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Politics / 5 Reasons Nigeria Is A Failed State by HealingHeart(m): 4:38pm On Sep 03, 2019 |
I am a Nigerian who lives abroad but I've never been proud of my nationality ever since I emigrated. Most of this owe to the quality of life in Nigeria, the fact that more and more Nigerians are leaving to seek better lives overseas, whereas very few foreigners migrate to Nigeria for want of a better life. Here are few reasons why Nigeria is a failed state. 1. Lack of Creativity and Innovation in Science & Technology. We're are seldom innovative or creative. We simply consume products, imitate or copy the ideas of the Europeans and replicate them without really understanding why they worked for the Europeans. Our educational syllabus is filled with outdated or falsified information. And no one care, because education in Nigeria is all about landing a job. 2. Crude Oil Nigeria oil reserve is a curse in disguise. It is unearned gift that turn in huge amount of wealth. Wealth easily obtained without sweat is seldom judiciously spent. Wealth easily obtained does not motivate creativity or innovation. This is reality. Our oil wealth is wasted or embezzled and no one is held accountable because we can always turn to our oil wells. None of the developed countries in the world export crude oil. They work off their ass to manufacture and export tertiary products. 3. Over population We are over 200 million at this rate, more than 2/3 the population of US, which is about 10 times the land area of Nigeria. In Nigeria, there is no idea of family planning. Men have 5,6 10 children and even more with multiple wives. Too many Nigerians means more expenses by the government to supply electricity, water, and install and maintain basic amenities like public toilets or good roads; because of the excessive usage of these amenities by the large population. 4. Tribal and Religious Bias Nigeria is a divided country with so many ethnic groups and two major religions. Due to this, democratic elections are really just majoritocratic elections. Leaders are not elected on merit but on their ethnic and religious affiliation. This is why in any election contested between a northerner and a southerner, the northerner win the most votes in the north and the southerner wins the most vote in the south. 5. Unpatriotic Citizens A lot of Nigerians don't love their country. They would leave the country if they had the chance. Much of those that leave have really no desire to return. These Nigerians simply pursue their personal interest, there is no national consciousness, no sense of purpose to build or invest in the nation. |
Romance / Re: Do Russian Girls Date Black Guys? by HealingHeart(m): 3:10pm On Sep 01, 2019 |
khia: Not according to the mainstream media and academia. Interracial marriage is one aspect you're not allowed to discuss the cons. This is despite the fact that even notable black men like Malcolm X & Muhammad Ali opposed it. Black men procreate with white females all of the time, those biracial children 8 out of 10 times procreate with whites or non blacks. Hmm... Abomination. Due respect to those in interracial marriages, but there is need to address the cons, the ecological, social or cultural. |
Romance / Re: Do Russian Girls Date Black Guys? by HealingHeart(m): 6:34am On Aug 31, 2019 |
khia: Not a black man like me. I'm kind of racist, you know. I'm not a fan of interracial marriage. Not that I don't find white women attractive, but I believe there is more to marriage than physical attraction. Every race is genetically unique product of thousands of years of evolution. Race mixing or interracial marriage is a factor that contributes to race extinction. At this rate of race mixing going up in Europe or America, a point will be reached where whites will become an endangered tribe. This will not be pretty. |
Romance / Re: Women, Is a 5-6 inches long dick enough for You? by HealingHeart(m): 5:46pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
blinking001: Yeah, becos originally researchers misled the public by telling us that size does not matter. They said that vagina adjust to the size of the dick penetrating at sex. |
Romance / Re: Women, Is a 5-6 inches long dick enough for You? by HealingHeart(m): 5:11pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Akuchaser: By 20 latest. |
Romance / Re: Women, Is a 5-6 inches long dick enough for You? by HealingHeart(m): 5:08pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: Vagina length can extend as much as double its relaxed length upon stimulation. It is just like the dick. So, that''ll be a 6-8 inches space. Keep in mind that 3-4 inches is the only "average" length of relaxed vagina. Some women may have signigicantly longer than this. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Women, Is a 5-6 inches long dick enough for You? by HealingHeart(m): 3:50pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: Fair enough. I wonder why the other women do not respond. Seem like most women never estimated their vaginal size. Without estimating vaginal size, couple run the risk of sexual incompatibity. |
Romance / Re: Women, Is a 5-6 inches long dick enough for You? by HealingHeart(m): 3:00pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Grandlord: It depends on the size of the vagina. The A spot, another sensitive zone, is deep within. If the dick is not long enough, the A spot may not be well stimulated. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Women, Is a 5-6 inches long dick enough for You? by HealingHeart(m): 2:29pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Grandlord: I see the importance of girth, as it increases the pressure in the vaginal wall. Still length is important since more length mean prolonged contact with vaginal wall, prolonging sensation. If it ain't long enough, it may not reach erogenous zones dip into the vagina. I have a really endowed girth size of 8.2 inches and I get to hear testimonies and confessions every time. Hmm... that's thicker than a coke can. Interesting observation. I thought that'll be too thick for average vagina. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Women, Is a 5-6 inches long dick enough for You? by HealingHeart(m): 2:21pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
