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BusinessRe: I Made Some Pretty Cash In Betting Last Season..pics Available by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:42pm On Aug 04, 2015
i will still screen short for some games of tomorrow, and i will upload it here
BusinessRe: I Made Some Pretty Cash In Betting Last Season..pics Available by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:40pm On Aug 04, 2015
seeun:
I lost lot in last season. Please can we work together this season? I will like to have ur contact for watzap.
great..waiting for more people with good ideas too...08032059244
BusinessI Made Some Pretty Cash In Betting Last Season..pics Available by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:21pm On Aug 04, 2015
Am Not that too good in the betting game stuff...but have been able to make some pretty cash from the little prediction i do make and some ways i do take to make money from the betting football business,,People are always greedy, trying to use 100naira to win millions, well is possible, but the chance is very slim...i cant say am good in this betting things,because there are people who are good than me and they have been making it..but last season i was able to make 70% gain from the betting thing..the remaining 30% was the money i used in playing and paying for my internet fees..note: i can play 5 slip and win 2 out of 5 or sometimes i dont win,but by ending of the month i will cover all my lost i have made and even gain the more..i arranged my small room from the betting thing, i bought a car from it, and i paid for my internet connection 7k monthly from the betting thing,sometimes i make more than what a graduate makes in a month..but am also a graduate of industrial physics in one of the Nigeria university...Would have shown my winning tickets, when you win they do collect the tickets from your hands...but these are few pics of my success from the betting..these betting things actually pays if you know what you doing and have sense to follow them up....pls bad people keep off...these are my pics...there ways one need to learn and some decision one need to take before you can start getting things work out in your own ways...i am not here to sell ebooks,cos i am above that, but am here to meet creative people and to exchange ideas,but for novice,i will not give my ideas for free..but know not that am not saying i have been winning every games, but i won 70% last season games..

RomancePremature Ejaculation by HelpeeDeck(op): 7:23pm On Aug 04, 2015
If you are matured and sensible you will not abuse or insult the writer


Embarrassing isn't it?

Every time you get started, you're suddenly ready to finish within minutes or even seconds... your body tenses, your breathing gets ragged... and it's all over before it even began. She looks up at you with a mixture of surprise and amusement... she says it's okay, but deep down, she wishes you could last longer and give her the time of a life. You know it, she knows it, and you can see it in her eyes.

And in a way, it's even worse if you're in a long term relationship. Having to constantly look your partner in the eye after a bad performance can become a real romance killer. It can be terrible can't it? .After a while, Premature Ejaculation becomes more than just a problem in the bedroom.

There Are Only 5 Reasons Why You May Be Suffering From Premature Ejaculation

1. Genes - The fact is, your body is programmed to use sex for reproduction - and it wants to do that as efficiently as possible. The body wants to ensure your genes are carried down through the years, so it only makes sense that sexually, it's main goal is to ejaculate as quickly as possible.

2. Masturbation - Too much in your teen years may have "re-wired" your ejaculatory reflex for a super quick response. Like it or not, excessive masturbation can cause Premature Ejaculation. Why? Simple, it teaches your body to focus on the wrong things... and when this happens, it's all over.

3. Intensity - For some people, the arousal and stimulation of sex is just too much. That's why it feels like there's no way of stopping once you start... it really can be like a runaway train plummeting down the hill. It almost feels like everything's completely out of your control doesn't it?

4. Lack of the Right Knowledge - Most people have no idea how or why the ejaculatory process works (the REAL way it works), and this leads to encouraging Premature Ejaculation without knowing it. Once you understand the process though, it doesn't have to be so quick and out of control.

5. Sensitivity - Some of us guys just have bodies that are more sensitive than others. If you've ever felt completely overwhelmed and out of control during sex, this could be you. But don't worry, it's actually an advantage if this applies to you - and you'll soon see why.

Beating your Premature Ejaculation is actually a very simple some step process.

