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ObiOkpor:
Presco junction?

That's presco junction

you're her safety net. She'll always come to you when she's heart broken, you deserve More. Dnt get dragged into the same old circle. I'll advise you stop having sex with her, the sex thing will always make her think she has a hold on you which might be true. So tell her in simple english "babe we'll never get back together" if that does'nt do the magic, stop picking her calls or returning them unless you still want her.

thanks @ tricia77

gommex:
go to a good pharmacy and ask of oraxin syrup

i've taken oraxin before, did'nt help.

charix:
They would prove you're serious about gaining weight and not making noise like the other hundreds of nairalanders I waste precious time advising only to reopen the same thread a year later. Everyone also knows to prove weight loss or gain you start with before and after pictures so people know the claims made aren't lies. Did you not see princess's weight loss pictures that made frontpage?


Since you've finally admitted then my work here is done.

ok, i really think you are funny. I asked for advice on the kind of food to eat, sorry if i've offended you. My goal is not front page cos i believe i can still get the help i need without front page. Front page would only expose me to more persons like you who think i'm trying to gain attention. We might just be friends.

no i've not get given birth @ flashope. Thanks for your contributions

what will posting my pictures do or prove charix? Ok, i'm trying to get attention, i accept. Are u happy nw? When someone comes online to ask for help, i think it's better to help if you can, there is nothing wrong in lending a helping hand to ur fellow human. Thanks btw

what will posting my pictures do or prove charix? Ok, i'm trying to get attention, i accept. Are u happy nw?

chriskosherbal:
Well first check your gene, if is not then stick to fatty food.

talking abt gene, my parents are not fat bt my siblings are. I'm the odd one out.

yes i heard same abt gaining weight after child birth, thanks for ur contributions @ HaneefahRN

charix:
One thing I've learned is people who always say they want to add weight only say it to gain attention. You've been noticed, run along now.

u must be really sick in the head. There are easier ways to get attention, why would i do that complaining abt my health?

ivyT:
. u wanna add?but its so difficult and frustrating to lose it
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it's also difficult and frustrating to add, the highest i added was 1kg which i lost in less than a week.

thank you x240

how is tramadol going to do that please @ lasisi69

hello guys, i've been trying to add weight for sometime and it's not working. I've tried supplements, i try as much as possible to eat all the time even when i'm not hungry, and i really hate it. I tried calculating my BMI, and it indicates i'm underweight (was'nt surprised). So guys are there some special food i should eat cos my parents think i'm sick. Thanks

so June..

C and D

Op there'll be no forgiving for you. You've hurt 3 ladies who trusted you and loved you. The fact here is dat you'll be d one who will be losing at the end of the day. I can only imagine the grief and heart break dis ladies will feel when you decide to tell them the truth. I pray God gives them the grace to forgive you and peace of mind. Imagine a guy like you abt to break dis kinda news to your sister, whatever rage you'll feel, that's what their family is going to feel. As for advice, 1.u'll need to confess to all three of them 2.u need to ask God for forgiveness because only him can save you 3. As for getting married dis yr, u'll have to postpone it out of respect for the other ladies and to atleast give them time to heal. I pray u find peace.

well i think poking is like trying to kw if u're online and available to chat. People tend to missuse it sha.

Tori46:
It is only a phase, don't worry it will pass

thanks.

vicraven:
awwn,switie...been there,done that.The tears may come,but twill soon be over
he wasnt really meant for you...cheers!

thanks for your kind words

Mjshexy:
Your Destiny is never tied to any man or woman, just relax & let God lead u to your promised land where your peace awaits you love...

thanks

sickstars:
You will heal op
It gets to a point even u wont feel a thing

thank you

Michizzy:
You will heal soon. Participate more In social activities, religious activities or anything to keep yourself busy and think less.

thanks for your kind words

hello nairalanders, how can you love someone and hurt that person? I feel my heart pulling outta my chest, how do i cope?

mentorandfriend:
I will call an emergency meeting of all the police men and women in Nigeria, from the Recruit to the Inspector General; gather them all at the National Stadium. When I'm sure everyone is in, I go ahead and blow it up.

you are so funny..

