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Am a Young Simple Guy, From a Good Humble Background....Life been sweet for me, But real love has Been one hell of a task to get right...Am a Graduate and currently a contract staff as an ICT Engineer in an ICT Firm and also working for myself Most times. Any Good lady Can whatsapp me on... 08032059244.......BBM PIN....590EF373.......... Responsible and presentable lady can contact me...i Base in Lagos.

Am a Young Simple Man,From a Good Humble Background....Life been sweet for me, Just finding real love has...been Unfair To me....Any Good lady Can whatsapp me on... 08032059244.......BBM PIN....590EF373......Currently am a Manager in an ICT TECHNOLOGICAL FIRM.... Responsible and presentable lady can contact me...i Base in Lagos.

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whatsapp 08032059244.......BBM PIN....590EF373......Currently a Server Control Manager in an ICT FIRM....Base in lagos

whatsapp 08032059244.......BBM PIN....590EF373......Currently a Server Control Manager in an ICT TECHNOLOGICAL FIRM.... Responsible and presentable lady can contact me...i Base in Lagos

whatsapp 08032059244.......BBM PIN....590EF373......Currently a Server Control Manager in an ICT FIRM....Base in lagos

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Good day People

dabriggs:
Please you will forgive me, as I am not easily moved.

Is ok Man..i get you..your reply shows you truely a good and matured responsible man

590EF373

this is a reason why nigeria as a country dont move forward n good..when it is full with mostly people of such low mentality beings...In foreign country whereby someone post a problem he or she is facing, d next u will see is people providing solutions or advice for d person..but of os here in nigeria all u get is someone abusing u and even mocking u at d process like they are even better or saints..social media now adays are full of kids n imatured ones..Imagin some one father coming here to abuse and mock people..if dis country must go forward n good we must change our sense of reasoning and attitude toward people n dealings with people..it is better if u see a post that u dont like,is better u dont reply,rather than u abusing the person that stated what he or she is facing..one thing any body must know is that,through most people post here he or she can get educated the more and know how to tackle some isssuea in life..but when u abuse people,how will d rest come here to seek for help when they have problems..pls reason and apply wisdom before u pick up ur phone or pc to comment on people post..Good day

I Have 550K Intact..Looking for a business partner that can partner with me, in we seting up a profitable business that will go on well..we both can own and manage the business..please i have no idea of the kind of business to set up..so the person coming must have an idea of a good business and most also be able to partner together with me in cash and ideas..We joining hands and idea together..

rawpadgin:
How is this romantic

why dont you ask Wikipedia or google ras

dabriggs:
You work in a Firm bla bla bla...


So how has anything changed? After all the talk and post?

Mind your business and stop being hurt because she chated on her boyfriend. You are not him. It is either you call him and tell him or you report your oga to his wife. If not shut the hell up and mind your freaking business.

Also what type of man snoops around a lady's phone. Even if she is your girl friend, your rights to her privacy are limited. What type of men are raised nowadays?And he is even spelling wrongly and talking about "let us talk about A and not B blah blah..". If I know you I will never employ you.

And let us even consider your girlfriend. If she cheats on you or you cheat on her it is either you move on or you forgive her. But just do something and shut up!!!!!! You all should stop insulting the use of ICT.

wowowo! look at your reply, you look cool in nature, but all this you vomited out from you makes no sense, even if you are to correct some of the bad acts of the guy, you do that in a matured way and not the kid like manner you just did....

Imagine u See this in d middle of the night when u are alone in the house,what will you do?

lawanson44:
But OP, are you angry that the girl is cheating on her boyfriend or just frustrated that the manager is smashing the otepu instead of you?

if you really matured you will not comment this manner

Yea the guy was wrong to check the lady phone, will never support that..But going by what majority of ladies here commented about what the guy saw, must tell you i wept in my heart, majority are not even condemning the ladies act, rather even deliberating more in insulting the guy for updating this..Even some so called guys here too are also after the guy just to find favor in the ladies sight in here, remember if things are not expose how will you learn and know.. the guy did wrong, but sometimes a wrongful act can lead to a good experience to gain from..If you are a lady or a guy in here in support of the lady did, then shame to you and your background...I repeat for who ever that keeps indulging in a bad act just to make money or make gain will one day land in the city of had i known and what you doing now remember that you future child or ur present child can inherit your dirty acts...Good day

