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Family / Does Having A Child Make You A Father? by henry5050: 6:50pm On Jun 18, 2018
DOES HAVING A CHILD MAKE YOU A FATHER? 

As fathers celebrated their day yesterday lots of wishes were poured upon them, social medias were heated up yesterday. Unlike RRCSAFRICA  we were not quick to make write ups yesterday to wish happy fathers to every father. Reason is that we were trying to know what really makes a man a father.

So many men celebrated fathers day because they have children. Having children alone does not make you a father, what does is knowing your role and playing your role as a father. 

If you are not helping your children fulfill their purpose in life then you shouldn't have celebrated fathers day.

Researchers at the University of Oxford reported that boys who have involved fathers are less likely to get in trouble with the police as they get older.
Other pluses, according to experts: A father can be a positive role model for boys and help them to adopt a healthy gender identity as well as a better awareness of their feelings and emotions. However, someone other than the boy's birth father can provide a beneficial male influence. Single mothers can find alternative role models for their boys in an uncle, grandfather, or a good friend.

 Fathers Impact on their Daughters, girls also reap some special benefits from having a close father-daughter bond. According to research from Vanderbilt University, girls who had close, positive relationships with their fathers during the 1st five years of life tend to reach puberty later than girls who had more distant relationships with their fathers. 

In addition, the University of Oxford researchers noted that girls who had more involved fathers were less likely to face mental health problems later in life. Genuine praise and admiration from a father can help his daughter grow up to be an independent, confident woman.
 
With the above studies can you boost of being a father? If sincerely yes, then we wish you HAPPY FATHERS DAY  in arrears and if no, then try being a father  not a  child owner.

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#AM_A_FATHER_NOT_A_CHILD_OWNER 
#AM_MORE_INVOLVED_IN_PARENTING_AS_A_FATHER  
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Crime / Re: Police And Military Clash In Osisioma Aba: Abia Government Reacts by henry5050: 8:22pm On Jun 15, 2018
I count my self out, meanwhile to every parent, teacher and guardians here check out my facebook page RRCSAFRICA it's a parenting page you would learn a lot. On how to raise responsible children
Politics / Re: President Buhari Democracy Day Speech Is Full Of Lies - Reno Omokri by henry5050: 11:39am On May 29, 2018
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm Reno Reno well, all I can say is tnks for educating me. Though, I have always known the magnitude of what has fallen on Nigeria

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Crime / Re: Your Opinion On How To Stop Incests In Our Homes by henry5050: 4:23pm On May 27, 2018
This should see front page pls admin do something
Crime / Your Opinion On How To Stop Incests In Our Homes by henry5050: 4:10pm On May 27, 2018
Let's get your opinion on how to stop incests in every African home as we celebrate children's day. 

 What can be done to reduce the high rate of abnormal sexual behavior  in some parents on their children (incest)?  This act is gradually taking over societies in Africa. Most times, we hear how some fathers have sex with their own daughters on a mutual ground  and some go as far as raping their little kids.

Lots of children around Africa are going through this inhuman act. The immediate effect and aftermath of these actions is really traumatic on our children.

As we celebrate with every African child on their day today, we wish to use this avenue to campaign for a stop on incest in every home in Africa from parents, siblings, cousins, uncles, aunts, etc. This act must stop. 

We want to know your opinion get to our Twitter handle @rrcsafrica  


#HAPPYCHILDRENSDAY 
#RRCSAFRICA 
#STOPTHEINCESTACT

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Celebrities / Re: Timaya Advises People Living Fake Lifestyles by henry5050: 10:45pm On May 24, 2018
Was this not the same thing hush popi was talking about? Wen some of ona dey buy fake watch, d young man talk u and Pino Pino rush enter studio go do I tell u, u no hear. So now who u dey tell me? Bros allow me o.

