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CrimeRe: Teenager Killed His Mother In Edo, Had Sex With Her Corpse For Money Ritual by herbeytv(m): 9:10pm On Aug 16, 2019
Oh Lord Prevent any pregnancy or abort for me any pregnancy that would bring kids that will kill me.
CrimeRe: Insurance Graduate From Poly Ibadan Jailed For Online Fraud by herbeytv(m): 8:05am On Jul 16, 2019
No way This your country is moving forward if everyday we wake up to read this kind news..

Very soon all these boys won’t fear EFCC anymore.
SportsRe: Kanu Motivate The Super Eagles: "Only Two Games To Be Champions, We Can Do This" by herbeytv(m): 8:56pm On Jul 13, 2019
rottennaija:
The other teams are think the same way
How come simple sentence bitter for your mouth like Chloroquine �����
SportsRe: Most Underrated Footballers In Europe - TushMagazine by herbeytv(m): 5:17pm On Mar 22, 2019
Me
Christianity EtcRe: What Religion Was Jesus Christ ? by herbeytv(op): 10:38pm On Jan 18, 2015
Rilwon:
Islam
You seems like a living proof that man can live without a Brian
Christianity EtcRe: What Religion Was Jesus Christ ? by herbeytv(op): 10:34pm On Jan 18, 2015
zick19:
World dumbest question.... Jesus christ was a traditional worshipper.
I heard you went to have your head examined and the doctors found nothing there
Christianity EtcWhat Religion Was Jesus Christ ? by herbeytv(op): 7:08am On Jan 18, 2015
Can anyone help ?
CelebritiesRe: Paul Okoye And Son In Matching Chelsea Outfit (Photo) by herbeytv(m): 10:38am On Jan 11, 2015
lonelydora:
I thought you have a brain. But you have shown that u dont have one. So u cant read meaning to what I meant. Up Barca for life.
You are a living proof that man can live without a brain. You can keep talking one day you will say something intelligent
BusinessRe: Heavy Fire At Gas Station In Okitipupa, Ondo State (Photo) by herbeytv(m): 11:24pm On Jan 10, 2015
WilyWily:
Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, Hell fire in Yoruba Land
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How did you get here ? Did someone leave your cage open?
CelebritiesRe: Paul Okoye And Son In Matching Chelsea Outfit (Photo) by herbeytv(m): 11:12pm On Jan 10, 2015
lonelydora:
Mtcheew. Chelsea na club?
No, Chelsea is a party. If I have ever need a brain transplant,I'd choose yours because I want a Brian that's has never been used.
PoliticsRe: You Have Failed Bayelsans, Amaechi Tells Jonathan by herbeytv(m): 10:41am On Jan 09, 2015
He has failed Nigerian Youths.
CelebritiesRe: Miss World Pageant Abolishes Bikinis From Competition by herbeytv(m): 3:48am On Dec 19, 2014
freezyprinzy:
ya replaced wid g-string i suppose
There is no vaccine against stupidity
EducationRe: Photos: The Problem Of Transportation In UNILORIN by herbeytv(m): 11:40am On Dec 06, 2014
Better by Stress University
RomanceRe: He Is Sexually Attracted To Pregnant Women by herbeytv(m): 10:22pm On Nov 06, 2014
Op i just pity your friend's life ... likewise yours too shocked shocked shocked
Nairaland GeneralRe: 8 Things To Remember When Everything Goes Wrong by herbeytv(op): 8:14pm On Nov 03, 2014
joywendy:
I love this!

this are the kind of useful topics that should be on the front page.

op hope u don't mind me stealing this? grin

are you the original writer or its gotten from somewhere?
Okay
Nairaland GeneralRe: 8 Things To Remember When Everything Goes Wrong by herbeytv(op): 8:14am On Oct 27, 2014
Yustash001:
This is great....i hope it makes FP...
with your comment i hope so grin grin grin
Nairaland General8 Things To Remember When Everything Goes Wrong by herbeytv(op): 3:22am On Oct 27, 2014
Truth be told, happiness is not the absence of problems, but the ability to deal with them. Imagine all the wondrous things your mind might embrace if it weren't wrapped so tightly around your struggles. Always look at what you have, instead of what you have lost. Because it’s not what the world takes away from you that counts; it’s what you do with what you have left.

