Kennedyli:

Fill this form: https://rentic.app/send-request/.
Rentic will merge you with a Flatmate.

Ibechris2:
She has no problem...let her go to their office and pay for the paper renewal and fines...that is all.
And she would be given back her drivers license.

After that she should proceed to do her vehicle inspection as soon as possible. Thanks. Please where in Lagos can she do this?

Rhozabeth:
Whether she goes their with the new papers (cos date of renewal will be on the papers) or even old ones, she is gonna pay a fine. If this is in Lagos, she had better be a tax paying resident of Lagos if not, she will pay all the taxes she owe for at least 3yrs.
I usually dont stop for these guys whenever they flag me to stop and i have the opportunity not to even when my papers are complete! Those guys are a big nuisance on the road! Please where can she get the papers renew?
Getting all your papers renewed shouldn't cost more than #10k depending on the type of vehicle.

Rhozabeth:
Whether she goes there with the new papers (cos date of renewal will be on the papers) or even the old ones, she is gonna pay a fine. If this is in Lagos, she had better be a tax-paying resident of Lagos if not, she will pay all the taxes she owes for at least 3yrs.
I usually don't stop for these guys whenever they flag me to stop and I have the opportunity not to even when my papers are complete! Those guys are a big nuisance on the road!
Getting all your papers renewed shouldn't cost more than #10k depending on the type of vehicle.

Ebonygeek:


I'm sorry. I just find this ignorance that many Nigerian men have about intimacy gadgets irritating

Ebonygeek:


Who knew that a grown man can be so ignorant

Your lady has proffered a solution to prevent cheating, but you're too dense and insecure to take it. Using a toy will help her to satisfy her sexual needs dumbass. Get her one or sit there while she uses your neighbour's rod to feel good instead

Palema007:
If you are insure of intimacy gadgets maybe you should get her a dog then

RealityKings:
distant relationship is a scam. she is just taking you for a ride, she is already staffing other available dicks

Loveisnotenough:
Una day craze. E show say na Konji una know.

Nicklaus619:
This Is why I shove red pills down the throat of simping dudes

Op, you simp around your woman and no real woman wants that, you act weak and sissy and she find that disgusting, she don't see you as a man that can protect her, women want guys that can protect them and they feel like a queen around them,

Women secretly wish to be rude while with their man because they know their man can protect them, but when u seek your lady opinion and always beein a sissy around her, it disgust her

Have u asked your self why girls prefer bad guys,

That's because they feel that the bad guy will never let no one touch them even if Nah them find trouble

That's every woman's wish, they need a protector and assurance all Time. Make some more money, Hit the gym op and change your orientation this year about women, good luck

Be an Alpha-Swallow the Pill, the colour is Red

GboyegaD:


Try to break it further down and ask questions as you go past each point. You could ask her to tell you what she thinks of each point and that way, you know if you guys are communicating.

Kelechi009:
Hearttoheart001 you sound exactly like this person: real matters a few days ago

Why do you keep creating different users?

LilMissFavvy:
All of your ladies sudden complaints, all boils down to the issue of finance. She is feeling worried and insecure. From the description of yourself seen above, very few ladies would have issues with you in a relationship or marriage. She seems to be a very smart woman and must be considering if it will be wise/worth it to continue to stand by you, waste more years, miss other suitors, etc. Or do you think your woman doesn't know how ungrateful most men* are? After she stays put, will you not later in the future feel you are doing her a favour when you realize she is getting older? When you come here the "evening newspaper men's association abusers*" of nairaland will tell you to dump her, that she didn't contribute anything, that there is nothing like "I stood by him till he made it".

Sit your woman down and make her understand that you are for real/ your intentions. From the description of your story, you have a very beautiful relationship, the issue you brought here is very minor. Work hard and improve your finances. If she's smart, I believe she will hold on and not allow the trying times/financial challenges to make her quit.

socialmediaman:


If she complains and you turn deaf ears, she shuts down and you lose the partnership and connection you were looking for… then the roller coaster. This is the time to figure things out with each other

MrBrownJay1:


I don't think you should ever change, but at the same time, you should listen carefully to what your woman is saying here...

MrBrownJay1:


some women love their men with a spice of danger, a bit of virility. many don't want to be abused but love for their man to put them in their place and portray that they are in charge (even if deep down they aren't). the idea that they could get a smack or a beat down if they step out of line TURNS many women ON.

the problem here is that you can't fake who you are and if you are a gentle/fair dude, then that's who you are and unfortunately some women may see it as "weakness".

Stereotypes:
Sounds like a roundabout way of her saying she needs you to make more money to be the breadwinner of your home, she doesn't want to carry it all or be the major contributor.

You guys have been okay since but you stopped having money and suddenly started talking about equality and partnership maybe she interpreted this as you being okay with her bringing in the bacon more than you do. I don't know, I'm assuming.
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If this is not the case, you should go after a woman who wants a man who is exactly like you are.

Proposing to change your whole personality is only going to create problems in the long run because you'll return to your factory setting after a while.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your vision of how your marriage should be, there's also nothing wrong with the marriage.

Don't fix a square peg in a round hole, even if you two are wonderful people, it's not compulsory to be together if it's not working.

Opeyemiextra:
Firstly, I love that you communicate well and are open about things even ahead in your relationship. It's a great place to start.

Trust me, when you become assertive, she will still complain. If this is how you want to treat your woman then both of you will need to reach a compromise. Let her know why you want it that way, hear hers and work it out.

Remember, you shouldn't model your home on that of anyone. She needs to understand this.

GboyegaD:
Try to define what you want and try to find a way to merge it with hers.

missimelda01:

Worry less about what she can handle and ask yourself if that's the life you want to live.

mystery22:
Your fiancee wants you to lead,women wants a man they will submit to.

missimelda01:
First she said you should work on your financial life, now you're not assertive enough...I think you should focus on making more money and becoming successful, that's her major issue with you.
When a man becomes rich, there's always an increase in self confidence and that doesn't mean he has to be authoritative, commanding and rest.

Op you don't need all those negative traits to be ‘in charge’ of your relationship and if your girlfriend wants a toxic person, let her go and find him elsewhere.

socialmediaman:
hearttoheart001

She seems attracted to you, but she also wants a man who is assertive, someone who is decisive and not a people pleaser, period. Get to know her more, relationships and marriages take time to perfect, there's no one size fits all.

I suggest you both take this personality test and discover your personalities better, and find ways to improve upon them and fit better into each other's lives if that's what you both want. https://www.truity.com/test/type-finder-personality-test-new

HarunaWest:
See wetin the OP dey talk say he wan show him barney our response..can you imagine? Its obvious you aint assertive or emotionally superior. She has seen this flaws and women tend to become rude and aggressive if a man is weak.

Double0h7:


No... you confident, self-assured and being able to work without supervision

I think you're a good man but you have confused confidence and decisiveness with being bossy and overbearing. They're not the same thing

Double0h7:
It's nice to have a man who wants to include you in the important decisions but we don't always need to be included. You can't ask for my opinion on every matter. If it's a good idea, and you're confident that it will work then you don't need to run it by her.

Women want to feel safe and if you are able to make smart, responsible decisions then you make them and own them. Everything doesn't have to be an us decision, it's comforting to know that your man has everything under control and that you don't have to worry about certain things. I think you just overdo on the whole carry her along thing... trust yourself, and she will celebrate your smart moves.