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BigYash:
Better than you when no get voice of your own

i neva said the smell can kill a child

If possible, marry village girl n have peace of mind, marry a woman u know more than, marry a woman that will learn from u, marry the one that respects u

BigYash:
To the extent of killing a new born baby? Okay,I don hear

na u tlk dt one

BigYash:
I know it's not healthy,but talking about the smell.. No be all dey smell.. How leg go dey smell inside shoe,when rain no beat you.. or say you dey work where you dey sweat for every part of your body.
I feel that's a health concern,that needs serious attention. Most times na dirtiness dey cause am. Some people use same stocks from Monday to Friday.. Why e no go smell? E come be who dey sweat anyhow.. Na Ugbe de shoe go turn be that

sweat or no sweat, dirty socks or no dirty socks, as long as sey na shoe u wear for like 3 hrs, e go smell

VillageGuyArts1:
Those are all true stories nw.
I'm only sharing my experience.

ya, we get it

Swiss92:
Ur Gal has beards too?,

i noticed a hair on ha jaw, she told me she will go for laser hair removal later

CandleEyes:
Support her to go for laser hair removal surgery it's not that costly for a working class. It's around #100k. The re
sult last for for over five years or permanently

Is the laser hair removal safe?

Bookhub:
When you love someone genuinely you will endure their flaws,my girlfriend farts in my presence I spank her ass and we laugh over it but some guys will get irritated by that,no girl is perfect you choose the one that makes you happy most times and FYI someone being you speck doesn't mean you love her you connects with the soul.

oga d fart own na normal tin

Almost the same case as mine, my girl loves wearing polo and baggy, she has exact statue as ur girl n dt makes ha look like a guy in front of me, which turns me off, she noticed my mood once n asked me, i told ha about it n she gradually stopped wearing them and started putting on some ladies wears. I also dnt like ladies with beards

VillageGuyArts1:
Fake stories how?
I shared my experience with a friend and I also shared other details related to the story. I don't understand what you're complaining about.

do u see wt am tlking abt?

Dt doesnt look like a ptivate part

VillageGuyArts1:
Why na? I'm just sharing my experience.

if u wan advertise ur biz, u go straight to d point n stop using fake stories to get attention

When I get married and start having sex,my husband should be very nasty and very naughty else I'll divorce him.I intend catching up with all I've missed.lol

same thing i want with my wife wen i marry, she beta b naughty and crazy cos me i no fit marry church girl

Bros if i know sey na u, i for no open this post

She be like daisy

Whenever u get d urge to suvk his nipple, suck urs instead

Chai, omo see meat, see breast. If u dnt marry ha, anoda guy will enjoy ds

Op, u dey knack with armpit?

MyExpression:
Are you afraid you'll be broke for life?

Carry that young gurl...groom her with your money and values.

We learn everyday...marry who is teachable.

am with u

I will date That young jobless girl that has nothin to offer

Lol, grab ur copy nw

If she get nyash no wahala

DIKEnaWAR:
Who designs these cars for Elon? His kids?

lol, honestly i wonder, very poor design

My itel dt yr no dey gree person put am for pocket, once e enter pocket e don off, i dey hold am for hand 247. Sometimes e go dey play hide and seek with my files, i go look for my files today i no go see am, tomorrow e go show face. Wetin ur own do u dt yr?

My itel dt yr no dey gree person put am for pocket, once e enter pocket e don off, i dey hold am for hand 247. Sometimes e go dey play hide and seek with my files, i go look for my files today i no go see am, tomorrow e go show face. Wetin ur own do u dt yr?

JOACHINpedro:
You're going to sch to get money after graduation?
Die that mindset. You need to open your mind, apparently, love infatuation has beclouded your reasoning.
In today's world University doesn't give a financially secured future. It gives opportunities that are limited to average person. You gat to halt love for now and open your inner mind.
After banny don show me shege for 1st year, I had a rethink and saw what I could not see. Got connected to a whole lots of people that still made it possible for me to have a smooth sail in life (international wise). Didn't date again until after sch.
Bro, you gat to come out of delusion that sch is for future financial security. And you gat leave that girl alone. We are in Nigeria, ending up with high sch sweetheart is hollywood

thanks man

IamAtAnger:
Focus... life isn't bed of roses.. there's always a price to pay. Don't be distracted along the journey. No any love compared to a mother's love... others na attachments. Don't learn in the hard way, obviously you're still a kid and naive 😊. Doesn't mean u shouldn't play along with ur acclaimed first love though but don't be too attached

am nt too attached, i can stl change my mind anytime

IamAtAnger:
Secure ur future first, then any other things will follow.

ya, some ladies carry grace

JOACHINpedro:
This is terrible.
Op, you need to start unloving her asap. Take it from a once1st-year-lover-boy. The possibility you will marry her is close to zero. The same level- redflag
Distance- bloodflag
In sch, the pressure to level up is damn high from ladies. Not to talk of this generation wey money be the ultimate. Guy, free yourself and free that girl.
Earn your peace now

with the current economy of this country, how am i sure that after struggling all these n become a graduate that i will get a job with my certificate?

