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I am not surprised that most of the ladies/women disagree with my post,I really expect it but unfortunately they don't look at the bright side of the post but they just point on the wrong one from the post. I didn't say that woman shouldn't work but the work they can do and be able to have time to train our children, I think we are on time bomb if we don't stop promoting women to a position that you know as a man you will not let your wife work there, let look at the olden days when our grandmothers had the time for our parents, they brought decent and responsible children but nowadays go to our schools and you will see what I am trying to bring out. If we allow women take most of the jobs available then most of the men wont want to get married, those that are married will be frustrated,women won't respect their husband again, children will lack home training (the fact is that women know how to train children more than men), increase in divorce and so on like that.

talking about govt regulating,I know it may not be possible but I will advice my ladies here not to take their career over their family. I am in this position in my office because the woman that is suppose to be there turned it down because of her family. Someone mentioned about those women in higher position like Okonjo Iweala and how they are successful,if you are successful in your career and your family is in disunity,you are a failure.

Jedalord:
The fact is more women are getting educated and going for academic fields of high prestige

What do you think it will lead to if women take 80% of the available jobs

Mindlog:
It is not about women being smarter, it is about anyone seeing the need to up their game and don't expect work positions to be reserved for you. Organizations are more preoccupied with their balance sheets and would more likely go for whoever would deliver more.

Both fathers and mothers should be responsible for their kids' home training and government has no right to regulate what job a woman can do or not.

Can you promote a married woman to a position of travelling abroad frequently because she up her game than her male counterpart?

lilmax:
Half baked breadwinner


If you're not providing 100% of finance you have no right on how your wife should live

Men are weaklings these days

The women getting the promotion are promoted by men

So you're the problem not women

so if husband lost his job that husband has no right on his wife should live again because he is not providing.I disagree with you.

Yes,men are weaker sex these days.

let go to home of these women promoted and see if they are happy family and if her children are upbring rightly

Mindlog:
Survival of the "smartest'.

Are you saying women are the smartest in our generation?

Happy weekend,I have noticed this since last year that any office I enter it is only female that I encountered also any interview i went to we men are always plenty than women and at last we all know what we end it. I think this is why we don't have happy home these days because we all know that breadwinner wife will not be able to manage home with unemployed husband also unemployed men don't also want to get married which lead to many single ladies roaming the street and those men working also don't want to marry second wife because instead of promoting the male employee,most employers prefer to promote female counterpart especially in sales and marketing company.
Also our children nowadays lack home training because most of our wives these days doesn't stay at home to train them instead they are at their different offices closing late in the night. To solve this I think Government should be involve to regulate the job women can do e.g teachers,traders,marketers,newscaster etc not because of anything but our children and homes. What do you think?

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ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
this is the result of having a single wife... It's high time she gets a competition... You'd be amazed about her improvement once another woman enters

I don't think I can live with two wives

boldx:
I hope you read this.

If the only problem you have is your wife's cooking, you have a good wife.

I thank God for that bro/sis,

Since you are unintelligent all the ladies beside you will also be unintelligent or what do you think?

Richy4:
Cooking should be the least of your problems.. What were you guys doing during courtship? U mean u did not invite her over to do a bit of cooking? If not, Didn't she explain to you during courtship that she doesn't like cooking? Did it enter into one ear and disappear from the other while u sit drinking in her beauty?

Judge Richy's ruling

OP..Your case is hereby dismissed

Thanks too,but I think I don't want you to go to courtship because we all know love is blind and you think that you can cope with it but later on you realise you cannot

loneprof:
Well sorry to read about this. If her cooking is so bad, you can try to discuss the possibility of enrolling her in a catering school (weekends) so she can improve on her cooking, that's if she is willing to give it a shot. Otherwise, I advise you volunteer to cook the meals sometimes so she can know you're serious about her cooking flaws. Sometimes women make a big deal out of their cooking especially if the man never enters the kitchen, so I'm sure if you're willing to do this, it would send a strong message to her.

Either ways, do everything in love, without making her feel like you're condemning her and I hope you guys will get it sorted out.

