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If there’s one thing I hate in my life, it’s to be disturbed whenever I’m sleeping.

I don’t like it. I love my sleep . It’s one of those things I value most. I don’t sleep much but anytime I do, I want to enjoy it to the fullest.

Just allow me be at that point in time.

Sleep deprivation affects the body. It’s not good for my body. I need my sleep to regain my strength. Sleep is part of my survival mechanism. So, don’t deny me the pleasure of sleeping to my satisfaction.

Something happened to me this morning. Immediately I was done with my house chores, I went straight to the kitchen to prepare my breakfast.

I made tea with bread and sardine. I took it hot. As soon as I finished eating, I relaxed a bit. But while doing that I noticed that I was feeling dizzy.

So, I quickly rushed to bed to catch up with the sleep before it becomes too late. You know how it’s with morning sleep especially when you need it most.
While I was sleeping I heard someone knocked at the door.

Gawd!

Not this time.

I was so angry. I had to pretend as if I didn’t notice any one was at the door. But the person kept on knocking and knocking. It was non stop.

So I managed to open the door only to discover that it was my neighbor–a lady.
So I asked what she wanted me to do for her.

“Sorry for bothering you, can you please borrow me your charger to boost my phone?”

Can you just imagine.

Since then, I haven’t been able to go back to sleep.

Please, don’t wake me up when I’m sleeping. It hurts so much that you can’t imagine the waves of emotions in me at that point in time.

Source: http://hergists.com/i-hate-to-be-disturbed-whenever-im-sleeping/

I’m about to describe the man I love.

I guess I need to grab a seat before writing this. Right?

Call me love struck or anything you want. I want to describe the love of my life because of how much he means to me .

So, why am I doing this?

It’s a known fact that men have always been the ones writing the love letters .

We want them to pour out their hearts to us because it’s manly to write women heartfelt love letters. We are even advised to date men who write love letters .

But hardly would you see any woman do the same because it’s not womanly. We bottle up our emotions without letting them out to our significant other.

Most times, we do this out of fear of being judged wrongly.

I want to break the tradition by writing a love letter to the man I love publicly. I want him to know how I feel about him.

This is supposed to be private but I want to show you how to appreciate your man.

Here’s my special ode to the man I love:

He’s such an handsome man.

Gosh!

When I say handsome, I don’t just mean his physical appearance, but every wonderful thing a woman will definitely pray to have in a man.

He has a good heart. He is cool. He doesn’t womanize. He’s brilliant. He’s tolerating.

He is caring and has a face that makes me shy. Yes. An uncommon face. A sweet face that makes me blush every time.

But if there’s one thing I love seeing and will never get tired of seeing are his dimples.

Awww!

You really need to see him when he talks and smiles.

He walks majestically. He’s got cute legs and nice toes.

His shoulders are firm, broad and nicely carved. His voice is deep and sweet. His beards smell nice.

He’s the love of my life and I love him so much.

Source: http://hergists.com/a-special-ode-to-the-man-i-love/

Women with big butts know that they cause a stir anywhere they. This is because big butts are one of the sweetest female parts that attracts men–and other women.

Some men are obsessed with big butts.

It makes them go gaga. Some men even get turned on when they see women with big butts. It’s one of the first thing they discover in women. And other ladies with small butts feel intimidated.

Big butts cannot be hidden for obvious reasons.

Not only does women with big butts know that they are been seen each time they move around, it also boost their confidence.

Also, it tends to build up their low self esteem to a high one.

This is exactly the reason why buttocks augmentation or Brazillian butt lift is on the rise among women. No one wants to be left behind in the race to having big butts.

Some female celebrities have successfully built a brand out of their big butties. Celebrities such as Beyonce, Kim Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, and others.
But is it worth it?

More and more women are dying every day as a result of illegal and sometimes legal butt augmentation.

Recently, Kim Kardashian’s doctor was quoted to have said that her bum is too big and out of control. He even issued a warning to all women out there who are not satisfied with their butts.

So, what’s the fuss about big butts?

Here are some of the reasons why women with big butts attracts most men:

#1. Self confidence

Men are attracted to confident women . And women with natural big butts have self confidence.

The keyword here is natural. This doesn’t mean that they have self confidence only because of their big butts.

No.

Having big butts only adds to their confidence.

This can be seen in all they do especially when they walk. They do so with with boldness without paying attention (maybe or maybe not?) to the numerous stares — which can sometimes make them uncomfortable.

#2. Attraction

Men have different tastes in women .

Some men like to go out with women with heavy backsides while some other men might want women with just portable butts.

But for some reasons, the former seems to be prevalent among modern men.
Some men prefers to be seen with women with big backsides because of the attraction they get. It’s an ego thing among men. It raises their profile and makes them feel on top of the world.

Imagine a man’s thought when he sees a hot woman:

“Each time she goes out, especially when she’s on hot gown. Oh my! You really need to see her, she’s always looking astonishing, beautiful and elegant.”