Step 1 - Mental Control[/b]l... Believe it or not, the thoughts running through your head during sex make a huge difference to how long you can last. With a little guidance, you'll learn how to focus on the good stuff and STILL last way longer than you can now.

[b]Step 2 - Hormone Regulation
... As I mentioned, understanding the actual process of ejaculation will help you get a long way to sustaining your lovemaking. And once you understand it, you'll know how to regulate the exact hormones that cause you to climax, so you'll automatically last longer...

Step 3 - Physical Control... Lastly, there are a handful of things that are guaranteed to make you climax way sooner than you want to. If you know what they are, you can regulate or eliminate them, and suddenly the whole thing is completely under your control.

A combination of these 3 factors can make huge improvements in your lovemaking. In fact, even with just a very basic understanding it's not unusual to see an instant improvement.


Note: i just briefly summarized the solution here,for more better help you can contact me for better explanation on the solution in solving your problem on premature ejaculation..
RomanceRe: How To Tell If A Woman Really Love You Or She Is Just Using You by HelpeeDeck(op): 1:18am On Aug 03, 2015
ilobasama:
I have better things to do than ponder over a woman loving me or not
you wouldnt have bothered commenting,rather just ignore the post and go do the important thing,shows you dont have any important thing doing undecided
RomanceRe: How To Tell If A Woman Really Love You Or She Is Just Using You by HelpeeDeck(op): 12:16am On Aug 03, 2015
Teekrayne:
I totally concour with every single point!!!! Kudos Op
Thanks Wise bro
RomanceRe: How To Tell If A Woman Really Love You Or She Is Just Using You by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:58pm On Aug 02, 2015
The truth is that, when a guy is dating a girl and he becomes broke and lose his job, will she still be faking the relationship..Think
RomanceRe: How To Tell If A Woman Really Love You Or She Is Just Using You by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:56pm On Aug 02, 2015
MrsPhyno:
OP forget dat one o.
Women are too sharp. If she fake am welllllll you will never know.
Ask yourself for how long and wont the centering still be on demanding s
RomanceRe: How To Tell If A Woman Really Love You Or She Is Just Using You by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:55pm On Aug 02, 2015
terza:
undecided undecided nonsense, women fake all these qualities nowadays
for how long will they do that..ask yourself before commenting with a harsh words (Nonsense undecided)
RomanceSomeone Asked Me From Here...can One Get Pregnant After Having Anal Sex by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:51pm On Aug 02, 2015
Pregnancy is possible whenever semen enters the vagina. If semen accidentally got into the vagina during anal sex, then yes, there would be a risk for pregnancy. Or if some of the ejaculate leaked from the anus to the vaginal opening, you could be at risk of pregnancy.

But the only way to know for sure if you’re pregnant is to take a pregnancy test 14 days after the unprotected sex. At that time, you will get an accurate result. However, know that semen coming in contact with the anus does not cause pregnancy.

While unprotected anal sex is considered low-risk for pregnancy, it is high-risk for contracting sexually transmitted infections. This is because the lining of the anus is very fragile and can tear during sexual activity. Small tears(known as anal fissures may occur during intercourse. Fissures can be fairly painful and slow to heal, and provide a direct route into the bloodstream. Most anal fissures won’t cause permanent damage to the rectum.


Hope i answered your question to that person that mailed me
RomanceRe: How To Tell If A Woman Really Love You Or She Is Just Using You by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:24pm On Aug 02, 2015
misssclassy:
[color=#000050]Op, your source please. [/color]
why not go look for it....and see if you will get any source...If you cant comment anything good you better just look and ignore the post
RomanceHow To Tell If A Woman Really Love You Or She Is Just Using You by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:18pm On Aug 02, 2015
It's possible for these women to con men for years without the men suspecting a thing it's a game where the woman is the winner, and the man, the distributor of her winnings. For the most part, the scheme is so well planned that men are none the wiser, until they run out of money and the women move on.

