Good morning. Welcome back. As you know. I am julio, your host on # relationshipfix up. We will be talking about NAGGING IN RELATIONSHIP today.
First, what is nagging: Nagging is an act of constantly harassing someone to do something.
Or persistently painful or worrying .
Lets talk about the causes of nagging in relationship.
1. You were forced to marry or date someone you don't like.
2. You impregnated someone and you have no option than to marry her and vice versa.
3. You have been betrothed to each other since birth or as an agreement between families.
4. You have been exposed to abuses from a nagging parent or guardian.
5. Stories and gossip you hear about girls especially extrovert ones and so on..
THIS IS WHY YOU ALWAYS COMPLAIN, GIVE HERESIES AND EXCUSES, ABUSE AT TIMES, THEY SEEMS NOT TO DO SOMETHING RIGHT EXCEPT YOU DO IT..
Its never too late to appreciate what you have. Because you are lucky to have each other. There are so many people out there who are looking up to you, they want to have the person you are always nagging at.
Your spouse trusted you, that's why they told you their past. You don't have to nag. It kills and it destabilize relationship even if you are meant for each other.
HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO HELP YOU STOP NAGGING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
1. BE APPRECIATIVE: Learn to appreciate little things, even when you feel the things are totally small and you feel like they aren't enough for you. Learn to say THANK YOU.
2. BE RESERVED: Learn to be reserved, don't spill fire and brimstone when you are angry someone gets you angry. Be reserved, be cool, be calm, don't be rushed to say things you are not suppose to say. Words are powerful.
3. LEARN TO SAY ' IM SORRY' : This sentence works powerfully, if you are being nagged, and you said ''im sorry'' either you are at fault or not, it sends a message to the other party which could be termed as been respectful and not over-hyped. Learn to say it..
4. DO NOT BE TIRED: Some people be like, im sick and tired of this relationship, i can't continue anymore, this is too much for me to bear, don't be, every relationship has it own ups and downs, it depends on how you want it perfect, people with healthier relationship had gone through what's more than yours. Be focused and never be tired.
5. INSTEAD OF NAGGING, REMIND THEM HOW BEAUTIFUL THEY ARE: Funny? No.. After they might have wronged you, just remind them how beautiful they are. Hmmm.. My love, you are beautiful, no one is like you. How awesome that could be. It gives you inner strength and maximizes your maturity and how long you can be under pressure. Its good for your health too.
6. PUT YOURSELF IN THEIR SHOES TOO: When you nag about someone, try to think what they will be passing through too. Don't be pushed by your ego, be pushed by your compassion.
7. AVOID KEEPING GRUDGES: You tend to kill yourself if you continue keeping grudges against your partner, tell them where they wronged you, politely, i repeat, politely. This will help you grow a stronger relationship.
8. YOUR PAST IS PAST: Leave your past alone, its gonna keep hurting you until you let go of it, create a formidable future for your family not living in the shadow of your past.
9. DON'T COMPARE YOUR SPOUSE WITH ANYBODY: Stop comparing your spouse with anybody, you don't know what they are passing through, not everyone who laughs has something which makes them happy. Believe in your spouse, correct in love, build your future together.
10. NEVER RELENT IN PRAYING: Prayers actually works well, if things are beyond your control, try prayer. God will surely hear your outcry.

By my view, you should have gained some points, more of it some other time.
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To be continued
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HOW TO THRIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
Good day here.
Relationship actually mean a strong connection between people of same goals, aspirations, thoughts, emotional feelings and love.
Are you in a relationship or you are about to proceed, here are tips you need to thrive in your relationship, i remain your host Julio.
1. Put God first: In Starting your relationship, you need God to be first in everything you do.. Allow God to direct your path, some people has put God in the back seat of their relationship which has been disastrous instead of giving Him the steering wheel.
2. Learn to love: Love is an affection or a deep feeling of emotional closeness to an individual, don't date someone you are not Ready to love, and don't love someone you are not ready to date. So simple, if someone loves you genuinely, love back.
3. Learn to forgive: Forgiveness at times might be some how hard to do especially if the person hurt you more than you can bear emotionally, forgive, not that you are weak, but because you are matured enough to understand what happened, hatred brings emotional instability and tends to destroy your personality.
4. Be ready to adjust to situations: some wives has lost their homes because at a point in time things go wrong in their home financially, material wise, and emotionally, they left not even thinking how affluent they started, its never the end to life. Trials are parts of life, it defined us, and made us who we are. It depends on how long you can hold up the sinking ship. Someday the storm will be over.
5. Be thoughtful and helpful: Be your spouse best friend, never allow him/her to do it all alone, your relationship should be symbiotic and not parasitic, learn to give each other pat on the back when things are going wrong. Be wise and resourceful.
6. Understand your spouse: Read everything about your spouse, understand his/her do's and don'ts, be exposed to each other, trust your spouse, understand how he does, ask why they do what they do politely, this will help you to know how individuals behave.
7. Be ready to give all: Everything you have is for your spouse, if you are not ready to give all, don't start what you cant finish.
9. Be ready to learn new things and lower your ego: Swallow your pride and be respectful, learn new things, e.g. Cooking, traditions, language and many more, if you are going out of your tribe or country, don't be a monopoly, and be ready to teach.
10. Be your spouse favourites: if you don't see each other, you won't be able to sleep, if you haven't spoken to each other, you won't be able to do anything, let people talk about it, who knows how they treat their own spouse, give yourselves gifts, appreciate each other, be contentious, and know your spouse next move.
This will help you grow in your relationship, and don't be a nagging type. More on this later.
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I also have someone who is in a similar mess, the only different thing in the story is that, she has giving birth for the guy and that's where the guys problem is.
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