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Politics / A Must Read For Every Hardworking Parent by henry5050: 11:43am On May 01, 2018
HARD WORKING PARENTS CAN ALSO BE  MORE INVOLVED IN PARENTING IF THEY WISH TO

Hello, Mum and Dad we are grateful that you are working hard to bring money for feeding, clothing, housing and education for us. But we are more concerned on the attention you put on work alone and having little or no time for us. We know you love us and the reason why you work hard  is for us to have a better future. But, the best way of securing a better future for us is when you balance your time at work with the time you spend with us. We make mistakes we ordinarily would not have made if you were around to put us through rather than work all the time. As you take one step at a time on your career ladder,  also know that parenting is a profession. We look forward to the days when you would start seeing us as assets, spend more time with us, ensure we become profitable to you and to the society at large. But until then, we wish you a happy workers day. We hope for a better working condition for you all. 
#HAPPYWORKERSDAY
#GIVEPARENTINGMORETIME 
#RRCSAFRICA
Send to any hard working parent you know 

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Education / Matching For A Better Future by henry5050: 9:30am On Apr 29, 2018
A BETTER FUTURE FOR US
STARTS NOW
Come May 27th #RRCSAFRICA would match on the street with thousands of children in Rivers State.
We would match alongside every potential child for a better future for our young generation.
Our aim is to bring to the notice of the public on the need for parents and teachers to be more involved in parenting, for government to ensure the effectiveness of the child right act which is being violated at all time, to improve the learning condition of our primary and secondary schools, to make sure parents, teachers, leaders and all well meaning adult live a life worth emulating, to stop the blame game and take responsibility for any behavior put up by any child because they are the product of their environment.
This is the only way we can secure the future of our society, whatever our society would become depends on what our children imbibe. For no nation grows above the mentality of its majority.
Proposal have being written to medias and over hundred organization to be part of the Program as a way of supporting children on their day. Would you wish to be part of the program?

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Politics / Re: Senate Summons Adeosun, Emefiele Over ‘unauthorised $462m’ For Helicopter by henry5050: 7:09pm On Apr 17, 2018
Shit hole country how una dey
Family / What Sort Of Mother Are You Or Would You Become by henry5050: 12:09pm On Apr 08, 2018
Looking at your children today would you say, you are indeed a proud and successful mother?  Just as many mothers have blamed their children for not being responsible children. Have you also done the same?

 Successful mothers are mothers that have irrespective of the difficulties in parenting, raised responsible children with the mentality of the actualization of their potentials. Proud mothers are mothers who are ready to take responsibility for the outcome of their children.

How responsible are your children? On what aspect and to what extent have they made you proud? When you sincerely give an answer to these questions then you can determine what sort of mother you are.

HAPPY MOTHERING SUNDAY TO EVERY CATHORLIC MOTHERS AND POTENTIAL MOTHERS FROM #RRCSAFRICA
Be part of the community that is striving to educate the public on the effect of raising responsible children by sending us a mail on 
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Nairaland / General / Most Parents Have Done Worst Than Boko Haram And Herdsmen Put Together by henry5050: 10:02pm On Feb 27, 2018
MOST PARENTS AND TEACHERS HAVE  DONE WORST THAN HERDSMEN AND BOKO HARAM PUT TOGETHER.

One is existing doesn't mean he or she is living. As a living being, one is expected to at list use up to two to five percent of his or her potentials. As research have proven  that the genius that existed in this world use only but ten percent of their potentials. When we exist as humans we leverage on the potentials of those that are living. Such is worst than death it self and the individual behind such has committed more crime than the terrorists we have today.  

But their crime is not punishable by law,as a matter of fact it is has being found out that it is the only crime that is not punishable by law. And the individuals that have being committing this crimes are some parents and teachers. This group of people have not only taken some teritories in our society but have taken the entire society and renderded it useless and unprolific even worst than the way boko haram left some part of north easth or how herdsmen left some parts of benue . How they have done this is what am about to tell you now and how they would undo it would come subsequently.

If you agree with me that existing doesn't mean living then you must have as well toe my path on the part i said for one to live he or she should at list use up to two to 5 percent of his or her potentials. Teachers and parents are the individuals who can truly make humans live. Some how, some how God gave them the power to. From giving birth to breast feeding, transmiting of the right attitude, value, skill and the inculcating of societies dos and dont's.

