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Mr Bruce ,how do u ever expect him to ever blame his former party leaders?.....

Ok.....

Lol.....

Inspiring.....

Rip.....

Wow.....

God bless us all...

Jealousy!!
Na jealous go kill some women oooo. Wife came from night duty early morning as police officer; she entered her husband room, She saw 4 legs crossing each other covering with blanket on her matrimonial bed, She quietly picked a big iron stick and started beating them till they both fainted, She rushed to the kitchen to carry water to wake them up, to her surprise she met her husband in kitchen cooking, Husband:- Honey u are back, welcome, your mum and dad came last night but u didn't drop the guest room key that's why l allowed them to use our room...Good Morning

This is unfair....(Evil)

Thank God for God....

Ok Sir....thats good to know that you were persuaded...

Ok..that's cool but u will enjoy ur camping there...just try and reach me so I can send u names and numbers of people there, that can help u achieve that...will be waiting..

iamdynamite:
kogi here i come........but the sad thing is nysc wont allow me get this month salary.........wicked souls....................they made me spend recklessly thinking camping will be after ramadan......................

....wow...thats cool u will enjoy ur camping there in Assaya...I served in Kogi, stayed in Jamaica hostel while in Camp.

iamdynamite:
kogi here i come........but the sad thing is nysc wont allow me get this month salary.........wicked souls....................they made me spend recklessly thinking camping will be after ramadan......................

.....wow...thats cool u will enjoy ur camping there in Assaya...I served in Kogi, stayed in Jamaica hostel while in Camp.

iamdynamite:
kogi here i come........but the sad thing is nysc wont allow me get this month salary.........wicked souls....................they made me spend recklessly thinking camping will be after ramadan......................

.....wow...thats cool u will enjoy ur camping there in Assaya...I served in Kogi, stayed in Jamaica hostel

AdoraAmadi:
Mama mia and Lovely B gave it up on the first night and shared their 'inspirational' stories on Twitter yesterday.See Mama mia's pic with her man after the cut.


http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/06/ladies-who-had-sex-with-men-they-met-on.html

....What worked for Cindy, might not work for Cynthia...but one thing I know is that RELATIONSHIP could start with friendship,common interest, love or even lust...

AdoraAmadi:
Mama mia and Lovely B gave it up on the first night and shared their 'inspirational' stories on Twitter yesterday.See Mama mia's pic with her man after the cut.


http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/06/ladies-who-had-sex-with-men-they-met-on.html

...What works for Cindy, might not work for Cynthia...but one thing I know is that RELATIONSHIP could start with friendship,common interest, love or even lust...

Many ladies are guilty of settling down with Mr Right Now instead of Mr Right, simply because they couldn't tell the difference between the two.

It is important that you are able to differentiate between the boy you date and the man you marry.

Marriage is supposed to be a lifetime arrangement, and not something you get in and out of at your convenience.

According to YourTango, here are 10 ways to know if you've found 'The One' or if you still have to keep searching.


1. What do you truly want in life (and in a mate)? It's easy to confuse needs and wants, but what we want is not always not what we need, and vice versa. You require different things in your life at different seasons. For instance, hooking up with a guy who has his life together while you're still struggling to finish school, find a job, rebuild your life, or establish yourself is more of a hindrance than a catalyst (to both him and you). Poorly-timed relationships can unintentionally interfere with your focus. This typically results in you either delaying or abandoning your own goals altogether.


2. What's your long-term vision? People change with time, and so will you. Right now, partying and shopping are the top priorities on your to-do list, but 10 years from now, will you still be interested in hanging out with your girls and shopping? As you mature, things you want today won't matter tomorrow. Think five and 10 years down the road, and weigh your now versus your long-term priorities. What's attractive in a boyfriend won't be attractive in a husband.


3. Are you strong within yourself? Committing yourself to someone before you are truly ready is a prelude to disaster. Your number one priority should be getting your life together. That is something you need to do before bringing someone into your life. Every successful relationship requires a solid foundation.


4. Do you two have the same vision about relationships? Do the two of you share the same views about friends of the opposite sex, spiritual practices, what you disclose to others (especially family members and friends), and the sharing of individual resources? Being on the same page about how a relationship works is crucial to long-term success.


5. Do the two of you match? Do you have far more in common than you do differences? This is important because the primary reason that most relationships fail is because couples don't share common beliefs, don't possess shared values, or have mutual respect (or reverence) for the same things. The lack of communal consciousness is often the cause of much miscommunication, which will ultimately result in one, or both parties, feeling disrespected and deprecated. Those things lead to apathy and distrust. Without trust, respect, and compassion, even the strongest relationships will inherently fail.


6. What are the most important character traits? Being with a guy who is awesome in bed but absolutely emotionally and financially irresponsible may not be a big deal to you now, but as time goes on, you will desire a stable family. So obviously, this guy is not a good partner for you in that respect. Be wise; assess the cost before starting a life's journey with a man.


7. Do you like your relationship with him exactly as it is now? Personality type and personality traits remain stable over time. If you don't know your mates personality type, then try taking a MBTI to determine compatibility. Couples should get the facts about a partner's personality type before moving forward in any potentially long-term relationship. Because, it's very likely that your man's traits and preferences will not change. Would you want to spend the rest of your life with him exactly as he is right now? If not, he's not right for you.


8. What do your doubts tell you? Are your doubts and fears about this man linked to your past experiences or your present expectations? Try paying attention to what your man says and does (do the two align?) and do the same thing with yourself. If you notice red flags or inconsistency in your behaviour or feelings, then pause going any further with the relationship until you understand why.


