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this foolish Man with hin yeye mouth...na soso mouth he get
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just go checkout OKENE road...SMH

she's actually SPOT-ON....I like her
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she said her Mind.

you go dey trust woman?...dey play.... ...she go kollect!

awon oloriburuku!
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na beta something dem achieve for their eye so

Greenfaces:
After All is said and done, soft heart cost me all my peace. If I could undo my mistakes, then I would say my greatest mistake was my kindness to people who are naturally ungrateful

lol...bruh, you go explain tire without evidence o

that everyone is just an OPPORTUNIST.

that people would use emotional blackmail to get somethings from you.....use your discerning spirit.

that you're on your own till God knows when.

that no gives an F till u make it to the top.

that everyone has a problem...we're only fooling around and pretending.

advanceDNA:
Women are just making the dating world more difficult for themselves....

U cant ask the men u like out when u see him..
U dont have money....
If u have money...u dont wnt to contribute to the family u want to raise.....
U are allergic to team playing in marriage and relationship..

All u want to do is eat, fvck and spend money u ddnt work for.....well...everyone is entitled to their feelings and desires....

All of una wey dey manage date all these wèrèy...i pity una ooooo

50 litres of FUEL for u Bruh!

I get Doctor's degree for this field ...i just dey pray make he commot for my blood.
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Ah fit ghost your ghost if possible

saphiere:
Any man who invites a lady to his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?

lazy a33 b**tches!....they're EVERYWHERE....they see everything as man's responsibility. Guess heaven will fall if u transport yourself down to his place bah?
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Entitlement mentality nor go kill una....na my fellow guys i blame sha as konji na bastard @times...even if the guy in question won't demand for sex at your arrival, what's the BIG DEAL in spending your own money? na una type go eventually enta man house dey wait for husband to arrive from work before una go fit buy ORDINARY matches. Mtcheeewww!

SHARE 'n' LOOT.....nothing special!

franchasofficia:
THE BIGGEST LESSON EVERY SINGLE PERSON SHOULD LEARN BEFORE GETTING MARRIED IS:


Financial stability is the biggest challenge in marriage, followed by sexual matters.


Before you get married, try and fix your financial life as a man especially. Don't marry hoping on "marriage will bring luck" because if it was so, we won't have millions of very poor married men and women in Nigeria today. Why didn't their own marriage bring them luck that made them rich or sufficient?


Marry with sense. If you are broke or struggling financially as a single man, don't go and marry a broke, jobless, struggling lady in the name of love or whatever, you are just pushing yourself and future kids into generational poverty. Marry a help mate, a lady that will help you succeed financially and otherwise. Don't marry a lady that will complicate your financial issues. Based on this reason, as a broke or financially struggling single man, forget about marrying girls below 27yrs of age in Nigeria because most girls below 27yrs are broke, financial baggage and mostly expect men to spend on them. Nigerian ladies start to have sense and become asset to their male partners from 30yrs and above, so if you are a broke guy in Nigeria, please avoid ladies below 30 and go for mature ladies who have realised that life is not a fantasy but are rather looking for a man to build a home with.




If you live in Nigeria as a single man, don't marry depending on a paid private company job which can be lost at any time, get extra skill or handwork or side business if possible and always expect the worst news from your employer and be prepared to hustle should you lose your job. To this effect, don't marry a jobless lady, and if you must marry her, have a solid plan and agreement for her to start up a business or learn a profitable trade or enrol in school to study a currently trending course to help you guys maneuver the future financial loads coming to you as married couple.




THE GREATEST BATTLE IN TODAY'S MARRIAGE IS MONEY, MONEY MONEY MONEY! MAKE SURE YOU HAVE STABILIZED YOUR INCOME AND READY TO PAY BILLS UPON BILLS BEFORE YOU MARRY. AND MARRY A LADY THAT WILL HELP YOU FINANCIALLY NOT JUST A LADY THAT EXPECT YOU TO BRING BRING ALL THE TIME, UNLESS YOU ARE VERY FINANCIALLY BUOYANT, THEN YOU CAN MARRY ANY LADY, RICH OR POOR!

This has actually made my day...I FEEL SO HAPPY!

