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Jokes Etc / Long Laugh Production Wont Kill Me by harrison12(m): 4:43pm On May 29, 2017
Long Laugh Production wont Kill me. Abeg make una shift make i laugh die


This guys are really trying oooooo

Since morning i've been laughing till now after watching their joke videos.
honestly Nigerians are really talented and we do need to support them.

Pls click HERE to go and watch them oooooo
Romance / 8 Ways On How To Improve Your Friendship With People by harrison12(m): 2:58am On May 27, 2017
Have you ever looked at yourself and come to the conclusion that you can never be a good friend? Is there an inferiority complex inside of you that keeps telling you that you can never make a great companion to people? Then, you do need to come out of that silly lie because the truth is that anyone can make a great friend. You can be want you want to be if only you truly desire it.

Being a decent companion is an expertise we can learn and enhance. Here are eight key approaches that you can follow to be a superior companion.

1. Like Yourself First
The initial phase in having a decent association with companions is to have a decent association with yourself.
When you truly like yourself, then you turn out to be more appealing to other individuals. You have more to offer others since you are not always centered on your own picture. You turn out to be better a companion since you don't stick. To be a better and a loving friend, first and foremost, like yourself.
When you are sad and angry within you, people will notice and wouldn’t want to get close to you and you, you won’t have that brightness of face to approach people.

2. Choose Admirably
To get connected with genuine friend might take some kind of relentless time and vitality. You need to recognize and identify the kind of companions with whom you wish to make a nearer bond of friendship with. If your friends are of the same view with you, then you stand the chance of been a true, reliable and best companion. It is splendidly alright if all the majority of your colleagues do not make the list of your friends. Not everyone can be your friend and not everyone will.
It is better to have just few friends who I can go alone well with than hundreds of friends that won’t bring out the best in me.

3. Carve Out Some Time
If you spend quality time on something, the more positive result you get out of it. If you want to become a great companion be to the female or male gender, then you need to make out some quality time with them.
My real friends are the ones who always visit from time to time, call me on phone and sometimes text to know how am doing. Making out time for friends also shows how caring you are. Cut out some quality time for each other.

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Romance / 10 Signs To Know He Is In Love With You by harrison12(m): 12:14am On May 26, 2017
There is one thing about love that one must not fail to understand which is, “love can never be hidden” no matter how one try to suppress his/her feelings for someone or something, it just keep coming out the more.

When it comes to love, everyone falls in love all the time and even those who have once swore never to get in love, still find themselves falling in love.
When you are in love, everyone close to you will feel it and so it is with both men and women.

I will be showing to you 10 signs to know when a man is in love. This is a pointer for women and could also serve as a form of tip for the men as well. The men who want to fall in love at all cost can take up this tip. But believe me, you don’t really need this tip to fall in love; love just comes to you like that without your full understanding of how it came.
Without much talk, here are the signs.

1. When he begins much interest in you over his friends out there. He will want to spend a peaceful Friday night with you as opposed to playing poker, tennis or going for a party just with his male friends. He tries to show his love in every possible way

2. When he is by all accounts excited when he meets you and when he invests energy and time just with you.

3. When he step by step respects your lady-like stuff in his home; Your adored soap in the lavatory, your studs on the table and her tampons in the restroom.

4. He makes great arrangement about engaging you in his regular exercises. He will ensure that his sweetheart can take part in his social exercises.

5. When he never truly contemplated about getting hitched or having kids and he needs those things now with just only you. Just know that he is madly in love with you.

6. He will always want to take care of himself physically and financially just to make you have a sense of security and upbeat.

7. He will get up from the bed just to ensure that you are alright, a man in love will always think about whether you are hungry, verifies whether you are sufficiently warm or in the event that you would require any other thing else.

8. He consistently tries to awe you; he will lift you up and bring you home, get your favourite dish, offers to pay for a few exercises and he will always gives get you astonished. He will always want to impress you

9. Different enticements from other ladies are not a danger to his love for you. He is recently not inspired by any of those diversions and distractions that may be coming from other women; he is just focused on you right now. He is deeply in love with you.

10. A man in love will always keep staring at the lady. The look on his face becomes more emotional and quiet sexy this time. If you find him in such mood, just know that he is in love with you.

Seeing all these signs and you still don’t want to play along with him, which means you sure do want to settle for less. He is deeply in love now and need you to support that.
You may still want to confirm fully by delaying, but don’t get it so prolonged, men don’t like women keeping them waiting. You can take your time to still observe him, but also be doing that in some kind of romantic way so as not to chase the lovely man away to some other women.

What do you think about these signs? Please tell us some other signs you think are applicable to men.

For More tips And Advice on Relationship, This is the place we run it
Romance / Re: Here Is How To Reconnect Intimacy After An Arguement by harrison12(m): 11:43pm On May 21, 2017
Divay22:
It's not as easy as it seems.....
I can forgive, but trust has been divided.....

I can love the one I trust, but I can hardly trust the one I love.
hmmmm
Romance / Re: Why Husbands Cheat And Lie by harrison12(m): 11:37pm On May 21, 2017
Fame333:
This is half truth ...men will cheat once konji is on call .