Relationship break up can be of different types and can also happen for a variety of reasons. But I would say that the blindside breakup is the worst of all. Today people involved in the relationship have the choice of breaking up by instant messages, voice mails, emails, facebook status and loads of other ways. These different ways to break up makes it a lot easier for an individual involved in a relationship to be completely blindsided by his or her partner's decision to break up

what exactly is Blindside?

To Blindside someone can mean attacking when least expected. The Blindside is the type of breakup that you never see coming. In such breakups the victim normally does not have any indication that things aren't working out well. Blindside in love happens when one person thinks that everything is smooth and perfect in the relationship and suddenly the other person announces that they want to opt out. Being blindsided can shatter a person as it is unexpected and came without a warning. When a person is blindsided he/she normally would have no idea what they could have possibly done wrong to deserve such a treatment. However, the reason to blindside someone normally differs. The person who broke up the relationship may be unhappy with it for whatsoever reasons and would have already realized that there was something amiss in the relationship. Instead of trusting the partner and openly communicating and solving the problems in the relationship they prefer the easy way out by breaking up unawares with the Partner. In fact, I would say that if someone blindsided you he or she was never worthy of you and such a relationship would have had no future. You should rejoice that it broke up when it did.

But you said the guy is not happy, dont you think time will come when the guy will want to be happy or go look for his happiness elsewhere, marriage is suppose to be the both parties of a thing,them being happy together

What is a Rebound Relationship? Are you or your Partner involved in a rebound fling? What are the Signs to identify a rebound relationship? The thought of writing on this topic came to me after I saw one of my own friends suffering from the aftereffects of such a relationship

A Rebound Relationship is a relationship one may get into immediately after coming out of one. It may happen after a divorce or break up of a love relationship. Rushing into rebound relationships often end up with more hurt and pain. Have you or any of your friends rushed into a new relationship immediately after breakup only to get into a relationship with someone who was obviously all wrong and then regret? I have seen it happening with many of my friends and people who are known to me. But that is one of the most common after effects of Rebound Dating.

It is only natural to feel lonely or scared of being alone after a break up. But it would be wise to give your heart some time to heal. There is no point in getting scared to date again after a failed relationship. All you have to do is accept and believe that the earlier relationship was not meant for you than holding on to it and crying over it and that something better is in store for you. Dwelling on the past can only make one miserable. Many times after a break up people look out for comfort or shoulder to cry on in others and get into such relationship and often confusing it with a new relationship

SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN A REBOUND RELATIONSHIP

1 Getting into a Relationship too fast: This is the most common sign of a rebound relationship. Especially if you have been in a long time relationship which went sour it is a natural feeling that you may want to bounce back to forget the hurt and pain of the previous relationship, get over your ex and get into a better relationship. It may act as a distraction or a form of catharsis, but remember not to allow your sense of urgency to rush in the wrong direction causing further heart break.

2 Expecting the Qualities of Ex or those he lacked in New Partner: Another common sign is expecting your new partner to make up for the shortcomings and mistakes of the old partner or expect him to have the qualities and traits you admired in your previous lover. It is also a normal tendency among many to draw comparisons between your current and ex boyfriend and talk openly about it. This type of behavior can make a person to be too demanding and ruin the new relationship too and end up being miserable.

3 Using Others as Rebound for self satisfaction or as a Tool Of Jealousy: Many people get into a rebound mode with the intention of hurting their ex or to show that they do not matter anymore without any intention of commitment or involvement and masking the purpose with the new person involved. It can be either way and usually someone ends up being used or hurt as a result because once the purpose of the rebound relationship is served that person would be abandoned. Beware of re bounders who may use you distract themselves from the pain of a broken heart and then move on leaving you to pick up the pieces. It is always best to be honest with your new relationship partner about your intentions. If you find yourself being used by a re bounder who has recently broken off a long term relationship it is best to let the relationship develop slowly and not allow your new partner to set the pace fast.

