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RomanceRe: He Finally Got Me####### My Heart Is Broken by Heartbender: 9:19pm On Feb 06, 2020
Hi, you are beautiful. Check my signature, please
Auntyesther:
So they blue eye bead yen yen yen did the magic and not love eeh kwa? heigawd! umunwoke ata go afufu maka chi *points to the sky* You wee wear that thing till eternity cause any day you remove it boom! marriage aff scatter.. And the guyman wee be thinking he's in love but na blue eye bead dey do am
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How?
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EducationRe: What Course Can My Ward Choose With This SSCE Result? by Heartbender:
I see no issue with the result. Maths and English have been scaled. Pick another 2 to make 4 during JAMB Exams and you'll have an undergraduate
CelebritiesRe: ‘rapists Marrying Their Victims Is Biblical’ — Daddy Freeze by Heartbender: 11:36pm On Jan 25, 2020
Did you read what I posted? The bible wasn't talking of rape but seduction and sex outside marriage
Chuks9000:
The topic and the lines above from you is in agreement thereby disagreeing with your first comment.

But, I am mightily inspired that you went back to the bible ...
In summary, the fall of Adam in genesis means man's spirit no longer has a relationship/ partnership with God.
Jesus coming is not about do this or that, but that we d products of Adam can be reconnected by to God.

Anyone in God cannot rape.
Anyone in God will pray for a rapist
Anyone in God would not make it sound as if the bible supports rape.
CelebritiesRe: ‘rapists Marrying Their Victims Is Biblical’ — Daddy Freeze by Heartbender: 9:30pm On Jan 25, 2020
But is it really what the Bible says?

Like all biblical law, Deuteronomy 22:28-29 reflects God’s character; when we see the meaning of the Law, we see the heart of the Lawgiver. This law describes how the community of Israel responded when an unbetrothed virgin was violated through premarital sexual intercourse.[1]

The verb used to explain what happened to the woman is תָּפַשׂ (tāpas). Tāpas means to “lay hold [of],”[2] or “wield.”[3] Like חָזַק (ḥāzaq, the word for “force) used in vv. 25-27, tāpas can also be translated as “seize.”[4] Unlike ḥāzaq, however, tāpas does not carry the same connotation of force. As one Hebrew scholar explains, tāpas does not, in and of itself, infer assault; it means she was “held,” but not necessarily “attacked.’[5]

There’s a delicate difference between these two verbs, but it makes all the difference. Tāpas is often used to describe a capture.[6] Tāpas also appears in Genesis 39:12; when Potiphar’s wife tried to seduce Joseph, she seized (tāpas) him to wear down his resolve. This is distinct from ḥāzaq, which describes a forcible overpowering. Daniel Block notes that, unlike the law in verses 25-27, this law has neither a cry for help, nor an account of male violence.[7] It’s likely that the woman in verses 28-29 experienced overwhelming persuasion, perhaps an erosion of her resolve, but not necessarily a sexual assault.

This does not mitigate the seriousness of the act. This woman was indeed violated; she was dishonored and humiliated.[8] However, verses 28-29 do not necessarily indicate she was raped. Had the author of Deuteronomy, Moses, (and the Holy Spirit who inspired him)[9] intended to depict this as a sexual assault, it seems unlikely that he would have chosen tāpas instead of ḥāzaq – the verb used just before it. Given the lexical differences between ḥāzaq and tāpas, and how closely they appear in these two consecutive laws, it seems more likely that these two distinct verbs are meant to convey two distinct scenarios.

