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Rizzputin:
Most single mothers are sweet, caring and supportive when they like you.

In fact, they can be so caring and well mannered you'd want to marry then asap.

But... it's a trap. They're merely pretending. Once they get what they want from you (marriage), her bad side will start showing.

Take note, I didn't say "true colour" Because someone's true color isn't just their bad side. It's a combination of good and bad. So, once she gets married to you, the bad side of her true color will show. And some times, it may not be a bad side you might want to deal with or handle.


The second reason why you should never marry a single mother is because she has a hidden resent for men. Her story is typical amongst single mothers. Their exes are always "deceiving" them.

But regardless of how sad their ex story is, she CHOSE to date him. CHOSE to sleep with him unprotected. So even though her ex will get a majority of the blame. She gets the blame too. No matter how bad she paints her ex, it's the same man she opened her legs for and had a baby with.... and it's the same man that's now the father of her child...

Which brings me to the third and biggest reason....

No matter what you do or sacrifice, no matter your love for each other.... that child will always be above you in her heart & mind. The child's needs and wants will be placed above yours.

Which means a strong connection and attraction will always be to her ex. Her ex can use the child to get to her heart and between her legs again and again.

Worst of all, the ex can make life a hell for you if he wants the child to come and stay with him. If the woman doesn't agree, you'll find yourself entering into a war you shouldn't be in.


On that note, the best thing is to repay her in whatever capacity she has supported you and bid her fare well.

The only time I MIGHT consider a guy marrying a single mother is if the father of the child is dead.

If not, it's a bad idea

What a wise counsel....
I am really impressed.

oluwatobi01:
US has the highest PhD funding and space in the world. I will b gunning for the summer adm, I hope it works this time.

Anyone bro as long as you get out from this hell call Nigeria.

oluwatobi01:
Brother, me self dey this table. With my strong 2.1 (4.06) and distinction in master, I still dey lobby for decent paying job.

What I realise is dt, mke we look outside seeking for jobs, may b start with a small biz and with a little bit of luck, it may grow or mke we fight am comot completely by Japaing..

In this country, if u can't join them, u become abandoned mke God no abandon us...

The country is long decayed.

Please apply for phd scholarship at the Scandinavian countries its always free and comes with a stipend.

It's an underground business with a table..It's part of an organized crime in Nigeria,you must get liver both physically and spiritually to run am!

Great0ne1:
If only you know what this evil man has for nigerians

Very wise statement from you sir.
Nothing goes for free.
Especially from the west!

Government don't build a nation they provide a good economic atmosphere for business men to build a nation....

The military have to understand the civil military relationship very well,we are no longer in the military era where things are different.

Government have failed in providing more of modern security,they should proatise on security such as food,environmental,welfare and health security as against these distribution of food items...

The government should be more concerned about the welfare of the citizenry rather than fighting insecurity,when the welfare of the citizens are well taken care of little amount of money would be used in fighting insecurity...

Hey,who gains from all of these,the greedy security personnel,more budget allocation more money to them.

BALLOSKI:
If an oil producing nation that solely depend on crude export to survive is taking this step, I don't know the message that we're sending to the world or buyers of our crude.


I feel we should act like Saudi, Russia, Qatar, Venezuela, etc. They don't have any message than to go to COP conferences and discourage a shift from fossil oil.


Trust me, when we switch to CNG, the price will go up again as a results of increase in demand. Fuel is available for Algerians and Libyans at cheap rate because they refine in their country. But in Nigeria, when we have one problem, we create another one out of it.

Exactly my thoughts..
Thanks for this piece.

BALLOSKI:
Can we talk privately?

Please, let's talk.

Please kindly listen to him....

You are just trying to be a very responsible man..In addition please be only very responsible to your wife alone... financially, emotionally and otherwise.

I wish you all the best.

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Good hearing from you,we both applied for weec graduate assistance jod and did their exams at benin...
How times fly..

NaijaVietnamese:
Please go through the thread, particularly from page one. I listed all the requirements accordingly.

Anyone with a degree and who can score above band 7 in IELTs can succeed as a teacher in Vietnam.

Unfortunately, majority of Nigerians coming to the country are doing things the wrong way and that’s why most of them aren’t making any headway.

Thanks for the update,please is it IELTS academic or general?

What will say,Jehovah let your kingdom come.

Divoc19:
Single mothers are more calmer, matured and want regular sex.
Some of them were just victims of lost dream.
Making good decisions with the wrong person.

Lovely comment 🌹

Please kindly ignore and furnish us interested in teaching I have a degree in English Language what do I need to do to qualify?

Thanks for your lovely input.

pansophist:
Importation gone wrong lol

If any woman can do this to any man, especially a forty-something-year-old man, then he probably is not very bright.