IamPlato: Hmmm.... Naija people can never discuss women dating preferences without returning back to the 'money issue'. Why? There are many wealthy men in unhappy marriage because they can't satisfy their wives in bed. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Women, Is a 5-6 inches long dick enough for You? by HealingHeart(m): 2:01pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
ashas50: Ah, for God sake. Are we back to the "it is how he can use it" argument again? See the url below, size is critical for vaginal orgasm. [url=thearousalproject.com/orgasm-how-tos/how-to-have-a-vaginal-orgasm/]How to have a Vaginal Orgasm[/url] |
Romance / Women, Is a 5-6 inches long dick enough for You? by HealingHeart(m): 1:10pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
If you're a woman, do not be ashamed to answer this question with honesty. If you're a man, do not be disrespectful of any woman's response. According to statistics, the average dick size is 5-6 inches. The thing is that the vagina expands like the dick during sexual arousal. The size of the expanded vagina at full arousal is genetically determined, and determine the ideal or adequate size of the dick for it. Therefore, not every dick size is adequate for every vagina. So, as a woman, is 5-6 inches enough? Or too small, or too big? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Harddon And Ubunja Are Great Men by HealingHeart(m): 12:32pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
ubunja: No. If a woman is with a man because of his money, she is a gold digger. No man want a gold digger. Now, if a woman is with a man because he is good in bed. That's because he is offering her an essential service that she fear she might not get from the next man. Do these cases disprove my philosophy? May be. But these are mere exceptions, & they do not fit within the PUA philosophy either. |
Romance / Re: Harddon And Ubunja Are Great Men by HealingHeart(m): 11:46am On Aug 12, 2019 |
ubunja: Most ugly men manage to retain women either with money or with being good in sex. |
Romance / Re: Harddon And Ubunja Are Great Men by HealingHeart(m): 11:13am On Aug 12, 2019 |
I don't know harddon, but I tell you ubunja's ideas are based on half-truths. Just because their advice worked for you doesn't mean it is truth. Here is a question I suggest you ask them; How likely is a man to succeed with the alpha-male persona if he is short, skinny or overweight, with ugly face and average or below average dick size? Edit: My philosophy is that looks is nearly everything. If you are a young socially active man in early to mid twenties but women never showed interest in you or your relationship always fail, consider yourself unattractive. |
Romance / Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 11:15am On Aug 07, 2019 |
ubunja: But let me ask you a question. How many short dudes, with ugly face, overweight/skinny and with small/average dick size have succeeded have with PUA? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 11:06am On Aug 07, 2019 |
ubunja: It is booming because every year ignorant newbies enter the dating market and suffer plenty of losses. Then they turn to the internet for a clue, which leads them to the PUA. Also try to read comments by women tricked by these tricks. I've read comments. Some of the women admitted they were already physically attracted to the men. It confirms my position. Do you even research or you write your opinions down on paper? There are large online communities dedicated to exposing PUA. Many of the members were former students of PUA who became disillusioned because it didn't yield them result. Man, until recently, I believed in PUA. Sure, I felt the 'Game' a little too shady, but I was convinced it worked. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 10:40am On Aug 07, 2019 |
2buffagain: My point is not to bother anyone. My point is to state that size matters to women. Each woman have their preferred size. Remember, at the end of my post I asked men who feel their size is small to accept their fate. I didn't say they should be alarmed. There's a reason God designed women to be virgins before they marry. Naturally every unphucked pussy should be satisfied by every dick size. Man, this is not right. This idea that size will not matter to virgins is flawed. It doesn't account for divorced women who are remarrying. Also, even virgins who never seen a dick may be able to tell a man with say, 3" erect is too small. This is because vaginas are not all the same in width or length. She can go buy herself a vibrator if thats her issue. Fair enough. |
Romance / Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 4:45pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
ChiefGuru24: Fair enough |
Romance / Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 1:10pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
ChiefGuru24: I don't understand your logic. So because you succeed means you implemented it well, while those that failed didn't implement it well? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 10:37am On Aug 06, 2019 |
^^^^^^^^^^ I predicted one of the PUA will come to deny it. Let's look at @ChiefGuru24. He said he used to be shy, even around his female cousins. Obviously, shyness constitutes a barrier to meeting women. So, logically getting some confidence could've been all he needed. Probably all other factors I've discussed were favorable to him, thus explaining his success. Many have tried and have failed by the techniques of the PUA. I know no case in Nigeria since the local PUA community is not active online. But abroad I know a few cases. Research a bit on "George Sodini" or "Elliot Rodgers". You'll come to my point. |