stariobran:
you're dating yourself. once you feel this way (women are very very intuitive), it's time to run for the hills. it wouldn't be easy because you're into him. take it a step at a time. stop calling. delete his numbers. do things to keep your mind busy, join the choir and go for choir practice daily. if none of those work, get a human distraction

thanks.

robosky02:
Hello gynny, I wish to give you a very hard truth but if you can take it it will change a lot of things for you

1. "i feel unappreciated."
The truth is if a man really love you, he will almost idolize you, so if he’s indifferent to your feelings then check it again.
2. “And all i've asked is that he loves me just the same.” –
This sounds like a “push and start love” were you have to do so much for him to return the love. The truth is in a real love he will be “creazy” for you till people will tell him, guy take it easy

3. “I know he loves me, but i think i love him more than he loves me and he knows that”
You will really know if he truly loves you. You don’t think it. And by the way must hit and run guys once they have you and you begin to fall too much they will take you for granted. Note men are hunters, if you hunt them (love them too much at the beginning) they will see you as cheap and take you for granted

4. . “I know his job is time consuming and stressful, but i still understand and support him. Sometimes i'll practically have to beg him to call me! Thats how bad it gets”
My dear you deserve something better for Christ sake, when you beg for even his call?. Listen up I think you are forcing this relationship. Cos in a true love situation both parties call. And in most cases I have handled such men or lady you beg to call you have alternative to you that’s why they forget you.
You can tell me if you are the ONLY one in his “world” he will forget you to the extent of not even calling you. Such people if you finally marry them not even a flash will you see. And the pain will be time seven.
5. “ i think i'm sick in the head because i know i deserve more than i'm getting. I keep telling myself to let go, i tried and the pain was just too much.”

Yes my dear you deserve more, and God has lots of better things for you. The problem I see here is you love him more and your doing everything to make it work.

The truth is you don’t force a camel to drink water even if you take him to the streem.

Final word:

Free yourself in your mind, be open to relate with other guys who are seeking to be close to you, if he is the real one he will come chasing you but if not of he goes finally. True love flows don’t force it.

Thanks alot for this words, i'll do things different from here on. I already feel much better from all the kind words i've heard. Thanks.

prettysassygirl:
WHAT!!!!only on public holidays? how many public holidays do we have in a yearwhat happens to you going to see him during weekends?imagine begging a guy to call you and after that he doesn't call for days .you say he loves you,a beg what instrument did you use to measure it?hope it is not by word of mouth, cos you should know by now that Nigerian men don't know how to use those words,they love everybody as far as you wear skirt . Don't mind all these people telling you to be patient,be patient my ASS,use your tongue to count your teeth. I wouldn't advise you leave him immediately,as that is impossible,as a matter of fact I know how you feel cos I was once there,I advice that you look around for a guy that loves you more,even if he is not your prince charming, but he scored 60/100 in your criteria of a man,even if u dont love him enough,later u might grow to love him,then try to separate small small from that your boyfriend wey dey use you play ball,just try to reduce your love for him by thinking of him less and spending more time with the new guy,it might take time but surely your love for the old would wane,I don't know why girls like going for people that would treat them like trash,all in the name of prince charming,please my dear,your worth is more than gold,u are the best of your kind and you deserve better,don't ever beg anyone to love you,cos you would forever beg,imagining marrying this guy later,whatever you see you take,sorrow for ever,a beg bust am jare,he is emotionally abusing you.

thanks alot, i'll love myself more

MrsPhyno:
See, that right there is your problem. In an ideal relationship, it would be a good thing but since those don't exist...... It's a really really bad thing. In romantic relationships, women (usually) stand to loose more. So he already has an upper hand. So it's recommended that if someone has to "love more" in a relationship, it should be the guy.

Subtly change ur mentality. He is not your world. U do not love him more than life itself. Don't become mean or anything but.... Be more playful, let it psychologically seep thru that this is not do or die for u. It's a very hard balance to strike sha

thanks alot.

kirchofff:
Lol......she caught me stealing meat from d pot.....den I froze, I couldn't return d meat and I couldn't eat it ........naso I hang like fone wey dey use 512mb ram,,,naim she con use hot slap UNfreeze me

hahahahahahaha...i can just imagine u fear u felt at that moment. Lol..