Sincerely they thought is there bath right especially Nigerian men.


they believe that God understand....so they continue in this outright sin.


many of them in Nairaland will tell you what karma can do but hen it comes to infidelity no karma in the dictionary again


Op, nice write up.
thanks
Romance / Here Is How To Reconnect Intimacy After An Arguement by harrison12(m): 11:30pm On May 21, 2017
Every relationship does not go smooth throughout its journey, there are still some port-holes that if both partner fails to drive carefully would lead to emotional accident and eventual separation.

Your relationship might have been disconnected in a fight or it could just be a legal separation, you can still reconnect back your love for each other.

Most partners who had once had once had a clash really want to get back together.

Let’s look at it this way. Your electric bulb stops lighting and you decided to check what is wrong. And you found out that one of the wires has been disconnected.
What would you do? Connect it back.

That’s how it is. The love is there but has been disconnected; there is no flow of current to light up the love.

Would you sit and watch your heart bleeding as a result of emotional accident?
Would you sit and watch your partner bleeding as well?

Your journey can still continue if only you can take a step- a little step can heal all the wounded hearts and light up your love once more.

Before I talk about the little step, do you know that love is built like a tower? You start from the ground and gradually you keep going and going till it gets to a desired level; learn to build your love step by step and if it has been disconnected, gradually connect it back, don’t just rush over it to avoid disaster.

Regardless of the disconnections in our relationship, we still have to look for ways to get back the intimacy and love that was once burning.

And that brings me to the little step which is communication.
‘Funny’ you might say. But most relationship has no strong communication. This is a solid foundation that can carry your relationship far and high.

You can’t just jump back into relationship that has long been disconnected without understanding what communication is.
You should be able to communicate well and effective with your partner even when there is a clash.

Communication involves an effective use of words.
To be in a clash with your partner does not mean you both shouldn’t be communicating with each other.

How can you solve a problem if there is no communication? Talk to each other; behave as if nothing had happened.

Where do I start from?
Start from the scratch. You just had a clash with your partner and here you are requesting for sex- it’s wrong. That’s not how to start.
Something like this can be good for a starting.
You: “how was your day”?
Your partner: “it was fine”

During this time of connecting, you might not possibly get the best response from your partner but keep communicating.
As you dine in the evening, you still have to keep communicating.
You: “hope you are enjoying the meal”?
Your partner: “yes, it’s okay”

There is an improvement but it’s still not fully connected as expected and you want it more- you need it to keep flowing.
So what do you do? Keep communicating and you might decide to put different questions so as to get an answer.

Just follow this step to reconnect back the intimacy. Give and adequate response to your partner and don’t let the communication die.
Thanks for reading and also do well by sharing your views and contributions.
Romance / Why Husbands Cheat And Lie by harrison12(m): 11:20pm On May 21, 2017
Why husbands cheat and lie shouldn’t be a mystery to women. Men believe they are smart and clever so they cheat. To cover up their infidelity, they lie.

If you ask cheating husbands why they cheat on their wives, they have many answers to give. You will hear one of the following answers.
· My wife was no longer satisfying me sexually
· My wife now looks old and no longer pretty
· I was seduced
· My wife no longer gives me attention
· I fell in love outside
· Something just happened
· I had no control of myself
· The nature of my job
· My wife was away for a long time

The list of excuses keeps going on and on. And most husbands push the blame on their wives for their own infidelity. Believe it or not, women keep falling into that same trap which gives the husbands more chance to cheat on them.

Most times, husbands find someone they believe to understand them. They find someone who smiles at every words and laugh at every jokes or someone who can really tell them how nice and handsome they look, they find someone who can tell them how good they smell and how sexy they look.

To be frank with you, once they hear all these beautiful compliments coming from another woman, they become emotionally attached to it.

And if there had been any negative words from his wife, the husband pushes it aside and embraces the kind compliments coming from the sweet woman.

In no distant time, he starts dumping his thoughts about his wife in readiness for his new sweet woman. And what happens next? He becomes emotionally attached to the other woman.

When caught or suspected by the wife, the husband lies.
Cheating and lying goes hand in hand. If your husband cheats on the wife, he must also lie to her.

As a woman who is truly concerned about infidelity in your marriage, look out for possible easy to satisfy your husband physically, emotionally and sexually.

As a husband, if you truly care for your marriage and don’t want it to break, don’t look at other women whom you think might satisfy and compliment you- it’s just a mask in the face. Let your wife know her short-comings and the dangers attached to it.

