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jaxxy:
Slapping ur gf is enough to push her to the other guy who has not lifted a finger on her and then u call it charms.

Why did u slap her instead of have proper discussions on ur issues like adults?? The fact u do favors for a woman doesn’t automatically mean u own them or can treat them badly anytime u like.

I advise u to get Sm1 close to her to talk to her and know her mind and why she went this far with the other guy when u are planning to marry her.

If she is charmed or not it’s only her family that can confirm that not u.

What were the issues that lead to ur slapping her cos it seems that’s where it went down hill and her strange behavior started.

To be sincere, it was during December 31st last.... We are just having normal conversation until an issue just came up, we are having normal argument. Then she acted so childish by calling the guy in my presence which I told her it's very bad. D guy still call again then I told her not pick up... She picked up and told the guy some words that infuriated me. I swear the guy is just like a devil in my relationship. Her sister and brother have talked to her. Well I got to know she still in love with me but she has been charmed by the guy when I go and pray about it before marrying the wrong woman. The guy is in late 30's while my gf is early 20's.

Topsyvic:
The only thing that pissed me off is d slapping aspect, what is d assurance that you won't still slap her when issues that will get you more angry arise in ur marriage?

A girl who stayed with you for good eight years is reliable and deserve to be helped.

Even if you guys aren't going to be together, do it for her and her future because that charm will destroy her.
It is not necessary it should be physical fight, you can help her spiritually.

Thanks, I have done my best part and pray hard and advice to come back to her senses. Her elder sister and bro have talked to her. Her brother has even called me and tell me to leave alone that I shud watch and see that she will later regret as he is not even in support with the guy disturbing her life. She always tells she loved me and my family but she doesn't know what's going on actually in life too. I will decide my fate with this week. I just don't want to go far on any decision I'm about to take that will make me regret it later.

BeautyB99:
Op I don't support cheating and abuse, so the fact that you slapped her and at the same time kept her for 8 years of dating means she has endured enough only God knows if during those 8 years you have been beating her and coming here to act as the victim, just look at your statement “i took her to my sister shop to learn her business, I plan to open one for her and I slightly slapped her" op I know she was wrong to cheat on you but you sef work on your temper because I don't think there is any charm used on her don't let those so called seer tell you rubbish na your attitude push her to go cheat

This is my first time of raising my hand on her. Have been so caring and supporting to her which she is also doing same to me. Reason why I planned opening shop is because I want her to be business oriented since we already agree of getting married this year. The guy came to spoil my relationship with her... I didn't observe that quick cuz I don't like monitoring up and down and I'm also the busy type though I do create time for her time to time. All what happen this early new was just like a film to me. I didn't see it coming.

Iyaebe:
I don't think I can ever forgive any man that hits me,you pushed her to him by hitting her,your slaps destroyed her feelings for you and now she's in a mess with another man.Tell those spiritualist to help you destroy the charms or na only see dem see dem no sabi destroy

yes, they said they will pray into it. Thanks

Suspects:
you got anger issue stop the alaye and stop making noise!

I don't have anger issue, actually I don't really want to type much about it but I accept my mistake

Suspects:
You slapped her twice? What a careless noise maker you are....

My advice for you is to let her go before she ruins your life for you....

Anyways the picture for me below.

ok thanks. I already accepted my blame for that. I have vowed to never to do again with any woman.

Candidlady:
@bolded
Meaning you might still SLIGHTLY SLAP her again since no one is perfect! What an excuse!!

You beat her to stupor then come at us with NO ONE IS PERFECT like that he goat that killed his pregnant wife.. Y'all are beast


Sir move on.. Again nobody charmed her poor girl saw the red flag and decided to go
°°°iam so happy for the girl°°°° if only she could stop dating men aka beast

Change your topic to : I broke my girlfriend's heart

ok, thanks

Candidlady:
You slapped her

Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°°

The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast


And for that so called seer that said she has been charmed.. That is falseprophet's brother!!!

my sister, No one is perfect, I know I over react by slapping her but I regretted already and have for forgiveness. About the seer, you may not believe but I make sure I went to different religious leader and all said everything correctly. I was told to pray for her or tell someone who she listen to to open back her senses. They all said she is currently being charmed and decieved. They said she loves me but she has been put in a state of confusion currently. Her brother and sister has talked to her. They told me she is so adamant right now, and I should just calm down for her now.

KingsleyCEO:
My brother, let her be. Just pray for her from a distance... You are witnessing the effect of bestie(2 people chopping each other).

But Oga, your own too much shall, who would want to marry a woman beater? You need to be beaten o.

yes, I know I bleeped up for slapping her, this same guy cause the provokeness and devil used me. But immediately I regret my actions and begged her. This is the first time I did this to her, have apologize and promise my self it won't ever repeat again.

Good morning nairaland families.

I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.

Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.

There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.

But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.

But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.

I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.

Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also.