Dextology:
Wonder why some guys must attach strings especially sex before they help any lady financially.

that's the stupid mentality of loose guys

bid4rich:
She is 29years old, she has a 3 year old daughter by mistake but madly in love with me and she want us to get married this year. Though she is a good and loving person and I dnt see her giving me problem but im afraid of going into this affair with her.

Please, advise accordingly from the abundant of talent and experience God has given to you cos I dont want problem I cannot see.

Thanks

tons of advice has been giving already.

You have to consider some things first.

1. Do you too really love her?

2. Are you 100% sure that you will love her daughter later on in the marriage?

3. Know how she got the daughter. Who the father is or just get to know the detailed information as to how she got the child.


Now if you really love her and know very well that you will always love the daughter as if it were yours, then go ahead and marry her.

You know, every woman in her case desires to be with a man cuz they fill a sense of security when they are with a man.

I dnt blv all dese signs u jux mentioned, they r fake.

they are not fake friend..

Out of every hundred friends, almost 80 are found with these signs.

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ZarZar:


No, just reading & taking it in. It seems alright. Good job.

thanks Friend For The Acknowledgement...

Bumbae1:
Nice write up

That number 5 .. dey make us fall the most

gone Are Those Days People Ask And Ask Questions As To Who They Want To Go Into Relationship With, But Today, Its Very Rare For People To Ask Who Their Partner Really Is.

Some Persons Get Into Relationship Without Making Enquiries. How Then Do You Know If The Person Is Real Or Not.

We Shouldn't Fall A Victim Of These.

SNOWCREAM:
Okay nice read. These relationship experts and pro want us to do heaven and earth. There is so much we can do to boom our relationship, we know that, but we're all limited by our abilities and level of sacrifice.

you are right friend..We All Know All These, We All Know How To Get Relationships Going, We Have Read Books On Such Issues, But Our Human Limitations Is Always In Front Of Us Not Allowing Us Do What We Ought To...

But In All Of These Human Short-comings, We Can Still Strive The More For Better Relationships.

ZarZar:
Hmmm...

are you short of words?

Some ladies are so curious that beside their beauty, Intelligence, wealth and so on, why do they still end up in relationship break-ups, WHY can't they have a long-lasting and strong relationship? Do you ask yourself these questions? I think the fault is yours and not that of your partner. These reasons will give you a sense of realization and they will help you adjust..


1. Negative Thoughts
This is the most deadly problems most ladies suffer. Are you the type that feels he no longer loves you just because he doesn't call often? Or because he cancelled a date just for one or two reasons not known to you and this makes you feel there's another girl occupying him. My Dear you might be wrong! Just because he stops calling doesn't mean he doesn't have you in mind. What if he is facing one or two challenges but you won't know because your wrong guess has so eaten deep into you that you won't even know when you break up with him, just because he doesn't call, which would be very foolish of you because if you have not given your negative thought a room in, you would have made attempts to call him to check what the problem might be for not calling you. He will open up to you.

Please ladies, if you don't know this let me break it down for you. Negative thought is an evil spirit that feeds you with lies and in the end pushes you to do what you are not suppose to do, and when you realize the damaging effect of what you have done, that evil spirit abandons you and that's when you now notice that you were not supposed to do it according to your negative voice, and it might be too late to make amends in the end, if this applies to you, you better give that negative thought a quick notice.


2. Looking At Others To Try To Make Your Relationship Work
Just because your girlfriend dangles a car key at your face telling you how her boyfriend buys a brand new car as a birthday present every year for her, or your friends are going on trips every week and you don't enjoy this, or You always see that beautiful girl always everywhere with her man. All these don’t give you the right to want your boyfriend to do same.

If you look at others in life you become a photocopied version of the original copy this can ruin your relationship greatly because you can't live the way others do. They are living their own world and you are living yours, so always learn to be grateful and appreciative to your partner and your partner should do same.

Learn to set standards for yourself, enjoy every bit of your relationship as you and your partner go through the good bad and the ugly, always be satisfied with your love life.Its better to be an example to make people admire and envy you,than for people to set examples for you.



3. When Your Relationship Seems Boring

Of a truth, a boring relationship is like a human with a broken spinal cord,to make your relationship work,you've got to have fun moment with your partner, men loves vibrant and lively ladies. Include jokes that will make him laugh,be playful around him,do annoying things that will make him scream out loud,pillow fight! I love this one,but please don't play to the extent of hiding his document oooo.. Nobody wants to experience a boring relationship coz its as good as dead-its so not gonna work at all.