1. She will want to feel that you like her too. It will be important to her that you genuinely like her.

The woman who just wants your money: will make sure you want her sexually and will keep you this way. Perhaps she will find a way to manipulate you into liking her in other ways, but either way she will ONLY find validation when you buy her things.

The woman who wants just you: She will only be satisfied when you give her real attention and love. Despite my boyfriend buying me outlandish things, I would still keep breaking up with him because I never felt he loved me.

2. Despite other options or things, she will stay with you.

3. She will make some or every attempt to make your relationship really work.

Often times, someone who does not really like you will simply be satisfied with you giving them something (sex, money, etc) and it will be irrelevant of whether you relationship is going anywhere. This is not to say a gold-digger will not try to marry you, but essentially they will try to make your relationship healthy and loving. They will not try to "force" anything (like you buying them a diamond ring) and will instead want your commitment.

4. You won't actually feel used.

When someone is using you, there are always red flags. You might ignore them, but you know and I know, there's always a gut feeling that they don't really like you every once in awhile. Perhaps the signs are easier to catch now than back then.

5. They will not pressure you for what you think they are using you for.

6. They will not leave you over you being unable to provide money.

I think this is pretty self-explanatory.

7. They will make you see the value in yourself.

If someone is using you, they will downplay how great you are, in essence, to bargain for you. Think about when you've bartered for something, you tried to make it seem worth less than it actually was, right? The other person had to counter by proving it's value.

8. You’re introduced as a boyfriend to any of her blood relation or friends


This is a no brainer here. But it’s something most guys in love almost always forgive and forget. Have you ever been introduced as just a friend? If she’s convinced that you’re the man in her life, she’d proudly display you like a primped up puppy in a dog show. But if she’s just using you, there’s a very good chance that you relationship status will remain as friends
RomanceRe: I Slept With My Boss Now My Conscience Won't Let Me Be! by HelpeeDeck(m): 7:23pm On Aug 02, 2015
Princeparix:
I d come....



Make I go summon ikenga goddess....
are you from abia state cheesy
BusinessBe Wise My People!!!!!! by HelpeeDeck(op): 5:56pm On Aug 02, 2015
i know am going to get alot of bashing and i dont care about that...

If really most people claimed they making money on what ever online business they are doing, why do they request for people to buy a pdf E-book they went to download from a foreign website... some times they just browse many site and copy some words add there own little words and now type it with microsoft word later convert it to pdf, and they start selling peoples idea that they gave for free on a site. why ask people to go pay in some amount of money into your account before they can tell them how to make money online, after they do that, they will still send them a free e-book the white people gave on there website for free...i found this selfish trying to use your fellow to become more rich,instead of helping them sincerely, as a result of this many has been scammed and doped of there money, even when this e-book is sent to them, many cant even use it for anything,some engage on what they learn from the pdf e-book, most time they end up losing more money or even get tired of trying all what they read from there..Some have never even made a dine from the online business they claimed they are running, rather they are waiting to use there fellow to make money or for there fellow to fall as a prey to them to enhance there bank balance.. some will use adobe to even design a front page of a transaction they have done or received from such self claimed business they claimed they are doing..Some times you will often see some people they will tell you that is for free, when you mail them, the music changes and money is been requested from you. Some will refer other people to click on a particular site or invite more people to like them so that they will use their fellow to make money, the more people you bring the more richer they get...If truely they are making it big, why ask someone to go pay in money in your account or subscribe to a particular site...Most people get all this knowledge they use in deceiving people from other foreign website free, they now convert it and start selling it for people to come buy and as a result they get richer...Be wise my people..

