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Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by lahit14(m): 9:03pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Goin through a lot at work, stress might be possibl causes like many hav said, for me its a lie. Not for a man dat is truely inlove wit a woman. Love is a form of motivation, a man can steal moment amist his very busy schedule to call his lover. Like u said ur the one carrying the relationshp whc is not appropriate. Women r only surposed to respond to a mans love. A man is surposed to love the woman more. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by gynny(f): 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
goldenboyofpsy:thanks, i really do need more wisdom. As for d patience part, i'll be more patient. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
gynny: (***In Osuofia's voice***)Please MENTION |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by grad2012(f): 9:11pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Dearie pele I understand how you feel cos sometimes men can be so overwhelmed by their work.I think you guys need to just set down an talk,let him know how you feel An also ask him what's going on an why he is acting this way to you.pls don't go fighting with him and yelling at him ok, just calmly do all this so you can be able to get words out of him and find a solution to all this. 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by JanuaryTempest(f): 9:13pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
gynny: Please do If he's not adding any positive value to your life then he shouldn't be in it. Period. Guys are so tiring sometimes. Look at it this way- keeping him is stressing you out, right? If you remain with him, you remain with all the uncertainty & stress. If you remain with him, you're holding on to the pain & whatever extra nonsense he brings to the table. However, if you release him, not only will you be free, but the pain will be short-lived compared to what you're allowing yourself to put up with now (for God knows how long). Eventually you will be happy again. Don't you just wanna giggle when you think of all the past relationships you thought you'd never survive? I know I do 2 Likes |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by gynny(f): 9:14pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
lahit14:well i'll need to re-assess my relationship. I always felt a relationship is suppose to be a patnership, with both sides contributing to make it work. I guess i've been doing his part for sometime nw. Thanks! |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by goldenboyofpsy(m): 9:27pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Op,be careful with many advise from people who are not deep or know the real meaning of love. Call it 'wisdom' but it may be foolishness for another relationship. Dont think what you are not suppose to which may negatively affect your relationship. Just take honest and sincere assessment of the situation. Patience is needed because he may be weak in that aspect but stronger in another aspect which may take time to mature. My point is is he a good and responsible person if yes,just relax and see where you need to improve and grow together. Take things slow. My fiancee once complain of me not appreciating her some last year but she's the one telling me today that I should not blow off her head with appreciation that its nothing. On a final note,choose or find mature woman who you can discuss your relationship with her motherly wisdom will go a long way in helping dont also forget about good books on relationship. Dr Gary Chapman books are the best for now. I rest my case God will guide you on the best way and method to choose. 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by gynny(f): 9:36pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
firstking01:thanks alot, u already did. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Odunharry(m): 9:41pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Decker:This... |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by akwana: 9:42pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
@OP, I don't mean to sadden u further but when you find out he has another babe, kindly inform us. Check well, he has another babe. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Odunharry(m): 9:43pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
gynny:does he work on Saturday and Sundays? If no then one of you should try pay the other a visit.. I hope the distance isn't too far |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by robosky02(m): 9:47pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
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Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by firstking01(m): 9:49pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
gynny:dunno why gud gals like u keep falling into the hands of the wrong guys...wen husband materials like us dey here 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Odunharry(m): 9:53pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
gynny:keep doing ur part and I hope he change soon..Though I don't know the nature of his work, I don't see anything wrong even if it's a ten minutes talk on Fone after work.. Since you are certain he loves you and vice versa, keep doing ur best to make the relationship work.. I tell you, long distance relationship is not for everyone, if you are not strong and don't easily trust people, believe me you will run away. Just a matter of time. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by robosky02(m): 10:01pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
wise woman grad2012: 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by lahit14(m): 10:31pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
gynny: Thr's no such tin as a 50/50 relationshp dear, don't let any1 tell u different. One person has to carry the relationshp, somtimes just like yours the women do the carrying but its not alwys fair, most times just like you now, she becomes weary n complains becos in truth dat is not her part to play. Women r ear beings I often say n men r eye beings. U need to fill a womans ear up to overflow dats Y ur ears r itching n only a man dat truely loves a woman can tak the time to lavish her wit words n in return she does almost anytin he wants. 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by gynny(f): 11:08pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Odunharry:the distance is quite far, with school nd work on my side, saturday nd sundays are kinda impossible. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by saraphina(f): 11:10pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Cutehector:advicer Onowamagbe. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by gynny(f): 11:11pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
lahit14:thanks alot. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Cutehector(m): 11:13pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
saraphina:lol u crazy... wats good |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by saraphina(f): 11:17pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Cutehector:everything z gud. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Cutehector(m): 11:18pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
saraphina:alright... |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by lilspiceyy(f): 3:13am On Jan 05, 2016 |
gynny:That guy has someone where he is...take it or leave it. not calling for days? Dat shld give u a hint. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Nobody: 3:32am On Jan 05, 2016 |
gynny:See, that right there is your problem. In an ideal relationship, it would be a good thing but since those don't exist...... It's a really really bad thing. In romantic relationships, women (usually) stand to loose more. So he already has an upper hand. So it's recommended that if someone has to "love more" in a relationship, it should be the guy. Subtly change ur mentality. He is not your world. U do not love him more than life itself. Don't become mean or anything but.... Be more playful, let it psychologically seep thru that this is not do or die for u. It's a very hard balance to strike sha |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Nobody: 3:37am On Jan 05, 2016 |
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Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Nobody: 3:43am On Jan 05, 2016 |
blublahd:Never been in one oga, u are the experienced one please enlighten us |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Nobody: 3:59am On Jan 05, 2016 |
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Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Nobody: 4:15am On Jan 05, 2016 |
blublahd: She did state there was no such thing as ideal in her opinion. 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Nobody: 4:16am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Try this. Treat him as he treats you. Thank me later gynny: 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by chibwike(m): 4:43am On Jan 05, 2016 |
If its about him not calling you, try sending him airtime. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Nobody: 6:16am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Nubian113 I did not reread the post I think mrsphyno modified her initial post. Thanks. |
Re: I Feel Unappreciated! by Nobody: 6:41am On Jan 05, 2016 |
goldenboyofpsy:pls check ur mail. |
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