The compliments and satisfaction other women has, your wife also have them all, it just need to be sorted out through communication and a little understanding.
Culture / My One Year Experience So Far In Blogging About Relationship by harrison12(m): 10:55pm On May 21, 2017
The journey into the blogging world has never been an easy one but truly it has been what I’m proud of.
Today marks exactly one year I started The Harry Scope. I started this blog precisely May 4th last year and I must say it has indeed been a year of new inspiration to continue doing what I’m passionate at-reaching out to the world with a view of helping people sustain their relationships. So amazing that this blog could go this far though the strong will and zeal backed it all up.
I am fully dedicating this one year celebration to God Almighty who has always been keeping and guiding my steps and focus. Though sometimes, I do make silly decisions but God’s guidance has been immeasurable. About last 3 years, I started nursing the passion to blog but then I don’t really know what to blog about, I kept figuring, I kept reading, I kept searching and I kept digging on what I really want to blog about, but truly God guided me into doing what I do now. You may see it as crazy and foolish but really, it’s what works for me, it’s what keeps me going- to see everyone live a fulfilled relationship they’ve always yearned for.
Back then in school, I read a lot and I also browsed a lot on the internet. I get to see people sharing their ideas online. I get to see then giving one tips or the other about what they know and what they are passionate about and a friend of mine once asked me, “Harry, why did you join the people that blogs”?
I told him “The answer is simple”
I started blogging not because I wanted to be among the crowd. Actually I started it with the view of reaching out to the world in my own little way- I needed to stand out of the crowd and do my own stuff just the way I can. I do read a lot about people and their view on some certain topics- I read about Henri of wakeupcloud.com and virtually all his content is base on following your passion and discovering what you love. I’ve always nursed a deep passion inside of me but I really don’t know what it was, but thanks to whatever made me discover it on time. I do have a strong belief in sharing my knowledge to people that comes across me. I feel so delighted to help people in any possible way I can.
I joined the blogging world because I seriously saw that there was a need to be met in our community and in the world wherein we live. You may ask. “And what is this need”? Actually we all see things differently from diverse point of view. You vision may not be the same as mine. In our world today, we only care for just one major thing. Can you guess what that is? Let me help you out. The world cares about getting rich and acquiring large wealth and making fame all here and there. We tend to neglect a meaningful aspect of our life. We do ignore an important aspect that binds people together and that is our Relationship! People no longer care about their relationships any more and that is why we have broken hearts, shattered minds and above all, broken homes.
Seeing some errors and blunders been made in relationships, which has either affected the male and female gender in one way and this blunders made in relationships has crept into married homes, leaving the couples confused and the kids distressed about life. When husband and wife are always having one problem or the other, it sends some kind of ugly signal to their kids and most times, they feel that love can never be seen in the home. My view about blogging is different because I see a need and by God’s Grace and enablement, i want to meet up with that need through blogging.

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Romance / Does Romance Really Matter In A Relationship? Here Is What I Have To Say by harrison12(m): 12:23am On May 21, 2017
If you intend taking up your relationship to a higher stand, then I fully recommend that you pay full attention to the importance of romance. Sometimes this aspect is the most important but least executed in our relationships. With all the distractions coming up here and there, couples no longer make out time for this one important activity which in the real sense ought not to be so.

Feeling less concerned about this aspect can greatly damage your love life and cause the eventual fall in your relationship.
Romance isn’t just about getting into the bed and having sex, it goes beyond that. Romance is about been intimate with your spouse; getting closer and having a feel of each other.

There are a few men who will never comprehend the great significance of romance. They might be sluggish or don't have a craving to contributing any of their time for something senseless (to them) like romance. They're the stupid ones who are sitting idle and attempting to get what they need the most in the difficult way.

Here is my view
pls feel free to drop your own view.
Romance / Re: My Experience So Far In Blogging About Relationship by harrison12(m): 4:24pm On May 05, 2017
IamAirforce1:
When I saw blogging, the first thing that cross my mind was "Jakandeola".
what Is That Pls?
Romance / My Experience So Far In Blogging About Relationship by harrison12(m): 12:47am On May 05, 2017
The journey into the blogging world has never been an easy one but truly it has been what I’m proud of.
Today marks exactly one year I started The Harry Scope. I started this blog precisely May 4th last year and I must say it has indeed been a year of new inspiration to continue doing what I’m passionate at-reaching out to the world with a view of helping people sustain their relationships. So amazing that this blog could go this far though the strong will and zeal backed it all up.
I am fully dedicating this one year celebration to God Almighty who has always been keeping and guiding my steps and focus. Though sometimes, I do make silly decisions but God’s guidance has been immeasurable. About last 3 years, I started nursing the passion to blog but then I don’t really know what to blog about, I kept figuring, I kept reading, I kept searching and I kept digging on what I really want to blog about, but truly God guided me into doing what I do now. You may see it as crazy and foolish but really, it’s what works for me, it’s what keeps me going- to see everyone live a fulfilled relationship they’ve always yearned for.
Back then in school, I read a lot and I also browsed a lot on the internet. I get to see people sharing their ideas online. I get to see then giving one tips or the other about what they know and what they are passionate about and a friend of mine once asked me, “Harry, why did you join the people that blogs”?
I told him “The answer is simple”
I started blogging not because I wanted to be among the crowd. Actually I started it with the view of reaching out to the world in my own little way- I needed to stand out of the crowd and do my own stuff just the way I can. I do read a lot about people and their view on some certain topics- I read about Henri of wakeupcloud.com and virtually all his content is base on following your passion and discovering what you love. I’ve always nursed a deep passion inside of me but I really don’t know what it was, but thanks to whatever made me discover it on time. I do have a strong belief in sharing my knowledge to people that comes across me. I feel so delighted to help people in any possible way I can.
I joined the blogging world because I seriously saw that there was a need to be met in our community and in the world wherein we live. You may ask. “And what is this need”? Actually we all see things differently from diverse point of view. You vision may not be the same as mine. In our world today, we only care for just one major thing. Can you guess what that is? Let me help you out. The world cares about getting rich and acquiring large wealth and making fame all here and there. We tend to neglect a meaningful aspect of our life. We do ignore an important aspect that binds people together and that is our Relationship! People no longer care about their relationships any more and that is why we have broken hearts, shattered minds and above all, broken homes.
Seeing some errors and blunders been made in relationships, which has either affected the male and female gender in one way and this blunders made in relationships has crept into married homes, leaving the couples confused and the kids distressed about life. When husband and wife are always having one problem or the other, it sends some kind of ugly signal to their kids and most times, they feel that love can never be seen in the home. My view about blogging is different because I see a need and by God’s Grace and enablement, i want to meet up with that need through blogging.


