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Big daddy, Buhari, please job creation is needed ooooooo... We seriously need job to get our time used on something more profitable and USEFUL

cut007:
u see, dat is what differentiates us from cowards like u. Whilst u r comfortable slaving away to a man dat should ordinarily be under u, we on d other hand believe and are striving for equality, freedom, justice, meritocracy no matter wat it takes, knowing fully well dat freedom is the only true measure of success. In a sane country, dat ur senile dullard leader would probably be just a shoe maker or a 'duo-duo' tailor. I know my postulations might be beyond u, take it as my contribution to humanity. Hypocrisy never pays!! I pity d ofe-mmanus in d long run.

ID10T!!!

Pity your clan!!!

emusmith:
Drawn from your thoughts tho...

Goodluck then

emusmith:
Deceptive/ gullible girls be like...

Your thought tho....

Essence of this thread?

Why FP?

If you see Nigerian Flag come think sey na Green light... You're On Your Own if Lastma catch you

Haywhymido:
u jst been silly. ibo man or woman cant never govern dat state, u can never take dat ownership right away frm d yoruba. dont force yoruba to send u packing. u r still living freely in d state because yoruba r peace loving people.

That guy is pooing from his nose... No mind him

chuna1985:
Are u sure that u have been to Lagos

It is indeed a part of Nigeria n every citizen have the right to live there.

It can't be called Yoruba land because Yoruba land is not even spoken there.

It was Nigeria's capital for over 30 years n thus has attracted Tens of millions of people from different tribes into it.

Ogun, osun n their likes are considered Yoruba land.




BUT AS FOR LAGOS, ITS NO MANS LAND.

Go get little brain...


Lagos na Biafra state... Abuja na Yorubaland.... Calabar an Fulani state....

Waste of FP thread

Give it to this woman!!!

May her soul find peace with God Almighty...

excel4us:
PMB IS HEARTLESS AND AN DEMOCRAT.HE IS EXERCISING ADMINISTRATION OF HATE.NOT EVEN ONE SOUTH EASTERNER.SUCH HARD HANDEDNESS TO NDI-IGBO IS ONLY MAKING US STRONG.NDEWO!

#smh

abbey621:
Spending years as a military ruler and coming back as a democratically elected president is not the same thing. In a democracy, there are lots of things which must be put in place by all the major stakeholders. Now let's move on to campaign promises; only an ignorant person would actually believe that GMB would achieve all the promises made while campaigning, politicians all over the world make promises all the time and most hardly fulfill 50% of it, most people didn't vote for GMB so that he can make $1 to 1 Naira or pay unemployed youths 5,000 naira. Most people voted for him because we trust his character and realize even a Buhari that's successful only 50% of the time is better than 4 plus years of GEJ. Finally Buhari has 4 years to fulfill the promise of eradicating Boko Haram, I personally would give him at least a year, I am not deluded or ignorant to believe a terrorist group with ties to ISIS can be crushed within 2 months, only gullible people would believe such fantasies!

God bless you...

Following the thread created earlier on When do lovers lie? (https://www.nairaland.com/2423654/when-lovers-lie#35430648), It now boils down to Why on earth do we have to lie to those we 'claimed' to love so much?

Why do husbands, wives, boyfriends and girlfriends lie to each other?

It’s not pleasant to think about being betrayed by someone you love. No one likes to think that a husband or wife may be lying, especially not in their own relationship.

And it’s probably safe to assume that everyone wants a close, romantic relationship that is built on openness, intimacy and trust.

But despite our best intentions, our close relationships do not always work that way. Often, our romantic relationships involve some secrecy and deception.

[size=16pt]So, why do people lie to those they love?[/size]

cc Ishilove

Jacksparrow0712:
Every time I have to cover previous lies. Lol
I lie to her anytime I have to

On what ground do you lie? Why covering up lies with lies? It's like applying vegetable oil trying to remove Palm-oil.

jpsmart:
yeah for sure, if he true love you, he will keep to you even without using dose fetish tricks on him.....keep it up dear.

Oshey!

Tallesty1:
lols...... Right on point.


My old man said, If you have 50k and you wife ask you how much you have.


