Crime › Re: How True Are The Stories Of Girls Being Used By Yahoo Boys For Ritual? by GTCO: 7:14pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
MajorGeneraILaw: Wow. What becomes the fate of men who sleep with them? I have been trying to fight that addiction with little success. Wait! Major general dey fight .. u soppose dey win |
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Career › What (or Who) Is My Big Why For Living? by GTCO(op): 6:34pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
What (or Who) is my big why for living?
I want to be a Grandpa and Dad that is present in the lives of my children and their children and live close so that I get called upon to do baby-sitting and host backyard BBQs.
You see 20 years ago I made a terrible decision to pursue a high paying job on the opposite coast. I moved 3000 miles away and it put a chasm between me and my kids. I had chosen a career over family after being divorced. I achieved a modest level of success but lost contact with my family. Or rather they lost contact with me.
Five years ago I had several medical problems (bipolar) that lost me my contracting career. I just could not keep up with the time demands in my current condition. I lived on my savings. After my retirement was spent, I took a job in retail. It pays the bills but it won’t allow me to move and be near my kids.
When I got sick I made it my number one task to reconnect with my two daughters. My relationship has improved as the last five years I used phone calls and facetime to rebuild trust and a rapport with each of my daughters. Now they want me in their lives again and I need a way to make sure I am there for them now.
I want the freedom to move and travel whenever I want to be closer to each of my daughters. One of my daughters is now pregnant. I want to be there but my current situation won’t allow it. Becoming a writer will give me the income and freedom to travel and be present in their lives. It is something I can do on my own timeframe and from anywhere in the world.
After one phone call my oldest daughter said, “It sure is nice to have a Dad again”. I wanted to hug her but I couldn’t. That is when I decided that something had to change.
I am searching for ways I can support myself and move so I can give the hugs and be a Dad, and Grandpa that they need and love |
Crime › Re: Man Caught Smuggling Rice In A Car Bumper In Ogun by GTCO: 12:17am On Aug 16, 2021 |
ednut1: all economic saboteurs should be jailed Hmmmm |
Crime › Re: Lala Onwukwe Found 2 Weeks After She Went Missing In Port Harcourt by GTCO: 12:15am On Aug 16, 2021 |
ValCon888: The rate at which these little girls dey collect preek dey make me weak. Preek sweet |
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Celebrities › Re: Timaya Celebrates His 41st Birthday (Photo) by GTCO: 11:50pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Birthday boy |
Family › Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by GTCO: 11:32pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Reading |
Politics › Re: South And Middle Belt Braceup For Full Scale Terrorist Invasion. by GTCO: 11:06pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
So what are you doing about it OP? What changes are you working towards to avert this? |
Family › Re: Can A Man Stay Sexually Satisfied With His Wife? by GTCO: 10:55pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
1 single sexual partner is boring |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: FRSC Recruitment 2021/2022 - How to Apply by GTCO: 10:48pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
If you are experiencing this issue in the picture below I can help you with your registration for a little token
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TV/Movies › Re: Arin Evicted From The Big Brother House by GTCO: 9:31pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Dagger111: Werey leele yi o. Wetin she do bawo? She go steal meat chop ni.  |
Politics › Re: Walking Stick: How Buhari Killed Tinubu Presidential Ambition(photos) by GTCO: 9:05pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Arin Evicted From The Big Brother House by GTCO: 7:28pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Wetin she do |
Politics › Re: The Real Truth About The Travellers Killed In Jos by GTCO: 7:22pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
IbileIfe: I have sent this account of what happened to Al Jazeera. They asked for proof of the guns in the coffins, otherwise it is fake news to change the narrative. I don't trust the op narrative |
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Culture › Re: More Pictures From The Osun Osogbo 2021 Grand Finale by GTCO: 9:02am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Cool picture |
Politics › Re: Note To IPOB by GTCO: 8:50am On Aug 15, 2021 |
All this one naa story. Let the war happen first. Don't be a coward |
Romance › Re: I Beat Up A Married Man In Front Of His Wife And Daughter's by GTCO: 8:34am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Righteousness2: In this Perilous times, be careful to avoid any sort of Fight. Some persons are walking corpses, Looking for who to put in trouble or send to jail for their death. Since they will go to heaven, no whalala now. Abi you don't want corpses to go to heaven |
Business › Re: New Tactics Of P.O.S Operators by GTCO: 8:31am On Aug 15, 2021 |
YoungBlackRico: You keep coming up with dumb and stupid stories in a bid to sell whatever it you dey market. Deception! The more reason your said 'safe' should not be trusted by any reasonable person. Idiala!  |
Romance › Re: Islamic Ruling On Eating Pounded Yam by GTCO(op): 8:17am On Aug 15, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Everything You Said by GTCO: 8:07am On Aug 15, 2021*. Modified: 8:44am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Oga but in one of your threads, you confirmed to have built a house.... Which nairalanders even supported you with hundreds of thousands of naira. It's just that I can't find the thread again.