“Whenever women with big butts are on panties — I’m talking of trousers. you really need to see those hot curves. Hoty! Hoty! They are always a delight to be seen with any day.”

If some men are not careful, they’ll end up kicking their girlfriend or wife who doesn’t seem to have a big butt out of their lives.

#3. Marketing

For a while now, big butt ladies have been a major marketing strategy in many industries.

The musical industry isn’t excluded. They prefer seeing or making use of ladies with heavy back sides in their videos.

But why do these people “hypersensualize” women especially those with big butts?

They do that simply because sex and nudity sells in advertising . It promotes their videos on time and also attract views to musical videos.

Those with little back sides usually feel intimidated seeing women with heavy back sides.

So, so as not to feel intimidated by the ones with bigger back sides, they go for artificial butts fixing or put on padded pants. Little do they know that artificial can never be like natural.

Even at that, these have side effects that can even be deadly.

#4. Sexuality

Another reason why most men love women with heavy backsides is the mentality that these women are always very sweet on bed when compared to the ones who aren’t endowed.

Is this really true?

What has having big butts got to do with being a better lover?

Scientifically, men are genetically wired to be attracted to curvy women . Women with big butts tends to have lot of admirers.

Their admirers don’t care if they are engaged or not. Both young and old men are fantasizing about having a woman with big butts. All they want from the woman is a YES!

How embarrassing.

There’s an adage that says men are moved by what they see and not by touch. So, seeing a woman in that aspect gets a lots of men carried away. They don’t mind doing anything or promising heaven and earth….just to get that woman.
It turns their heads. It gets them thinking. It even give some of them sleepless nights.

However, quantity isn’t quality at all. And can never be. So the same characteristics they see can also get them irritated if not properly maintained by the woman.

Some women don’t know how to package themselves well. And this has nothing to do with the size of their backsides. If you know you fall into this category, learn to wear tight panties that will hold your heavy thighs properly so that you do not look so loose.

You should be full of confidence. It doesn’t matter if you have big butts or not. Your confidence is not defined by the shape or size of your butts but by how much value you place on yourself.

Don’t forget to share this gist with your friends.

Source:
http://hergists.com/women-big-butts/

cc: Lalasticlala Fynestboi Dominique

Most people never come to terms with the death of a loved one. The loss of a close friend or family member is one of the hardest challenges most people have faced.

It doesn’t matter when it happened even if it’s several years ago. It can lead to a prolonged period of sadness and depression which reduced with time.

According to an article on America Psychological Association , there’s no “normal” time period to grieve.

Death is inevitable like some people would say. It takes our beloved ones. It takes away our most precious ones and leave us mourning.

Oh death!

Why?

Death is a prize that everyone will definitely pay whether we like it or not.

Adults, young kids, male, and females. We will all pay for it. It’s a prize and it has to be paid.

It took away my precious sister. The one I loved and cherished so much. She was just at the age of ten before death took her away.

She left her twin sister alone in this wicked world. She left her brothers alone. She left her parents alone. She left her friends alone.

She left us all alone.

It all happened when mum, with her and her twin sister were on vacation to the country side. I was still in school when it all happened.

I noticed that I was dull and wasn’t active that very day. I can’t really describe the way I felt that day.

I had an early morning class that morning which I forced myself to attend. I didn’t bother about my inactive self. It was a three hours class.

I got to school, did all the necessary things I needed to do before going home for the day.

I was feeling sick, restless and not my usual self. I couldn’t identify the actual thing that was wrong with me.

Immediately I got home, I went straight to my room to lie down. I was able to force myself to sleep. A long and deep sleep.

I woke up to several missed calls on my phone.
I checked. And it was dad.

Dad: I called you earlier on. Where were you?
Me: I just woke up from sleep.

Dad: Your sister is dead. She died this afternoon. I already spoke to your mum.
Me: Oh my God! Why me?

But he hung up.

I couldn’t believe my ears. This is strange. Such a thing has never happened in my family before.

I went back to my room, locked my door and busted into tears. I never wanted to see anyone around me. I just wanted to be left alone.

The next day, I entered the bath room. Just as I was about to bath, a strong wind came from nowhere and blew away my antiseptic plastic that was about finishing. I panicked. I almost ran out of the bathroom naked.

I couldn’t think well again.

I lived in fear for almost three months before I got back to my normal self.
She was beautiful, tall and fair. Her hair was as long as that of an angel. She was everyone’s favorite.

Well, there was nothing anyone could do. Not even our tears could bring her back.

It was all like a dream. Your twin still misses you till today. Your big sister misses you more.

You cannot be forgotten my little sister. You still have a warm space in our hearts. I still see you in my dreams.

But it’s good you’re out of this wicked world to a better place.
I love you Mama T.

Have you ever lost someone you loved? Kindly share your story with HerGists.com to motivate others to be strong.

Source: http://hergists.com/the-very-day-she-passed-out-of-this-wicked-world/