pls you can read the rest HERE

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Romance / Re: My Relationship Is Not Working! How Can I Fix It? by harrison12(m): 2:19am On Apr 30, 2017
BlackDBagba:
Nice read. Thank You
thanks For Taking Your Time To Read It.
Romance / My Relationship Is Not Working! How Can I Fix It? by harrison12(m): 1:05am On Apr 30, 2017
Your association with your partner isn't doing great the way you wish it to and you are becoming fed up as to the direction in which the relationship is tolling. What would you be able to do about this knowing very well that you do care for the relationship? Nowadays, over half of all relationship unions fizzle out for reasons irrational or unknown. Typically, some of these relationship union fizzles are a direct result of an excessive amount of feedback over cash or the kids.


Frequently, when individuals sever or draw back from their relationship, something becomes absent. The "Spark" diminishes from the commitment that was once given to the relationship. The truth be told, if you lost the spark that inspires you, can you go on doing that same thing with zeal and passion? I believe your answer is a capital NO! You can not. And I know very well that I have readers here whose zeal and commitment to their relationship is always been ignited every day of their life. If you have lost the spark to spring up your relationship with romance tips, then you should expect more problems in the relationship



Individuals who have been stitched together through the bond of marriage settled on a choice to love their spouse and work very hard to ensure their commitment is full in the marriage. But you will definitely agree with me that every relationships be it marriage or dating or courtship normally undergo different hurdles and even after reading and knowing different recommendations that holds couples together, there is every tendency that your relationship will still have to pass through the storm. You will in one time be faced with difficulties along the line and your stand towards these hurdles and difficulties will greatly determine if your marriage can still stand and pass the test. And that is why I mentioned that word above “spark”. The spark must still be there if you really want to go through the hurdles and what if the spark isn’t there? Then the relationship will crumble leaving both parties depressed and leaving the kids hopeless as well. Or what do you think about this?

Before reading further, I would like to ask you just one question, “Are you really sure about your relationship and want to fix it up any time problems arise”? I ask because, to some persons, when a problem faces their marriage or relationship, they tend to be naive or innocent, not looking out for a possible solution which to them is impossible- that attitude is not good at all. It’s just like someone who went to the electronics shop and bought a good plasma television. He bought it because he likes it. Then took it home and after sometimes, it begin to develop some faults. He notices it and what does he have to do about it? He has to take a step towards rectifying the problem. You know why? The amount of money he spent in purchasing that TV set comes into his memory and he remembers how costly it was the time he bought it and then decides not to just keep mute about it. He then finds a way of rectifying it after some stress on him. And when the TV set has come to normal, he smiles and is happy about that.
Our relationship or marriage is far too expensive to be toiled with. It’s far too exorbitant to just keep quiet about the problem wrecking in. You need to act up and find a way. Think about it!
I believe the tips below will be of great help to the title of this post. Just read, digest and let me know what you think.

1. Help up!
If your relationship is facing the storm right now, don't get so tensed up and then suddenly let the pressure break out. No! Grab some fun at yourself and your partner as well. You know why? Wearing a weary or distressed or rugged look on your face won’t help any issue at all. You need to prove that in spite of the problem, you can still brighten up yourself and your partner.
"Relationships are about helping motivate each other to be all that you can be." David Archuleta

Chilling out will also help you to think properly; it will help you make a right decision at the right time instead of wearing a lion face and then taking any rough decisions that will not help at all

2. No Arguments
Both of you might be diverse and different in your assessments in areas like governmental issues and religion, maintain a strategic distance from those subjects. Discuss things you both appreciate and have like manner for.
If you start bringing up issues that seems not to go down well with your partner, it may spring up arguments along the line and from there to what is not expected. So, always learn to understand what you both love without letting arguments come in.