NOTE: Am Not Saying all business online are scammed or not working
RomanceRe: Signs A Woman Is Tired Of A Relationship by HelpeeDeck(op): 2:13pm On Aug 02, 2015
misspicy:
Op put the source abegtongue
still appreciate your comment..go search for the source if you think there is one tongue
RomanceRe: Signs A Woman Is Tired Of A Relationship by HelpeeDeck(op): 2:11pm On Aug 02, 2015
YerYer:
Who made you a relationship expert?
How, dont get you
RomanceSigns A Woman Is Tired Of A Relationship by HelpeeDeck(op): 2:02pm On Aug 02, 2015
Men always make the mistake of thinking that their ladies won’t leave them just because they take the entire ‘shits’ men do for a very long time. Men get used to their ladies bearing all manner of atrocities they commit till it makes the man feel invincible. But one truth is once a lady becomes tired, there is no going back; her mind becomes made up and she then gets tired of the relationship and an exit becomes the only option for her.

signs she’s tired of the relationship

1. SHE NO LONGER GETS AFFECTED BY YOUR ACTS

At this point, she no longer cares about what you do anymore; her feelings become dead to your acts; nothing moves her. Winning her back at this stage is as hard as watching the minutes hand on a clock all day long. Men should never allow their ladies feel this way about them. However, some men still don’t know that at this stage they have lost her; they are so short sighted.

2. SHE EASILY BECOMES IRRITATED TOWARDS YOU

This is even worse than the previous one; at this stage, she becomes irritated towards everything that you do. They feel better when they are alone than with you. They even feel a huge relief whenever you are out of sight. At this stage, they are just waiting for the perfect moment to leave that relationship; though in their minds, they have left already.

3. SHE EASILY GETS ANGRY

This is the product of sign number two. When you are irritated about someone, you easily get angry. At this stage, everything the man does will provoke her. Trust me when I say, you don’t want to know the insults that she’s pouring on you in her mind. Guys, don’t act surprised when your lady starts getting angry easily. That is an anger that’s been piling for a very long time and it just reached its climax, so she looks for every opportunity to vent the anger on you.

4. SHE DOESN’T DO THINGS SHE NORMALLY DOES

This is only normal when she’s tired of that relationship. She stops doing things she normally does or maybe she gradually reduces the things she does for you. That’s just a huge sign that she’s tired of the relationship; she doesn’t feel any vibe and doesn’t see the need to do stuffs for you anymore.

5. I LOVE YOU BECOMES HARD TO SAY

She no longer finds it easy to tell you she loves you; well that’s because she doesn’t. She even feels guilt when she says she loves you, because deep down, she doesn’t. Even the few times she says it, it would be quite obvious that it isn’t genuine. But on a general note, when she’s tired of you, she doesn’t deem it fit to tell you that she loves you.

6. SHE BECOMES ABSENT MINDED

This is also another huge sign that it’s all over to her. She barely listens to you, she doesn’t flow in conversations anymore, her mind is like a wood, she’s there but she isn’t there. She feels emotionally distant from you at this point; your deeds and talks sound so distant to her. So many ladies can testify of having this feeling with a guy they no longer care about.

7. SHE DOESN’T FIND YOU INTERESTING ANYMORE

I guess this is the worst thing that can happen to any man in a relationship; when his lady doesn’t find him interesting anymore. It’s easier to get a lady than regaining your lady when she feels this way about you. She prefers being with other people than with you; she doesn’t have any affection anymore and it becomes obvious
RomanceNever Chase!!!!!!! by HelpeeDeck(op): 1:41pm On Aug 02, 2015
Nice and Real words

RomanceRe: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(op): 9:45pm On Jul 31, 2015
eddysernal:
you too get a job.if you had one then you wuldnt have had tym t read d post ...!!.get a job and live .

@op nice one bro thumbs up
thanks bro
RomanceRe: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(op): 9:44pm On Jul 31, 2015
Tomfrench:
nice one, op