Thanks so much,she doesn't want to go to any training but I will start to cook my food by myself now to know I am serious about it

Husbands are going through a lot in the home but the way God created us,we always try to keep it to ourselves and nobody will know what we are facing in our home,The motive of creating this is for married men to share their problems and give advice on how we can solve from our experience so far. I have been battling alone with this issue in my home and I think it is better to have likely minds that we can share our problems and find the solution among married men.

let me start with what I am facing for the last 2 years now. My wife doesn't know how to cook and I have been telling her to improve on it but she believes that she knows how to cook and I am the only one that complain about her food. This weekend my mother visited us and she cooked for us and what my wife cooked through out the weekend was rubbish and I didn't say anything but my mum called me yesterday that I should do something about it, my wife didn't want to hear anything about it again and I don't want to quarrel with her because I love her and she is my backbone in all my success,please I need your advice on what to do?

I don't really get what you are trying to pass here,are you saying that investing in estate is liability and investing in tricycle business is an asset or what they used their profit to do?

Do you think if they do this there will be youths that will snatch ballot boxes for them during election?

I am tired of sitting at home,pls if you help me get factory work around New garage, Oluyole and Elebu area, I am available or you get any hustle you want to teach me,please help my life don't let frustration kill me

I also want to learn this and I heard they advertised snail training at fresh FM on Saturday but I didn't get the time and the venue,please if you have the informatio,please share it to us

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Assuming you are the CEO or HR of your company and you interview stammerer for the post of accountant/financial analyst or any other posts,he did very well but the problem is that he stammer a lot during the interview and he has to give update of your account every week during general meeting,can you give him the job?

Good morning all, please I need advice on what business/trade that graduate can learn during this period that is hot in the market. I have been at home for the past months now looking for better job but didn't get one and I have thought about it that I should start to learn business that I can kick start and can make me money, though I have talked to one of my friends who is doing video editing and photographer but I want to learn business/trade because I don't want to rely only on handywork. please advice on what business I can learn, my sister said I should learn cotton selling business but I don't think that is lucrative enough but you can still give me more information on cotton selling if you have one, Thanks.

Good morning all, please I need advice on what business/trade that graduate can learn during this period that is hot in the market. I have been at home for the past months now looking for better job but didn't get one and I have thought about it that I should start to learn business that I can kick start and can make me money, though I have talked to one of my friends who is doing video editing and photographer but I want to learn business/trade because I don't want to rely only on handywork. please advice on what business I can learn, my sister said I should learn cotton selling business but I don't think that is lucrative enough but you can still give me more information on cotton selling if you have one, Thanks.

I have Nokia c1 bought yesterday,can we swap it and how much do you want me to add

Good day all,I lost my phone Tecno l9plus on Thursday at iwo road and since then I have been offline and yesterday my father just showed up with Nokia c1 he bought for me yesterday on Saturday telling me he want to surprise me,I collected the phone but I need big phone and I am looking for companies in ibadan that swap phones so I can swap it tomorrow or if you are interested in buying Nokia c1,you can call me on 08100 nine six 50 eight two,price is #23,000 with receipt.
Thanks

I am still yet to register with my number till now and I dropped my form at secretariat and also sent email since Monday, I want to ask if anybody with Name not found complaint here has been able to register with their numbers? What are the steps you took to rectify it?

M. SC in banking and finance and B. SC in Economics from University of Ibadan looking for job in Ibadan

Hardeywale05:
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Thank you for this information, someone also adviced me yesterday to learn hand work instead of working for penny and I have been thinking of what I can learn since yesterday. I will check it online and give you feedback but I hope it is free or not too costly.

To @all, Thanks for all the advices given and word of encouragement, To some that say that I should start a small business,i think I can't just start any business without having capital or prior knowledge of the business,if you can help me out with the capital I will appreciate it. I would have also move to Lagos but I don't have anybody I can stay with in Lagos,my brother who is in Lagos also struggling in Lagos to feed his family and I can't just go there and add my own but if I can get ready made job around Ikorodu area that I can use to sustain myself before I get better offer I will probably move to Lagos.

And also if you have an automatic car that I can also use for uber or bolt in Ibadan, I am available.