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chigoziri2403:
Your lack of conviction, debased mindset, defeatist mindset is what kills your purpose,when hunger catch him for a week,he will leave his meat and go get busy, seems someone is sponsoring his lifestyle

Lol.

It all depends on him.

chigoziri2403:
Consequences including unemployment

While it doesn’t directly cause unemployment…it can kill your will power.

Most especially for men, it’s hard to be purpose-driven if one is an addict.

Adegbem01:
The truth is, it sounds like you're using masturbation as a scapegoat for the challenges and disappointments in your life. There are countless people; successful leaders, socially active individuals, even billionaires, who also masturbate. The act itself isn't inherently destructive.

What is harmful is compulsive addiction or attaching guilt and shame to it based on certain belief systems. When the act is viewed only through a lens of sin or secrecy, it creates internal conflict; not because of the act itself, but because of the mindset surrounding it.

It's important to distinguish between real problems; like poor life choices, laziness, lack of discipline, or a sense of direction, and a convenient target like masturbation. Blaming it might feel easier, but it won’t fix the underlying issues. Taking responsibility, adjusting your mindset, and developing discipline will.

Mention the successful leaders and billionaires…

Go online and check d brutal consequences of masturbation.

chigoziri2403:
Brother,Masturbation isn't the cause of your predicaments
If you want to stop it because it's addictive, it's understandable
Addiction is very very bad,even people that take hard drugs swear they won't go back

Your attitude is the issue,masturbation won't stop your unemployment
We've learnt to demonise our misfortunes in this part of the world, we tend to shift blames instead of looking at the cause

If you want to quit,it starts and ends with you

Oga,

He has been able to identify his source of problem and you are still in disagreement.

Several feedbacks received from different people have shown that’s he’s clearly right…just go to YouTube or google and check the brutal consequences of Masturbation.

antimason:
So they reported to police so that they arrest lightening Abi wetin? Naija self misplaced priorities everywhere

I think it’s to control any tension that may happen.

jubrilELsudan:
I DEY SURE SEY YOUR WIFE DEY BEAT YOU ..........................................................

Lol

If you’re lucky to yet to be married like me, the point is to avoid some battles instead of fighting them.

Know how to pick red flags that may manifest in the future.

Mindset is everything. Also know that you attract what you are.

jubrilELsudan:
YOU NO GET ANY SENSE

IT'S OBVIOUS YOU ARE A WOMAN BEATER

YOUR GIRLFRIEND REALLY DODGED A BULLET CAUSE SHE WOULD HAVE ENDED UP MARRYING A WOMAN BEATER LIKE YOU

Oga rest.

I do not also support violence…but the guy losing a woman with such mindset can be a Win. Some men also suffer abuse from domestic violence.

[quote author= post=135718332]You dey see red flag now.. you no go run o . A woman that feels she can hit you a man and shouldn't be hit back because she is a woman. She totally forgot she is a woman when she was initiating the hitting.

Better run from this lady.[/quote]I tell you. A clear red flag.

They manipulate, gaslight and play the victims.

DOUBLEBARREL:
I'd have deflected the question thus by asking her,.... who is your favorite male celebrity ?,,, answers(davido, Wizkid,2 face e.t.c),.. would you ever think to slap him if you were in a relationship with him ? (The añswer would be No)... If I were an ideal boyfriend in your perception you wouldn't think these thoughts.. except maybe u are confusing me with some one else.

That’s an opportunity to know her thoughts process, red flags.

Bonjovi13:
You have probably lost her going by her reaction.
Never ever admit that you can hit a woman for whatever reason even if she hits you first.

Your position should be that upon provocation you would diffuse the situation or walk away. That shows that you have self control which is a trait any woman would prefer because they know that they can get out of line one day and they would need you to be the bigger man to diffuse the situation or walk away.I’m totally against violence!…but what are you saying? Just listen to yourself.



The way you said you would retaliate against a woman who hit you, made you seem like someone who would not hesitate to assault a woman physically if she ever gets out of line by hitting you. She will never feel safe with you. Hence her withdrawal.

I suggest you apologise and change your
position. Assure her that you now understand how your words may have come across.

Tell her that you will make sure that you will never make her mad to the extent that she will hit you and that God forbid if that happens, you will with love and maturity diffuse the situation or walk away.

I’m totally against violence…but that’s manipulation and gas lighting. From the abundance of the heart the minds speaketh.

