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temitope27:
Porn addiction is not bad actually, but sex addiction is worse

None of it is good.

Anything associated with ‘addiction’ is bad.

Treasure17:
I will suggest you go to education thread. We are here to make money

Lol😀

Making money requires knowledge o.

For real, make I no whyne you.

This should be an educative thread.

I hope so.

I hope so.

This should be logical now.

Several factors come to place here e.g the type of foods, quality of the procedures used for the surgery, etc.

😀😀
What a funny & serious question.



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Nifemy4:
Isn’t it weird? Isn’t it’ strange ? Isn’t it abnormal ? To find the deepest meaning of one’s life after losing a job? Yes ! After I lost my job I found myself .

There’s nothing good or bad about, thinking makes it so. —  Williams Shakespeare.

I was working at an organization for over 7 years, as a customer service agent , before I ascended the ladder as a manager. I was pathetically underpaid. My time was siphoned away just the way a thirsty camel does when it sees water. I wasn’t growing Carrer wise, If you say I was stagnant, yes you are right.

There was only one thing I could boast of in the past 7 years of working  — - paying bills only and living from pay check to paycheck.

The brilliant chap everyone knew me as, is now stuck in a dead end job. I was physically, emotionally, mentally worn out. I literally just snug through each day like a sick snail.
I knew I was in a cage, but how do I get out was another kettle of fish . When I get out what will I be doing ? How will I pay bills, where do I go from here ? These platitudes stand individually like a 7 headed beast and giants before me whenever the thought of quitting sniffs the farthest perimeter of my mind .

I made several attempts . I gave myself countless deadlines. But the fear of the unknown was a force that neutralizes my resolve whenever I try again, like a kid learning to walk . I quickly ran back to my safe place. It’s hopeless and depressing but at least it pays my bills.

Time kept ticking, my life kept melting away right before my own eyes. The earth kept rotating on its axis non-stop and yet my vibrant youthfulness kept vaporizing on a job I saw no future in.

The day my life took a new turn was feb 21st. A day that started like every other day but ended in total calamity, if I call it a holocaust , I am not exaggerating.

I was wrongly accused at work,only to be declared innocent by the police upon thorough investigation concerning finance. Although I got released same day, but I knew the moment it started that I knew that God himself had come to my rescue eventually, to uproot me with force from my bondage .

While others kept sympathizing with me , and asking me to return , I saw peace , tranquility and I could see my inner Bird flying out of the cage singing freedom at last !

Finally ! I am out ! I said to myself . The courage to soilder on , into a world of uncertainty was second to none. I vowed not to look back like Lot and his wife. I marched on into an unknown world, I left without looking back —  I resigned .

Immediately, just like a vivid trance , I knew my time has come to take the mantle of my life again and sail to where I want to be .

I woke up the next day feeling refreshed like a new born , peace was radiating all over me . I murmured to myself, the time is here .

I picked up my pieces, cleaned my mat and carried it just as Jesus commanded the lame man . I have never been happier.

Now I can do all the things I have long kept at the backseat .
1 ✅I now hit the gym regularly—- now I look healthier and more fit .
2✅ I eat better  — - no more office junks

3✅. I now picked up two very high paying skills and mastering them . I can code now ! Something I had no iota of idea about before the event .
4✅ I now do my favorite side hustle which is writing
5✅ I have read more books than I did in the last 2 years

I keep acquiring skills and getting myself ready for the bigger stage in my career when the opportunity shows up.

In conclusion, I am grateful to God for the opportunity I had to serve there, it was all lessons of life . I met some great people and made some great friends.

Sometimes, all we all need is ‘Courage’.

Courage and faith.

Vanessa0359:
Hi, Good afternoon..

Please how can I study past questions for graduate trainee programs (GT) so as to be called for the next stage?

I have tried it for some time now and it's really becoming frustrating.

I would be 27 by September and this means that by then, I would have crossed the benchmark for most GT Program.

And I even wanted to go for 1 -3 years experience jobs in Lagos and other states, but I can't due to location and I don't have much to pair with a roommate.

Okay,

-Get the exact organization you’re writing their GT exam.
-Make research on the exam body that handles their questions/tests. Don’t just read any past questions.

-Study the question formats & topics.
-Join similar group chats to meet your matese.g WhatsApp.

Many will vote ADC misplacing it for APC

What a strategy right there.

The problem is many people will vote ADC thinking it’s APC. 😀

Hmn
One of the key features of business is Integrity.

But I’m coming back to give a better content 😀

ogaemma:
Obi is now becoming too desperate.
He has forgotten his root in a hurry.
This is a man who got 6 million votes in the last election without any of these political vampires.
Why can't he stand alone, build his party and shake Nigeria again.

Nigeria needs a drastic change right now… for real.

It’s lack of self worth, insecurity, or being fashion freak.

Lack of self worth or values can a make a guy follow anything anyhow.

MrAddict:
Day 14 of not masturbating or having sex

This is officially two weeks of not masturbating or having sex.

