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I need to ask you few questions.

1. Were u dating your wife at the time she was having her fun and you were suffering?
2. How far her past has affected your present marriage?
3. Was she the cause for your poor background and failure for u not to have fun to the fullest while in school?
4. Is she not performing her duties has a wife?
5. How is her past the determinate of your future.

My brother if you can answer these questions correctly and honestly then u should have a good answers to your worries.

I can see that the devil is playing dice with ur marital life out of jealousy.

The Colour of your problem is far beyond rainbow.

I pray the devil will not win this battle against your home.

I think there is more reasons to your parents request than what you know...you need to ask them main reason why they want you to get married at this earlier stage of your life, cos as at now you need to focus more on your life and how to build your career than marriage.

you never can tell maybe there are some spiritual reasons or something attached to there request, Cos no reasonable parent will request for such in this part of the world except they are ready to finance the marriage and your direct family ( unborn children and wife).

well...my candid advice for you is to pull out of both of them cos your confusion is of highest order...in the first place why in a relationship with a guy you don't love..relationship entails commitment not pity, you don't love him free him.

For the second guy since there is no string attached just reduce your the way u relate with him, is normal for human to feel sexual huge.

just free both of them, with time you will meet someone you truly love and attracted to sexually.


selah......

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