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JaneKenedy:
Thanks every one for giving me your time, i just want to know if i am being hard on my friend who has been proposing to marry me. But when I look around

Tell me what you think...please

Actually you're not, it irks me when I see people getting married because of frivolities like; peer group,family,age. Heck, how do you fend for family? You see some people struggle to marry and the end you see that suffering evidently on their faces,always complaining to unmarried folks how their kids haven't eaten and all that!

Get a grip of yourself, nobody forced you to settle down, I believe as a man, my basic things must be in place before marriage. Rented apartment while you must be going on with your building foundation, not necessarily have a car, have a stable income, you're able to footbills even if its an impromptu!

You're able to with stand the naggings that comes with ladies, able to balance families and friends, your mother and wife. And you must be able to see you're dead sure ready to settle down without you thinking you were conned!

If all this are settled you're ready to settle down, note some get married and things go well and some get married and things go south, but it imperative to plan before going ahead. Don't come here with the story of when you give birth the child will bring what he/she will eat from heaven!

Can someone help with a link to the video? This is commendably awesome!

SirShymexx:
Anyway, how did Dangote go from having a net worth of over $20 billion to just $14.44? - scary.

Even Mike Adenuga is closer than ever at almost $10 billion.

Bad business decision, I guess.

My nyggah Mike Adenuga is coming for the number one spot.

I was suprised also caused the last time I checked mike was at the 2-4bn mark! Approximately 10bn is a whooping mileage covered! And believe me, sources told me this week that the man just bought freshly 2 oil wells!

I can't help but feel grateful to my darling mother for giving me the ijebu blood that complement my osun brain! Osun are very smart and intelligent but not really business savvy but ijebus or the other hand are very business savvy! And believe when I told my mother I'm not searching for job she was like ahhhh! I said all I need was to raise few bucks and startup, I told her I'm not going to be keeping rlshp for the next 8yrs neither should she expect a child, you just have to be focus to get those cheddars! Though bootycalls are welcome!

missbronze:
My dear, to spend unnecessarily, is one tin we can't help.


You know why? I will go a bit personal to you.

Last year, I carried my contribution in my office. I kept it in bank. I was determined not to touch it. But, alas, life have another plan for me, my kid sister fell seriously ill, we kept carrying her around from hospital to hospital.


And, that was how all that my savings went. I have to start all over this year again.


So, you see, is not easy.

You're not ready to be wealthy, to be wealthy you need to make certain decisions, care not about what comes your way after making your plans.

Write your plans down, go for it, any other thing that comes after laying your plans shouldn't matter, treat it like if you don't have it the problem will be solved somehow. You're not the only in that family. Time to make decision with your head and not emotions.

If this year savings another thing shows up,will you spend it again? And start another year another thing shows up and you get emotional and spend it again and so on, when do you want to make it?

The truth is those who make it make certain decision,you might think they are wicked but belive somethings we need to be tough to have it.

SunehriLasgidi:
Says? Women are very logical. Very, very logical. You just haven't met the logical ones. Where have you been hiding? Go out often and meet strong-willed women. Do yourself that favour.

You don't get the idea here. We should get rid of double standards. It's as easy as that. How does that have anything to do with acting like a man?

Young lady, I've seen through your feminism antics, you said I haven't met the logical ones right? That means the logical ones are few,rare. But pick males and you will find so many logical ones.

See, have seen women older,who are not with any man just because they feel they have it all, guess what? They are old now,so desperate to have a child that they end up fucking someone so young to them, the reason being,they are lonely,emotionally empty and they need succour! You ladies are emotional and not logic,you can disagree all you want.

You can't get rid of double standard cause your fingers are not equal, some are superior to the other, every organisation have a head, even companies as those with largest shares. Its fruitless to convince you please.

SirShymexx:
Lol. You said some not so good things about Malcolm X the day. And that gave me the impression that you're like some of these sambo coons who think Malcolm X was racist and both NOI and Black Panther Party were terrorists - just cos the white man said so. Without taking time out to read black history with perfect understanding of what they all represented during that era and appreciate their bravery, sacrifices, and doggedness - in the face of persecution and death.

