Humans might be different but all this counts in a relationship

What nonsense pls

At the beginning of most marriages, couples hold each other as many times as possible, the love is ‘kicking’ and the urge for sex is there.
Sex is very important whether in a short-term relationship or long-term relationship. It keeps the couples together and helps them stay connected both emotionally and physically.
Now, a marriage whereby the couples rarely have sex or none at all, what becomes of that marriage?
A sexless marriage is defined as a marriage where the couples have little or no sexual activities at all.
The absence of sex in a marriage is not bad if both couples have decided but a situation whereby the urge is there, and still no sex and either of the spouse feels unloved-it’s bad.
Is your marriage sexless and your marital life is no longer sweet as a result of some prevailing circumstances? Here is what to do.

1. Know and address the problem:
When there is no sex, couples become susceptible of extra-marital affairs. Some reports have it that it is good for couples to have sex once every week, and you take a look at your marriage life and the sex is no longer there. From days to weeks and it continues, no sex-address the problem.
The longer it takes to solve the problem, the more challenging it will be to remedy the situation.

2. Assist each other to get back to sex:
If you really want to fix your sexless marriage, be open about it, talk about sex in your bedroom. Cuddle sexually around each other. Be free to pour out your emotions.
You can take a day off, send the kids to closer relatives or grandparents and you can also go on vacation.
Talk about each other in a more romantic way.

3. Make a plan for sex:
I can say that about 80 percentages of married couples do not care to include sex when making their plans. It’s wrong. You plan for this, you plan for that and then you are always pre-occupied with plans and no sex included. How do you expect your sex life to grow when you don’t have time for it?
If you truly desire a healthy sex life in your marriage, then you must really put in your time for it.
If sex is already in your plans, be committed to it and be faithful.

4. Make a sweet request:
Is your partner not giving you sex, don’t complain. Complaining would worsen the situation and nobody wants to have sex with someone who complains a lot.
Are you sexually neglected? Make a sweet and emotional request that could melt the heart of your partner.
You can also drop a note for your spouse expressing your love and desire to have sex with him or her.

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I cant believe this is coming from a guy like me.
You dated her for ten good years and not only that, you deflowered her.
This ten years you never thought of marriage plans and now you want to start 'a new biz' together.
How do you think a girl in her right senses can succumb to that?
It's not fair bro.

Some women are blind when it comes to their relationship. Some women just came into a relationship just because their friends are there. Some women have longed been in a relationship and no changes in that relationship. The relationship is still as it was years back.
Most women fail to take note of their relationship whether it’s really going forward or it’s just stagnant.
It’s one thing to be in a relationship and another thing to be able to access it.
How do you know if your man is really serious about you or is he just going to have fun, dump you and get himself into the arms of another woman?

Men don’t move around with a sign on their fore-head that they are real. It would have been better that way if there was a sign but unfortunately there is no sign on their head.

The sign you can possibly get to know if your man is real is what I will show to you and if you have any question or contribution kindly use the comment box.

1. Is he caring?
For few years you have been with him, have you noticed if he is the caring type that can make a good husband or not? In a real relationship, the man shares in the joy and sadness of the woman. So, you can now decide if your man is real is fake judging from his care-attitude.

2. Is he lovely?
Lovely men are always romantic to their partner. They are lovely in their talk and lovely men gets romantic gifts like flowers for their partner. As a woman, know your man, understand him and if there seem not to be a sign of loveliness coming from him, then he is not real and cannot make a future husband.

3. Is he inquisitive?
Has he for once asked after your family? Has he for once thought to have a meeting with them? A man who is really genuine is always inquisitive to know about the welfare of the woman’s family. And also, the real man would want a woman to meet up with his parents as well.
Doing so signifies that the relationship is open, truthful and in the right direction.

4. Does he cuddle around me?
Is your man the type that just walks out of the bed after having sex with you? You can know if he is real when he lies close to you with his arms around you and whispers to your ears how romantic you are.

5. Does he speak well of me?
Even when you are not there, does he speak well of you? If he is the type that tells badly of you outside, then be sure that he is probably not the real one for you.

6. Does he regard my opinions?
In tense matters, real man should consider his partners opinions and suggestions. As a woman, if your thought on a matter is not regarded, then you should know that the relationship is not real.

7. Does he emotionally care?
If your relationship is based on sex with no emotions attached to it, then it’s fake.

There are still more to it.
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The truth is what the writer has said.
Some Women will still remain single as a result of self-indicted habit which is pride.
Most women because of their wealth and position, they dont want to be under a man and this mentality if not changed causes them to remain unmarried for life.