I am a Nigerian who lives abroad but I've never been proud of my nationality ever since I emigrated. Most of this owe to the quality of life in Nigeria, the fact that more and more Nigerians are leaving to seek better lives overseas, whereas very few foreigners migrate to Nigeria for want of a better life. Here are few reasons why Nigeria is a failed state.

1. Lack of Creativity and Innovation in Science & Technology.

We're are seldom innovative or creative. We simply consume products, imitate or copy the ideas of the Europeans and replicate them without really understanding why they worked for the Europeans. Our educational syllabus is filled with outdated or falsified information. And no one care, because education in Nigeria is all about landing a job.

2. Crude Oil

Nigeria oil reserve is a curse in disguise. It is unearned gift that turn in huge amount of wealth. Wealth easily obtained without sweat is seldom judiciously spent. Wealth easily obtained does not motivate creativity or innovation. This is reality. Our oil wealth is wasted or embezzled and no one is held accountable because we can always turn to our oil wells. None of the developed countries in the world export crude oil. They work off their ass to manufacture and export tertiary products.

3. Over population

We are over 200 million at this rate, more than 2/3 the population of US, which is about 10 times the land area of Nigeria. In Nigeria, there is no idea of family planning. Men have 5,6 10 children and even more with multiple wives. Too many Nigerians means more expenses by the government to supply electricity, water, and install and maintain basic amenities like public toilets or good roads; because of the excessive usage of these amenities by the large population.

4. Tribal and Religious Bias

Nigeria is a divided country with so many ethnic groups and two major religions. Due to this, democratic elections are really just majoritocratic elections. Leaders are not elected on merit but on their ethnic and religious affiliation. This is why in any election contested between a northerner and a southerner, the northerner win the most votes in the north and the southerner wins the most vote in the south.

5. Unpatriotic Citizens

A lot of Nigerians don't love their country. They would leave the country if they had the chance. Much of those that leave have really no desire to return. These Nigerians simply pursue their personal interest, there is no national consciousness, no sense of purpose to build or invest in the nation.

khia:


Being against interracial relationships doesn't mean that you are a racist.

Not according to the mainstream media and academia. Interracial marriage is one aspect you're not allowed to discuss the cons. This is despite the fact that even notable black men like Malcolm X & Muhammad Ali opposed it.

Black men procreate with white females all of the time, those biracial children 8 out of 10 times procreate with whites or non blacks.

Black men then look at their grandkids and can't see any black in the children. This makes the black man extremely happy and proud that he has bred the African out of his offsprings. To you I give many props for your wisdom. Sweetheart keep your bloodline pure.

Hmm... Abomination. Due respect to those in interracial marriages, but there is need to address the cons, the ecological, social or cultural.

khia:


Yes but black men are more than willing participants to breed themselves out with those Beckys, hence this topic.

Not a black man like me. I'm kind of racist, you know. I'm not a fan of interracial marriage. Not that I don't find white women attractive, but I believe there is more to marriage than physical attraction.

Every race is genetically unique product of thousands of years of evolution. Race mixing or interracial marriage is a factor that contributes to race extinction.

At this rate of race mixing going up in Europe or America, a point will be reached where whites will become an endangered tribe. This will not be pretty.

blinking001:

This sounds new

Yeah, becos originally researchers misled the public by telling us that size does not matter. They said that vagina adjust to the size of the dick penetrating at sex.

Akuchaser:
when does dick stop growing
I'm above 18 not up to 21
6.5 length girth 4.7

By 20 latest.

funmisticqueen:
If the vagina is only 3-4 inches long, any extra na jara and stands the risk of not fully entering the gateway of heaven

Vagina length can extend as much as double its relaxed length upon stimulation. It is just like the dick. So, that''ll be a 6-8 inches space. Keep in mind that 3-4 inches is the only "average" length of relaxed vagina. Some women may have signigicantly longer than this.

funmisticqueen:
5-6 inches is more than enough as far i enjoy your company. Especially if you are a worthy protector and provider

Fair enough.

I wonder why the other women do not respond. Seem like most women never estimated their vaginal size. Without estimating vaginal size, couple run the risk of sexual incompatibity.