Thanks bruh

na man he be sef...mchttewwwww .... ah bin think say na woman, make we look boobyy small ni

Thonee:
I spend about 55k on fuel weekly for
Car and gen. Though i don't start my gen regularly bcoz NEPA has been doing us well recently.

i thought i'm the only one who NOTICED this oo!! Omo, light issue nor be like befr o
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the thing steady seriously now...well, that's what we've been craving for

@OP: Na fuel u dey even talk about? the thing wey mouth dey consume nko! lol
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na die we just dey

hi peeps, please help a brother in the house.
I want to vividly know what a marriage of going to this
registry of a thing is...what it actually entails and at
the same time is it the same thing as COURT MARRIAGE?. Coz that's actually what i'm considering when it's time (ya'll know what i mean)...i'm not a party to this plenty people during wedding (nor be unto financial constraint o)...BUT i just want a brief ceremony and that's all. (na only your food 9ja people con chop nobody send u )
Anyone with any idea whatsoever is highly welcome.
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Thanks!

when your di3k nor fit stand erect again....
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if you know, you know

insidelife22:
to give her doggy just dey hungry me...

pervert!!

lol...this B-red nor well o...he kukuma finish Burna boi...this wan na SMACKDOWN o!

Enceladus:
I once did 15k airtime to the wrong number.

Thanks heaven say I dey use correct bank. They worked with my service provider and help me reverse the airtime to my number.

DJ WHYKAY (MULE!)

Story....hin for nor join queue befr

wumi2017:
Any matured tall, loving, hardworking intelligent man in d house

hi....can we talk on whatsapp??
here's my digits....08022726085
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or if you don't mind, can i get yours too??

Fairview1:
Over analysis is all am seeing here. How prepared are you? How much work have you done on your own self character and husband wise?

Oga, go and make money. Get more responsible in your community and ladies of character will notice you immediately. When they do, they will get closer, and when you notice them, you will make your point known.

SIMPLY THE BEST ADVICE SO far!!!

Omoh...truth be told...me collect NPOWER money steady for 2years ooo...UNINTERRUPTED....infact, nahim i take setup myself as a man.
Only be say, the way wey dem dey run thier government na him person nor understand...
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BUBU try make we nor lie

Not so sure you know what you really want TO START with (so sorry to say that)....From your utterances, truth be told my dear.... seems you're kind of a WILD gurl who has explored different guys a lot then actually settling for this based on his treats. This guy of yours in question is no doubt a scarce commodity or lemme say a someone with a rare trait. YOU CAN'T HAVE IT ALL WOMAN......There's a Yoruba adage translated in Oyinbo which says: you don't smell what you'll not eat.... Put yourself in his shoes with what you said he saw on your phone.....how would you feel?...that ought to signal to you how much he loves and care for you.

You broke whatever way he might have been feeling about you the moment he saw dah shiii you called an advice.

MY ADVICE: Please take away all those sentiments (ehn...he's not spontaneous, not wild...balaa bluu) If you won't be with him DECIDE at once and let him be.

SAFE!

By the time this gurl go collect smoking HOT breakfast ehn....she go cooldown chop am...use cold drink wash am dan....must you put all life on SM??
BTW, Dah first pishure wey she shoot yarnsh out dey hungry me fork aswear ...(call me a PERVERT, ion mind )

CaptainFM1:
Look, I wrote it in the first paragraph that he should find a way to sort it out with the landlord basically through mutual dialogue and agreement.

I've been in a house where tenants where shouting for prepaid meter, and when the man eventually bought 6 prepaid meters about #85, 000 each, 5 of the tenants that were paying #2000 monthly, all ran away with an average of #450,000 on each meter. In the days of estimated billings, I found out that they don't even eat if there's no light. As soon as the light comes even if its 2am, that's when they will start cooking with hot plates.

So they ran away from the house leaving the man with the debts. The poor man passed away with the stress they caused him few months after. Have you ever wonder why many people are building personal houses nowadays? People don't build houses for rent like our parents did in their time any more because tenants can be so troublesome and most landlords don't and will never recoup the money they use in building the house let alone interest before they were killed by additional tenants trouble. You can do the maths viz-a-viz the average death age in the country!

You know quite well, that while on estimated billings, it is very likely that the monthly electricity bill is more than the 5K per person he was paying which consequently make up for the arrears when prepaid meter came.

Like I said, there are just few options:
1. Dialogue and settle the payment with the landlord. (Best - As it would be a structured payment, usually 40% - 60%)
2. If the landlord insist he pays and he objects, he can decide to move out or stay in darkness.
3. If the landlord agrees to pay, he also reserves the right to increase his rent by whatever how much suits him.
4. If he leaves, the landlord can start afresh with a new tenant with max rent in his mind, agency, commission, caution fees and others. Once all those are paid, the landlord would only need to pay off the arrears once for the new occupant while collecting the max rent every year.

Sometimes in life, we need to make it a win-win for both sides. The landlord has extended good will enough by purchasing prepaid meter.