Here are a few reminders to help motivate you when you need it most:

1. PAIN IS PART OF GROWING.

Sometimes life closes doors because it’s time to move forward. And that’s a good thing because we often won’t move unless circumstances force us to. When times are tough, remind yourself that no pain comes without a purpose. Move on from what hurt you, but never forget what it taught you. Just because you’re struggling doesn’t mean you’re failing. Every great success requires some type of worthy struggle to get there. Good things take time. Stay patient and stay positive. Everything is going to come together; maybe not immediately, but eventually.

Remember that there are two kinds of pain: pain that hurts and pain that changes you. When you roll with life, instead of resisting it, both kinds help you grow.

2. EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS TEMPORARY.

Every time it rains, it stops raining. Every time you get hurt, you heal. After darkness there is always light – you are reminded of this every morning, but still you often forget, and instead choose to believe that the night will last forever. It won’t. Nothing lasts forever.

So if things are good right now, enjoy it. It won’t last forever. If things are bad, don’t worry because it won’t last forever either. Just because life isn’t easy at the moment, doesn’t mean you can’t laugh. Just because something is bothering you, doesn’t mean you can’t smile. Every moment gives you a new beginning and a new ending. You get a second chance, every second. You just have to take it and make the best of it.

3. WORRYING AND COMPLAINING CHANGES NOTHING.

Those who complain the most, accomplish the least. It’s always better to attempt to do something great and fail than to attempt to do nothing and succeed. It’s not over if you’ve lost; it’s over when you do nothing but complain about it. If you believe in something, keep trying. Don’t let the shadows of the past darken the doorstep of your future. Spending today complaining about yesterday won’t make tomorrow any brighter. Take action instead. Let what you’ve learned improve how you live. Make a change and never look back.

And regardless of what happens in the long run, remember that true happiness begins to arrive only when you stop complaining about your problems and you start being grateful for all the problems you don’t have.

4. YOUR SCARS ARE SYMBOLS OF YOUR STRENGTH.

Don’t ever be ashamed of the scars life has left you with. A scar means the hurt is over and the wound is closed. It means you conquered the pain, learned a lesson, grew stronger, and moved forward. A scar is the tattoo of a triumph to be proud of. Don’t allow your scars to hold you hostage. Don’t allow them to make you live your life in fear. You can’t make the scars in your life disappear, but you can change the way you see them. You can start seeing your scars as a sign of strength and not pain.

Rumi once said, “The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” Nothing could be closer to the truth. Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most powerful characters in this great world are seared with scars. See your scars as a sign of “YES! I MADE IT! I survived and I have my scars to prove it! And now I have a chance to grow even stronger.”

5. EVERY LITTLE STRUGGLE IS A STEP FORWARD.

In life, patience is not about waiting; it’s the ability to keep a good attitude while working hard on your dreams, knowing that the work is worth it. So if you’re going to try, put in the time and go all the way. Otherwise, there’s no point in starting. This could mean losing stability and comfort for a while, and maybe even your mind on occasion. It could mean not eating what, or sleeping where, you’re used to, for weeks on end. It could mean stretching your comfort zone so thin it gives you a nonstop case of the chills. It could mean sacrificing relationships and all that’s familiar. It could mean accepting ridicule from your peers. It could mean lots of time alone in solitude. Solitude, though, is the gift that makes great things possible. It gives you the space you need. Everything else is a test of your determination, of how much you really want it.