Romance / Re: Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 10:23am On Aug 06, 2019 |
ChiefGuru24: Pfft..... Why write in all bold? There are many men that have tried it and it didn't work for them. |
Romance / Re: Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 10:16am On Aug 06, 2019 |
2buffagain: OK, what of those women with fetish for large big dicks? What happens to the man whose size does not meet the women's definition of 'big'? |
Romance / Re: Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 9:53am On Aug 06, 2019 |
@DemonInSiege I beg you to delete these pictures, or am afraid I'll report to the mods. |
Romance / Why Pick-up Artists Tips Don't Work by HealingHeart(m): 9:50am On Aug 06, 2019 |
I've explained a man's attractiveness to women is chiefly determined by his physical looks. A man can make enough money to buy a woman's body, but not her heart. Yet the alpha male camp, the pick-up artists(PUA) disagree. They tell the young men that it is all about personality and that young men should just become an 'alpha male'. The pick-up artists are a bunch of con artists who claim to have unraveled female psychology, the so-called "Red Pill"; and then they sell the young men strategies to get women, they call these strategies "Game". They say that any man with "Game" can get just any woman. But how? Let's say A is a young man of 27, 5ft 8" tall, average face, and a little skinny. He is the stereotypical alpha male character the PUA endorses, so he often comes across as aloof & distant. Then consider B, 27, 6ft 3", considerably handsome face, and athletic build. He is not the stereotypical alpha male, but not a doormat, rather he is laid back and is there for everyone. Let aside money and status, who among these two are women likely to prefer for a date or relationship? If you don't match a woman's standard for male beauty, being 'alpha' won't get you anywhere. She may respect you, but she won't love you. Even if you manage to get her number and go on dates, if you internalize all those misogyny and psychopathic principles of the PUA or Red pill philosophers, you will lose her because of your attitude. Especially if she is an intelligent woman. The PUA will say "Hey, am not even so tall or handsome, but I have easily dated and hooked up with many girls". Even if this is true, do not be easily convinced. There will be a host of factors contributing to their success - their dick size or how good they are in bed, the kind of girls they pick, the area they live, the culture of their area. You can follow their Game to the letter but if all the above factors do not contribute in your favor, you will end up frustrated and bitter. Remember, physical attractiveness is most important, only after a woman finds you physically attractive will any fair "game" or personality benefit you. |
Romance / Re: Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 4:06pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
ubunja: No. You got me wrong. Any reason why I come across as female? |
Romance / Re: Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 4:00pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
ubunja: I'm not a female. Why do you think I am? |
Romance / Re: Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 3:53pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
lilwetdick: If you say so. I'd say it is better to find a woman content with the size. I'm personally not a fan of winning women with money. |
Romance / Re: Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 3:24pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
lilwetdick: How will money make up for it? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 3:10pm On Aug 05, 2019 |
internationalman: Then you will have to talk with her on the way forward. |
Romance / Re: Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 9:08am On Aug 05, 2019 |
internationalman: Too big? Only your partner can answer that question. Just as there is no preferred boob size for men, there is no preferred dick size for women. 1 Like |
Romance / Dick Size, More Important Than You Think by HealingHeart(m): 7:59am On Aug 05, 2019 |
I talked in my previous thread that a man's physical attractiveness is the chief determinant of his success with dating and marriage. I mentioned four key areas that women evaluate men's looks - Face, height, fitness, and dick size. This post will deal with dick size. It is an important subject because even if you're tall enough, with good physique and handsome face, a dick considered small by your partner could entirely ruin your relationship. We have been told women don't care about size but how you use your size. Even women say this, but they say this out of bashfulness or prudence because of the sexually repressed society we live in. They don't want to be shamed for speaking up. No doubt it is possible to get women to orgasm with a small dick. But sex is not all about the orgasm. That is why men don't just have sex with any woman. Dick size is to women as breast/butt size is to men. There are definitely those women that don't care much about size but a lot of women do care. In fact, sometimes, regardless of all other physical features in a man, his dick size alone might be enough to attract certain women. The question, what size do women prefer? There is no one size for all. It varies from woman to woman. Lastly, if you think your dick is too small, just let it be. Accept your fate. Do not be duped by enlargement scams - pills or exercises. These are not guaranteed to increase your size. |
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