This is another very strong strategy of getting your relationship firm,that would even make him cry like a baby when he travels for business trips for like a week,coz girl! you making him miss the playful girl that gave him a playful spank before he entered that plane.. So girl if you experience boredom in your relationship I think its time to go for some play practice.


4. Not Using The "Okay Fine! I Admit It I Am Wrong" Statement When Necessary

Guys hate it when you are wrong and you just wanna be right,this turns them off totally,My dear its the gospel truth, I am not saying always admit you are wrong when an issue comes up all I am saying is admit you are wrong when you know you are. Not that claiming right when you wrong adds up to your bank account or beauty o,it will only extend your relationship status to 3 more years or lead to a break up for you Because he won't want to put a ring on your finger if you do this almost all the time it will result to him being scared of you always doing the wrong thing and claiming you right and this can lead him to his early grave.


5. No Understanding of who you are Dating

Some ladies are just so lazy that they don't even know and understand their partners and in the end they end up having tons of argument which could lead to a daily routine if care is not taken.

its is always advisable that you know every thing about your partner,when I say everything you, know what I mean,ask questions about his background,what he does coz nobody wants a broke lazy man,ask about his worldview,what he likes and what he hates, you should also be able to study him and so on and make him ask you too and besides he's definitely gonna ask you except he doesn't have a goal in the relationship. Getting to know each other helps you to know who you are dealing with.This is one very strong key to securing your relationship coz if you guys don't know each other then the compatibility is 0% because once you don't understand him you cant know how real he is.


6. Laziness

Wow! I love this. Tell me I'm not missing this out!’Dear I need this,Dear I need that,Dear I am broke’,mostly Send me recharge card almost all the time just because your boyfriend happens to be the presidents son you feel he's your ATM machine right? My dear he wont only try by all means to avoid you,he will also break up with you and flush the respect he has for you down the toilet because you will only make him feel you love his money and not him. so please if you do this often stop it now!! Guys loves hardworking ladies,they don't just love but respect them,some ladies say when a lady has too much cash men will be scared to come their way,my dear its pure lies being a hardworking woman scares men who are not worthy to ask them out it takes a bold and intelligent buoyant man to make this move so change that mentality now... No guy will settle for a lazy lady so the earlier you get that the better for you!


i highlighted 5 more signs here, just take your time to go through it.

Idydarling:
i love the last paragraph....


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Many people lack the meaning of relationship and that’s why some of them are living a life of Delaytionship.The funny part of it is, ‘its nothing goes for nothing stuff’ where the lady dates him and submits her body to him, then he in return provides for her financially. This is what is in vogue now were the girl performs her so called duty and the guy does his.

Now tell me, who is a prostitute? A prostitute is a female who sleeps with men for a living. So tell me what differentiates her from a prostitute? The most funny part of it is some ladies don't realize this, they feel sex is what keeps a relationship strong, because they have been blinded by the fact that the guy have to get used to their body or they should be good in bed, these are pure LIES! They are only using you as a lab rat, and if you yield to this belief of sex being a screw that makes a relationship tight and strong, you have only made the so called guy believe you are the good in bed type and not the marriage type. In case you don’t know, guys are very smart when it comes to marriage, which many girls do not know! Ladies here are some words of advice for you to change your mentality:


Have Self Worth
Do not make who you are dating your source of income. Do not depend on him for money. Show him you are not dating his money but him and show him you can do without his money. If you don't ask for his money, he won't ask you for sex. I am not saying don't ask but let your asking be once in a while, when you do it once in a while he will over respect you by giving you more than you even asked of.


Never cry over a guy or your boyfriend should they break your heart
This has led many girls taking their lives, he is not worth your tears and by the way you are not married to him.


Never show a Guy you are madly in love with him
Once you show him that, he will see that as your weak point and use this weak point to take advantage of you. By cheating on you because he knows you are the crazy-in-love girl that will surely come back to him. Be wise!!




Know when your boyfriend only wants to use you as his intimacy gadget
Does he always try to want to use strategic means to sleep with you? Does he always try to romance you even when you two are on a normal conversation? And when you resist him does he get angry at you? If so, he doesn’t love you. He just wants to use you to flex his muscle. If he loves you he will respect your opinion by stopping his "annoying romantic attempt" when you say no.


Do not fight with a fellow girl over a guy or your boyfriend

My dear if he is for you, he's for you. Real men are too expensive to be taken and secured to be stolen.