And if you want it, you’ll do it, despite failure and rejection and the odds. And every step will feel better than anything else you can imagine. You will realize that the struggle is not found on the path, it is the path. And it’s worth it. So if you’re going to try, go all the way. There’s no better feeling in the world… there’s no better feeling than knowing what it means to be ALIVE. (Angel and I discuss this in more detail in the “Goals and Success” chapter of 1,000 Little Things Happy, Successful People Do Differently.)

6. OTHER PEOPLE’S NEGATIVITY IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM.

Be positive when negativity surrounds you. Smile when others try to bring you down. It’s an easy way to maintain your enthusiasm and focus. When other people treat you poorly, keep being you. Don’t ever let someone else’s bitterness change the person you are. You can’t take things too personally, even if it seems personal. Rarely do people do things because of you. They do things because of them.

Above all, don’t ever change just to impress someone who says you’re not good enough. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a brighter future. People are going to talk regardless of what you do or how well you do it. So worry about yourself before you worry about what others think. If you believe strongly in something, don’t be afraid to fight for it. Great strength comes from overcoming what others think is impossible.

All jokes aside, your life only comes around once. This is IT. So do what makes you happy and be with whoever makes you smile, often.

7. WHAT’S MEANT TO BE WILL EVENTUALLY, BE.

True strength comes when you have so much to cry and complain about, but you prefer to smile and appreciate your life instead. There are blessings hidden in every struggle you face, but you have to be willing to open your heart and mind to see them. You can’t force things to happen. You can only drive yourself crazy trying. At some point you have to let go and let what’s meant to be, BE.

In the end, loving your life is about trusting your intuition, taking chances, losing and finding happiness, cherishing the memories, and learning through experience. It’s a long-term journey. You have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting every step of the way. Laugh at the confusion, live consciously in the moment, and enjoy your life as it unfolds. You might not end up exactly where you intended to go, but you will eventually arrive precisely where you need to be. (Read A New Earth.)

8. THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS TO KEEP GOING.

Don’t be afraid to get back up – to try again, to love again, to live again, and to dream again. Don’t let a hard lesson harden your heart. Life’s best lessons are often learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes. There will be times when it seems like everything that could possibly go wrong is going wrong. And you might feel like you will be stuck in this rut forever, but you won’t. When you feel like quitting, remember that sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right. Sometimes you have to go through the worst, to arrive at your best.

Yes, life is tough, but you are tougher. Find the strength to laugh every day. Find the courage to feel different, yet beautiful. Find it in your heart to make others smile too. Don’t stress over things you can’t change. Live simply. Love generously. Speak truthfully. Work diligently. And even if you fall short, keep going. Keep growing.





Awake every morning and do your best to follow this daily TO-DO list:

Think positively.
Eat healthy.
Exercise today.
Worry less.
Work hard.
Laugh often.
Sleep well.
Repeat…

THE FLOOR IS YOURS…

What helps you stay motivated when you’re struggling? What’s something positive you try to keep in mind when everything seems to be going wrong?
CelebritiesRe: I Don’t Mind Dating A Younger Man Now – Ara by herbeytv(m): 5:24am On Oct 25, 2014
But sorry We mind dating you LOl grin grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Tyga Called Drake And Nicki Minaj fake, Says He Is Leaving Young Money by herbeytv(m): 5:00am On Oct 25, 2014
TeamSimple:
Leave go where? Mavins or star boy grin
hmm hmm Chocolate City
PoliticsRe: Multiple "Gun Shots" In Osogbo by herbeytv(m): 12:16am On Oct 25, 2014
damochewinner:
Are you kidding me? Now I know the government in Osun State is pathetic.