3. Make out Time
Set up particular circumstances when you too can get together. It doesn't make a difference what you do; shopping, errands, watching movie or comedy, occasions and all that. Put it on your date-book and ensure you keep to the arrangement.
In most marriages and relationships today, work-load has so much taken a greater part of the time been committed to that relationship, which is not good for the healthy growth of such relationship. If you really want to enjoin your relationship to the full, always keep aside tight schedules and focus on the important aspect of your life-Marriage

4. Begin Once again
Do you still keep in mind when you initially met? What started the relationship? Is it safe to say that you were doing new and energizing things together? All things been equal do it once more!
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person". Mignon Mclaughlin
You don’t buy a machine to just dump it without servicing it. That is relationship for you; it needs to keep under-going some regular services. Remember those times you both would go on a night date, it was lovely and cool then, you both expressed your feelings to each other, you engaged in body and eye contact then, speaking of your love to each other. Now, what has made you lost that spark? You can still do it again.

5. Pardon Each Other
You cannot pardon your partner when you have not forgiven your own self. Everybody commits one error or the other and everybody merits another chance.
"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." Mahatma Gandhi.

Your partner may get you annoyed in some occasions, get over it, forgive and move on.

6. Feel each other
Your body loves to be touched and felt. Do it for your partner; they need it as much as you do. Play with their hair; rub their hands, give them a delicate kiss, a congratulatory gesture on something they have achieved, rub their back and foot. In doing so, do it in a tender way that will show how lovely and caring you are.
This way, you can help work out the problem trying to pose its ugly head in your relationship.

7. Give some space
You will agree with me that if I was to be your uncle and I frequently do visit your home, you will so much get used to me that you will no longer miss me at all. Being together all the time might spasm you and your accomplice's lifestyle. Learn to be separated for a while-not that you are in arguments but you just want to miss him/her. You as a woman, release him to go chasing or hunting, while you visit the library or a cinema.
In this way, you get to miss your partner somehow and when you see him/her again, it will look like a renewed shower of love.

8. Be Surprising
Same old you, same old you! Can’t you change for once? Can’t you do different thing for once? If you observe yourself in this habit, do well to break it and let yourself loosed off it. Accomplish something on the spontaneous. Amaze your partner by doing something new and you could also involve him/ her into doing it with you. Its fun and I believe you catch it.

9. Mystery Getaway
Arrange for a trek or a place without letting your spouse know about it, where you two can be separated from everyone else. Take as much time as is needed and appreciate each other. Take it moderate and make it more sentimental and romantic.

10. Commune Together
A great deal of times when connections between couples is been disconnected, the discussion stops. And this becomes the worst mistake to make-not communicating together. Here is the place you have to figure out how to hear each other out. Each of you ought to have the capacity to simply discuss everything without exception or hiding any feelings at all. Try not to be judgmental; it will only worsen the issue. Key in, keep your eye on the watch, no shouting or contending. Simply communicate with each other about things and then make plans on how to get it right. The importance of communication in every relationship should not be underrated.

There are so many ways to patch up things when it goes wrong and with these 10 tips I have just highlighted, I hope this will help spring up your relationship and put a shame to be posing threat in your relationship and enhance a stronger bond between you and your partner.

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Romance / 9 Ways On How To Get Over Someone You Were Deeply In Love With by harrison12(m): 10:43pm On Apr 27, 2017
Getting over somebody you once cherished so much is never a simple thing. It requires investment relying upon one's sentiments and the adoration they had for that individual. A few people take months, years and others an existence time. Yet, getting over somebody needs to begin with you.
before you proceed, take a little of your time to know how you can get back your relationship on the right track


As a matter of first importance, you need to acknowledge it in your heart that the relationship didn't work out which is as it should be. It is possible that it was your own making or theirs. In any case, the fact of the matter is it wasn't intended to be. When you comprehend that, then you need to get yourself together and proceed onward in light of the fact that that is not the finish point of your life.


Furthermore, you need to excuse them for whatever thing they did or said to you that hurt you. What's more, you ought to likewise pardon yourself for being lied on, utilized, tricked, and for whatever terrible thing you did to them. Absolution sets the heart free from agony and it enables recuperating to occur.


Thirdly, you need to remove the correspondence from them. Unless you had children with them yet don't get in touch with them once more (in the event that they call or content you, don't hurry to pick or answer them. Also, when you get or message back don't give them quite a bit of your time), quit looking at them on the web to comprehend what's new in their life (don't erase or square them since you may require them with time for them to perceive how upbeat and solid you will be without them), and maintain a strategic distance from those companions who convey gossips to you concerning them.

Fourth, don't wander into those spots you used to hang in with them until you are completely mended in light of the fact that they will bring back the recollections and that will revive the injuries you are attempting to recuperate.


Fifth, evacuate all the memory triggers. In this I mean every one of those things that help you to remember them. The blessings, the photographs, the instant messages… Don't consume them yet simply keep them out of your compass. When you keep them around you, they will dependably help you to remember them.


Sixth, abstain from being separated from everyone else. Keep around confided in loved ones. Have a ton of fun and make the most of your existence with them.

Seventh, make yourself occupied with something gainful. It might be a profession, or a side interest. This will spare you from being a solitary, thinking back about everything and second speculating all what happened.