When parents and teacher fail to make the transmitting of the above done effectively then their offspring would be existing not living and the final out come of existing are the youths that destroy our society the likes of herdsmen, boko haram, militants ( acclaim freedom fighters) etc. 

In a society were we have teachers that are quick to sleep with their students, extort money from them, insult and fail to see any good in a student's that keeps having F9. Instead of reaching to the heart of such a student and give him or her reason to live and not to exist. An excellent teacher is one who inspire his or her student. Government do not pay us well is not enough reason to make students exist instead of living. The future of every society rest on the shoulders of parents and teachers it takes them to first realize the power God has given to them before they blame government that where once their students and  kids that they fail to ensure they imbibe the right kind of value.
Politics / Re: How FG & Boko Haram Negotiated Ceasefire, Release Of Militants - Lawal Daura by henry5050: 9:19pm On Feb 26, 2018
The last time I belief what APC said I was out of my mind. D deal to me was that boko boys would be allowed to kidnap does school girls just to free does high profile people. If u like tell me am still out of my mind but all I know Anything is possible in this doomed zoo call Nigeria. Nnamdi Kanu may God bless you where ever you are for opening my eyes. Both PDP and APC are all blood suckers

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Politics / Re: Benue Fulani Herdsmen Killings: Buhari Commiserates With Governor Ortom by henry5050: 7:27pm On Jan 03, 2018
Over 30 people where shot and 17 has being recorded dead in Omoku in Rivers state on the first of January 2018 on their way back from church at the early hours of 1:am by unknown gun men 
In an area that is manned by soldiers. Matter of fact Omoku is on 'RED ALERT' and yet such life's where wasted.  

In our previous article we have made it clear that government can not fight this, neither can our security force fight it or better yet prayers alone. If our analysis where wrong how come an area that is flooded with arm forces men could not hold the criminals down. And for over 24 hours the police is yet to identifiy the perpetrators of this crime. 

As we all know or have heard that no nation grows above it's educational standard. You do not expect our society to have minimum peace when you are not ready or too busy to join voice with us to say that there is need for our young ones to be inculcated with the right skill, attitude  and knowledge through proper parenting.

Government can create all the jobs in the world, build the best of roads, power the nation, feed the poor. All that would  fail if parents fail to structure the mind of their children through proper parenting. Because an irresponsible child that was not responsibly raised by his or her parent or teachers  would one day grow up and destroy all they build.
 
The level of crime in our nation is beyond poverty it rests on poor up bringing of our children. research up on research have being carried out and the result has been that their is a "relationship between poor parenting and youth involvement in crime" but all we do here is to hold government accountable when you and I need to stand up and ensure that parents and teachers are more involved in parenting. No one knows when it would get to him or her, we all have a duty to play. Parents and teachers must not fail in rearing responsible children. They should be given all the support they need to ensure that our youths to come would be morally sound so as to shun hostility , Such is possible we all can do it.

How would politicians keep to their campaign promises when they can easily buy our youths to pick up guns and steal ballot boxes, engaging them in all form of electoral crime. To get better governance we must first have an election that is fair. The people to make it fair are the youths and the people to make the youths responsible are parents and teachers including you, when you are  involved in proper parenting.

A child that is morally raised would never, I repeat never in any circumstance engage in any form of crime because the mind from small has being conditioned to hate crime and, the best people to do this are parents, teachers and all well meaning adults. 

In 10 years from now we can have relative peace in our nation if we start now by encouraging parents and teachers to be more involved in parenting so as to become successful parents and teachers. As you may know successful parents and teachers are parents and teachers who help their children maximize their God given potentials. 

Stand up now and be counted, be proud of being among the great minds that reduced crime and foster good governance and peace in our society by being part of #RRCSAFRICA.‎
Be part of the community that is striving to educate the public on the effect of raising responsible children by sending us a mail on
rrcs.rrcs@yahoo.com , like us on facebookhttps://m.facebook.com/rrcsafrica/ ‎
Follow us on twitter @rrcsafrica ‎
Or call us on : 08181048162, 08057058403
Crime / A Article On Omoku Killing By Anele Thankgod by henry5050: 8:29pm On Jan 02, 2018
Over 30 people where shot and 17 has being recorded dead in Omoku in Rivers state on the first of January 2018 on their way back from church at the early hours of 1:am by unknown gun men 
In an area that is manned by soldiers. Matter of fact Omoku is on 'RED ALERT' and yet such life's where wasted.  

