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AIR MARSHA:
pls dont use any juju to catch a gay, i still miantian that if trully u are good stay good equally a good gay would come your way ok

I have been good and only bad guys have come my way.
I can not use juju on a guy.  That is a waste of good resources (my time and money).
See Gabry's advice below:-

Treat him like a man. Even if he is weaker than you aqt a certain area, u make as if he is the man in it.
Man are egoistic by nature so its good to feed a little of their ego at times
Always be there for him when he is in need.
Trust in his capabilities. (I notice thats very VERY important! and it makes him feel like a man)
Do your job as a female. Ensure the home is tidy, be polite, listen and understand and care for him

And:

Gabry:
  Thats just how I treat him ooo      As a GF. . . Not a wife. . . Tufiakwa!     

One more thing ladies. . . Allow him to have a guy's night out only with his friends and without you tagging along (unless if he wants you to go with him) at least once a week. At times, they just wanna hang out at one spot and watch football together so it will be good if you could tolerate with that. Prepare some snacks and drinks for them if its late night and a proper meal if the match is early would make them appreciate u and your bf to really love you alot! TRUST ME on this one BEER! Limit them so that they wont get drunk!

There is a girl for everyman. Just work on your confidence and remember that in Naija it is a very difficult to get a girl. You have to be patient and persistent. Good luck!

Eyes open or eyes closed: Not important, just know how to kiss very well.

hmmmn
I am trying to be good!

Thanks Gabry. I will take your points to heart when I grab a new bf. I am searching but not desperate; I have some on my list now and before the week runs out I will get a a new guy. Who knows what will happen before the year runs out, with me armed with your nice suggestions.

@ Seun
A guy who does not like football and hanging out A rare find but I am sure you are taken!

Five years is a long time to wait. Anything can happen before the guy will be ready. My advice to the lady is to shine her eyes and search for someone who is ready. In five years she will be 30 years and desperate while the guy will just be starting life. No no no no!

Hmmmn

Gabry:
At Topic, I fear that he would kidnap all of my teddies.

lol

I am always afraid of sexual incompatibility.