Eighth, take a shot at yourself. In this I mean, eat an adjust slim down and play out a few activities, go to the rec center… this will make you look well and it will keep your body fit as a fiddle.

At that point in conclusion, yet not the minimum, ask about it. Reveal to God everything that is in you loads. Share all your agony to Him and request that he help you locate some better and that you merit.


I'm certain on the off chance that you put this into thought you won't continue as before. Much the same as I let you know, I have been there ordinarily yet I did likewise things and here I am currently. I'm glad and life is going on exceptionally well. You also can get over them and you can be upbeat once more.

Be solid and deal with yourself.

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Romance / 5 Spectacular Ways To Impress The Ladies by harrison12(m): 6:01pm On Apr 22, 2017
Pls lets grab the content of that 'be good in bed'

Romance / Re: Five Courting Recommendations Which Can Make A Difference On Your Love Lifestyle by harrison12(m): 9:57am On Apr 21, 2017
Gshegg:
Yeah, found it once and lost it some time after it came. That thing can make you mumu ehn!

But it's always sweet when you're not the only one in love..
is Much Sweeter When Both Partner Reciprocate The Love! Am Sure You Will Stll Find It Again.. Just Let Go Off The Pains Your Past Love Has Left You And Open Up Your Heart For A New Love.
Romance / Re: Five Courting Recommendations Which Can Make A Difference On Your Love Lifestyle by harrison12(m): 6:55pm On Apr 19, 2017
Gshegg:
Well, love they say is a good thing to whomever finds it..
and am sure you've find it.
Romance / Five Courting Recommendations Which Can Make A Difference On Your Love Lifestyle by harrison12(m): 5:46am On Apr 19, 2017
The entire system of dating is virtually hard than it must be. After a infinite range of drinks and dinners, it is able to be tempting to ease off and spend a while alone. but, whilst relationship is performed in the perfect manner, it can be absolutely notable. also those amazing dates can result in very super relationships. subsequently don't forget the below pointers as a playbook for being successful at dating:-

1. Cross beyond the everyday bar scene

Sure, you may meet the love of your existence even as sipping on tonics and gin but it wouldn't be cooler than meeting at a mud run. hence try some thing exceptional, the cooler the region the higher threat you have of hitting it out with her. You might be lacking out on heaps and lots of possible life companions by way of status at a bar and ingesting.

2. Allow your friends to set you up

No person can love you want your friends do. therefore allow them to set you up with absolutely everyone that they are able to vouch for each time. that is the first-class aspect that a pal can do for you. believe in case you turn out to be marrying him/ her.




3. Take into account dating a pal

You may continually get out of the buddy zone. In fact there is no such element as a friend zone. great pals could make the high-quality partners as properly. somebody with whom you are already like pals may be very in all likelihood to have similar behavior and values like you do. thus there is a excessive threat of hitting it off. it's far one of the essential things to remember.






4. Pick out the perfect site for relationship

It's far proper that the internet is a very beautiful issue. It has added us many things and love is certainly one of all those matters. Make right use of it and sign up for a relationship site which you think can be useful. Even if you have to pay for a good relationship website, it's far cautioned that you move for it.




5. Attention on making the first impression the nice

The first impact can either be the first-rate or the worst impact. therefore you need to make sure that the impression you create is going to be the first-rate irrespective of what. consequently streamline your focus into this precise act and take a few moments out to ponder as to how precisely you will play this out.

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Romance / Re: 5 Unknowing Mistakes Men Make On A First Date by harrison12(m): 7:07am On Apr 14, 2017
banjicom:


You are right.

But it not easy chasing money and chasing love at the same time.

You will have to focus on one. Love don't pay bills you know.
i Guess Love Pays Our Emotional Bills.... Money Without Giving Love And Been Loved Is Not Worth Living For.
Romance / Re: 5 Unknowing Mistakes Men Make On A First Date by harrison12(m): 7:05am On Apr 14, 2017
AnthonioAlsaid:
Intriguing!

I try to avoid the above listed naturally but I think I went on this date one time and I mentioned my ex' I sensed she felt betrayed that moment, believe me we never had anything to do with each other again! she completely shut up herself to me


guys not every woman you get with money, some women out there are still sensible, responsible and matured!
what happens when she's richer than you?
every Woman Loves To Be Told That They Are The Only One In The Love Game... She Doesn't Like To Be Compared With One Lady In The Other Room. She Likes To Be Special Unique In Their Own Style...
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Romance / Re: 5 Unknowing Mistakes Men Make On A First Date by harrison12(m): 7:32pm On Apr 13, 2017
banjicom:
Garbage nonsense! Wetin concern me with dating tips.....

Money will take care of my mistakes.

money doesn't go far in sustaining or maintaing geniune relationship expect you'd like to be flowing on the surface of love.
Romance / Re: 5 Unknowing Mistakes Men Make On A First Date by harrison12(m): 7:31pm On Apr 13, 2017
Michellla:
over to them
abi...
Romance / 5 Unknowing Mistakes Men Make On A First Date by harrison12(m): 4:31pm On Apr 13, 2017
The main error made by men on the principal date is attempting to purchase love. The main date is not an engagement proposition; it's simply a chance to gauge similarity. In the event that it doesn't work out, you will have spent all that money on a favor eatery and red roses in vain.