Grandlord:
Where do you think the erogenous zones of the vagina are? The zones are just at the outer vulva consisting of the labia and clitoris and about 3-4cm into the vagina. You don't need to go too deep as that would only be painful to her.

It depends on the size of the vagina. The A spot, another sensitive zone, is deep within. If the dick is not long enough, the A spot may not be well stimulated.

Grandlord:
It's not how long but how thick. I think a wider girth is the best as it stretches out the vulva and vaginal walls touching every sensitive folds and nodes.

I see the importance of girth, as it increases the pressure in the vaginal wall. Still length is important since more length mean prolonged contact with vaginal wall, prolonging sensation. If it ain't long enough, it may not reach erogenous zones dip into the vagina.

I have a really endowed girth size of 8.2 inches and I get to hear testimonies and confessions every time.

Hmm... that's thicker than a coke can. Interesting observation. I thought that'll be too thick for average vagina.

IamPlato:
Super Rich People Will always Address Themselves As "Just Comfortable" so As Not To Draw Attention



Girl That Like Mandingo dick Will Always Deny It In Public because They Have A Big One At Home

Hmmm.... Naija people can never discuss women dating preferences without returning back to the 'money issue'. Why?

There are many wealthy men in unhappy marriage because they can't satisfy their wives in bed.

ashas50:
Sure, even 4 inches ,in as much he knows how to use it..

Ah, for God sake. Are we back to the "it is how he can use it" argument again? See the url below, size is critical for vaginal orgasm.

[url=thearousalproject.com/orgasm-how-tos/how-to-have-a-vaginal-orgasm/]How to have a Vaginal Orgasm[/url]

If you're a woman, do not be ashamed to answer this question with honesty. If you're a man, do not be disrespectful of any woman's response.

According to statistics, the average dick size is 5-6 inches. The thing is that the vagina expands like the dick during sexual arousal. The size of the expanded vagina at full arousal is genetically determined, and determine the ideal or adequate size of the dick for it. Therefore, not every dick size is adequate for every vagina.

So, as a woman, is 5-6 inches enough? Or too small, or too big?

ubunja:
then your statement becomes false

No.

If a woman is with a man because of his money, she is a gold digger. No man want a gold digger.

Now, if a woman is with a man because he is good in bed. That's because he is offering her an essential service that she fear she might not get from the next man.

Do these cases disprove my philosophy? May be. But these are mere exceptions, & they do not fit within the PUA philosophy either.

ubunja:


If looks matter as much as you make it seem then there would be no ugly baby born. Where are all these ugly babies out here coming from? Which men are these women screwing?

Most ugly men manage to retain women either with money or with being good in sex.

I don't know harddon, but I tell you ubunja's ideas are based on half-truths. Just because their advice worked for you doesn't mean it is truth.

Here is a question I suggest you ask them;

How likely is a man to succeed with the alpha-male persona if he is short, skinny or overweight, with ugly face and average or below average dick size?

Edit:

My philosophy is that looks is nearly everything. If you are a young socially active man in early to mid twenties but women never showed interest in you or your relationship always fail, consider yourself unattractive.

ubunja:
widen your research. The info is free out there

But let me ask you a question. How many short dudes, with ugly face, overweight/skinny and with small/average dick size have succeeded have with PUA?

ubunja:
Pick Up Artist tips work or else pick up artistry wouldn't be a booming business it is.

It is booming because every year ignorant newbies enter the dating market and suffer plenty of losses. Then they turn to the internet for a clue, which leads them to the PUA.

Also try to read comments by women tricked by these tricks.

I've read comments. Some of the women admitted they were already physically attracted to the men. It confirms my position.

Do you even research or you write your opinions down on paper?

There are large online communities dedicated to exposing PUA. Many of the members were former students of PUA who became disillusioned because it didn't yield them result. Man, until recently, I believed in PUA. Sure, I felt the 'Game' a little too shady, but I was convinced it worked.

2buffagain:


Is it your job to be liked by everybody?
Because if it is, you are up for a long life of dissapointments.

Who no like wetin you carry as far as you are concerned is nobody to you.
Never ever let what someone wants make you feel bad about yourself.
If she no like am, thats her phucking problem.

