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Family / Re: I Feel Like Running Away From My Marriage by Greystone: 11:48am On Feb 08
funkmrflexx:
I've been married close to 4 years now with a 2 year old boy, but marriage isn't what I envisioned it to be.

Like the said, if marriage was renewable every 5 years, I wouldn't even bother. I feel like I'm losing myself to this thing called marriage, aside from the responsibilities that comes with providing, the mental and psychological stress.

I've never been this stressed in my life and I'm someone who's usually able to handle a lot of stress, I just feel like I need time alone from everything and everyone, no calls, no text. Nothing.

And my wife even makes it worse with threats of leaving the marriage over any small issue. I think the biggest mistake of my life is getting married and I know a lot go men go through this to but they can't talk.

And that's why a lot of men die young these days.


Sincerely, marriage is difficult. Extremely difficult.
I've been going through similar stress for the past one year. I don't know how many times I contemplated killing myself. At a point, the only things that prevented me was the thought that my unborn child would grow up without a father, and my child would be narrated a big lie about how her father gave up before she was born.
If I had known that this was how marriage would be like, nothing would have made me marry.
Sincerely.
My advise is, don't give up. Your wife may be harsh and say all manner of nonsense, but your innocent child needs you.

To the single ones, I strongly advise you, don't marry anyone to please your parents, marry someone that is good for you and who is your friend.
Don't marry anyone who does not understand you and who you don't understand.

Guys, Make sure your finances are in order before you marry. Women will tell you "don't worry we will manage" but the same woman will insult you after marriage if you can't meet up with your responsibilities.

Dont take any loan before you marry. If you can't afford something, tell your future wife that you can't afford it. If she can't handle this, she should go. Call it off. Your life will be miserable if debt repayments are crippling you after your wedding.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: President Trump Halts $900 Million To South Africa For HIV/AIDS Support. by Greystone: 9:35am On Jan 22
Very good for them. More of that.

SA took Israel to court

You hate me, you hate my friends, but you want to keep collecting my money.

No Aid for you.

HIV kill una there.
Forum Games / Re: Will You Spin This If Given The Opportunity? by Greystone: 3:34pm On Jan 20
Very well sef.
Immediately
1 in 7 chance of death is ok
Technology Market / Re: Use Macbook Pro For Sale by Greystone: 11:41am On Jan 17
What year model is this?
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Greystone: 11:36am On Jan 17
Brimstone77:
Hi guys,I have been dating this girl for about 5months now.

Two weeks ago,she travelled out of the country,2days before she travelled we had a protected sex,and that day happens to be the last day she's seeing her period, too..

Today she chatted me telling that the company she went to work for did a pregnancy test and it came out positive..

N:B she did a pregnancy test before she travelled and it came out negative..

We had sex (with condoms)on second January this year,and she travelled on 4 January this year,she said the test was done on over there on the 14th..

Right now I don't know what to do,what are the possibilities that she can get pregnant on the last day of her menstrual period and also a protected sex too..

I need your advice please!

Admins please do the needful!

You dont need to consult an Oracle to know that you are not responsible for that pregnancy.

Tell her that you will have a DNA test to confirm its your child if not better run from that olosho

A DNA test can be done abroad (don't know if there are facilities in Naija) as soon as 8 weeks of pregnancy.

Don't be a fool and don't be a sucker
Health / Re: Handsome Man Commits Suicide After Video Of Him Masturbating Goes Viral (Photos) by Greystone: 5:30pm On Jan 15
GistMedia0:
He was married and had a newborn baby, making his actions all the more surprising and difficult to understand. cry

If you are not married and your wife is pregnant or recently delivered, you can never understand

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Romance / Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Greystone: 11:35am On Dec 03, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.


Marriage is Extremely overrated.
Romance / Re: To The Guys About To Get Married by Greystone: 11:28am On Nov 24, 2024
Sincerely, I have nothing more to add.