Karleb:
My advice is, you got a good woman that you love and loves you. Some married people do not have what you have.

Don't break up with that girl.

As per your studies, you are not serious, you are just covering it up with lack of money. If you read, you will pass, at worst, you won't fail. So sit up and study hard.

Lastly, Mr. JJC, they don't repeat levels in the university.

Don't listen to those telling you school no dey reign again. They are ignoramus.

i take my studies more serious than 80% of my course mates, especially those yahoo guys, they dnt stress their selves, last last, they will sort n move on, i am broke now, my seriousness in studies cannot provide me any money

mmadu4:
oga forget sch and go into crypto trading. use the little education you obtained to hold body, school no dey reign again . just wasting your time while your mates are cashing out block. if you no package well she fit leave u for a yahoo boi ooo.

aswr

In reference to this post https://www.nairaland.com/7222565/first-kiss my relationship has been moving so smoothly, everyday is love day, butterflies have now turned to beautiful birds singing in my belly, a single glance at her picture puts me in a deep imagination dt keeps me smiling for some minutes, i imagine how happy we wl be together as couples, such a sensational moment, i neva knew she has the same thing in mind until d last night we met before she travelled to start sch at enugu university.

In that night, as we were having our normal romantic moment, at the peak of the romance, she asked me if we were going to marry, i was surprised, then i said yes we wl, bt wen the time comes.

We re just in our first year in sch, her uncle handles her sch stuffs while i take care of mine and also get little support from family, especially my mom.

My mom has always wanted me to b in sch, she wants d best for me bt financial burdens kept delaying me. I wanted to hustle enough money before i wil think of going to sch bt my mom forced me to start ds yr, i told ha i wasnt prepared bt she insisted i start sch dt they wil support me, i agreed n started, now i feel left out, first semester was survival, i quit my job to start sch since my mom wanted me to register as a morning student, i hv exhausted all the money on my first semester bt my grades are critically bad, in all the things we do in sch, my participations in sch is 20%, why?, because of money, everything we do in sch involves money, am very brilliant bt all the dull brains in sch that are being supported by their rich dads are beta than me, after our first semester exam i knew it was over for me, i started loosing interest in sch bt my mom kept pushing me forward and motivating me, nothing will make ha happy than to see me become a graduate.

During these struggles, i was stl communicating with my girl friend, i shud have gone for ha matric at enugu bt i couldnt because of money, i hv disappointed her in many ways over the things i know i can handle if i was working, she is very understanding, bt deep down in me, i feel bad about my situation. I was stl reasoning wt she told me abt marriage and i dnt want to loose ha.

At the ending of my second semester, ha first semester was over, we were so excited to see each oda, we met at our normal spot, at the sight of me, she ran towards me with an exciting smile on ha face n hugged me so tight, she is more beautiful n curvy than wen she left for sch, she now has a little figure 8 shape (i once imagined dt), she is more attractive now, her eyes n smile were amazing, she was even more excited to see me than i was, we were cuddling, jisting, laughing, smiling n kissing like mad, such a romantic moment.

In the middle of our romance, she held my hands while staring me directly in the eyes and asked me the question again, she asked me if we re going to marry, this time, she had a pleading look on her face, she is a very emotional person and neva hides ha feelings from me, with dt look i knew she was very serious about it, she is probably going crazy abt me, i told ha yes we wl bt we have to finish our education first before starting life together, she said she was afraid of loosing me, i told ha she wont loose me and am also afraid of loosing ha, we just need to wait for d right time, she asked me till wen, i asked ha if she wanted to have a baby and b going to sch with it, she said no dt she just wants us to get engaged, as an assurance dt we will be together forever, i told ha i would b there for ha, she looked annoyed bt i hv a way of getting into ha, she is emotional and has a soft heart, i used that as an advantage to sweet talk ha out of it before we continued our romance.

My academics now are even worst than last semester due to lack of money and we are currently taking exam, with the way things re going, am not just going to have a lot of carry overs, i am going to repeat my 100 level, it will b a big shame that someone as brilliant as i am is repeating first yr, my efforts re no longer enough, After my girlfriend went home dt night, i was thinking throughout dt night, she has clouded my mind, now i want ha so bad, i dnt want to loose ha, she is a human being and has a limit, if i continue like ds, someone is probably going to take over from me, she is ready to build with me bt if i dnt do anything about it or make any effort in building our relationship, it is only a matter of time before she ends it, and dt is wen she cant take it any longer.

With all these things crumbling on me, i dnt think i can have my gf and be schooling at the same time, i need to make a very hard decision;

1. To forget about my gf and continue struggling with my studies since my mom wants me to go to sch

2. Drop out of school and start hustling to earn a living and start taking the responsibilities of a man

Both My mom and gf wouldnt want me to go for no 2, especially my mom, bt that is d one my mind is going for right now.

Please, advice me on ds issue, am in need of it.

Insults are allowed, i can take it.