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We are a nation of 'loving' people! Every single feeling one has for the opposite gender is termed 'love'! Words like lust, attraction, like, intimacy, admiration etc are put under one word LOVE in Nigeria.

Hahahaha!
Every one loves them that way but some are more adept at hiding their feelings than others, some more subtle and some are just simply pretentious! I love what I love and I am not too holy to say it.

BTW I do get blown away occasionally but definitely not romantically! Hehehehe.

Na wa o! So red pant is bad, what of green, yellow, blue, purple, fuschia and multi-coloured pants?
Make una take am easy o.

@Baybbootz
Crazy philosopher No way! I am just a realist who hates to waste time and energy chasing mirage.

I don't mind being blown away by an industrial blow dryer as long as the object I am staring at looks good, I love well built guys!

Oga, please allow the poor girl to grow and find her place in the world. She is too young for settling down, she has to learn what the world is all about through her own eyes and not yours. But if you are from the part of Nigeria where girls are married off as soon as they turn 10 then go ahead and marry her otherwise make her a friend that could see you as her big brother.
I wonder how you will react if your 14 year old sister comes home with a guy your age as her date or boyfriend? Remember in life everything is allowed but not everything adds value!

@Baybbootz
As long as he is blown away it should count! Being blown away romantically by a blow dryer sounds like fun.
Please what or who is a "confuscious"?

@Tpia
Any lady with a Masters degree that is prefers to date a married man needs to go back to school!

@topic
Most Naija guys are intimidated by well educated girls and girls with good career prospects and this could be reason some ladies do not find partners easily. Most Naija guys would rather date students so they can be lord and master in the relationship. The same guys will still come back complaining about money spent on recharge cards and free meals for their gfs.
Anyway, a girl embarking on building a career should be wise enough to juggle both career and love life at same time so she can enjoy the best of both worlds; it's possible, the key is to stay focused and know a good guy when he comes around.

@Essarios
Coz I have my feet firmly planted on the ground and I always reason with my brain. All romance starts and is recycled in my brain box before going to my heart so all unnecessary acts are cut off to conserve energy.

Hilarious! The poster took off!

Hmmm! I guess I should trash my application then! Why do I always arrive late for these events?

I am still crushing on my old crush! Abi na love??