As a man, zero your mind that your wife's job is to make you happy or else you will be sorely dissapointed.

All those yeye RnB love songs na scam.

If you can't be patient, tolerant, persevering and willing to not be appreciated, don't get married as a man.

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Family / Re: Not Getting Enough Sex From My Wife by Greystone: 3:26pm On Nov 21, 2024
Lol.
I don't even fuss about it.
Religion / Re: Should The Pastor Forgive His Cheating Wife And Baltasar? by Greystone: 4:43pm On Nov 12, 2024
If you were the pastor will you forgive your whorinng wife and accept both off them back?
People know how to ask the most stoopid questions on this forum I swear.
Romance / Re: See The Laptop My Side Chick Gave Me As A Birthday Gift by Greystone: 5:35pm On Nov 03, 2024
This is what I need for work.
This life
Travel / Re: Why I Now Have A 'japa' Plan (even Though I Love Naija) by Greystone: 8:41pm On Oct 28, 2024
Over 90% of my friends are in the UK , US, Middle East or Australia.
I also didn't have a japa mindset until recently.
Naija will make you suicidall.
In 2 years time max, I pray to review this post with an addendum from abroad.

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Family / Re: Will My Life Get Better When I Got Married? by Greystone: 6:51pm On Oct 21, 2024
Your life will be 100 times harder from the moment you marry.
I'm writing from experience
If you like, don't believe me...

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Business / Re: GTBank Suffers Service Disruption; Customers Lament by Greystone: 7:46pm On Oct 14, 2024
Has normalcy been returned?
GT do me shege today kai mennnn...
Forum Games / Re: You Mistakenly Picked This Wrong Luggage At The Airport, Your Next Step (picx) by Greystone: 12:52am On Aug 24, 2024
Damian911:
Starting a fresh in either Benin Republic or a very remote and peaceful region in Nigeria

There's over $3m cash in that bag and with that amount, you still want to remain in Nigeria
Forum Games / Re: You Mistakenly Picked This Wrong Luggage At The Airport, Your Next Step (picx) by Greystone: 12:43am On Aug 24, 2024
Honestly, with the current situation of things, resisting the temptation to keep this is beyond me
Romance / Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by Greystone: 11:01am On Aug 21, 2024
I got married early this year.
Trust me when I say that marriage is not easy at all.
A man's patience and finances are stretched to near-breaking point

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Romance / Re: Lady Who Used To Be The Ugliest Girl In School Shares Her Transformation Journey by Greystone: 9:34pm On Jul 26, 2024
She was never ugly.
Just slimmer with simpler clothes
Romance / Re: If You Know This British Comedian And The Wife ,then You Are A Legend by Greystone: 7:21pm On Jul 22, 2024
Frank Spencer and his lovely wife Betty from the series "Some Mothers do Have Them"

Crazy destructive annoying fellow 🙄

My late Aunt had the collection back in the early 80s. God rest your soul Aunty.

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Nairaland / General / Re: If You Know This Toy, You Are A Methusela by Greystone: 8:31pm On Jun 28, 2024
alienvirus:
Flying fan toy with pull string

Where can I buy it again.

Hmmm....
The spring of this old toy used to spoil anyhow...lol...
Good times

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Celebrities / Re: Davido & Chioma Jet Out Of Nigeria After Their Amazing Wedding Ceremony (Video)) by Greystone: 8:52am On Jun 27, 2024
edani:
Money stops nonsense

Truer words were never spoken

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Science/Technology / Re: 2 U.S Astronauts Are Stranded In Space After Spacecraft Breaks Down (Photos) by Greystone: 9:32pm On Jun 24, 2024
Chinjo2:
Abeg make them kuku just relax there. This earth no easy again o

As long as food dey inside de spacecraft abi 😏
Career / Re: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by Greystone: 10:02pm On Jun 08, 2024
kingmekus:

Yes

Is June's payslip out?

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