Further, tāpas does not appear in either of biblical stories describing sexual assault that were written after the Law.[10] When later biblical authors depicted a rape, they used the ḥāzaq (which appeared vv. 25-27) rather than tāpas. We can reasonably conclude that the biblical narrators (and again, the Holy Spirit) knew the difference in meaning between ḥāzaq and tāpas within the context of sexual violence, and they used these verbs with their meanings in mind.[11]

One more detail: Unlike the previous two laws in vv. 23-29, this points out that the man and the woman were caught in the act.[12] Whereas verses 25-27 refer to the man and the woman as separate persons, verses 28-29 refer to them as a unit.[13] One Hebrew scholar sees this detail as another reason to believe vv. 28-29 did not describe a rape, but rather mutual consent.[14]

Based on all the evidence, we can conclude that the unbetrothed virgin in verses 28-29 was not necessarily the victim of an assault. Therefore, to claim that the Bible required a woman to marry her rapist is a misinterpretation – and a misrepresentation – of this law. Again, this is not to say that she was not mistreated or taken advantage of; she most certainly was. Yet, this law does not carry the same connotation of force as the previous scenario in verses 25-27.

For the young woman in Israel, this law ensured that she would not be objectified and discarded. Her seducer was required to make restitution with her father, was compelled to marry her, and was forbidden to divorce her. In a culture where a woman’s marriage equated to her financial provision, this law ensured her security. Further, the woman faced no punitive consequences for being seduced. Assuming the act was, in fact, consensual, she was not shamed and ostracized.

Under Hebrew law, a man was forbidden to exploit a woman as an object of pleasure. He was held accountable publicly for his indiscretion and held responsible for her future wellbeing.[15] In other words, he couldn’t use her and lose her. Far from exploiting or oppressing women, this passage shows that biblical law held men accountable for their sexual behavior
Chuks9000:
My people perish for lack of knowledge.
I would have loved it if you were knowledgeable enough to counter or support his position based on the same bible.
InvestmentRe: Scrap Yard Sales In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 11:05am On Jan 25, 2020
Serious buyers only, please

InvestmentRe: Scrap Yard Sales In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 11:03am On Jan 25, 2020
...Still on

InvestmentRe: Scrap Yard Sales In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 11:02am On Jan 25, 2020
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InvestmentScrap Yard Sales In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 11:01am On Jan 25, 2020
A company in Port Harcourt is desirous of selling off every scrap machinery and metal in its yard at a ridiculously low amount
Call: 07019342806
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InvestmentRe: Dredger For Sale In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 12:07am On Jan 21, 2020
My phone numbers are on my signature
rolly44:
How would they contact you and which area in port hacourt.
InvestmentDredger For Sale In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 9:11pm On Jan 19, 2020
The Dredger was manufactured in 2015 in Italy. The pump size 28/26 cutter suction 28/26 inches, ladet length 65ft at the angle of 65" production per hour 200 to 400 cubics based on the texture of the materials and can discharge up to a distance of 2km to 2.5km again based on the texture of the materials.
Asking price N950 Million.
Main Engine Cat. Auxiliary Engine Cat.

PoliticsRe: Kano Hisbah Invites American Lady, Hausa Lover (photo) by Heartbender: 8:22am On Jan 19, 2020
Everything you have said is just the whole truth in few words. God bless you with more wisdom
Awol1:
These Charlatans are not illegal.

But Amotekun is illegal.

Double-faced fools in power.

I'm happy the Yorubas are finally seeing the light.

A union of the entire South and the middle belt will forever deny those marauding herders of power in this country.

We have the best chance now.
Business To BusinessRe: Containers For Sale In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 2:05am On Jan 14, 2020
750/50
akata1:
how much
Business To BusinessContainers For Sale In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 9:28pm On Jan 12, 2020
40 ft. Containers for sale in Port Harcourt at affordable prices. Export standard
Call 07019342806
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AgricultureRe: Urgently Needed!!! 30 Tonnes Of Cassava Needed For Daily And Weekly Supplies. by Heartbender: 4:18pm On Jan 12, 2020
Call me
AfroAgroPower:
Hello Agro Farmers.

We have just established a contract for supplying 30 tonnes of cassava. If you can supply cassava to us in metric tonnes; then you can contact us for negotiation through our whatsapp line below on our bio.

Note: Payment is done on delivery after confirmation of measurement.