People that are giving you money here on nairaland don't even have their own personal houses yet
You and this botrix post is a carefully orchestrated scam being used to milk those who are Willing to listen. |
Romance › Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by GTCO: 8:05am On Aug 15, 2021 |
HenryDion: Japa now that you have the chance... This is a huge red flag that shouldn't be ignored! Even as a girlfriend there is no woman that doesn't nag. Every woman on Earth nags, it's even worse when she is married. @Op make her understand categorically that you despise someone trying to manipulate you by crying and talking at the same time.. tell her you will need a break from the relationship... (Just to strike sense in her brain) But don't dump her... Every woman nags |
Romance › Re: Purpose Of Dick Slapping by GTCO: 7:56am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Hollicom: Hey fellas,
Please what’s the purpose of the dick slapping on top of the pussy before sex? Does it mean, it deleted previous settings? Cos I am not understanding....� Courtesy demands you know on a door before you enter a door  |
Romance › Re: You Ask A Lady Out But She Bluntly Asks "Do You Want To Have Sex? by GTCO: 7:32pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Lol |
Politics › Re: Igbos Have Suffered In Nigeria ; Imagine Ordinary Seun Osewa Talking To Us by GTCO: 6:43pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
banom: I read [s]seun's twit today where he openly said he wants IPOB to fail and advised that Igbos will fair better If they stayed in Nigeria. After reading it, i told myself we Igbos have really suffered. Imagine ordinary small boy like seun can now openly talk to us and tell us what will be good for us. ( As we don't know what is good for us ) Of course, I know the real reason he is praying hard and wishing that BIAFRA don't come is that his nairaland.com will likely die away as every component part will create their own discussion forum and leave the issue of Nigeria. The survival of nairaland.com depends on the continued existence of Nigeria. But seun sorry to disappoint you, IPOB will not fail, and Biafra will come, and Nigeria will break into pieces and your nairaland.com will become irrelevant and forgotten. Deal with it. .. nonsense.[/s] Capital THRASH |
Romance › Re: You Ask A Lady Out But She Bluntly Asks "Do You Want To Have Sex? by GTCO: 4:33pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Polynek: Pls make person help me, I hv been using Opera mini to browse NAIRALAND since I opened d account, but now I want to brouse it 2tru Chrome, is not responding, they said I shud loging I did and they said wrong password, pls can anyone direct me on what to do? I don't want to hv 2 moniker Lol this is ridiculous. You opened this MONIKER in 2021 and already know how to make a post  so this your question get as e be |
Romance › Re: Islamic Ruling On Eating Pounded Yam by GTCO(op): 2:42pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
thatsleepboy1: Oh Lord my father. I no fit laugh abeg. Make them no shift am go hisllam thread biki I just want to know |
Education › Re: Whatever The Case, Never Ever Study These Courses by GTCO: 2:07pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Herdsmen technology
Cow management |
Health › Re: My HIV Test Result - The Shock Of My Life by GTCO: 2:04pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Try to be positive. It's good to be positive |
Romance › Re: Why Are Nigerian Women Unfaithful In Relationships? by GTCO: 9:42am On Aug 13, 2021 |
fati2001: nah so are you a bot ? I have never seen this your moniker make any sensible post |