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martinsejiken:
Sometimes wen a guy tells a girl I love u" it makes her grow wild. She can start misbehaving because she knows the guy is in love with her. Its beta she does nt hear it from u but show her u love n care abt her.

you got it right...there is this girl i loved, though she was a bit older than i am..i loved her deeply but i didn't speak a word to her about my feelings.

Little did i know that my feeling for her was written all over my face..she knew i loved her but was quiet all the while..she then had to write me and also expressed her feelings to me.

Sometimes, our feelings just show up and we may not need to speak.

mengho:


it feels too heavy for me, I felt like if I say it, it will be like permanent sealed engagement and I was not ready for such commitment at dat time since I was in uni part 2

i understand you bro...the phrase 'i love you' to some people seem to be a kind of huge committment and devotion and if you aren't ready for that, it's better not to say anything or give false hopes to the girl.

hoover420:

I should substitute I LOVE YOU for I love you? like your no 1 implies

you can.

kokomilala:
You missed,'I care', but it's worth its weight in gold.It's as effective as that overused emotive I LOVE YOU.

oh thanks for the addition. Dont forget to read the rest 10

mengho:
Women only want to hear
"I LOVE YOU"

I remember wan girl telling me I don't wanna be adored, I want to be Loved.

Since I was to shy to say "I love you" she seem really angry

I was like "owk'

Well she don dump me & already married with one cute kid

hahaha i guess you were shy to say 'i love you'!

You are right my friend, the phrase 'i love you' tends to swell their heads, but when it's frequently used, it becomes boring to the hearer.

The over usage of the word ‘I love you’ in many relationship has made it less effective to action and this is why when you tell this to some girls who doesn't really know the real meaning, only for them to give a reply like "that's what you guys always say" or "this is not the first time an hearing this" etc simply because some folks out there have in such a way downgraded that phrase.

There are too many ways to tell a girl ‘I love you‘instead of using the already made English word. This will make it more different from what others have been saying to her and also create more value to the phrase" I love you."

Why not use these?

1. I LOVE YOU

2. "I adore you."

3. "I'm totally into you."

4. "I love you from the bottom of my heart."

5. "You mean so much to me."

6. "I'm yours."

7. "You complete me."

8. "I'm in love with you."

9. "There is no other."

10. "You're my ideal woman."

11. "You're my Prince Charming."

12. "You're my angel."

13. "You're my princess."

14. "You're incredible."

15. "You're my baby."

16. "You're my queen."

17. "You're mine."

18. "You're amazing."

19. "We're perfect for each other."

20. "We're a good match."

Read the rest Here

I was listening to the radio on a faithful day and the discussion headline was to list out the names of God in any language you can I began to hear many English names of God that I can't even comprehend simply because they are totally new to my hearing.

At the end of the program the person in charge of addressing the audience from the studio was also surprise at the names people called God only for her to conclude with this sentence "Give God a name according to your problem" funny! And she finally concluded that when you have scattered teenagers and you want to call God to intervene you call him "Jehovah the teenager builder"


So also applied in a relationship were there is love, anything can be used to replace that word I love you based on actions on point.... so please tell us more words from your own point of view that can be used in substitute for the word ‘I love you’

Guys must pursue ladies. this is the herbal order but what if the guy is so shy? a few ladies locate themselves liking a shy man and end up so pissed off because they hold watching for him to do the first circulate. dealing with a shy man will be a project and also you need to have the guts to make the primary move, at the least until he receives comfy around you due to the fact occasionally all a guy desires is a lady who can assist him triumph over his shyness. Are you managing a shy man? right here are some useful pointers.




Do not take his shyness in my opinion. A guy's shyness has nothing to do with you. A shy guy is obviously uncomfortable round girls so do now not suppose that he's uncomfortable only with you and do no longer assume that something is wrong with you. Shyness is simply a part of his nature but it has not anything to do along with his emotions toward you. coping with a shy man can be very hard if you will begin taking it in my view and will begin questioning some thing is inaccurate with you.

Discover ways to engage him in a communication. you can wait forever for a shy guy to start the communication so you have to discover ways to make him interact in a communication. It requires guts to provoke a communique with man who is extraordinarily shy but if you certainly like him, it is best to strive than
not to attempt in any respect. before taking a leap forward and provoke a conversation, discover a common interest between the 2 of you so you realize what to speak about. maybe you both love song or you each love a positive interest. once there is a not unusual hobby, it is less difficult to have interaction him to speak or have a verbal exchange with you. it may take a while for a shy guy to engage in a face-to-face conversation so in this situation, social media, chat apps and textual content messaging can be very helpful to begin the verbal exchange and get to recognise each different well earlier than going through each other. regardless of what the medium is, the most crucial thing in managing a shy guy is to help him communicate and open up to you.



