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Strugglingman:
thats nice ...success on your up coming MB

Thank you very much.

Strugglingman:
whot level are you now ?

300L

shawante:
Well your classmates can't really say if the first or second semester is better until they have written the exams and passed.

All the same I wish you success ahead of your 2nd mbbs

What sch do you attend?

It's a private uni

shawante:
Well I wouldn't really say that they didn't know what they were into sha.. I'll rather say it it overconfidence probably due to their good performance in 100 level.

BTW have you written your 2nd mbbs

Not yet

shawante:
Reminds me of when my sister got admitted..(just got inducted about a week ago) 100 level was easy breezy until she got to pre-clinicals.. Anatomy and biochem really did a number on her(I think she even had to resist Anatomy sef)

Personally I think pre-clinicals is the hardest part in mbbs journey. Maybe cuz students typically do well in 100 level and think it'll be that easy all the way.

But if you can scale through pre-clinicals without a glitch the rest of the journey wouldn't be that much of a problem

I don't think that it was easy it's just that they didn't really know what they were in for....I remember how everyone in my set were saying our second semester of 2nd year preclinical was better than the first bcs now they had better ground compared to the first.

Jidemoo:
Tears of joy

When I was a teenager,I do sleep in my poultry house when the chicks are within 1 day - 1week just to watch how they eat and always move the lantern close to the ones that feels cold.

Lovely

I was teaching a little kid about skin infections like eczema and then she asked me if satan could have eczema....I didn't even know what to say or laugh.

This reminds me of the experience I had when I bought bread from school and the bread had a big stone inside,
which unfortunately broke my tooth.

robortonia:
USE VOODOO

9JA DON CASTE

NO TIME TO CHECK TIME

What's voodoo?

ahnie:
Blending the sounds right?

Yes

StayMotivated:
When next you see her greet her. If she does not respond tell her I'm greeting you.

Lol...the kind of soul piercing stare she looks at me with eh I no fot talk pim

Kaypeeboss:
Don't rush them after teaching them try giving them some time before asking them to give you what you taught them then also try to do associative teaching use very similar examples... teaching no easy that's y the reward dae heaven

No be small...me i donne tire because nobody told me I would be taking a primary school class that can't read because their scheme of work is well planned and is for reading students.

Kaybae:
first teach her letter A_Z in phonics, then start two letter words using phonics, honestly it's the easiest way to teach children how to read, my 4 years old daughter is very good at that, though phonics is being used in their school, infact, they will personally tell parents to learn that A_Z in order not to mislead the children when given Homework.

They all know the phonics sound but most of them ant apply it to real use.

ahnie:
That's where phonics comes into play.
secondly too,how you handle and interacts with them matters too.

My son is 4 yrs old he reads excellently well.he reads the Bible too without aids.

Wow...they know their phonics sounds, theyeven sing it too but their problem is application.

viettastitches:
Get different flashcards with the sounds of the alphabet on them, and try to make them see blending sounds as a fun game. Stop teaching them to cram 2 and 3 letter words. That method is outdated.

Okay thanks I'll try doing that

I am also having this kind of problem with d kids I teach.Most of them are 5-6yrs old and are trying in reading but the ones that are 8yrs cannot pronounce two letter words...I dont even know what todoagain because I have tried all I know.

I took up a teaching job offer from a family member to work in his school ( the proprietor) because I am on long holiday, so I decided I to earn extra cash.

I was assigned to teach in the primary section. As a new staff I didn't really socialize with other staffs, I usually stayed on my own. I also didn't tell anyone that the owner of the school was related to me because I didn't want anyone to think I was underqualified or something.

So one morning, the principal called me and told me I should learn to greet people because some staff jokingly told her that I don't greet. I didn't argue with her and I immediately knew who it was. There was one woman who never responds to my greeting and she always gives me a stern look(impossible to impress her). Since then I usually avoid that lady.
I need to know how to tackle the situation because I don't want to have a bad impression on my family member.

Cerebellum:
I still wonder how people get attached easily to either the same sex or opposite

Stop being too entangled and get tfoutta here!

Working on it, hopefully I'll completely forget about her.

Hamzasaid:
I know that kind that of felling when some one starts to avoid u

@1 it happens when people get tired of your excessive presence and don't value ur availability to them.......
when dey realize that they are only the person that u cling to and have no other friends......they become subtile

@2 she doing that will only bring her down top male course mate that has no friends that's a big lie u can't make it their without help from some friends..(I once had that mentality in school but I realized it won't end well, u don't only go to school to study but to make connections that can help u in the future.....u never know wats tomorrow)....u can't know or understand it all in one way or the other u will need help in one or two courses MBBS for that matter.
My advice::: out perform the top male course it may be though though but with dilligence and consistency u will make it.....forget abt her, mark my words when u don't bother abt her ur friend will come on her own . Adios

Your first point makes alot of sense.....all my life I've always had the idea of being friendly to everyone and have only one friend but now I've learnt not to get attached or even have expectations of people.

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Nonsense goals

Shiioorr![..]

Good

[quote author=Hahjascho post=103540739]Alot of things happen in school...and relationship is best enjoyed when not forced.


Lols....just move on, all these feelings won't matter in some months to come.

Make sure she doesn't out-perform you in your studies.

That makes alot of sense and I also thought about it too. Thank you.

[quote author=Hahjascho post=103540739]Alot of things happen in school...and relationship is best enjoyed when not forced.


Lols....just move on, all these feelings won't matter in some months to come.

Make sure she doesn't out-perform you in your studies.

[quote author=anthonyuncle post=103489431]she is indirectly telling you the you are a misfit for her.

give her her space, and move on with your life[I guess so..tnks]

I'm new on nairaland and I need advice urgently (heard from a friend that good advice are shared on this platform)
I am a 200L medical student. I have a female friend who I got to know in year one and we did everything together, I even started staying over in her room for us to read. She was all one could need in a friend.
In our 200L first semester she started giving attitude but we reconciled. Now she decided to cut off from me saying she isn't someone who makes friends and she plans to be overly ambitious this semester and extra.
This has left me heartbroken and I feel like the world has come to an end because I'm so attached to her. I even asked her if I was the problem and she said no, rather she said the problem was from her and she was comparing her self to our top Male course mates who had no friends.
Any serious advice on how to move on from here because I'm so depressed and have lost appetite for everything I loved doing.
Ps: I'm female.