9. How do you handle conflict? Conflict is an inherent part of every relationship. The issue isn't conflict itself, but how the two of you handle conflict. If either you are volatile, melts down, is self-centered, bears grudges, or avoids confronting issues, this is a red flag. You'll never successfully resolve problems that either of you won't admit are present. The fact that you and your mate are willing to put fires out together is a good indicator that your relationship can withstand pressure. However, if you're constantly feeling bombarded with one issue after another, that's a major warning sign.


10. Where is this relationship heading? Stable relationships only happen when both parties have a structured plan for personal growth. If you aren't both thriving individually, you cannot thrive collectively or as a couple. The key here is make sure your individual life plans complement each other's if a future together is the goal.


The verdict...

If your answers are negative, or even doubtful, to at least 4 of those questions, you're probably dating Mr. Right Now, as opposed to Mr. Right.

If your answers were indecisive or negative to more than 6 of those questions, this is a relationship that should NOT move beyond the casual dating stage.

However, if over 8 of your answers reveal that these things are NOT an issue in your relationship, congratulations. This guy is a keeper. More than likely, this could be Mr. Right.

But, if he concurs that this is a significant relationship for him too, allow things to continue to develop organically.

Lessons to learn from my favorite Bird/Animal below. Seven Leadership Principles to learn from an eagle..

(1) Eagles fly alone and at high altitudes.
They don't fly with sparrows or other small birds.

Stay away from (narrow minded people) sparrows and ravens, those that bring you down.
Eagles fly with Eagles. Keep good company.

(2) Eagles have an accurate vision. They have the ability to focus on something as far as 5km.
No matter the obstacles, the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it.

Have a vision and remain focused no matter what the obstacle and you will succeed.

(3) Eagles do not eat dead things. They feed only on fresh prey.

Do not rely on your past success, keep looking for new frontiers to conquer. Leave your past where it belongs, in the past.

(4) Eagles love the storm. When clouds gather, the eagles get excited. The eagle uses the storm’s wind to lift it higher. Once it finds the wind of the storm, the eagles uses the raging storm to lift him above the clouds. This gives the eagle an opportunity to glide and rest its wings. In the meantime, all the other birds hide in the leaves and branches of the trees.

Face your challenges knowing that these will make you emerge stronger and better than you were. We can use the storms of life to rise to greater heights. Achievers are not afraid of challenges rather they relish them and use them profitably.

(5) When a female eagle meets a male and they want to mate, she flies down to earth with the male pursing her and she picks a twig. She flies back into the air with the male pursuing her.
Once she has reached a height high enough for her, she lets the twig fall to the ground and watches it as it falls. The male chases after the twig. The faster it falls, the faster he chases until he reaches it and has to catch it before it falls to the ground, then bring it back to the female eagle.

The female eagle grabs the twig and flies to a much higher altitude, and then drops the twig for the male to chase.
This goes on for hours, with the height increasing until the female eagle is assured that the male eagle has mastered the art of picking the twig which shows commitment, then and only then, will she allow him to mate with her!

Whether in private life or in business, one should test commitment of people intended for partnership.

(6) Eagles prepare for training. They remove the feathers and soft grass in the nest so that the young get uncomfortable in preparation for flying.

Leave your comfort zone, there is no growth there.

(7) When the Eagle grows old, his feathers become weak and cannot take him as fast and as high as he should. This makes him weak and could make him die. So he retires to a place far away in the mountains.
While there, he plucks out the weak feathers on his body, and breaks its beak against the rocks and claws until he is completely bare; a very bloody and painful process. Then he stays in this hiding place until he has grown new feathers; a new beak and claws; and then he comes out.

We occasionally need to shed off old habits no matter how difficult, things that burden us, or add no value to our lives.

Yes eagles never give up ...

Be an Eagle....Never give up!!

Idydarling:
who'll go with me?

...it seems ure the one i've been waiting for,I'M READY!

donholy28:
Fake!!! but well composed!!,how can ur boss who had too much drinks at night and probably has a hangover wake up,get to office and compose a mail b4 u could wake up?

..is very possible cuz she is only pretending to be drunk..

No matter hw hurt or let down u get 4rm ur wife.. u guys must nt sleep ova it witout talking things out...u must develop a very rich communication habit wit ur wife...marriage is a full-time job..we shouldnt apply if we are nt ready...u and ur wife might be lackn a veri swt communication skillz...dia is no need kipn her in the house wen u the husband cn easily carry out all that u listd above witout remembering the vow u made to her b4 God...thankz & God bless us all

playtheblues:
Am richer than he is.

...AMEN, I am Too..

halfricanadian:
Cant wait to b told dat too
I have been highly humble enough

...Lol...Ok ure More than Lovely..

LilNetty:
Thanks Bro.. Buh this one Wey u just pack all the whole female Nairalanders eh.. I reserve my comment o

...they are mostly ur type that have been contributing positively in this forum through inspiring , impacting and motivating words....Thanks and God bless us All

adenuga360:
Prophet get grade o...

God of Adeboye and Oyedepo combined, help every Nairalander and speedily answers our prayers

...Amen and AAMEEEEN

Sweetestrose:
That's the irony of life! While the beautiful girls depend solely on their beauty to attract guys, the ugly girls are busy adding values to their lives to initiate marriage.

....Impacting

LilNetty:
God Bless PMB.... GOD BLESS NIGERIA.. We are Solemnly Behind u Sir!!!

...Awww! Inspiring and Motivating Words from Super Cute Netty.... Thanks for understandn that we dont have any other country or President...Plz let us all wish our country well, pray for our country and our leaderz too...TANX AND GOD BLESS US ALL.

naughtynaughty:
awww I know kabba. Where were u later posted to

...I stayd in Jamaica Hostel while in camp...afta the 3wkz camping i was postd to Olamaboro Lga...and u?