Tell her it is 20k



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Your Old Man teaching you how to lie? #smh

vizkiz:
yes! On point!

Don't tell your girlfriend your specific salary. Just give her s low one...if you are making 90k, tell her its 40...you'v gatta lie about that bro

She might end up screwing someone collecting 60k. I pity you...

zealot4me:
When i go out with a male friend that my bf doesn't like...I be like am at home

That's not genuine enough though buh you still try respecting him

sirthisthickkal:
when I just receive my monthly salary.

Chai! you haff finished us...

cc: pinkycute, aminat508, eniqurl, ishilove, jollyjoy, oyind17, midehi.....

falconey:
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You're on point saying the truth... Buh how would you take it if you found you spouse doing same? Please, be sincere

vfactor:
The question is, why should I lie?

Are you saying you've never lied in a relationship?

boboLIL:
Mine is Definitely w0rkin applyin d0s p0ints

I'm glad you're a living testimony of that.
Thanks

Certain aspects of our romantic relationships and common situations seem to bring out the worst in our behavior.

Many individuals are more likely to lie when romantic partners or spouses ask a lot of pointed questions, have issues with intimacy, set unrealistic expectations, or react poorly to the truth.

When do YOU have to lie is a relationship?

Jollyjoy:
As a warning signal to oda gurls, bt some gals are just so daft, dat even after seeing a lady pant there,they won"t take it serious! At oda times it could be a sign claiming ownership of the man house..

I bet you do such aswel....

On what ground would I have done such? If he likes, let him play around...

IyaIode:
You for sleep in danfo na

Even if he's to put me on his head, I'd gladly take it...

For the most part, people want the same thing from a romantic partner. People want spouses and partners who are:

Understanding
Appreciative
Respectful
Caring and kind
Helpful
Trustworthy
Positive
Fun to be around

Relationships are difficult to maintain when they are filled with conflict, negativity and a lack of trust.

So, what does it take to maintain a healthy relationship?

People in long-term, satisfying relationships tend to do the following:

Slow, but Consistent – Relationships work the best when people go slow and take their time getting to know each other. Whirlwind romances usually end in disaster. It also helps to be consistently supportive and encouraging. Inconsistent behavior causes misunderstandings and uncertainty.

Keep Things Upbeat – Relationships work the best when partners express a positive and upbeat attitude towards each other. Genuine displays of happiness and affection go a long way when trying to make a relationship work. By contrast, relationships fail when indifference, anger and negativity become the norm. In fact, even a little negativity can create a lot of problems in a close relationship. This does not mean that people cannot express negative feelings in a relationship, but that there are appropriate (and inappropriate) ways of dealing with one’s negative feelings.

Approach Problems Together – Couples feel closer and are more satisfied with their relationships when they approach problems and difficulties as a team. Couples who take an US versus the PROBLEM, rather than a YOU versus ME approach to conflict are much happier in the long run.

Don’t Take Each Other For Granted – Over time, couples typically take each other for granted. At the start of a relationship people appreciate all the things that their partners do for them. However, as time goes on, people tend to expect more, but acknowledge a partner’s contributions less often. To keep a relationship happy and healthy it is important to show appreciation on a consistent basis.

Appreciate Differences – Relationships work the best when partners have a lot in common, but respect and appreciate the differences that do exist. It helps to appreciate someone for who they are rather than try to change them or how they behave.

Keep Things Exciting and Fun - It is easy for couples to get stuck in a rut. Doing the same things over and over creates boredom. Falling into a routine limits conversations and it can take the fun out of life. Successful couples learn how to manage this dilemma by doing novel and exciting activities with each other as often as they can. Sharing novel and exciting experiences gives couples something to talk about and it keeps romance alive.

Be Approachable – People need to be able to talk freely with a romantic partner. Sharing what is going on in one’s life and how one feels about issues is important to do. But, being open with a partner is not always easy because it requires spouses to tell the truth and to LISTEN to things that may be difficult to hear. Listening in an attempt to UNDERSTAND, not control, evaluate, or judge is critical to having an satisfying relationship.

Express Commitment – Relationships work the best when partners reassure each other of their love and commitment. It never hurts to tell a spouse that you love him or her and that you will always be there.