Be patient. guys who are shy need time to experience relaxed with the alternative intercourse and dashing him or forcing him to go out of his shell will not be beneficial. handling a shy man calls for persistence. Do now not anticipate a fast progress. If he managed to start texting you, do not strain him to make common calls. Take matters slowly. Do now not rush him however offer him a at ease environment and make him sense that he is unfastened to specific himself while he's prepared. Do no longer strain him or pressure him but allow matters occur evidently.



Admire his privacy. A shy guy can be very private and it's miles a huge leap for him to leap forward and proportion things with you so if he controlled to accomplish that, recognize his shared feelings. it's miles first-rate to maintain the ones things for yourself. He might not appreciate hearing which you shared those things he confided to you with your own family and buddies. it's miles vital to benefit his accept as true with and confidence for him to maintain opening himself to you. managing a shy man calls for you to be respectful of his shared feelings and his privacy.

Make him sense excellent about himself. A shy man lacks self belief perhaps due to the fact he has insecurities or does not realize his worth. In managing a shy guy, it is essential to help him improve his self assurance. Make him feel that he topics. in case you need help on some thing he is good at, do not hesitate to ask assist from him. but it's miles critical that you are sincere and not handiest pretending which you want assist just to make him feel properly. virtually praise him and keep in mind even the little matters he shared with you. let him understand that shyness is some thing that can be defeated and let him experience that he isn't on my own because people consisting of you can be shy too every so often.

Handling a shy guy can be a venture however in case you know what to do, you could assist this man come out of his shell and reveal his true self in that relationship.

It’s natural as a guy to always have this desire of wanting to be with the opposite sex. But it’s quite unfortunate that most guys don’t think before acting- which is bad.

Most relationships don’t last probably because of the wrong choice made by both parties.



It’s normal to see a girl and admire her but abnormal to get into a relationship with her without thinking first.



Most guys see relationship as something you can just get into; toil with the girls emotions and get out at will.

Before getting into a relationship with a girl, its better you ask yourself certain questions to avoid emotional clash with the girl.

Don’t get into a relationship with a girl because other guys do so.
Below are questions to ask yourself before getting into an emotional friendship with a girl.
Don’t forget to use the comment box after reading.

1. Am I ready?
This is the most important question to ask yourself. If you truly know that you are not ready for a girl, then don’t even think of approaching a girl.
Not been ready for a relationship would definitely lead to a crash if you unreadily get into it.
If you know very well that you are ready, and then do yourself a favor by asking the second question.


2. What do I want in her?
Sometimes, guys are not really specific as to what they really want in a girl, which is wrong. If you are not sure of what you want, you can go on fooling yourself in front of the girl.

Some guys want to have a girl that would always be around them, hug and kiss them. Some want a girl that can compliment them. Whichever reasons you have, be definite about it. While most guys want to have a girl for the love and pleasure of been around them.


3. Is it going to be a child’s play?
Now that you’ve made a decision as to what you want, what’s next? Is the relationship going to be really serious and true? If no, have a re-think.

If you are thinking of building a strong lasting relationship with a girl, then you should also think of living up to expectation. What do I mean here? Learn to be matured.

So if you really are interested in choosing a girl as your friend for a relationship, you need to be sincere to yourself first.
If you think of playing around as a ‘game boy’ that shows you are not ready and can never be ready for her.


4. Can I really love her?
It’s one thing to love and another thing to stick to it. I once felt guilty of not loving my girlfriend completely after finding out little secrets about her. Before involving yourself with a certain girl, study your heart and know if you can forever love her.
Sometimes along the line, you start hearing rumors and ‘funny’ stories about your girl- all of that will come but do you know what will keep the relationship going? Your love will.

No one is perfect, yes! But she definitely needs you to be perfect. So take a deep breath, look into her eyes and say ‘my love for you is stronger than all of these’.


5. Can I be able to tolerate?
If you are the type that is unforgiving, trust me! You would be jumping from one relationship to another.

Everyone has a fault and we all see in it in them, including that girl you want. The earlier you realize that fact, the better for your relationship.

For example, the girl does not like going out for social gathering. And you are the type that likes that so much. That wouldn’t be a problem, its okay. Not everybody is the same and she probably can’t be like you.

