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Family / Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Harkinsoji(m): 11:48pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
kingreign: I wish to ask these rather strange question to you Sire, 1. Should your wife deliver a new baby, and she becomes ill or incapacitated to take care of that child for some weeks (which I don't hope or pray for), and there's no one around, what would you do for that child? What would you do to make your wife look at you with sense of pride and satisfaction?
2. What would you do to your young lad who comes back from school all soiled up, and has assignments to do, and is hungry, but the mom is probably not around due to official engagement as a working class executive or a business mogul, and you're on your annual leave and no baby sitter or maid in the house? Would you not care for that child, wash him up, laundry his clothes, cook for him and also assist him with his assignments?
These things are NOT hard, what makes them seem hard is our seemingly overbloated ego and entitlement. There is an aspect of Sociology called "gender in planning", and in that subject we had a subtopic called, gender and advocate planning in which folks learn about family members and perceived or distinguished roles and then these roles were put under another subtopic called, Social Division of Labour (SDOL) various groups in society have been pre-allocated certain roles and jobs expected of them. Let me say that since the beginning of 70's, that SDOL definition began to wither and in today's world, a woman can be as equally or more busy than a man. Let all these precolonial mentality be bygone.
We are NOT saying fathers should assume the exclusive roles of mothers or females, but should also take time to add their own presence and impact in the children and family's well-being directly. Too much sense in this post walai God bless brother 3 Likes |
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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Harkinsoji(m): 2:48pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
Hi guys got a note 9 from I don't know if it's a global version, how do I know |
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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Harkinsoji(m): 2:41pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
sureteeboy: Please, is there anyone with a fairly used Redmi phone for sale here in Lagos? Budget is 40k Note 5A prime |
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Harkinsoji(m): 5:06pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
dayveed1: I got mine through Nurex01. Even though I don't stay in lagos I still got it same day I ordered it. The transaction was very smooth and he has good customer satisfaction..
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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Harkinsoji(m): 7:50pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
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Travel / Re: With 16500 Security Agents Will Allow You Travel From Lagos To Abuja Despite Ban by Harkinsoji(m): 3:03pm On May 25, 2020 |
How much Sysdatek post=89942113: Travelled from ph to lag last sunday
Little sorting at borders
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Phones / Re: What The Hell Am I Seeing On Jumia?? by Harkinsoji(m): 2:59pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: Buhari Releases Names Of 161 Aides – See Who Made The List by Harkinsoji(m): 12:55pm On May 20, 2019 |
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