Regardless of the possibility that the principal date prompts a moment and romantic one, it may go there for all the wrong reasons. You can purchase a lager,
a pizza, a house, jewelry, and an auto-mobile; however you can't under any conditions purchase love. What you can do is make a lady demonstrate her profound friendship for all your cash, and since it's your cash she's fallen for, when it's altogether gone, she will be gone as well. In the event that you spend all your cash on the main date by showering them with extravagances, what will occur on the second date when there are just three Krystal burgers only? Confide in me. It won't be lovely. Try not to put all your investments tied up on one place. Spare some for a stormy dairy. Hope you got that. Am not saying you shouldn’t spend cash on your lady but try in every aspect to minimize your spending.

The second goof a few men make out on the town is one of the most noticeably bad mix-ups a man can ever make. There are numerous things that you can talk about out on the town, however there is one point which you ought to never raise on a first date discussion, other ladies!. Regardless of whether it is your ex, the introductory engagement you had a week ago, or even your mom, the character of the individual does not make a difference. What makes a difference is that ladies don't care for catching wind of other ladies. A lady likes to trust she is the main female in your life, regardless of the possibility that it is only for one or two hour date. So please be careful in your conversation so as not to spoil her lovely mood.

Also, the exact opposite thing a similar lady needs to hear is you enlightening her regarding the reasons that you cleared out your ex. In the long run subsequent to hearing you discuss your ex so much, your date will soon be telling others that you were the most exceedingly bad date that she at any point had. On the off chance that your mom is everything you can discover to discuss out on the town, then the chances are that you are as yet living home with her, and no lady needs a man who doesn't have his own place. Take a tip from that.

The third blunder in judgment that a few men make on a first date is similarly as tragic as the slip-up said above. Try not to discuss sex on the principal date. Here's the quick and painless arrangement on the point of sex. On the off chance that a lady was exclusively intrigued by sex, then she wouldn't be out on the town with you; she would be home with her vibrator. Enough said in regards to that. Sex should not be the principal or the basis of your discussion.

Thus, don't be excessively amicable on your first date. A handshake is adequate and possibly a farewell embrace if both sides demonstrate some intrigue, yet don't have your hands everywhere on your date. This individual may not discover you alluring at all. Regardless of the possibility that there is fascination present, a few people may not be happy with being pawed on the primary date. At the end of the day, in the event that it was basically about sex, your date would be at home.

The fifth error that men make on the principal date is not being genuine. In the event that you are a janitor, don't attempt and dress it up by calling yourself a Maintenance Engineer. Keep it genuine!! On the off chance that you are exceptionally upbeat driving your boss or whatever, don't tell your date that you are purchasing a Hummer soon. Months from now when your date is hoping to ride in that Hummer, where will you be from that point? Keep it genuine! Speak the truth about yourself. Untruths will just return to hurt you. To win a lady's heart is not by pretending to be who you are not, take a tip from this article

Keeping away from these missteps will build your chances at the dating amusing. Ideally, fortunes will fall on your side, and the main date will be only a start.
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Romance / Re: She Is Madly In Love With Me But She Has A Daughter. Pls Advice by harrison12(m): 10:26am On Apr 07, 2017
bid4rich:



Yes......blessed by God with a baby boy.
I came to realize that everybody make mistakes but the love of God in a mans heart override mistakes and converts it to love. We are doing beautifully well. She is simply the best.

Thanks for all your inspired contributions God bless you all
oh Thats Splendid. I Love That! She Will Always Live To Remember Your Love And Care
Romance / Re: Spring Up Your Relationship With Few Romance Tips by harrison12(m): 10:23am On Apr 07, 2017
umarshehu58:
Ok mr Love guru
yes Mr. Lover Boy!
Romance / Re: Spring Up Your Relationship With Few Romance Tips by harrison12(m): 10:22am On Apr 07, 2017
Rtopzy:
We hear you
Thanks for hearing o
Romance / Spring Up Your Relationship With Few Romance Tips by harrison12(m): 9:05pm On Apr 05, 2017
Following several years of being with that unique individual, everything turns into a routine and this is one reason why a relationship comes up short.

These days, the greater part of us required in a relationship have a vocation, family, and different obligations that take up excessively a great
time and before the day's over, we are tired to the point that we don't set aside few minutes to accomplish something else and fun with our critical other.

All together, for a relationship to work and last long, we have to convey, trust, boost and do fun things with our adored one.

Here are some sentimental approaches to keep the fire alive.

1. Return home before your accomplice (spouse) and follow a way from the front way to the room with lit votive candles. In the room, have lit candles, a container of wine (or the drink of your decision), and strawberries secured with chocolate.

2. Reserve a spot at an inn for a night, yet don't tell your accomplice. Simply have her/him meet you at the lodging's bar for a drink. Ensure you have lit candles and flower petals spread on the bed when you get to your room.