This is the longest I have gone without doing any of the above since I was 14. I am really proud of myself

Bro,

While it’s good to have such determination, find a strong faith-based church to attend. There’s a place of Supernaturals in making your commitment come to place.

Use dollar exchange rate.

Also note the country’s inflation u r factoring in.

Not acknowledging God

Addictions.

Run o 😀

If this is true, then she’s trying to justify her wayward ways.

2mch:
Walai, a lot of you have problem. Someone did magomago to enter school. JAMB has no record he was admitted to said school and he is not in their system. But somehow it is Nigeria fault. Not the person that went to arrange admission for himself and deceive himself for 7yrs that he was a student of the school. Some of you need electric shock therapy.

Oga rest.

Why are you bitter? Was the post addressed to you? Did you read and understand the main post? Is there any evidence to support ur claims? Pls rest.

If the guy didn’t carry the matter on his head but expecting miracle from his school, he would av been stuck…and it would last forever.

May Nigeria flaws not happen to us.

allthingsgood:
Rest. You are not righteous either
If you dot want to self-service, nobody is forcing you. That is your prerogative
But quit the baseless guilt trips. Its unhelpful

Apologies😉

Never meant to attack anyone.

Just clarifying the facts.

allthingsgood:
Everybody masturbates. You're living in illusions. Rest

Okay,

Just the way a liar thinks everyone is a liar.

There are no straight ways to it. Weigh your options and pick the best.

What investment do u wish to do in Nigeria? Do you understand it, what ROI do you wish to get? Don’t forget the effects of exchange rate.

On the other hand, what do you stand to get/become on getting to the UK? Check and compare the options.

fitinwell:
I am typing out of empathy... I am a very active man inside out sexually .. so i understand what OP is going through..

Twitter account is not even helping matters... Everyday promoting young girls unclothedness...

Telegram follow suit...

Facebook joined them too

I have made up my mind... To ignore them completely...

You see our minds are powerful... Many do not understand this... The enemies of your soul.. decided to pollute our minds with what we see...

For real.

Twitter is a lion’s den. You can’t escape it.
I’ve deleted the rubbish app😉

fitinwell:
Sexual perversion is what the enemy of our soul is using aggressively, to distract us from fellowshipping with our creator..

We have so many seductive activities happening around us everyday... Very choking.. young ladies dressing to kill..

There target is young men and old men.. operation catch dem young...

Sex is a powerful tool ...

My advice just Marry a lady you both can be faithful to each other.. and bang with peace of mind!

Bro,

Only a sensitive or logical man can see that. The world is now super sexualized. Like 20x the way it used to be.

All corners, streets, markets, buses, spots are now filled with nudity from ladies. It’s worse on a daily basis. They all dress to kill, calling it fashion.

I hope all male child (even innocent kids) are not in trouble.

Sonnobax15:

I still prefer masturbation to raping someone's innocent daughter that would had rather led you to jail

Anyways,many of us here and out there did masturbated in the past and some are still even masturbating to this very minute,but still got our balls intact

I believe masturbation doesn't lead to such things, just that,live a healthy lifestyle . Eat good meals, drink clean water and once in a while jerk while self-servicing yourself cuz na you get your nuclear weapon.....

this is crazy.

@OP, run away from this advice for the sake of your future.

dmxnairaland:
When will you people finally shut up about masturbation??!! Why is masturbation such a hot topic on this forum? What kind of useless forum is this anyway?

I think it’s because it’s a pleasurable killer….deadly killer.

allthingsgood:
Apart from the mental stress from religious-inflicted guilt and potential for addiction, maturbation is actually great for u
Its the best form of release, promotes good sleep, improved sperm and better sexual health, especially for men

This is a lie.

No single benefit! It will give you illusion of benefit but in the long run, you lose everything.

Amna1:
Good day fellow nairalanders its finally time i spoke out before i Bleep up for lie.

I started masturbating since i was at the age of 14 years and i have done it through different methods over the course of 4 years like fu..cking my mattress, soapy, with my hands e.t.c. it was during one of my solo sessions whilst fuc...king my mattress, then i felt like i tore one of my testicles but i didn't bother cause there was no pain.

Over the remaining 3rd of the decade i felt and confirmed one of my balls is getting dry and weightless by the day and the whole side is getting less sensitive than the other(side)*
And right now my left testicles is getting drier and becoming insensitive (no sensation at all) and i have confirmed it's no longer painful as it's before-no pain from the same left testicle.


Please tell me what to do .......It's not something I'm proud of! but i was addicted- i thank God I'm ready to quit by force

Please insults are welcome too

Bro,

You just asked in the wrong platform.

You can visit the hospital or a Doc.

Adegbem01:
You don't have to agree with my opinion and I don't have to prove anything to you, do you bro

Okay bro.

Kobojunkie:
Evidence is always required in every case, otherwise your claims are no different from brain farts.

Okay

Enjoy 🤝😀

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! Masturbation does not kill will power. There is no evidence of this.

Okay o.😀

Be looking for evidence.