ariesbull: My cousin ended her five-year marriage the day she found out her husband cheated. We all begged her to think twice, to calm down before walking away. But she was done. She packed her things, took her two kids, and left.
For a year, the man went from one relative to another, begging for forgiveness. He apologised, promised to change, did everything a repentant man would do. But she stood firm. “I deserve better,” she said.
She got her own place, started afresh, and later met a married man who treated her well. For a while it looked like she had found peace until his wife showed up one morning and scattered everything. The man disappeared, and she was left humiliated.
Not long after, another man came along. He stayed just two months before running off when money became an issue. No message, no explanation.
Then came an Alhaji who promised marriage but only if she sent her sons back to their father. He said he could not raise another man’s children. She ended it right there.
Three years later, she woke up one morning and asked herself, what if I go back? The man still loved her, the kids missed him, and maybe time had softened her heart.
So she went to his house early that morning, ready to reconcile. But a pregnant woman opened the door. Her ex-husband had moved on.
It has been over ten years now. The woman who once turned heads no longer does. The suitors stopped coming. Her kids are back with their father, cared for by their stepmother who now has two of her own.
Life does not always give you a second chance. Sometimes pride takes what pain never could.
FreeStuffsNG: Mr. Wike stood in loco the President of Nigeria and Commander-in-Chief of the Nigerian Armed Forces on that fateful day. Consequently, even if the superior officer were still in service, he would not disobey Mr. Wike or obstruct him from entering the land. This was an affront to the civil authority of Mr. President.
The Minister’s method may be brash; but it is legal and lawful in all respects. Rather, it is the officer who obstructed him that has breached not just the Nigerian Constitution, but also service and extant regulatory laws. For the avoidance of any doubt, section 114 of the Armed Forces Act makes military personnel criminally liable for civil offences. This means the officer in question could be arraigned before a Court Martial for obstructing a public officer from performing his public duties, et cetera.
Patriotic Nigerians have started talking.
The least FG and the Military authorities can do right now is to immediately suspend him while preparing for his arraignment.
truthera: Nnamdi Kanu is indeed God sent, he is a true hero against injustice.... he has finally won the battle against his oppressors. Today, he has proven to the whole world that Nigeria is an unjust lawless country. Justice Omotosho should bury his head in shame for supporting illegality, putting Nigeria judiciary in to total shame.... if Nigeria wants to kill him so be it but let it be known that this injustice will not end with Nnamdi Kanu.... Nigerians supporting this injustice should bury their heads in shame.... Nigeria is a zoo....
injustice you say, but how many people in the south east lost their lives just for his sake?. If you can tell the the total number of people killed by unknown gun men, then his actions will be justified.
Unlike here where the perpetrators of crime are treated with kid gloves, the killer would surely have his day in court and if found guilty, there's no escape route.
its worse there. They'll end up saying they're protecting their property.
goslowgoslow: Exactly! But trust our easily deceived brothers from the east they have fallen in love with him. One you are against Tinubu you automatically become their friend.
Nazgul: Meanwhile, Tinubu's only concern is 2027. How all the governors, senators and reps members should de camp to APC and capture their state for him.
Nigerians can die in their thousands and he wouldn't be bothered...as long as he secures 2027 he's OK.
Sirjamo: Adultery is the only thing that can make me divorce my wife. Who would take care of the children like her? I'd rather take a second wife. I believe mothers should be there for their children, no matter what.
nah because dem never burst bottle for your head, or chook you knife nah why😁😁😁😁😁😊😊
effixxyguy1: Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.
After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.
I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.
that's because you're over doing it, or doing it either the intention of bearing children.
Cerebellum: One of the biggest mistake you can make as a man is putting all your trust in one so called "friend", they will ruin you without remorse. Though, there are very few exception
Ozzyk: We got married in ending of August We didn't have anything to do together at all during our 2 year courtship She's really adorable and a Godly babe to the core On the second night of our wedding I confirmed she was a virgin Sadly our honeymoon only lasted Barely 2 weeks before she missed her period Here is the issue; Since over a month and some few weeks now she won't let me touch her, in fact it's like my touches irritate her, no sex, no kiss, no smooching, no touching It sometimes feels we're just house mates who shares same matrimonial bed together I have tried to talk to her many times about my sexual wellness but she seems not interested at all My marriage is less than 2 months and I am already over a month sex starved Perhaps she sometimes complains of pregnancy cramps but this should not com at the detriment of my sexual well being..... And besides she's goes to work everyday but the moments she gets home she won't let me touch not even slight touches not to talk of sex or romance.... I am already tired 😩
Sterope: Any edeiot can write a book. Dan Brown wrote books too based on some other popular books and myths.
Again, even aprostentant theologian would not think well fo u at all.
I don't either. I mean I read a lots of cosnpiracies too but the difference is I am smart enough to smell BS.
You see, the human mind is designed to fall towards sympathy and sentiments. Only a few have grown past such feelings and they are called realists. I doubt you fall under such, if you were, you'd have chosen facts to literature.
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