earning her trust, on her first visit is the surest thing.....if you're able to control yourself......then, your weekends will be blessed with free lashing cool
free lashing you say...funny bro grin
RomanceRe: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(op): 9:43pm On Jul 31, 2015
willian10:
thanks, i hope dz works
Try it, it might work for good
RomanceRe: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(op): 9:06pm On Jul 31, 2015
sinaj:
ur no. 4 iz kul wink
really, maybe you like gifts and surprises a lot
RomanceRe: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(op): 9:04pm On Jul 31, 2015
Omotayor123:
OK na. You sound like a pro @Op tongue
lol...am not..just trying to help some people who may need it wink
RomanceRe: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(op): 9:02pm On Jul 31, 2015
CountDracula:
Yeah. Typing trash is really lucrative in ur village
Thats what your poor empty IQ Tells..Cant Waste my time on a Dullard
RomanceRe: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:51pm On Jul 31, 2015
CountDracula:
cry Get a job
i have a good job, that even if you are my pa, it will feed and cloth you all the time you will be on this earth..
RomanceHow To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:45pm On Jul 31, 2015
Matured and Responsible Person Will not insult me or comment in an irresponsible Manner to this post

Nothing is more awkward than inviting a girl to your house for the first time, sitting down on the couch and saying, "Well, um, what do you want to talk about?" Turning on romantic music and dimming the lights might seem a bit smoother, but may seem like an obvious set-up. Make your girlfriend feel comfortable by breaking the ice as soon as she arrives, and you'll both be able to breathe easier

Step 1

Create an interesting space. Hang art on the walls that might elicit questions such as "Did you paint this?" or "Where was that photo taken?" Put a few framed photos of family and friends around the room -- . If you play a musical instrument, keep it visible. There's nothing like demonstrating how to play the musical instruement to break the ice -- permanently.

Step 2

Play a game. Leave a deck of cards or an interesting chess set on your coffee table. When she arrives, ask her if she'd like something to drink. Then, ask her if she wants to play a lightning game of chess. If she's interested, you automatically have something to do as you have fun playing or teaching her the rules of the game.

Step 3

Ask her some questions. Good hosts do so by asking questions that come from a genuine sense of curiosity, Ask her how she got the scar on her elbow or whether she thinks she looks like her mom or her dad. Soon, you'll both be engrossed in conversation and any hint of discomfort will be gone. Keep your questions open-ended so the conversation doesn't stall.

Step 4

Surprise her with a gift. Set a striking bouquet of flowers on your kitchen table, purchase a bottle of her favorite wine or wrap up that sculpture she was crazy about when you visited a local gallery. When she comes over, present her with your gift.

Step 5

Ask her a favor," Try asking her opinion on whether you should go with blinds or curtains in the living room or if she minds helping you to finish organizing your DVD collection. Not only will the ice melt, but you'll have a chance to bond as you argue about whether or not "The Hunger Games" is a prediction of a coming mere commercial franchise.

Step 6

Get adventurous in the kitchen and try making something new together. Find something you’ve never tried cooking before. Think of a new cuisine; perhaps the two of you could try

Step 7

Get out your laptops and iPods and make playlists for each other. Then, next time your date is driving ,going anywhere,having boring time or hanging around with her friends she won’t be able to get you off her mind.

Step8

Dont try to Rush her Into Bed with you,dont ever take advantage over her even when she is emotionally struck down on a first day in your house.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Orders Immediate Release Of N5 Bn To Bomb Victims by HelpeeDeck(m): 7:47pm On Jul 31, 2015
kokoA:
Don't always rush to comment. Read first and get a clear understanding before you come here to embarrass yourself and whatever school you attended.
nice comment, wondering why some people cant reason before they comment..love your statement to that guy
RomanceVaginal Odor And Discharge: Whats Abnormal? by HelpeeDeck(op): 8:24pm On Jul 30, 2015
If you are responsible and sensible when you see this you will not insult the writer

In most cases, vaginal discharge is a normal part of a woman's reproductive system. Fluid from glands inside the vagina and cervix carries away dead cells and bacteria. This keeps the vagina clean and helps prevent infection.

The smell and amount of discharge can vary from woman to woman, and the normal colour can range from clear to a milky whitish at different times during the menstrual cycle.There may be more discharge if you are ovulating, breastfeeding, or sexually aroused. The smell may be different if you are pregnant.If the colour, smell, or consistency seems different to normal, or if there is also itching or burning, seek medical advice as this could indicate an infection or other problem.