It's just tiring hearing every guy lieing about how they have 12 inches and always get hard.
These lies just make you hate yourself more because you know these things to be untrue.
Then you turn to drugs to help prove your claim to these women. The same way insecure women turn to yansh padding and whatever to prove her claim to men.

It's un-necessary. Phuck her with your real self like a BOSS. Eat and finger that puh while you're at it.
If she needs bigger because she has been abusing herself with other tools, that's her own phucking problem.

My point is not to bother anyone. My point is to state that size matters to women. Each woman have their preferred size. Remember, at the end of my post I asked men who feel their size is small to accept their fate. I didn't say they should be alarmed.

There's a reason God designed women to be virgins before they marry. Naturally every unphucked pussy should be satisfied by every dick size.
Feminists can argue all they want, but men do not bleed when they first have sex, nor do they have something inside them actually rip. These physiological changes were not trivial aspects of the design of the female body. They mean something. Also failing that, the pussy is the only thing that can be naturally tightened. Man cannot naturally increase his erect dick size. That also says something.

Man, this is not right. This idea that size will not matter to virgins is flawed. It doesn't account for divorced women who are remarrying. Also, even virgins who never seen a dick may be able to tell a man with say, 3" erect is too small. This is because vaginas are not all the same in width or length.

She can go buy herself a vibrator if thats her issue.
It's not your job to satisfy some other person's every fetish...same way no self-respecting woman would allow any man try to body shame her for having portable boobs. It's not her job to satisfy his every fetish. Someone else will appreciate it like that. She would only make herself less attractive if she lets those pointless opinions eat into her self-esteem and confidence. With the right confidence, she can even still dominate the fool in the bedroom who thought he needed big boobs.

TLDR: Build more confidence in yourself.

Fair enough.

ChiefGuru24:

Im saying wrong implentation is the biggest cause of most failures. You have to be sure you know what you're doing first before anything

Fair enough

ChiefGuru24:


Sometimes people implent strategies wrongly. Either they interpret it poorly or they use a method in the wrong situation or they over do it or under do it. Pua tactics work. There are lots of guys that it has worked for. Just so you get it, Rich dad poor dad is a book that has sold more than a million copies world wide. With so much readers, how many millionaires are made? Some people read or see something and then implement it wrongly. Thats why you must read and understand so you can be the best.

I don't understand your logic. So because you succeed means you implemented it well, while those that failed didn't implement it well?

^^^^^^^^^^

I predicted one of the PUA will come to deny it. Let's look at @ChiefGuru24.

He said he used to be shy, even around his female cousins. Obviously, shyness constitutes a barrier to meeting women. So, logically getting some confidence could've been all he needed. Probably all other factors I've discussed were favorable to him, thus explaining his success.

Many have tried and have failed by the techniques of the PUA. I know no case in Nigeria since the local PUA community is not active online. But abroad I know a few cases. Research a bit on "George Sodini" or "Elliot Rodgers". You'll come to my point.

ChiefGuru24:
You are right and wrong at the same time. Ive been in the dating world for a long time. Ive fûcked and dated tons of girls that sometimes its hard for me or anyone to believe that i was so shy to talking to girls, i usually hide when my female cousins come around. Pick up or alpha male tips and tricks work 100% . Getting a girl or fucking one is more of personality, attitude, charisma and dominance. Looks play a role but a very very small one. Remember, the goal is not for her to be attracted to you. The goal is for her to want you so bad she'll want to fûck you and do whatever you wish and i can tell you 100% that looks count very little. What you need is attitude, confidence, charisma, dominance etc

Pfft..... Why write in all bold? There are many men that have tried it and it didn't work for them.

2buffagain:
All this small boys talking. As if everyone has big dick
This fallacy creates a fakeness rampant with people today.
Even guys that have small dick will be lieing to women only for her to find out and be disappointed with your lack of integrity and self love.

Even with your small dick, you can confidently slay any girl. It's about your attitude and if you let it be a problem... to you.

Don't give a Bleep what you think she thinks.
Don't even give a Bleep what she thinks.
You have the best dick in the world.
If it's 3 inches, then she better take those 3 inches and phucking like it.

