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jublazer:
Dear my fellow Nairalanders

Please I wish to seek your professional advise on this issue which have been going on in my family for the past 9 months and so.

My late father was a retired police officer who was receiving pension under the Sigma pension company before his death,
After his death my mum went to their office for confirmation on how to retrieve his remaining funds of which the organization find out my elder brothers' name which he used as his Next of Kin was having some omission and they opt for court proceedings in oder to validate his identity.

This started around April this year which result to my mum and brother going to the state court and they were told on the cost and other process involved.

- They request for some amount of money to be paid before his change of name application to be processed and published in news paper
- After the payment and every every they asked them to wait for three month of which upon reaching the three month they said their was misconduct on the court were the person that carried the first proceedings impersonate the Judge signatory.

And they asked my mum to pay another sum of 30,000 which she actually don't have

But till date there is no outcomes even when they wrote an official letter to the bank in charge of my late dad's salary to transfer the remaining fund into her account.

Pls I need your help on; how to further get my dad gratuity after this mistake my dad made and to know if it's only in this state that we can do this process as it's really depressing my mum right now that she is broke and has not receive any cash for the past 8months

Pls we need your help this festive period

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Birdeyeview:
OP
i understand how you feel but i must tell you i'm also perplexed as you are...
waiting for advice or suggestions from well meaning NL so i can learn as well..

redcross:
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eduman365:
Keep your perverse opinion to yourself sir.

eduman365:
Would you allow your own sisters do that in their boyfriends' house... Someone who hasn't paid her bride price, asking her to pound yam with mortar and pestle that the whole world has left behind. If it was poundo or rice or eba they asked her to prepare and she ran away, that would have been a different thing, but mortar and pestle... Ogini di? That family is a very wicked one.

I can't even imagine my own wife doing that talk less of girlfriend.

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Rekhina:
Buhari's 3rd term and Yoruba 2023 are dsame ,
The first is normal and the later is mockery on honourable minds

Aisha use ur head ...educated northerners shudnt just stand n watch

phaco:
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Respect55:
This life is just a small place. You will think you are sharp but when the time is come, your sin will surely find you out.
Some weeks back, a guy saw my wares online and came around to pick some footwears since we are in same city. He kept on talking on phone with a particular girl (my girl) about the type of shoe she likes. Remember I just gave her a new pair when she requested for one. Not even up to a month.
So this guy selected 3 pairs of shoes - two males shoes and one female own. He just told me to packet them that he would call me when money comes in. Fast-forward to today, he called in the afternoon and gave me a location to bring the shoe that he went out with his girl and will be traveling in the morning.
I dressed up, picked up the shoes at the shop and dashed to the location only to meet him with my girlfriend.
I just pretended like nothing happened, passed the shoes to him. She was shocked to the marrow but the guy never noticed. He asked her to wear the shoe so as to see how it suits but she just told him that he shouldn't bother that it's OK.
He paid me and as I was about leaving, he called me back and introduced me to his girl. I told her my name like we just met and left.
That's just it. I'm out for good. I'm free

BroOptimist:
Hell No! Or, anyone here can quote any biblical verse where Jesus himself has opened his mouth and said " He is God"? So, stop deceiving yourself and your likes. Jesus is NOT God in any manner.

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A better Nigeria is all we want and pray for daily.

God bless Nigeria.

Peace out!

@Jamaicabakare, been a while, how dey go dey go bro?!
All blessings come from God .
Stay blessed and safe.


Amen in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.
Insha Allah.

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legalwealth:
Thanks .

Then?

legalwealth:
Good day and happy Sunday everyone!

Sequel to the subject of this thread, kindly help with appropriate piece of information that you have regarding it.

TheSkyIsBlue:
Hello Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just want to pour it out the way it is in my heart.

I am seriously confused and worried about what is happening in my family and I will appreciate your candid advice.

There is this guy my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he actually asked her hand in marriage and decided to come see my parents for introduction, about some months ago. My family decided to take their time to find out more about the guys family background as is required in Igbo tradition.

After several questions asked, my family came to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On knowing this, everybody in my family told my sister to cut ties with him and discontinue the relationship because it is a big taboo to get married to an Osu in my place . If you do, no family member or friend will attend your wedding or even have anything to do with you again.

But my sister refused to listen to anybody claiming she really loves the guy, that they have been together for a very long time and that she is not getting younger anymore (mind you, she is in her early thirties). Everybody (my parents and extended family members) tried to talk her out of it but she still didn't listen.

After much pressure and her continues insistence, my dad decided to give them his blessings, although against his wish (my dad is actually not really deep into tradition). Now the guy has done all the traditional rights and paid for her dowry. Their wedding is coming up soon.

But the problem now is, according to tradition and from what I heard, if she was allowed to go with the guy without my dad giving them his blessings, the stigma would have just been on her and she alone would have been considered Osu, since she insisted to continue with the marriage. But now that my dad has given them his blessings, it is considered that all of us (her siblings) will also have that link of Osu too. Except if she decide to put an end to the relationship and discontinue with the wedding, which I don't think my sister is ready to do.

I am really worried and depressed about it, cause I don't want anything that will affect me tomorrow when I want to get married just because of my sister's mistakes.

I will really like to get opinions and sincere advice especially from those that are familiar with tradition, cause I'm seriously bothered. Thanks!