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Smash all of them GOT women.All of them fine

You will never know the value of money until you have none.

Ask all married men how many women they love more than their wife. Dey dere dey play.

thinkmoney:
Na aggressive hustler

Extremely aggressive hustler oh

"Poverty-shaming" is actually a poor man's/ poor woman's mentality

Funniest NL post I've seen this 2025 lol....

yarimo:
where are pictures and videos to back up your claims?

Lmao...

Speak for yourself man

WTF

Samantha125:
Why wait when you can get yourselves a side dudes to keep you well fed? It's not like the husbands are faithful wherever they are...🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

Hmmm

Samantha125:
Then we should change our marriage status into an open marriage... We agree to stay married to each other while seeing other people on the side and make it a no strings attached type of a situation.

What do you think?😃😃😃

This takes a large amount of emotional maturity and honesty that very few people have

OP, you won't understand if you aren't married.
I didn't until I married last year.
I haven’t cheated nor will I cheat on my wife but I now see why married men cheat.
Marital stresses can cause quarrels and fights between spouses, and you can both not feel like doing it.
Your pregnant wife will hav all sorts of mood swings and health issues
Either of you can lose a loved one
Being broke as a husband and not being able to provide some needs will make your wife lock up
The list is endless

All are bad options
No be by force to marry

Fried turkey or chicken

1.8m

funkmrflexx:
I've been married close to 4 years now with a 2 year old boy, but marriage isn't what I envisioned it to be.

Like the said, if marriage was renewable every 5 years, I wouldn't even bother. I feel like I'm losing myself to this thing called marriage, aside from the responsibilities that comes with providing, the mental and psychological stress.

I've never been this stressed in my life and I'm someone who's usually able to handle a lot of stress, I just feel like I need time alone from everything and everyone, no calls, no text. Nothing.

And my wife even makes it worse with threats of leaving the marriage over any small issue. I think the biggest mistake of my life is getting married and I know a lot go men go through this to but they can't talk.

And that's why a lot of men die young these days.

Sincerely, marriage is difficult. Extremely difficult.
I've been going through similar stress for the past one year. I don't know how many times I contemplated killing myself. At a point, the only things that prevented me was the thought that my unborn child would grow up without a father, and my child would be narrated a big lie about how her father gave up before she was born.
If I had known that this was how marriage would be like, nothing would have made me marry.
Sincerely.
My advise is, don't give up. Your wife may be harsh and say all manner of nonsense, but your innocent child needs you.

To the single ones, I strongly advise you, don't marry anyone to please your parents, marry someone that is good for you and who is your friend.
Don't marry anyone who does not understand you and who you don't understand.

Guys, Make sure your finances are in order before you marry. Women will tell you "don't worry we will manage" but the same woman will insult you after marriage if you can't meet up with your responsibilities.

Dont take any loan before you marry. If you can't afford something, tell your future wife that you can't afford it. If she can't handle this, she should go. Call it off. Your life will be miserable if debt repayments are crippling you after your wedding.

Very good for them. More of that.

SA took Israel to court

You hate me, you hate my friends, but you want to keep collecting my money.

No Aid for you.

HIV kill una there.

Very well sef.
Immediately
1 in 7 chance of death is ok

What year model is this?

Brimstone77:
Hi guys,I have been dating this girl for about 5months now.

Two weeks ago,she travelled out of the country,2days before she travelled we had a protected sex,and that day happens to be the last day she's seeing her period, too..

Today she chatted me telling that the company she went to work for did a pregnancy test and it came out positive..

N:B she did a pregnancy test before she travelled and it came out negative..

We had sex (with condoms)on second January this year,and she travelled on 4 January this year,she said the test was done on over there on the 14th..

Right now I don't know what to do,what are the possibilities that she can get pregnant on the last day of her menstrual period and also a protected sex too..

I need your advice please!

Admins please do the needful!

You dont need to consult an Oracle to know that you are not responsible for that pregnancy.

Tell her that you will have a DNA test to confirm its your child if not better run from that olosho

A DNA test can be done abroad (don't know if there are facilities in Naija) as soon as 8 weeks of pregnancy.

Don't be a fool and don't be a sucker

GistMedia0:
He was married and had a newborn baby, making his actions all the more surprising and difficult to understand.

If you are not married and your wife is pregnant or recently delivered, you can never understand

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

Marriage is Extremely overrated.

Sincerely, I have nothing more to add.

As a man, zero your mind that your wife's job is to make you happy or else you will be sorely dissapointed.

All those yeye RnB love songs na scam.

If you can't be patient, tolerant, persevering and willing to not be appreciated, don't get married as a man.

Lol.
I don't even fuss about it.

If you were the pastor will you forgive your whorinng wife and accept both off them back?
People know how to ask the most stoopid questions on this forum I swear.

This is what I need for work.
This life

Over 90% of my friends are in the UK , US, Middle East or Australia.
I also didn't have a japa mindset until recently.
Naija will make you suicidall.
In 2 years time max, I pray to review this post with an addendum from abroad.

Your life will be 100 times harder from the moment you marry.
I'm writing from experience
If you like, don't believe me...

Has normalcy been returned?
GT do me shege today kai mennnn...

Damian911:
Starting a fresh in either Benin Republic or a very remote and peaceful region in Nigeria

There's over $3m cash in that bag and with that amount, you still want to remain in Nigeria