I can't believe a progressive will use tax payers money to buy knock outs. Be it Christmas or Hijrah.
what are you talking about ? You asked about the sound ? I gave you right answer to your question and now you are mixing words ... did i mention that the government is the one buying knockout for the citizen or what are you talking about ? i beg kindly read along the lines and if you have other issues << open new thread....
PoliticsRe: Multiple "Gun Shots" In Osogbo by herbeytv(m): 12:01am On Oct 25, 2014
Go back to sleep or you join them dude. It is knock out sound no Gun SHOT grin grin grin grin It is HIJRAH . Muslims are celebrating .. A new YEAR calendar for the muslims... Happy Hijrah to all muslims and may the blessings of Allah be with us...i BEG YOU CAN GO BACK TO SLEEP .. sLEEPY HEAD grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Toyin Aimakhu: We Women Are Enemies To Ourselves by herbeytv(m): 6:45pm On Oct 22, 2014
joedejana:
Hmm....strange.
[size=14pt]HOW COME I DON'T KNOW HER[/size]
because I don't know you grin grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Photos: Funke Akindele Steps Out In Style by herbeytv(m): 10:36pm On Oct 21, 2014
safarigirl:
no, you'll be locked inside the house with 8 years old wrapper tied around your chest grinding pepper with grinding stone abi?
wetin this one dey talk ?
CelebritiesRe: Photo: JJ Okocha And Wife Loved Up As They Celebrate Her Birthday by herbeytv(m): 6:38pm On Oct 21, 2014
How could a waste talented man make the frontpage cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool
CelebritiesRe: Photos: Funke Akindele Steps Out In Style by herbeytv(m): 6:24pm On Oct 21, 2014
If you can't found yourself a man then snatch from someone grin grin.. Get married . shocked shocked. get kids tongue tongue when you get family to take care you won't be standing there bending your head like a tailor who didn't cut cloth very well grin grin grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: No Governor Can Take Credit For Wining Ebola War – Jonathan by herbeytv(m): 4:07am On Oct 17, 2014
What's the prize ? shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked Billions of Dollars?
PhonesRe: Google Unveils Nexus 6 , Nexus 9 , Nexus Player And Android Lollipop Os by herbeytv(m): 7:31am On Oct 16, 2014
Okay am waiting for Google limpopo grin grin grin grin grin
CultureRe: Yoruba Incantations. . . . . by herbeytv(m): 9:22pm On Oct 13, 2014
Agbe ni i gbe're k'Olokun Aluko ni i gbe're k'Olosa Odidere-Moba-Odo Omo Agbegbaaje-ka ni naa ni i gbe're k'Oluwoo;Ela-lwori, .gbere pade lona dandan Olojo-Esinminrin-kuntelu-telu Je k' Aje wa ku sile bayii Ibiokabasi, Igba eranko ni ba nibe ti i je; Ifa ere kii-je k' ebi ko Oju kan tesa 6 ba'jokoo si Laa gbe' re tiree wa ba ataso n joko t'okerekere i wo to lleTatapo ijokode'di: Ajigbore ni t'aatan; Ojumo kii mo k'aatan mo gbore Olojo-oni tatemi lore Gbogbo omi ni i fori fOlokun; Gbogbo abata ni i fori fOlodo, '' Ise gbogbo agbara ba se Olodo ni i fi sin;Osin lo ni ki won wa sin Aso alapo loga i gba; Ti gbo ti'ju ni j gbonwu eegun Omode ilu, agba ilu, e waa fire gbogbo sin mi o Ire gbogbo lagbara fi sin olodo. Ire gbogbo ni koma bowa si odo emi , Odidi ore ni fe
HealthEBOLA: USA Health Care Worker Tests Positive For Ebola. by herbeytv(op): 2:08pm On Oct 12, 2014
A health care worker at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital who provided care for the Ebola patient who was hospitalized and later died there has tested positive for the disease in a preliminary test at the state public health laboratory in Austin. Confirmatory testing will be conducted by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta, according to state officials.

The worker has been listed in stable condition.

Dr. David Varga, of the Texas Health Resource, said at a press conference Sunday morning the worker was in full protective gear when they provided care to Duncan during his second visit to the hospital.

Varga did not identify the worker and said the family of the worker has "requested total privacy."

