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lahit14:
Thr's no such tin as a 50/50 relationshp dear, don't let any1 tell u different. One person has to carry the relationshp, somtimes just like yours the women do the carrying but its not alwys fair, most times just like you now, she becomes weary n complains becos in truth dat is not her part to play. Women r ear beings I often say n men r eye beings. U need to fill a womans ear up to overflow dats Y ur ears r itching n only a man dat truely loves a woman can tak the time to lavish her wit words n in return she does almost anytin he wants.

thanks alot.

Odunharry:
does he work on Saturday and Sundays? If no then one of you should try pay the other a visit.. I hope the distance isn't too far

the distance is quite far, with school nd work on my side, saturday nd sundays are kinda impossible.

firstking01:
sorry dearie...bt hw do i help

thanks alot, u already did.

lahit14:
Goin through a lot at work, stress might be possibl causes like many hav said, for me its a lie. Not for a man dat is truely inlove wit a woman. Love is a form of motivation, a man can steal moment amist his very busy schedule to call his lover. Like u said ur the one carrying the relationshp whc is not appropriate. Women r only surposed to respond to a mans love. A man is surposed to love the woman more.

well i'll need to re-assess my relationship. I always felt a relationship is suppose to be a patnership, with both sides contributing to make it work. I guess i've been doing his part for sometime nw. Thanks!

goldenboyofpsy:
When it comes to the issue of relationship,you need alot of patience and wisdom. Patience to know when there is a phase that truly test our real or imaginary love. Wisdom because you must not be desperate so you dont loose your worth,value and honor in his sight. If one calls more often,it makes the other person to relax in that part. What to do is to engage your mind into something else dont stay too far so you dont lose him and dont stay too close so you wont be lowered in his sight. See how to fit into his schdules so you wont be a barrier but solution.

thanks, i really do need more wisdom. As for d patience part, i'll be more patient.

kaziblake:
Different state?
He might be seeing another girl,just saying.

nah, he's really faithful, i dnt suspect him. Thanks still

JanuaryTempest:
Beg him to call you !!!! What illegal substance are you on? It's not too late, you can still add him to your new year's resolutions as the bad habit to quit

"A girl should never need someone who doesn't need her"- Marilyn Monroe

lol.. Am not high on anything illegal. But i'll get my head checked!

thywobab:
If it just about him not calling I advice you should be patient with him and tried to talk to him about how you are feeling in relationship,maybe with time things will change cos you might meet some one worst than he is if you let go.

thanks, i get your point.

kaziblake:
Give him sometime,he might be going thru some tough times at wrk or you pay him a surprise visit at home.
Talk to him,tell him how you feel and see his reaction.

i've been trying to talk but he thinks i'm over reacting. As for the surprise visit, we dnt stay in the same state and the surprise stuff might not really work.

pweetychyka:
Hey babe... if u feel un-appreciated by him, why not try appreciating yourself? And continue being that understanding gal that you have always been to him?

N:B - U alone can make yourself happy beta than anyone else.

thanks for the advice.

Cutehector:
Babe just hold on, be patient, try to understand the situation, I think he may be goin tru a lot at work, jst try to be understanding.... how often does he call u?

i understand he may be going tru a lot, but he'll not even talk to me abt them and when i asks he just snaps. Sometimes he does'nt call for days, but i still try to call every day.

Thanks Decker, i get ur points and i'll try to apply them. As for the spending time on friday nights and stuffs, it's a long distance relationship, but we try to visit during public hoildays.

dukeolumde:
U need Vitamin Me...

thanks, i'll pass

thorpido:
He doesn't call you throughout the day or doesn't call you many times in a day?How often do you see each other?

sometimes he does'nt call for days. We only see on public holidays, thats the only time he has for visits.

Hello nairalanders, i'm writing this because i'm so hurt, i feel unappreciated. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and through out this period i've loved and cared for him like any loving person should maybe a little too much. And all i've asked is that he loves me just the same. I know he loves me, but i think i love him more than he loves me and he knows that. I know his job is time consuming and stressful, but i still understand and support him. Sometimes i'll practically have to beg him to call me! Thats how bad it gets. Please guys advice me because all my advice and mirror talk is doing nothing, i think i'm sick in the head because i know i deserve more than i'm getting. I keep telling myself to let go, i tried and the pain was just too much.

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