You and I know the White man's narrative of MLK. But most don't even know that without Malcolm X, they won't have listened to MLK. He was the "lesser devil", hence they opted for him. And they'll include the latter part of his life when he became belligerent and violent, due to how things panned out, in his story. They will never tell you how integration destroyed black people, how it was hijacked by white women and jews, and how it destroyed black economics/family.

Malcolm X is the closest thing ever to a black Jesus and despite how the Spike Lee movie about his life changed millions of lives - that movie also never got any recognition at the Oscars. You can't watch that movie and how big Denzel Washington killed the role, as a black person, with black pride, and not be touched. But all these slave movies keep winning awards and shyte lol. Even MLK's movie got recognition.

Anyway, I'm waiting for the Nat Turner movie. That will scare the shyte out of white folks. Hopefully, Jamie Foxx will be casted as Nat Turner and let's see what The Academy would say about that lol.

Dayuuuuum! MalcolmX is fire!!!!!! I read about X but never really understood it like that, but the day I saw the movie malcolmX! Mehn! I was aloof with pride as a young black man, I relate with the struggle even though I'm never part of that era.

Malcolm gave a new meaning to being black, from that day I added X to my name without even knowing why X was part of his name then few research made me understand the "X"

Will I say MLK is another mandela? Yeah,the white men popularised this great men. I think the "I have a dream was the beginning of MLK populairty "

And mandela totally became the greatest freedom fighter from africa just because the white paints it so, they forgot some freedom fighter had fought for the freedom of their country in other part of the continent, the kwame nkrumahs et al.

SunehriLasgidi:
Some women pay men's bills. Next, please?

That doesn't make you think you can act like a man, women are emotional beings hence you won't be logical in decision making when push comes to shove.

[quote author=tugrow post=43292543][/quote]Bro sorry for disturbing you oooo cause you don try. Please, I'm not packaging popcorn, I just want to pop corn on the go,I mean with a stand. Na person I go put there.

Now provided I don get stand already. How much I go fit use start am from machine to sugar and milk corn et al, sorry if I disturb sir, I just love to know things well before dabbling into it. Thanks a lot as I anticipate your reply.

Jennifer89:
amadu777

where is " here"

i can link you direct to an ice cream factory that can supply everywhere


Where is the ice cream factory located?

Have you gotten it? Seems you're business savvy, will like to relate with you tho maybe privately.

MarieSucre:
This is also true. Open a discussion on this pls. It needs to be addressed.

Its good to know you're losing your religion, the world need you to lean towards morals

shocker007:
Same way BillGates,Dangote,Warren Buffet,Victoria Secret and co. have dwindled huh?

Olajumoke is a case of serendipity, those you listed are people who built wealth from the ground up!

I like you not! I hate you not!

Slowdown mrs hawkins, the social media elevates and deflates!

If I don't remember economics topics, I think there is a particular part of it which says.

"Law of diminishing returns: a point at which you attain ne-plus-utlra and nothing is left to be accomploshed, you just dwindle like over-ripe mango"

If you think I'm hating, think not!

I respect them not!

This hungry urchins go around to oppress civilians, they ask for bribe like its their right, and they end up paying adebutu kessington after a scorching sun must have beaten them from black uniform to blue?

Please, what is the work of civil defence? Cause those ones no get station,na to dey rent shop as office na hin dem know. But civil defence are still more reasonable than our police!

Wow wow wow!

This is the height of failure! How do you tend to motivate a kid like this? We've a long way to go.

They/we don't deserve this , they deserve the basic things abraham maslow talked about.

"We all can't be rich, but deserve to be financially okay"- myQuote

A bitche cursing a nigga? That's effortless! You can't stop a nigga shine. You leeches should get your dumbfuck pus5ies to work! Wtf is widow, fatherless?

The only way he can be fatherless is if he did a vasectomy or some medical alteration! You bitches need to start getting proper education not edickation!

I'm like, bitch I need a refund!
You out of stock of some quality pus5y and nice tities.

YTderin:
The confidence and intimidation I send through some people's spine is my favourite.

Wow great to know. But e no good ooo.

YTderin:
Preach babe..... We rock!

The only tall lady so far. Truth be told I'm 6ft3 and I'm going to marry a tall lady, I thought about marrying a short lady then I told myself my kids will end up on the average side, I know how I feel with my height,the attention the confidence et al, so I won't want my kids miss that also.