4 Unhappiness: [/b]Many times people who get into rebound relationships as a way to hit back at those who abandoned them. They may show themselves as outwardly happy when actually they feel miserable and guilty that they are doing something wrong. If you are in a relationship to soon and unhappy with the present partner then it is probably a rebound fling you are into.

[b]5 Not able to forget Ex: This is another prominent sign that though you may have jumped into a new relationship soon after your breakup or divorce you keep thinking of your ex more than your current partner because you have not fallen out of love with your ex still. One may also not feel the same or better comfort level with the new partner because of this and may end up drawing comparisons between partner’s thereby ruining the new relationship with your own hands. If the old relationship interferes with the progress of a new relationship then chances are that you’re stuck in a rebound. Similarly, if you are involved with someone who had a recent break up and he/she keeps rehashing problems from the past relationship within the new relationship this is a clear sign that they haven’t moved on enough to fall in love again. It also could be a sign of rebound affair if you prefer frequenting places you have gone with your ex along with your new partner. As long as you harbor feelings for an old love a new love can’t happen.

Is your love for Ex Boyfriend affecting your present and future? Despite of knowing that men dislike talks or comparisons to Ex Boyfriend, many women keep doing the mistake. One of the major reasons for relationship failure is past emotional baggage. Let what happened in the past, be in the past. Acknowledge it and let it go. To fall in love again, getting rid of the emotional baggage of the past relationship is very important. It is quite natural for a woman to make mental comparisons of an ex with present boyfriend. But the problem arises when you keep bragging about how your ex is perfect or put down your current boyfriend with the comparisons.

Talking of an Ex positively can hurt the male ego. When a woman keeps talking about Ex, Men find it a sign of her still not over her ex. It is in fact a sign that you still have not moved on. Talking too much about an ex-girlfriend or boyfriend is a sign of insecurity. It also means that you may be on the rebound. To heal from a break up, it is important to accept that that the relationship is over and let it go. If you don't do it, the only person who will be miserable will be you.

Why being friends with an Ex is a bad idea?

There can be many problems if you remain friends with your Ex. For instance, there is a chance that you may be tempted to go back to the relationship despite of having unresolved issues. As long as you are in touch with him/her, it is difficult to move on from the past relationship. Secondly, your current love interest may not be comfortable with the idea of you seeing your ex, especially if you have been intimate. He or she could feel jealous and it could affect your relationship. Your being close to the ex can make your partner insecure about the relationship and doubt that you may end up being intimate with the ex again.

Most of the time when men and women get into relationships, then talk badly about the ex and put all blame of the break up on him/her even if it is not that way. However, the way a man/woman may talk about an Ex is also an indication how he/she would treat you if you end up as an ex. Bad mouthing and disrespectful way of talking about someone is not a good sign.

Why should you not go back to an Ex?

I have known people who are desperate to get back to their Ex despite of being in toxic relationships. Personally, I don’t think it is wise to go back to an Ex if the partners in the relationship do not wipe out their differences and are willing to work together to make the relationship better. Reconciliation with Ex under desperation often ends up with more hurt than earlier. As the saying goes, ‘Once broken, it can never be the same again’. And more over there is a reason why you broke up and as far as there are unresolved issues there is no hope of the relationship working out. Especially when the relationship break up is based on trust issues, the chances are that it may end up in hurt again. Life is too short to waste on living in the hope that some miracle would happen and things would be the same as when you started the relationship. It is better to cut loses and move on with your life. Who knows, maybe you have a better life in store.

However, to move on with life it is important that you dispose of all relationship clutter from your life. Everything that reminds you of your ex has to be cleared to make yourself ready to welcome a new partner to your life. Remember that by taking an Ex back you would be blocking your chances of attracting better someone who would treat you the way you deserve to be treated. So think again before you decide of rekindling an old flame

pls how many goals must it not reach when you chose under4.5 goals

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