Living in the west has its own set of rules. Understand the law, and work with it. Always bring your wife abroad if you have to, but make sure you have downloaded marital penal codes and read it like a bible, so you understand how your case would be accessed if divorce happens.

If you are riding a car, you wear a seatbelt even if you won't get an accident, it's the same thing with marriage, you prepare for the worst.

It is extremely foolish to enter a union where a person who breaks that union is rewarded when it could be avoided if you just understand how the law works.

There are many ways a woman won't get even 1 kobo if she divorced a billionaire. In fact, it is her money that would be shared between the billionaire and her. Knowledge is power.

Are you referring to a legal document known as a prenuptial agreement. I have no idea where the woman will get nothing,except it is clearly specified in the prenuptial agreement and I don't think any woman in her right senses would sign that.

Thanks for sharing that route bro.

Aaronzy:
Please how does the Police recruit professionals like doctors, lawyers, nurses, helicopter pilots, engineers? Since these courses are not studied at Nigerian Police Academy. I remember in those days before police academy started, police normally do short service recruitment and cadet inspector recruitment.

How do they do these things now?

They still do something like short service but not exactly that because it's specifically for the armed forces. The special recruitment are for professionals like the ones you mentioned in your question,they will undergoes a short training for like 9 months and there after commissioned to serve as superintendent-grade level 12 in the police force. I don't know about other professionals but I definitely know about medical and veterinary doctors.
I hope this helps.

I am not in anyway in support of the Op,but please let's critically look at the educational system those with very good grades don't get the juicy jobs, those with nothing to offer are in these juicy parastatals we know them all.....

I was in total shock when I saw my friend with a first-class degree riding a bike for survival,I have seen many with second class upper and with lower I have lost my count.

Things are just too wrong in all sector,let me no go into the educational sector,I remembered a professor intentionally keeping a scholarship opportunity for his son who has not yet gained admission,did the son got the scholarship,yes he did,his father made sure he was admitted in his department and made sure he met up with the prerequisite of the scholarship,when there where other vibrant students that made better grades.

As mentioned earlier,I am not in support of the Op,but most times most us are just too frustrated with a country called Nigeria,where with money you can get anything.

superCleanworks:
unserious country

if the government was serious, what stops the government from having a well planned, 100 acre farm estate (with schools, hospitals, agriculture research institute, police & army quarters, inside it) in every state?
why is it rocket science to industrialize agriculture?

A very lovely idea,but this government will never to this,they will rather loot the country's fortune.

Hammylawali:
This has nothing to do with the economy, the CBN is full of people doing absolutely nothing. They need to go.

That's not true bro,from verified report Cbn sacked or disengaged 80% of their very best staff those left are those that knows actually nothing.
A lot of monies have been used in training these disengaged staff,more money would be used to train newly recruited staff to fill their position.

Restructuring is a very good thing,but the government should be very transparent and sensitive.

Sweden is a very good country.
Apply for their global scholarship...

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Please sir,why don't you concentrate your effort on getting a new employment getting a transfer in the civil service is very difficult these days...In addition,if you are bent on transfer from your agency/ministry to another,first try secondment,but please make sure they request you with an official letter sent directly to the head of your agency/ministry before applying for a release.

To me all these is just too stressful I would rather advice to look for another job,with your experience and exposure you should get a better agency.

Shalom!

suckmedownthere:
It like that in most Nigerian homes, the best is to leave home early and come back late eat your own food and sleep, ignore them they only show you love when you have money on you...... African parent are the reasons most youths involve in crime, they compare you with others... Try and move out asap

Wow this coming from a lady...
I really do respect your thinking ability madam,it shows you are very mature.
Until you are into people's pain,you know how it feels.

Iinnov8:
Flash sale

2 units of original 160ah Fullriver FAT (Front Access Terminals) batteries for sale

Background information
Batteries were commissioned as 12v in February 2022 and immediately hooked up to solar and supported with grid charging using Suoer 12v battery charger. Batteries were optimally charged everyday and it was hardly used below 12.0v (equivalent to 50% DoD) before another cycle of charge begins. Batteries were decommissioned in December 2023 and was occasionally trickled-charged to prevent sulphation

Based on the load test I just performed on the batteries using the energy-efficient EASun satchet inverter on a load of 130w (just a 55" Hisense smart TV) it gave a backup time of 6hours before hitting 12.0v from full charge. I project another 4hours before the battery gets completely drained. If you are looking to power a staggered load of lights, standing fan and laptop (all below 70w), this will give you good value for money.

Batteries will come with a free DC voltage meter that gives an independent voltage reading and a defective PowMr 60A MPPT solar charge controller. Controller was wrongly connected at one of the battery terminals and it blew. I can refer you to someone who can fix it

Price: 250,000 firm. Waybill is welcomed

200k serious buyer sir.
Good morning!

This is a lovely dog,it's name is Lagos Shepherd.....

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cyif2003:
Still available

Price sir!