3. Put a sentimental note in his shirt or gasp's pocket or her tote and let her/him discover it.

4. Send and email just to let her/him know you adore her/him.

5. While eating at an eatery, go to the restroom, remove your clothing, place it in a little sack or box and offer it to your accomplice when you come back to the table. Ensure she/he sees it at that moment. Your accomplice will be so energized you presumably won’t complete your supper.

6. Leave a note on your accomplice's pad, letting her/him knows how much you do need her/him.

7. Illuminate candles in the kitchen, have chocolate, strawberries, whipped cream and whatever other sustenance you like. Blindfold your accomplice and encourage her/him. Test eating off her/his body.

8. At the point when at a gathering, occasionally, whisper something provocative on your accomplice's ear. Do this when she/he is before other individuals. Watch her/his response. I love this!

9. Figure out how to touch or lick exceptional regions (parts) that will stimulate her/him.


If you really care about your love life and do want to spring it up a bit, then you can try some or all of those tips above.

Keeping and solidifying our relationships matters a lot and it’s everyone’s priority.
Try not to allow schedule to crush your relationship.
For More tips and advice Relating to marriage, Dating, Relationships, kindly visit us here. Do feel free to share with us your experience in relationships. Your advice can go a long way in helping lives.
Romance / Re: Does Calling Really Matter In A Relationship? by harrison12(m): 12:44pm On Apr 01, 2017
Indomixx:
Baba oo... Twale 4 u oo... We don't even chat cus she does'nt have a browsing phone
ok. As A Relationship Blogger, I've Written Much On This Communication Aspect Which Matters A Lot.

Now You Just Said She Doesn't Have A Browsing Phone And You People Dont Chat-too Bad Though-i Think This Is The Right Time To Set Things Right Before It Gets Out Of Hand. If You Really Love Her, Call Her As Early In The Morning And Late At Night Before You Sleep. In Some Cases I Compose A Text Message And Schedule It For 6:00 In The Morning. That Will Be The First Thing She Will Read Before Getting Out Of Bed.
In Doing So, I As A Man Feel Proud Of Myself And She In Turn Is Happy And Would Always Look For Possible Ways To Please Me.

So, You May Not Have Airtime Always, But The Little You Will Have, You Can Just Use It To Text Her A Message-it Helps Greatly..
Romance / Re: Does Calling Really Matter In A Relationship? by harrison12(m): 12:23pm On Apr 01, 2017
Indomixx:
Some girls really attach so much importance to calls. I dunno cus am a kind of guy that does'nt call that much. Do u think it'll in any way affect my relationship?
i Dont Argue Much With Peoples Perspective, We Are All Different. But Friend, I Believe You Chat On Whatsapp Or Facebook And I Also Believe You Do Call Her Once A While. Now Between Those Two, Which One Do You Yourself Feel More Satisfied And Caring? To Me Chatting Is What Everyone Does, We Get Online And Probably See Her Online And We Begin To Chat...But When You Call, It Attach A Great Sense Of How Caring You Are And How Willingly You Are To Spend Your Airtime Calling Her.

Girls Love It When You Spend What You Have For Them...Communication Is Best Expressed Through Talking...Chatting Is Okay. But After Chat, Still Call Her. She Deserves It.

I Do Spend 16 Mins Calling My Angel Cuz She Deserves It. And She Feels Happy And I Myself Feel More Like An Angel To Her Which Makes Me A Fulfilled Partner.
Romance / Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by harrison12(m): 12:16pm On Apr 01, 2017
mykel25:
A friend of mine had this encounter with his gf today and this had left him confuse as to whether the girl actually loves him or just dating him for some reasons

See Screenshot below

What will you advice.. Ladies up-to you... When a lady act like this what do u think she's up-to
there Are Better Ways To Handle Issues Arising In Our Relationships. Chatting Does Not Do All For Us. I Strongly Suggest You Meet Her One On One And See How Her Reactions Would Be. If She Is Still Stubbor And Sound The Same Way She Did On The Chat, Then You Need To Give Her Some Break.

If She Doesn't Call Or Text Or Come To Your Place, Then You Know She Is Done With You, But To Avoid Been The One At Fault Here, Go To Her Again And Know Whats Wrong With Her. You May Want To Make Her Talk-definitely She Will- And When She Finally Speaks Her Mind, Then Let Her Go And Move On With Your Life.

There Are Many Girls Out There Who Need To Have A Sweet Relationship.

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Romance / Re: She Wants My Money, I Asked For Her Pussy. She Her Response by harrison12(m): 12:09pm On Apr 01, 2017
Ologogoro:
I've been disturbing her for sometimes now, Just yesterday she replied that she would date me on one condition, See the screenshot below
i Dont Really Know Your Ultimate Motive Of Disturbing Her. Is It Because You Love Her Deeply Or Because You Want To Get Hold Of Whats Underneath Her Skirt? If Its Love, Then Why Seek For Sex In Exchange Of Money. Love Doesn't Work That Way. You Can Give Her Money, Buy Stuffs For Her And Believe Me, She Will Come Around Some day To Give You What You Want.

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