HOW TO THRIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
Good day here.
Relationship actually mean a strong connection between people of same goals, aspirations, thoughts, emotional feelings and love.
Are you in a relationship or you are about to proceed, here are tips you need to thrive in your relationship, i remain your host Julio.
1. Put God first: In Starting your relationship, you need God to be first in everything you do.. Allow God to direct your path, some people has put God in the back seat of their relationship which has been disastrous instead of giving Him the steering wheel.
2. Learn to love: Love is an affection or a deep feeling of emotional closeness to an individual, don't date someone you are not Ready to love, and don't love someone you are not ready to date. So simple, if someone loves you genuinely, love back.
3. Learn to forgive: Forgiveness at times might be some how hard to do especially if the person hurt you more than you can bear emotionally, forgive, not that you are weak, but because you are matured enough to understand what happened, hatred brings emotional instability and tends to destroy your personality.
4. Be ready to adjust to situations: some wives has lost their homes because at a point in time things go wrong in their home financially, material wise, and emotionally, they left not even thinking how affluent they started, its never the end to life. Trials are parts of life, it defined us, and made us who we are. It depends on how long you can hold up the sinking ship. Someday the storm will be over.
5. Be thoughtful and helpful: Be your spouse best friend, never allow him/her to do it all alone, your relationship should be symbiotic and not parasitic, learn to give each other pat on the back when things are going wrong. Be wise and resourceful.
6. Understand your spouse: Read everything about your spouse, understand his/her do's and don'ts, be exposed to each other, trust your spouse, understand how he does, ask why they do what they do politely, this will help you to know how individuals behave.
7. Be ready to give all: Everything you have is for your spouse, if you are not ready to give all, don't start what you cant finish.
9. Be ready to learn new things and lower your ego: Swallow your pride and be respectful, learn new things, e.g. Cooking, traditions, language and many more, if you are going out of your tribe or country, don't be a monopoly, and be ready to teach.
10. Be your spouse favourites: if you don't see each other, you won't be able to sleep, if you haven't spoken to each other, you won't be able to do anything, let people talk about it, who knows how they treat their own spouse, give yourselves gifts, appreciate each other, be contentious, and know your spouse next move.
This will help you grow in your relationship, and don't be a nagging type. More on this later.
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