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I learnt how guys think and also what they really need in a woman and in bed.
I also got to see how some people reason from their backyard holes.

There are marks and there are MARKS!!!! I could date a guy with minor marks but if his face is heavily designed I will have to give it some serious thought.

@OP
Just tell him you are not keen on the relationship but don't mention the tribal marks as your main reason so you don't hurt the guy's self esteem.

There are so many places in Lagos that one offer such services but they take cash and I am not sure of online payment. We have Flowerstalk used to be on Awolwo Road, Flower 'n' You in Ikoyi and Gethsemane in VI.

@Meklex
Sorry o. I hope this year brings true love your way.

@Meklex
Thanks. I dey try.

I have done that; once it worked out and we actually had a beautiful relationship and another time it didn't work out, I couldn't love him enough. Everyone said we were right for each other so I went in with the hope that love will come but alas nothing changed and that unfortunately is my most bitter break-up coz family and friends were involved.

Hmmmm! I am not good at this love stuff. When I am in love I have so many feelings including:-
Admiration and respect for the person; the desire to spend time with him; excitement when he calls; always happy to see him or hear his name or stories about him; feeling of protection towards him from pain, shame and hurt; like to be cuddled close to him; always looking out for things that will please him and help him make progress; interest in his affairs and a strong desire to have sex with him.
I will say there's the general desire to see him happy and a willingness to make sacrifices to be with him and make the relationship grow.
Did I mention that I am always happy to be with him and that he always makes me smile even if his jokes are dry!

I am very much attracted to my partner and I have never dated a guy I am not attracted to.
I think OP has attraction and love all mixed up as one and same thing! People start relationships because they are attracted to each other and may have fallen in love or hope to fall in love along the line. The attraction is what starts the relationship and its love that keeps it going.

@190
So it works both ways. Girls and guys get dumped after struggling.
And yes its smart not to struggle in vain. I know several ladies who struggled with guys and helped to make them only for the guys to turn around and dump them for one flimsy reason. So why struggle with John when a rich, handsome and all-ready-made Peter is asking me out! Who like sufferhead or who no like better thing? Abegi

@topic
There are decent girls, keep searching. Also remember that birds of same feather flock together and to catch monkey you sef go bi like monkey.
I agree that so many of our girls have thrown decency to the wind in their pursuit of money but there are some who are not into that.
As for sticking to a struggling guy, not the girls' fault as most of them get dumped when the guys have made it. I have male friends who dumped their long time gfs after they land good jobs/deal; their reason is often that the girls don't befit their new status. So smart girls have wisened up.

Lol!
We all love to be grabbed from behind. Now don't get us started.
I can't wait to start eating for two! Lucky you.

When he asks about my colleagues by name even though he has never met them; it makes me glad and shows he actually listens to my stories.
And I love it when he cooks for me and when he reads to me.