What causes abnormal discharge?

Any change in the balance of normal bacteria in the vagina can affect the smell, colour, or texture of the discharge. These are a few of the things that can upset that balance:

1. Antibiotic or steroid use

2. Bacterial vaginosis, which is a bacterial infection that’s not sexually transmitted, but more common in women who have multiple sexual partners

3. Birth control pills

4. Cervical cancer

5. Chlamydia or gonorrhoea, which are sexually transmitted infections

6. Diabetes

7. Scented soaps or lotions, bubble bath

8. Trichomoniasis, which is a parasitic infection typically caused by having unprotected sex

9. Vaginitis, which is irritation in or around the vagina

Types of abnormal discharge and their possible causes

Any change in the balance of normal bacteria in the vagina can affect the smell, colour, or texture of the discharge. These are a few of the things that can upset the balance:

Type of Discharge What It Might Mean Other Symptoms

Bloody or brown Irregular menstrual cycles, or less often,
cervical or endometrial cancer Irregular vaginal bleeding, pelvic pain

Cloudy or yellow Gonorrhoea Bleeding between periods, painful urination

yellow or greenish with a bad smell Trichomoniasis Pain and itching while urinating

Thick, white, cheesy Yeast infection Swelling and pain around the vulva, itching, painful sexual intercourse

White, grey, or yellow with fishy odor Bacterial vaginosis Itching or burning, redness and swelling of the vagina or vulva
FamilyAdultery Major Problem Destroying Weddings In Nigeria by HelpeeDeck(op): 5:34pm On Jul 30, 2015
Most spouses are perpetrators of infidelity, they get involved in it for one reason or the other.the cause of infidelity can also be due to economic reason,many families could not meet up with responsibility of taking care of their homes. There is a limit a woman can bear, when she discovers that her husband cannot provide for the family, she seeks assistance outside,the issue of money makes women to cheat on their husbands when he cannot meet their needs financially, she falls for a man who showers her with money. While to Some people infidelity was just a way of life to some people; they could never be satisfied with one man or woman. They are just wired to be unfaithful, some are serial cheaters, they cheat for the thrill of it. Insatiable sex could also lead to extra-marital affairs, many spouses always accused one another of dissatisfaction or denial of sex. Many couples complain of being sex starved by their spouses or that they are not satisfied with their spouse’s sexual lives, while some couples withhold sex as a form of punishment for their spouses. Adultery set in when a partner feels neglected by his spouse, who pays more attention to his/her career, children or relatives, thereby leaving the partner no choice than to seek for attention outside the marriage. Spending little time with your partner could increase the chance of infidelity.

When spouses become unfaithful to each other, most of them resulted to divorce as the only solution.

EFFECT

Divorce has a social effect, especially on children, and the society is put at risk if the children are not catered for, they may turnout to be a nuisance to themselves and the society.

“Most of the children roaming the streets, committing havoc and those who drop out of school are mostly from divorced parents. No single man or woman could train a child effectively or provide adequate care no matter how rich he or she was, as God had made it the responsibility of both parents

Some Helping Ways

The secret of a successful marriage is trust, patience, understanding, confidence.knowledge and unity of purpose.

“Trust, understanding and patience are some of the important virtues that sustain a relationship, these virtues are the foundation of a strong bond between two people.

couples to be good communicators and listeners as this would strengthen their relationship.

“Couples should communicate effectively, avoid conversations that will cause their spouses pain, the more open you are the closer the bond you will have with your spouse.

“Partners must also be able to resolve conflicts effectively as every couple have disagreement. You should also accept that you cannot change your partner.

"The major thing here of all is you should first of all always place your marriage in the hands of God and his Son Jesus Christ.

For Any Marriage or Relationship Solving Issues Of all Kinds or Invite You can Please email me..With the help of God will deliver a solution For You..Deckovii@yahoo.com

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