So you mean if a lady gives you a dirty and humiliating slap, u won’t defend yourself?

It’s better for him to lose her now than regret later.

Things like these are what make men die in silence.

mach7:
This list is questionable

It’s not only by trophies o

There’s a business part of football.

Facebook and Twitter (X).

YourKarma:
Una wey dey talk tiktok, tiktok's algorithm shows you video based on the type of video you search or you've been viewing.

In my tiktok account, I see mostly medical videos and RIck and Morty videos because those are the things I search for.

They don’t know.

It applies to Instagram too…the algorithm studies what you spend time on, and then keep recommending them.

cassidy1996:
TikTok it's a time wasting app

Only if you don’t know how to use it.

Smart folks use it to follow public figures, mentors in their fields of interest.

NairalandGossip:
During cross over service, we came across thousands of prophecies for the year from hundreds of 'Men of God' in Nigeria. Yet none of them saw the death of the Pope. I don't know what to call this but I am disappointed.

Remember no real man of God predicts of himself.

Only God reveals…and if nothing was revealed, God can’t be questioned.

belikewater:
I don't believe masturbation is a sin as long as it is not an habit and you only do it occasionally to prevent the 'white liquid' from shaming you publicly.

it’s a sin.

Disgusting

Because only God’s fear can make a man have one wife.

madridguy:
The video makes no sense to me because he himself is not experimenting what he teaches. He should have do the test with over 1000 people and let see.

The best thing is to avoid over crowded place with no enough steward/security on ground.

Even the steward/security can be overwhelmed.

4gunners:
I did oo

Hello bro

Were u later nominated for the scholarship then?

Holamidhe:
It will be best if you can share the vital information here. People will come to this page after 5 years and still get something. You will get tired of answering the same question from different people.

OP, kindly drop your question so that people can answer it.

And here I am after the 5 years...funny tho.

yinkhar:
Sure

I've sent an email....guess u may not be comfortable dropping ur number.

yinkhar:
Did Microbiology for BSc, Entomology for MSc and now Tropical Medicine and Infectious Diseases for PhD.
Thanks for checking up

Can I reach out?

Studied MCB as an undergraduate and finished with a First.

yinkhar:
Did Microbiology for BSc, Entomology for MSc and now Tropical Medicine and Infectious Diseases for PhD.
Thanks for checking up

Well done

Theflint1:
Lol, currently on my masters in computer science.

That said, there's a pathway from a masters in public health to something solid, especially if you go the PhD route, targeting schools in the US or other developed countries.

Okay.

Quoting you from an old thread (8 yrs) is also funny.😃

Theflint1:
Boss show me the way. I'm almost done with my MSc in Environmental and Public Health Microbiology and I would appreciate pointers on NGOs I can apply to.
Sent you a pm.

Hello bro,

Kindly share how it has been going for Masters in Public health.

yinkhar:
have been following dis thread 4 quite a long tym cos am interested in it.i tink dis advices are 4 me,i just got admission to study mcb bt i wish to study mbbs.tanx to all 4 d advice and also tanx to Ehimax

Hi,
What did you later do?

santaclaws:
I mentioned the type already somewhere in the post, go through it. The clipper is very good and very strong.

thanks bro.

Itel classic 2

santaclaws:
In fact I just got one a few weeks ago. While I cut my hair from very decent and clean barbers, the clipper is still a sharp object and it's better to own one than to share with hundreds of other people...

what type of clipper did you buy, and how has been experience?

Ekiti State and UI ...5 & 6.

They both produce and source for stars and brains.

Emmanuel900:
This is one of the sign of low IQ In black people and what make white people so advanced than us, white people will be curious and investigate if they encounter anything strange to unravel the mystery, that's how they make 90% of the discovery and breakthrough in Science and Technology and how they are developed. Black people will just term any strange encounter as the work of a god or divine intervention, it is just pathetic mental laziness.

You are just lucky it happened in an area with a lot of space and the Gas didn't occupy at least 70% concentration of the air around,
another factor is the gas was also not released all at once in a way that it can quickly fill up everywhere and the quantity is also small.

Bro....u still dey analyse?

That was a miracle...simple.

Less than 50% concentration has wrecked havoc....no one would wish it happens to him.

Katey93:
Hi, my name is Ekaette Ikwe. A Chartered Accountant from the Institute of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria. I was inducted as a Member in May 2023

Please I need any Audit firm within Abuja that I can be working with as a Contract staff when they have Auditing jobs. Thanks

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