In our previous article we have made it clear that government can not fight this, neither can our security force fight it or better yet prayers alone. If our analysis where wrong how come an area that is flooded with arm forces men could not hold the criminals down. And for over 24 hours the police is yet to identifiy the perpetrators of this crime. 

As we all know or have heard that no nation grows above it's educational standard. You do not expect our society to have minimum peace when you are not ready or too busy to join voice with us to say that there is need for our young ones to be inculcated with the right skill, attitude  and knowledge through proper parenting.

Government can create all the jobs in the world, build the best of roads, power the nation, feed the poor. All that would  fail if parents fail to structure the mind of their children through proper parenting. Because an irresponsible child that was not responsibly raised by his or her parent or teachers  would one day grow up and destroy all they build.
 
The level of crime in our nation is beyond poverty it rests on poor up bringing of our children. research up on research have being carried out and the result has been that their is a "relationship between poor parenting and youth involvement in crime" but all we do here is to hold government accountable when you and I need to stand up and ensure that parents and teachers are more involved in parenting. No one knows when it would get to him or her, we all have a duty to play. Parents and teachers must not fail in rearing responsible children. They should be given all the support they need to ensure that our youths to come would be morally sound so as to shun hostility , Such is possible we all can do it.

How would politicians keep to their campaign promises when they can easily buy our youths to pick up guns and steal ballot boxes, engaging them in all form of electoral crime. To get better governance we must first have an election that is fair. The people to make it fair are the youths and the people to make the youths responsible are parents and teachers including you, when you are  involved in proper parenting.

A child that is morally raised would never, I repeat never in any circumstance engage in any form of crime because the mind from small has being conditioned to hate crime and, the best people to do this are parents, teachers and all well meaning adults. 

In 10 years from now we can have relative peace in our nation if we start now by encouraging parents and teachers to be more involved in parenting so as to become successful parents and teachers. As you may know successful parents and teachers are parents and teachers who help their children maximize their God given potentials. 

Stand up now and be counted, be proud of being among the great minds that reduced crime and foster good governance and peace in our society by being part of #RRCSAFRICA.‎
Be part of the community that is striving to educate the public on the effect of raising responsible children by sending us a mail on
rrcs.rrcs@yahoo.com , like us on facebookhttps://m.facebook.com/rrcsafrica/ ‎
Follow us on twitter @rrcsafrica ‎
Or call us on : 08181048162, 08057058403
Family / The Benefits Of Telling Children Stories by henry5050: 7:14pm On Dec 31, 2017
THE BENEFITS OF TELLING YOUR           
                                CHILDREN STORIES
How many parents still tell their 2 to 10 years old kids stories in bed before they sleep? research has shown that children see does stories in their dreams and fantasize of it the next day and would strive to develop a personality that is accepted by their parents in the stories.

For any parent who wish to raise responsible children, that would benefit the society must know that story telling is pertinent and, it has being observed that the best way to inculcate morals on your children is through telling stories with moral lessons. Jesus christ used story telling to reach to the heart of his disciple. It has being observed that story telling has being since human existence.

Story telling helps in building good communication between parents and their children. Children that their parents don't tell  stories finds it difficult to approach their parents or even confined in their parents. Story telling spurs  the curiosity of a child and as such learns the act of asking questions. 

When a parent tell  stories that portrays how a particular character was able to come out of difficulties like. peer influence, bully, anxiety, or human growth and development. It help the child to face difficult situation with ease by being resourceful.

Even in our schools story telling is almost waning out of our curriculum, some schools do not designate time for that. It is almost impossible for schools to employ a narrator whose duty is to only tell the students stories. Whatever happened to story telling which is an intigral reason why we are faced with crime and underdevelopment here in africa we should all try to fix it back through ensuring parents and teachers tell there kids stories.