If the preliminary diagnosis is confirmed, it would be the first known case of the disease being contracted or transmitted in the U.S.

Varga said the health care worker reported a fever Friday night as part of a self-monitoring regimen required by the CDC.

The health care worker was then isolated within 90 minutes in the hospital's ICU and referred for testing. The preliminary test result was received late Saturday.

A second person who was in contact with the worker has isolated and has begun the self-monitoring, although officials did not say what relation that person had to the worker who tested positive. Officials also said the health care worker had a pet that will be monitored, although they did not specify what species.

Hospital and state health officials did not identify the health care worker or provide their job description.

Texas officials said hazmat teams have cleaned the apartment and the surrounding complex in which the health care worker lived and police have informed neighbors of the situation.

"We knew a second case could be a reality, and we've been preparing for this possibility," said Dr. David Lakey, commissioner of the Texas Department of State Health Services. "We are broadening our team in Dallas and working with extreme diligence to prevent further spread."

Health officials have interviewed the patient and are identifying any contacts or potential exposures. People who had contact with the health care worker after symptoms emerged will be monitored based on the nature of their interactions and the potential they were exposed to the virus.

Thomas Eric Duncan, the first person diagnosed with the Ebola virus on U.S. soil, died last week.

Duncan, 42, died at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Dallas, where he was admitted Sept. 28 and kept in isolation, according to spokesman Wendell Watson. Wendell said the death left officials with "profound sadness and heartfelt disappointment."

Duncan carried the deadly virus with him from his home in Liberia, though he showed no signs when he left for the United States. He is believed to have contracted the disease while helping a pregnant woman sick with it. The woman later died.

Duncan arrived in Dallas in late September, realizing a long-held ambition to join relatives. He came to attend the high-school graduation of his son, who was born in a refugee camp in Ivory Coast and was brought to the U.S. as a toddler when the boy's mother successfully applied for resettlement.

The trip was the culmination of decades of effort, friends and family members said. But when Duncan arrived in Dallas, though he showed no symptoms, he had already been exposed to Ebola. His neighbors in Liberia believe Duncan become infected when he helped a pregnant neighbor who later died from it. It was unclear if he knew about her diagnosis before traveling.

Duncan had arrived at a friend's Dallas apartment on Sept. 20 - less than a week after helping his sick neighbor. He fell ill a few days later. The CDC and the Texas Health Department are working on a protocol to handle Duncan's body, since his remains are still infectious.

Others in Dallas still are being monitored as health officials try to contain the virus that has ravaged West Africa, with more than 3,400 people reported dead. They also trying to tamp down anxiety among residents frightened of contracting Ebola, though the disease can be spread only through direct contact with the bodily fluids of an already sick person.

Health officials have identified 10 people, including seven health workers, who had direct contact with Duncan while he was contagious. Another 38 people also may have come into contact with him.

The four people living in the northeast Dallas apartment where Duncan stayed have been isolated in a private residence.

The family being isolated has been identified as Louise Troh, her son and two nephews. According to CBS Dallas, Troh is Duncan's girlfriend, whom he had reportedly come to the United States to marry.

Everyone who potentially had contact with Duncan has been under a 21-day monitoring period, the normal incubation period for the disease.

Ebola is spread through direct contact with bodily fluids of a sick person or exposure to contaminated objects such as needles. People are not contagious before symptoms such as fever develop.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Demands Retraction Over Inclusion In Richest African President List by herbeytv(m): 2:37am On Oct 09, 2014
Johnny ooo johnny oooo

Johnny wan kill me
You don take us mumu
answer?

Johnny ooo johnny oo

you do subsidy
you buy private jet
and still yet
you are the richest

Johnny oo johnny

Why u b like this
answer? and still u wan do am again
Never klepto klepto

say no to johnny 2015
RomanceRe: Top Ten Funniest Nigerian Chat-up Lines by herbeytv(m): 10:48am On Sep 01, 2014
lmao

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