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but the first wife warned you then. i remember FFK even disowned one his daughters because of you. may God help you o

YES

saaphiere:
What history did she make? Is she the first female to ever win Big Brother?

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Yeah! because MMM is back and better!!!!! argue with your keyboard

Same with your daughter

NwaAmaikpe:
Slay baby.

She will grow up to be a slayqueen, then babymama, then feminist.

Life cycle of the Naija female.

nnamdiokere45:
if u wer to conduct a job interview for ur relation,wld u b sentimental or not?

good question

Alhamdulillah!!!

obafemee80:
Ramadan is the 9th month of Islamic Calendar,observed by Muslims Worldwide as an act of fasting to commemorate the revelation of Quran on Hazrat Muhammad (PBUH) as per Islamic dogmas. The ritual of fasting among Muslims redirects heart away from worldly activities to purify the soul by freeing it from negative and harmful activities. Ramadan is the best practice for self-improvement,self-control,discipline, and empathy to encourage charity(Zakat) towards the less fortunate ones.

Ramadan And Its Phases
Ramadan lasts 29 or 30 days depending on moon sighting and according to narration, Allah divides this noble month into three parts.
 First Part reflects mercy of Allah, second part reflects forgiveness of Allah and the third part reflects safety from the hell (Jahanam). Allah is the only true merciful and Ramadan is His month of mercy and forgiveness providing Muslims an opportunity to seek refuge from Hell for their sins and forbidden acts. The only way to attain the true essence of Ramadan is to do Zikar as much as you can.

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Allah says in the Qur’an “Remember Allah abundantly, in order that you become successful” [8:45]


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Ramadan And Concept Of Ashra
The word Ashra is an Arabic word meaning ten. Ramadan has three parts and each part is of ten days, making it a month of three Ashras.

First Ashra: (First ten days of Ramadan) – Days of Mercy
Second Ashra (Second ten days) – Days of Forgiveness
Third Ashra (Last ten days) – Days to seek refuge from Hellfire

1)First Ashra – Days of Mercy
The first ten days of Ramadan is to seek mercy from Allah, as His mercy is boundless and it is unto us to ask for His mercy to be shower upon us. Dua for First Ashra is:

Translation: O! My Lord forgive and have Mercy and You are the Best of Merciful

Be Merciful To Fellow Beings
The objective of first Ashra is practicing being merciful to your fellow beings by

Giving charity, the act Allah loves the most.Treat fellow Muslims well by controlling your temper. Help people whenever wherever and never say no to them because Allah helps those who help others.

2)Second Ashra – Days Of Forgiveness
Forgiveness is to do Astaghfaar for all sins committed so far by Muslims especially in the second Ashra of Ramadan and to repent unto Allah. Do Astaghfaar, feel sorry, desist from committing it again, and make sure not to fall for the same sin again.Dua for the second Ashra is:

Translation: “I seek forgiveness from Allah, my Lord, from every sin I committed”

-    Days Of Maghfirah
These are the days of Maghfirah and in the mid of Ramadan Allah’s forgiveness is at peak. He forgives only those who prostrate in front of Him with ashamed spirit and pledge in heart not to do the same again ever. Do Tauba as Allah loves those who repent on their sins, verily He is the only forgiver.

-    Be Kind – Forgive All
While you are asking for Allah’s forgiveness in this Ashra make sure that you do the same to our fellow Muslims by adopting alike trait of your Lord and let forgive them for all their deliberate mistakes.

3)Third Ashra – Days Of Seeking Refuge
The last Ashra comprises the vital days of Ramadan as it unveils those days that are termed as “mother of all days- Lailat-tul-Qadar” whose reward is the highest among rest of the days. Though the entire month is a blessing, yet Allah has provided Muslims with a night the last Ashra, night of decree greater in virtue and is better than the nights of thousand months. Stated in Quran

“We sent it (Quran) down on a blessed Night. Verily,We are ever warning. Therein ( in that Night) is decreed every matter of ordainment. Amran (i.e. a command or this Quran or His Decree of every matter) from Us. Verily, We are ever sending (the Messenger) (As) a Mercy from your Lord.” [Ad-Dukhaan 44: 3-6]

Muslim besides zikar and recitation of Quran do Itikaf and observe special Nawafils, Salatuh Tasbeeh in third Ashra for beseeching sanctuary from hell. Dua for the last Ashra is

Translation: “O Allah! Save me from the Hell – Fire.”

http://www.quranreading.com/blog/three-ashra’s-of-ramadan-and-their-duas/

and which of them preaches against violent? with your candid proof pls

nairaman66:
Yes one of them preaches about violent methods in handling issues! I was actually waiting for someone to quote me!

If Allah and God almighty were the same, Muslims and Christians would be brothers and Sisters!

any difference between God and Allah?

nairaman66:
Abacha! You nor fear God nor Allah!!

God bless you for this response!

DickDastardly:
Oga Observer, go on punishing your poor soul. There are divorcees, widows and widowers, matured singles etc. Stop jumping into conclusion like a rhesus monkey swinging on trees. Btw, its their lives not yours. See, in this great circle of life, everyone must play their role. Thats why we had JUDAS among the apostles and also the adulterous woman jesus saved from being stoned to death.
Your should draw the positives from this. And thats to stay as far away as possible from the negatives observe at that hotel. I.e be as faithful as possible to your partner when you join the married league and live God to judge the evil doers.