Accept it that way, learn to live with it and she would as well appreciate your understanding. And if you are sure you can cope with a girls attitude, please don’t get into a relationship with her.

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Most partners living together find it a bit hard to confirm if their partner is truly cheating on them.
Some people are afraid of digging out the truth, probably they won’t be able to stand the fact that their partner is cheating on them.


If you are suspicious of your partner’s movement, the best thing to do is to look out for strong evidence. If you stay quiet and not doing anything about your suspicion and all of a sudden your greatest fear just come true before your very eyes-it will definitely cause a heart-break.

So, spare yourself all that stress of passing through heart-break and look for possible ways to clear all those suspicions.

If you are suspecting your partner of been unfaithful to you, are you going to sit down there and let things to keep going like that? Are you going to keep letting your suspicion eat you up like that?
No! You can do something about it

Now, how do I find the evidence of my partner’s unfaithfulness?

A simple place to start digging out your evidence is to start from your partner’s cell phone. If you find out your partner is no longer leaving his or her phone close to you that shows there are something hidden. For example, your partner all of a sudden starts taking his or her cell phone to the bathroom and stays longer than before-that should be a good sign of unfaithfulness.

Sometimes, you partner might forget going out with the phone; you can quickly glance through the call history.

In the call history, we have dialed numbers and received calls. Here you can see the number of times your partner has dialed a certain number and also you can see the number of times he or she has received calls from that same numbers.

You might want to jot down the number and try calling it with another line to confirm your fears.

You can also monitor your partner and note how frequent they answer calls during odd hours. You can monitor their tone when answering a call.

Most unfaithful partners, when speaking on the phone, don’t make any serious conversation with the person they are interacting with and what you keep hearing is “yes”, “its okay”, “am listening”.

That’s good evidence that they must be cheating on you and you must do something fast about it.


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You've found that special one and you want her to be yours, but you don’t know what to do, how to start, and who to run to. Yes! I just used the word "Run to" because actually it’s an emergency issue; you won’t be the only one trying, so you've got to strive for what you want. To do that, read and be guided by these killer strategies.




First and foremost be "YOU"

Do you think we love when you fake it? Not at all. The truth is, you can't keep up with it, and when we get to discover, you just ruined it all. There's nothing like being real and making a girl loves you for who you are. You won't have to go through all that stress living a fake life and you will have that peace of mind that she loves you for real. But if you decide to be fake and claim who you are not and you think you've won her heart, my dear sorry, but you've not because she doesn't love you but the fake you. So being real matters a lot.




Take things slowly by being a good friend first

Some guys just feel the best way to win her heart is just barging in. If so, you got it all wrong; the best way is to be friends with her first. Be that person that can tell her were she's wrong not withstanding her reaction, one that can play with her like a brother, joke her, tease her, have quarrels and at the same time forgive each other.
This will make her rely on you greatly and in most cases her feelings for you will grow very fast to the extent she would wish you two were more than friends. During this time, you are also using the avenue to study the kind of person she is, if really she's good for you, all depends on your observations and findings.




Be Confident

Take it or leave it, one thing that attracts her to you is your confidence. When you the sluggish and dull type, you are doing yourself no good because you won't be able to express yourself, but when you are an embodiment of confidence you can express yourself and speak up for yourself as this is a plus to winning her heart.




Have a great sense of Creativity

Guys listen up, being creative is not making some awkward move or bathing her with gifts just to impress her or even using your bank account to please her. No! Learn to think outside the box. Which is not trying to do what other men do to impress a lady, do things that no one has done before, put up your thought into your date so you will make her feel special and different from every other girls.




Be jovial

Girls so much love jovial guys, who are full of humors, free and humble to the core. They motivate them and get them close to you. Be free to have that fun you want to have with her. Make her laugh; show her that with you there is never a dull moment.
This will make her go fond of you and free with you.




Add her to your priority list

Yea! Sure make her a priority, while you at work make a call to check on her. Let her know even at work you have her in mind. When you come back from work, connect with her and tell her how work went. Make sacrifices for her.




Take her unawares by surprises

I assure you she's so going to love it. Surprise her with things she loves. Let me give out a little trick, try to study her closely by knowing that colour she loves through the clothes she wear or ask her about the things she loves, her favorite meal, her favorite colour, places she loves going and so on.
She might just think you are asking because you want to know her better. But just think of this, how do you think she will feel when you get her that nice purple gown? Hmm! she's not going to only love it but she's going to love you because that was a pretty gown with her favorite colour. She might even forget she once told you her favorite colour, but you did remember which a plus is.


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