The question I have for the op is....Did he, or Did he not accrue the 53k in all honesty and fairness?

Your points are clear....BUT STILL i feel i shouldn't be responsible for what i didn't owe....haba!....guess u know that's where the place of TENANCY AGREEMENT comes to play??.......just as u've mentioned above... some tenants ran away seeing a debt of 450k on such prepaid...if na me sef, i won't wait. You know most weapon they use is: U can't just rush and pack-out like that knowing the cost implication of getting a new apartment AND on the other hand if you stay back....u might likely not be able to cope with being in darkness for long. IT'S JUST SO PATHETIC!
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God in His infinite mercy will provide a happy home for us all!

CaptainFM1:
This Nepa people are the third most corrupt organisation in Nigeria. Even if you applied for a new account prepaid meter, it comes with some debts on it. I will just say you and your landlord find a way to sort it out. But the good thing now is, you may not spend more than the 5k monthly again whilst the outstanding bills will be gradually cleared. So if, you were already paying 5k monthly on estimated system, just ensure you are paying same monthly on the prepaid. Afterall, the landlord would still have collected the 5k monthly from you if there's no prepaid.

I've had similar experience too before. And when one of the tenants objected to take the bill on the prepaid, the landlord simply increase the tenant rent by 100K while others pay the original rent. So consider the man for coughing out money and even giving it the thought to get prepaid for the house. Something that you will eventually start enjoying after 1-2years of paying your steady 5k, you may realise, you don't even need up to 2k loading every month.

Where I stay, before we're running about 7k per person in the house, and now with prepaid, some of us even run like N1500 per month and all the outstanding bill of about #250,000 remains just about #35,000.

The question is wouldn't you prefer paying 3k or the same 5k monthly and gradually clear off the outstandings on the prepaid meter that came? or You would prefer to continue paying the same 5k monthly on estimated system while the outstandings continue to increase

The whole point is....how do you treat your landlord in this instance? If you can stick loyally with your monthly 5k, you will be fine every month. The outstandings need to be cleared. Most landlords would increase their rent 30 to 50% after purchase of prepaid meter (Atleast that's what I would do if I were your landlord) and I will pay off all outstandings on the prepaid. But you will now have to be paying me 400K annually instead of the 250K you are currently paying for example.

It's kinda disheartening how we tend to be sentimental on some matters....a Landlord who has an accumulated debt during it's estimated billing days which his/her existing tenant in question knows nothing about would then be expected to join hands in clearing such DEBTS when a prepaid meter comes in...nah Bra!

The truth is....just like someone has said in previous page, most of these landlords enjoy this thing called "IMMUNITY"....a situation whereby even if confronted with a quarrel or not...na you go still packout commot from their house. it might also interest you to know that most of them doesn't usually add-up their own portion of money apportioned to them during estimated billing days....they'll quickly pressure you to pay-up to avoid disconnection (that is - if you stay together with your landlord) thereby surging up such debt in no time.

I'm currently in such dilemma as i'm typing this....there's a total debt of about 120k on our PREPAID METER which we've been paying for months now at our detriment...I only complied in paying coz light is an essential stuff that can't be ignored...now, immediately the arrival of our prepaid we were all summoned to a meeting to pls clear-up our outstanding debt which we did...in no time, an increment letter on house rent came in.

NOW, the picture i'm trying to paint is......some Landlords no send you then why give a FU3K about them....na their property, nobody go gimme gold medal when packing out from such house for clearing up a debt I know nothing of. My intentions now are...when it's time for their rent RENEWAL, I go just tell them say...their rent no go complete o, based on say i no go fit pay money wey i know nothing of. SHEKENA! make we begin fire ourselves from there..

Ri Ri

Jennyclay:
Broke men are the most shameless people living on earth. I'm allergic to broke and wretched men. I hate broke men like Kilode!

How can you sue a lady because of ordinary 3k transport . Shame!! Big shame!!

I was jejely on my own, when one broke wretched man wanted to send me 5k, biko what can I do with 5k ? I just told him to hold his nonsense 5k to himself, then I blocked him immediately.

Broke men everywhere!

One Hoeloshow spotted!!
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i nor dey blame una...na some of my sex starved gender wey nor get brain dey cause am.

two confused institutions CBN say dem don carry NEW NOTES give banks....Banks sef dey hoard the money like say wan use am for their Papa burial...SMH.
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Make Angel Gabu just con begin blow hin trumpet here in Nigeria fess...man pickin tire for this nation.

What's the essence of this when no one is sure STREAM 2 would even be paid at all sef...mtchew[color=#006600][/color]