Covenant University is closely associated with the Living Faith Church worldwide and is part of numerous associations. Covenant University always scores high positions in university ratings of Nigeria and has the tuition fee of ₦1.2 million. 

6. Benson Idahosa University, Benin City

The Benson Idahosa University is a Christian institution that was launched in 1993. One of its standout features is the membership in the United States National Academy of Inventors, which no other African university has managed to achieve. You need to pay ₦1.5 million in tuition to study there.

5. Afe Babalola University, Ado-Ekiti

The Afe Babalola University is one of the youngest Nigerian universities, being launched only in 2009. In addition to six popular education programmes, this University is also known for its modern and good-looking campus. A tuition fee of ₦1.8 million is required to study there. 

4. American University Of Nigeria, Adamawa State

The name of the American University already attracts a lot of students looking for high education standards, but the fact that it’s the only American-style university in Sub-Saharan Africa is an even bigger reason to want to study there. Founded by Atiku Abubakar in 2004, the American University charges its students ₦2 million intuition.

3. Pan-Atlantic University, Lagos

One of the few Lagos institutions on this list, the Pan-Atlantic University was founded in 1991 as the Lagos Business School. Since then, the University has evolved into one of the most coveted private schools in Lagos, but the tuition fee of ₦2.5 million can be hardly called affordable. 

2. Baze University, Abuja

For Abuja locals and students from other states, Baze University is one of the dream schools with an international staff, outstanding campus, and high teaching standards. For a tuition fee of ₦3.1 million, you can also experience the joys of studying in Baze University. 

1. Nile University, Abuja

The full name of Nile University is Nigerian Turkish Nile University, which should already give you some idea on what this school is all about. Launched in 1998, this University showed tremendous growth. It is now the most expensive University in Nigeria with a tuition fee of ₦5.7 million. 

SOURCE:https://brandspurng.com/2019/09/21/top-10-most-expensive-universities-in-nigeria/

postbox:
For many Nigerians, high-quality higher education is a luxury. There are many private universities who are known not only for their top-notch teaching staff and achievements but also for the incredibly high tuition costs. Here are the top 10 most expensive universities in Nigeria.

10. Lead City University, Ibadan

Lead City University is located in the south-western part of Nigeria and is one of the best known local education institutions. The history of Lead City University dates back to 2005, and in less than 15 since it was launched, the University evolved a lot. Right now it charges ₦625,000 intuition. 

9. Babcock University, Ogun State

Babcock University is part of the Seventh-day Adventist educational system, which means the high education costs are not the only reason why it may not be your cup of tea. The University has been operating since 1999 and currently has the tuition fee of ₦780,000. 

8. Bowen University, Ogun State

Another representative of Ogun State, Bowen University is known as the First Baptist University in Africa. Bowen University was opened in 2002 and has thousands of former and current students. Bowen University is a very well-equipped institution and charges ₦950,000 intuition.

7. Covenant University, Ogun State

Ogun State appears to be one of the leaders of the prestigious education industry in Nigeria. Covenant University is closely associated with the Living Faith Church worldwide and is part of numerous associations. Covenant University always scores high positions in university ratings of Nigeria and has the tuition fee of ₦1.2 million. 

6. Benson Idahosa University, Benin City

The Benson Idahosa University is a Christian institution that was launched in 1993. One of its standout features is the membership in the United States National Academy of Inventors, which no other African university has managed to achieve. You need to pay ₦1.5 million in tuition to study there.

5. Afe Babalola University, Ado-Ekiti

The Afe Babalola University is one of the youngest Nigerian universities, being launched only in 2009. In addition to six popular education programmes, this University is also known for its modern and good-looking campus. A tuition fee of ₦1.8 million is required to study there. 

4. American University Of Nigeria, Adamawa State

The name of the American University already attracts a lot of students looking for high education standards, but the fact that it’s the only American-style university in Sub-Saharan Africa is an even bigger reason to want to study there. Founded by Atiku Abubakar in 2004, the American University charges its students ₦2 million intuition.

