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Ikennaford:
You deep kiss and all, you no knack, hmmm,,, bro you ain't aright,,for 3 consecutive times, nna ehh, which kind cock and bull story be this

I swear bro

Zonefree:
Stop inviting her to come over. Some aggressive drivers are driving the car you're washing every day.

beause i want to invite her over again, how do i now Bleep or i just discard her? i have spent only 3k entirely though ,i have no investment

Zonefree:
I pity you.


Accept my sympathy in advance.

how bro? na why i run to elders here

notobiafrababe:
Are you a simp. Based on what I read, you've been kissing, smooching and if I read you well, fingering, abeg wetin remain other than to pull out your ?? and insert. Stop disturbing our peace with make up story. Case of mom serving a pikin food and the pikin dey ask mama if to eat it or not

but she dey stop me naa,this is not a cook up story

Good day house,

I want to drop a situation here and get some objective feedback from guys who understand the dating terrain down here.

I’m a 31-year-old guy, and I’ve been seeing a 27-year-old lady I met through a mutual friend. She has visited my apartment three times now, and the vibe when we are together is completely solid. There is clear physical attraction, extreme comfort, and high intimacy (cuddling, intense kissing, heavy pre-intimacy/touching, etc.).

However, things haven't progressed to actual sex yet. On my end, I don't believe in forcing issues, pressuring a woman, or making a guest feel uncomfortable in my space. But frankly, I don't feel convenient hosting her a fourth time just to do the same routine without making full contact. I want to ensure I'm not entering the "nice guy" box or getting friend-zoned while acting all sweet and hospitable.

She breaks communication silences to reach out and doesn't ask me for financial maintenance, so she seems genuine, but the sexual progression is just stalling.

I want to ask the elders and experienced guys on the forum:

At her age (27) and mine (31), with the green lights for pre-intimacy 100% active over three visits, what is usually responsible for this final delay?

How do you handle the final progression naturally on the next visit without looking desperate, forcing it, or letting yourself get locked into the nice guy box?

How do you differentiate a woman who just prefers a slow, respectful pace from one who lacks full sexual interest?

I want to look at this with a brutal real-world lens so I know whether to hold the line with warmth or just calmly pivot my focus elsewhere.

Let me know your thoughts, house.

lol dontbe fooled by this girls act , they have done worst things in the past and present and most of them are just using church image to cover up,u shouldbe the one qualifying her no be the other way

Englishisamust:
Hope you know how much they are selling pampers ??

bro wetin be the update on paper

Nduka172:
It's a barrier bro you'll scale just improve your oratory skills and body language understanding with the opposite sex ( it'll improve bonding)because in bedmatics no can mean mean yes
Sometimes so she doesn't seem cheap if u get

i will not rape her naa, bro i tried forcing things

But UNA they mad for this nairaland no single legit advice

PlasmaTV:
How old are you? 🤔

30 BRO

I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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Freshtruth:
which playoffs again U dey this world at all? 17points is not enough for any playoff we are out of the world cup already

if we will we will go for playoffs

Lol so Nigeria be learner for this people side?

Enddy50ty:
Nigeria 🇳🇬 is the only major oil producing country that doesn't refine its own crude oil. (Don't quote Dangote)
Believe me before you know it Senegal 🇸🇳 will start exporting PMS to Nigeria.

bro are u from Pluto? I mean u be pluto presido? Abi u just come back from Comma?

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