Joavid:
religion teaches morality. most part of the bible is about being moral.

Wrong wrong wrong! Religion doesn't teaches morality! This is the same way you washed heads have been fooled for eons!

Religion all over the world has a holy book, morality got none!

Morality is knowing right from left! Religion makes you start reading some ancient books which makes you dumbos end up confused and keep asking questions which makes it an endless cycle till you die for an illusional paradise.

NB:I don't mean all those insult, only if you see them as insult they will look as insult.

Religion as done more harm than good.

Religion makes you look stupid

Religion don't make you use your God given brain to solve issues.

Religion is the opium of the masses.

Religion is doing what you're told regardless of what is right.

Religion don't make you think

Religion extremism hinders progress

Religion can make you die in silence

Religion don't make you express yourself

Religion: a mad human is more saner than a religionist cause he/she has no believe

Religion is exaggerated.

Religion cages you.

Religion can make a fool out of you.

Religion will make you serve human not God

Religion as killed more people than guns.

Religion brainwashes you.

Religion makes you sick even though you hale.
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Morality is the best way to train your child cause it has a thing todo with conscience,and every human has conscience that why we all crave for forgiveness from who we offend cause we surely do have conscience after we've done the good the bad and ugly!

Morality is doing what is right of what you're told.

Depot:
The moment i heard she arrived lagos, wat comes to my mind is Eko hotel.

So sad bro, sometimes I just look at it that aren't we ashamed of the same place all the time to host people? Same venue? I'm going to be bored to boredom bro. It just doesn't speak well of us as a nation! Just an event centre in the whole country to host people? Damn!

Rone16:
Lol thanks

Great

I know how you feel about abortion, but listen to this song, it tells the story of how a lady got pregnant for her boyfriend, and the boyfriend talked abortion. How he replied the boyfriend that she's going to stay strong to take care of her baby.

Maybe this songs strength and heals you.

Jcole- lost ones

www.music.naij.com/10018-j-cole-lost-ones

hollandis:
What does aptly mean in this context,you don't know the meaning of the words you used

With that your rubbish punctuation huh?

Hunnydropps:
Hola. Sí, soy puertorriqueña...pero vivo en los Estados Unidos. Mi familia es de Caguas, PR. Como estas, hermano? A dónde vive?

HugoChavezJr:
You're Puerto Rican? Como Estas?

HugoChavezJr:
Hola hermana vivo en Barcelona. Soy originario de la ciudad de Benin, aunque sólo he estado alli una vez. Mis amigos me dieron la nombre de Hugo Chavez Jr. porque puedo pasar por un Latino O Blanco. ¿Estas Afro puertorriqueña o mestizo?

HugoChavezJr:
You're Puerto Rican? Como Estas?

Wow! They finally turned nairaland to pronto pronto speaking language, happy you guys got connected, one love, but I hope you both not planing how to steal a nigerian lady.

Rone16:
Nah my feet looks so horrible like a farmers own and I have a mark on my thighs

I think you're one of those ladies who tell their man to off the light before making out cause they've got low self esteem about how their thighs look like. What you need is confidence,and do you walk bare footed for anyone to see your feet?

akike:
Are you telling me that men do not rape fully covered women?

Hehehe

HateU2:
Are u a doc

I'm doc not

"But you're not a boy So you don't have a clue How I work and pay the bills How everything I do is for you "- Robert kelly(R.kelly)

Anger issues, I can trade a beautiful looking nagging woman for an average looking none nagging woman, I've got violence tendencies and my anger knows no bound, but I've found a way of controlling it by hitting my fist on objects like walls,doors to pour out my vexation.

This as been the only solution for the moment, so God bless help me to have an understanding woman who knows my boundary and tries as much not to pass it.

You failed to realise irun-obo is a guy and you called yourself a psychic?? Damn!

You all dug a big hole of hypocrisy on this thread and buried your brain in it. well, I will be so kind to exhume your brain back to your head.

If he had told her what does it change? Will she hear it and think nothing happened between them? So many asss niggas telling you should have told her are just lame with their games! Somethings are better kept as secret.