3. Pan-Atlantic University, Lagos

One of the few Lagos institutions on this list, the Pan-Atlantic University was founded in 1991 as the Lagos Business School. Since then, the University has evolved into one of the most coveted private schools in Lagos, but the tuition fee of ₦2.5 million can be hardly called affordable. 

2. Baze University, Abuja

For Abuja locals and students from other states, Baze University is one of the dream schools with an international staff, outstanding campus, and high teaching standards. For a tuition fee of ₦3.1 million, you can also experience the joys of studying in Baze University. 

1. Nile University, Abuja

The full name of Nile University is Nigerian Turkish Nile University, which should already give you some idea on what this school is all about. Launched in 1998, this University showed tremendous growth. It is now the most expensive University in Nigeria with a tuition fee of ₦5.7 million. 

SOURCE:https://brandspurng.com/2019/09/21/top-10-most-expensive-universities-in-nigeria/

Writercruze:
Do you know that most Nigerian girls have 4 boyfriends? Apologies to the ladies, but it’s the reality we find ourselves when dating a Nigerian lady. According to a Nigerian Lady; Arc Lala, girls in Nigeria have four boyfriends. They will have a boo, bestie, bighead, and Shugga Daddy.

Most Nigerian Girls Have These Four Boyfriends


Bestie

Most Nigeria girls have a bestie. In fact, besties are serious distraction to relationship or marriage. Many healthy relationships have ended because of besties in the equation.

A Bestie is either a childhood friend or a high school boyfriend. Trust me, most Nigerian girls are more fond of this person than their real guy. In fact, they can share any secret with him and most times they can’t marry him. A bestie can be in a Nigerian girl’s room and she will come out of the shower naked.

When your girlfriend wants to prove to you that he can say without you for 6 months, she goes to bestie for attention and other things. Sadly, most Nigerian ladies usually cheat on their marriage or relationship with a bestie. In fact, ‘in Nigeria, bestie dey shift pant. Bestie cannot make heaven’.

Boo

Boo is the official boyfriend. He’s the one they post their pictures on social media. Usually, he’s financially balanced and takes care of little needs. Every Nigeria lady is hoping that her Boo will propose and give palm-wine to her village people.

Sometimes, Boos is the beneficiary of Shuga daddy’s generosity. Boo will make heaven…

Bighead

Bighead is the innocent guy who loves them and is ready to spend on them. Nigerian girls see this guy as ATM and will always like to tease him with some funny names like bighead and other names that will make him feel involved. But deep down he has no place in their head. In a nutshell, bighead is what Nigerian girls popularly called ‘Maga’.

But when bestie and boo disappoints, Bighead is always a last resort. The Bighead is also the one they ask to keep quiet when their phone rings and they never get to taste from the honey pot.

Interestingly, bighead never gets angry as he hopes that she might reciprocate his love someday. Surprisingly, most Nigerian girls will save bighead number as fool, idiot, mum, Gtbank, etc.

Shuga Daddy


Most girls in Abuja have a shuga daddy. He’s the one they call Zaddy. He’s their financier uncle and the real maga. He takes them for trips to Dubai and Ghana. He is the one who calls her even at midnight and she will leave you with your konji.

Whenever Zaddy calls, she must answer as he pays for house rent, DSTV sub, school fees, Christmas shopping. When she has a police case or landlord harassment, the first person she calls is her Zaddy. And whenever she is with Zaddy, her phone is either on silent or airplane mode. Trust me, Shuga daddy can never make heaven.

Guys is the volume okay?

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/do-you-know-that-most-nigerian-girls-have-4-boyfriends-by-arc-lala/

13ShadesOfMay:
In 1966, the book Human Sexual Response examined 100 women and took an average length, in various states of arousal. They ranged from 2.8-3.1 inches unaroused, 3.7-4.1 inches when aroused, and 4.3-4.7 inches when aroused and with a speculum inserted.

Some research addressed from Columbia that suggests 3-4 inches, but it turns out the issue is perhaps more complex.

But it left us with a question: how deep is a vagina?