The human brain just like a computer , gives out what you put in. The brain of a child can be filled with stories that can spur their urge for societal development instead of mark angel comedies. Parents, teachers and all reasonable adult must see reasons in telling stories to their kids.  Together we can build a habitable Africa through raising responsible children. Ensure you tell a child a story today.

#TELLASTORYTODAY‎
#RRCSAFRICA
Be part of the community that is striving to educate the public on the effect of raising responsible children by sending us a mail on
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Crime / A Disfuctional Society by henry5050: 6:34pm On Dec 31, 2017
A system becomes dysfunctional  when it fails to achieve it's goals.
With the high rate of anomalies among the youths in our society one can say that parenting is dysfunctional because we are seeing the level of unpalatable behaviors among our youths.

Yes of course that was not what parents envisaged for their children they hope to see their children become responsible adults.

 because the children did not turn out to be what they wished for, it then becomes the fault of the children , the government  or the environment and refuse to fault their parenting style. 

 proper parenting is the true panacea for the growth of any nation. to maintain decorum among our youths, parents and teachers are the one's to make that effect, including guidance and all well meaning adults.

Be part of the community that is striving to educate the public on the effect of raising responsible children by sending us a mail on 
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Follow us on twitter @rrcsafrica 
Or call us on : 08181048162, 08057058403  

 
Celebrities / Re: Banky W Exposes Adesua Etomi In Her Nude State Mistakenly (Photo) by henry5050: 12:26pm On Nov 28, 2017
This what drugs can do, banky you done high.
Politics / Re: Boss Mustapha Rubbishes ‘Executive Governor’, ‘Your Excellency’ Nomenclatures by henry5050: 12:30pm On Nov 02, 2017
Abeg Oga face your work, as if you would be different from the person handing over to you. If them come dey go dey do like say dem holy. We had all of this trash from buhari, and we all taught he would be a different politician. At d end he turned out to be d worst, I will not be surprise if this same criminal would still suck his own part of national yogurt called oil.
Family / Re: Who Are Succesful Parents by henry5050: 1:45pm On Oct 28, 2017
Parents and teachers must stand up
Family / Who Are Succesful Parents by henry5050: 1:44pm On Oct 28, 2017
Being a successful parents entails more than caring, feeding, sheltering and sending your children to school.

Successful parents are parents that have positively influenced and, inspire their children to maximize their potential.

It is indisputable that the most important achievement of parents is the raising of sensible, virtuous children who will then move to raise their own children responsibly. And as such build a society with more responsible individuals that would channel their energy into society building instead of destroying it through crime.

Ask yourself today, was I a successful parent, am I being successful in my parenting or will I be a successful parent?

It is pertinent to know that no nation grows above it educational level and, no educational system grows above it's teachers and parents capability.

Get more article on parenting in our facebook page rrcsafrica
Politics / Re: Femi Adesina: When Petrol Went To N145 Under PMB, Nigerians Held Their Peace by henry5050: 4:05pm On Oct 20, 2017
In 2012 people came out to stop it because we where still in democracy, now I don't even know what we are practicing. Then the ordinary man has voice now if u say anything they will come after you all in the name of corrupting no wonder the can not jail even ant.

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Music/Radio / Re: Who Is The Best Nigerian Rapper? by henry5050: 6:25pm On Oct 04, 2017
Young 6ix is Nigerian al time best rapper

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Celebrities / Re: Adekunle Gold Signs Deal With Revolution Properties (Photos) by henry5050: 12:50pm On Sep 24, 2017
Good 4 d muther fucker
Celebrities / Re: Tchidi Chikere: "I Don’t Believe In Biafra As A Geographical Entity” by henry5050: 7:57pm On Sep 16, 2017
What does he know about Biafra, I no blame am both goat too they talk about Biafra
Romance / Re: What Attracted You To Your Girlfriend/boyfriend? by henry5050: 8:52pm On Sep 15, 2017
Her calmness, intelligence, homely, God fearing and lots more

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