Never let anything about your body shame you when fucking a mere girl. Just as well never let anyone shame you about your body.
Even if your dick no stand, that just means she gets to spend the night sucking you off. That's her job now. You can't be stressed.
Work on your mind game and your presence of self.

You are the greatest.
That is all.

OK, what of those women with fetish for large big dicks? What happens to the man whose size does not meet the women's definition of 'big'?

@DemonInSiege

I beg you to delete these pictures, or am afraid I'll report to the mods.

I've explained a man's attractiveness to women is chiefly determined by his physical looks. A man can make enough money to buy a woman's body, but not her heart. Yet the alpha male camp, the pick-up artists(PUA) disagree. They tell the young men that it is all about personality and that young men should just become an 'alpha male'.

The pick-up artists are a bunch of con artists who claim to have unraveled female psychology, the so-called "Red Pill"; and then they sell the young men strategies to get women, they call these strategies "Game". They say that any man with "Game" can get just any woman. But how?

Let's say A is a young man of 27, 5ft 8" tall, average face, and a little skinny. He is the stereotypical alpha male character the PUA endorses, so he often comes across as aloof & distant. Then consider B, 27, 6ft 3", considerably handsome face, and athletic build. He is not the stereotypical alpha male, but not a doormat, rather he is laid back and is there for everyone.

Let aside money and status, who among these two are women likely to prefer for a date or relationship?

If you don't match a woman's standard for male beauty, being 'alpha' won't get you anywhere. She may respect you, but she won't love you. Even if you manage to get her number and go on dates, if you internalize all those misogyny and psychopathic principles of the PUA or Red pill philosophers, you will lose her because of your attitude. Especially if she is an intelligent woman.

The PUA will say "Hey, am not even so tall or handsome, but I have easily dated and hooked up with many girls". Even if this is true, do not be easily convinced. There will be a host of factors contributing to their success - their dick size or how good they are in bed, the kind of girls they pick, the area they live, the culture of their area.

You can follow their Game to the letter but if all the above factors do not contribute in your favor, you will end up frustrated and bitter. Remember, physical attractiveness is most important, only after a woman finds you physically attractive will any fair "game" or personality benefit you.

ubunja:
cause you come across as a female

No. You got me wrong. Any reason why I come across as female?

ubunja:
poster is a female yes

I'm not a female. Why do you think I am?

lilwetdick:


i dont know but it works...some whitemen like elon musk have shrinking dicks and also have lot of cash and they always get lot of beautiful women

If you say so. I'd say it is better to find a woman content with the size. I'm personally not a fan of winning women with money.

lilwetdick:
dick size matters just like money matters

only in the media that women say dick size doesnt matter

if you have small dick make up for it by having cash

if you have small dick and no cash..hid your face...you shouldnt be thinking about women..just use your hand


dick size matters

How will money make up for it?

internationalman:

Yeah my partner said it's too big

Then you will have to talk with her on the way forward.

internationalman:
Is 7.5 inches too big?

Too big? Only your partner can answer that question. Just as there is no preferred boob size for men, there is no preferred dick size for women.

I talked in my previous thread that a man's physical attractiveness is the chief determinant of his success with dating and marriage. I mentioned four key areas that women evaluate men's looks - Face, height, fitness, and dick size.

This post will deal with dick size. It is an important subject because even if you're tall enough, with good physique and handsome face, a dick considered small by your partner could entirely ruin your relationship.

We have been told women don't care about size but how you use your size. Even women say this, but they say this out of bashfulness or prudence because of the sexually repressed society we live in. They don't want to be shamed for speaking up.

No doubt it is possible to get women to orgasm with a small dick. But sex is not all about the orgasm. That is why men don't just have sex with any woman. Dick size is to women as breast/butt size is to men. There are definitely those women that don't care much about size but a lot of women do care. In fact, sometimes, regardless of all other physical features in a man, his dick size alone might be enough to attract certain women.

The question, what size do women prefer? There is no one size for all. It varies from woman to woman.

Lastly, if you think your dick is too small, just let it be. Accept your fate. Do not be duped by enlargement scams - pills or exercises. These are not guaranteed to increase your size.