Company issues Post Dated Cheque as a proof of payment.
Business To BusinessTug Boat For Sale In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 7:31pm On Jan 09, 2020
We have 1000 horsepower double screw tug boat in very excellent condition for sale in Port Harcourt
Call 07019342806
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InvestmentRe: Tug Boat And Ramp Barge For Sale In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 1:55am On Jan 07, 2020
Please, send a message via WhatsApp
bfanibi:
Hello bro, can I have a client who needs 1,500mt Ramp barge to hire.
Kindly contact me 07064344436
InvestmentRe: Tug Boat And Ramp Barge For Sale In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 1:54am On Jan 07, 2020
It is brand new. You can inspect it and see
SavageResponse:
This tug boat does not look brand new to me...or do you mean it was bought brand new?
InvestmentTug Boat And Ramp Barge For Sale In Port Harcourt by Heartbender(op): 8:47pm On Jan 06, 2020
Brand new1000 horsepower tug boat for sale in Port Harcourt
Call: 07019342806
WhatsApp: 08034753554

We also have 1500 tonnes Ramp Barge for sale

Foreign AffairsRe: More Trouble: Donald Trump Killed Greatest Al'qaeda & ISIS Threat (reactions). by Heartbender: 9:54pm On Jan 04, 2020
God bless you
healthserve:
I'm sure the op is mischievous and an illiterate. If not I don't no why the pictures uo there wouldn't be depicted as Islam's inflict on itself. From Yemen to Libya to Syria to Egypt, to Iraq, to Iran, Islam has never gotten it right. Even to northern Nigeria
Foreign AffairsRe: I Have Done More Than Jesus For Christianity - Donald Trump. by Heartbender: 3:45pm On Jan 03, 2020
Lies....
PropertiesRe: Global C/ O Processing & Registered Survey. by Heartbender: 12:10pm On Jan 01, 2020
Why not get a lawyer to do all the transactions for you? That way, you know that your money is safe
Hec1:
Greetings all, please I will really appreciate if someone could explain what it means when a land has as Global C/ O Processing & Registered Survey. I plan to buy a piece of land somewhere in Lagos and the real estate agent told me that this is the title of the property.
PoliticsRe: Rivers New Commissioners Get Portfolios by Heartbender: 10:59pm On Dec 31, 2019
So na only Ikwerre people dey Rivers State out of the 23 LGAs abi? I laugh because when this precedent starts to haunt them, they'll say it's a gang up
BusinessRe: Loan Urgently Needed!!! by Heartbender: 9:49pm On Dec 26, 2019
Send a message on WhatsApp. Check my signature
Digitalstarlite:
I tried b4 but abortive...thanks or u a way out for me on d app?
Nairaland GeneralRe: See The Most Popular Father Christmas In Ibadan by Heartbender: 4:40pm On Dec 22, 2019
Finally we have found Father Afonja �

CelebritiesRe: Woman Crashes Wedding To Tell Groom 'I Love You' Before Attacking The Bride (vid by Heartbender: 10:58pm On Dec 20, 2019
Zee World. Extra Ordinary, Everyday

RomanceRe: Anambra Lady Marries Asian Heartthrob, Mr Long Ting (photos) by Heartbender: 8:52pm On Dec 17, 2019
Igbo girls and Long Tings �
CelebritiesRe: Reps Introduce 6 Years Single Term Bill For President, Governors by Heartbender: 8:36pm On Dec 17, 2019
I thought GEJ proposed it and APC and their minions kicked against it? �
Clowns
PhonesRe: In Need Of A Very Urgent Loan by Heartbender: 5:40pm On Dec 13, 2019
Download Carbon. Collect loan. Pay back
Emmysky:
In need of a loan of 8k by tomorrow. Promise to pay back on Friday next week with 5h interest. Very very urgent please.
Check my profile on NL, I'm trustworthy and reputable. Anyone willing please contact me on 07039282734 Call/Whatsapp(call preferable) or drop ur details so I can contact u

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