U're getting the admission in Jesus name, but ensure you join a bible believing fellowship when you get to campus

Dear confetti,

Mariage is too important that you should not ignore God's word. Most of the advise you'll get here are probably those of unbelievers, or not biblical. You see, the bible has said we should not be unequally yoked with an umbeliever, and also, that if ye be willing and obedient, you will eat the good of the land. If you will expect God to be in the marriage with you, it will be good if you carried him along from the beginning, and once his word says no, and God said no when you prayed about it, that should settle the first guy, even if he were to get born again today, God has said no, so it means no.
God sees the future, and he lives in eternity, so he knows what he has said, so please, take your mind off the guy that is not born again.
On the new guy, it would have been more comforting if you had said you prayed before telling him off, you should seek the face of God on every born again brother who proposes marriage to you, and don't habbour dislike or hatred towards anybody. The nature of God is love, and he loved us all even when we were allienated from him, so pray to God to get that dislike out of your mind, and then talk to God about it. Issues come up in marriage, and it is definately great if you have a spirit filled spouse whom you know was God's will for you in the first place.

Note that the most important thing in deciding who to marry is SALVATION, AND LOVE OF GOD AND GOD'S WORD IN THE LIFE OF A MAN. It helps keeps peace in the marriage when both partners have the spirit of God.

Lastly, YOU ARE FORTUNATE TO HAVE A GODLY MOTHER, PLEASE DON'T THROW OUT HER ADVISE, WORK WITH HER, GOD CAN USE HER TO GUIDE YOU, DONT FORGET SHE HAS MORE EXPERIENCE ON THIS ISSUE. BUT PRIMARILY, LET GOD LEAD YOU, AND LET HIS WORD GUIDE AND GUARD YOUR HEART. You may email me on hephzibahll@yahoo.com, we can discuss closely, as this forum is too public to discuss more detailedly.